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Mindfulness:
We can do without your kind perfectly well.

crackhaus:
Manipulation with deflection, emotional blackmail, and sneaky stratagems, is a woman's ultimate weapon.

The moment a man becomes immune to all of it, they lose their hold on him.
I had my own immunization at birth, not every man is so lucky.



Just watch, this comment is already being interpreted as woman-hate by some even when God, Lucifer, Odysseus, Oprah, & Barack Obama knows it as fact.

Biglittlelois:
I had high hope for this thread, infact, I was loving the comments, until I got to some pages and I started seeing, "menopause" and other degrading words just to prove certain points, it's really sad that at this age and time, women are still perceived certain ways using something or a phase that can't be controlled as their drive home point, and funny thing is, they don't, won't, refuse to see it as bad, instead, they prefer to call for more re-inforcement to continue the men movement and gender insults, because that is how their points, opinion, can make sense or a prove of worth, crassness.

bukatyne:
You said when you sense a whiff of disinterest or indifference, you flee to protect your ego.

That was why I highlighted that statement and responded to it.

Nobody has talked about groveling before a woman to make her accept you nor do I buy the idea of using gifts to woo a woman except you are looking for an elebi.

If you think immediately you ask a woman out, she must say yes, then you must have an overbloated sense of yourself which is pride or a mask to cover your perceived inadequacies which is low self-esteem.

If you want a lady, be ready to invest your time in wooing her and if she insists no, you can move on.

Sometimes, you need to go extra to pursue a lady especially if you are the type that believes in God's perfect will for marriage.

Raalsalghul:

uninspired07:
I am flabbergasted at the subtle attempt to manipulate hearts & minds of other reasonable females on NL. My thread was a honest request for opinions on my modus operandi & not an avenue to bash our female compatriots.

I thank God we have members who sniff out attempts at derailing this thread into the usual gender wars we have on romance & family sections of NL.

It is well.

Biglittlelois:
You should stay away from women for a long time, you are not ready to have even a cordial relationship with any woman, your hasty generalisation of the Nigerian women being a certain way, gradually sliding into bashing females here that don't agree with your opinion, asking for proofs of that like its untrue, seeing the proofs of you and healthserve, and then trying to backpedal by standing by your words shows you are very unstable, you have a lot of work to do on your persona, a huge lot.

Davash222:
You actually don’t know what God is saving you from.

No Girlfriend = No Problem

Know Girlfriend = Know Problem.

crackhaus:
This is what happens when people put themselves on a pedestal for no other worthy reason except having pum pums.

You don't have the patience to indulge, chase, or beg, it's because you have an ego.
You want to have some financial legroom before embarking on relationships because women require it, you have low self-esteem.
You speak about the realities as they are, and you're being disrespectful, bashful, & insulting.

The princess-complex is as real as it comes.



@ uninspired07, I hope you have been able to pick relevant points from both sides regardless. Just understand that there is nothing wrong in wanting to develop your finances, or in lacking patience with women who have no obvious interest in you. The best woman to be with is that one which presents you with the least amount of work/obstacles/roadblocks in winning her over, simply because she is already won over in some small measure of her own accord.

Developing yourself should be your ultimate goal in life FOR YOURSELF, not because you need it to be better in the eyes of women. Also, making just any woman or every woman feel good about themselves is not your job - there are already multitudes of men doing that. You only just need to find that ONE woman who has a mutual interest in you, hit it off, and make her the object of all your attention and devotion. What every other one thinks is really not your concern.

Cheers.

cococandy:
Sounds like high praise mr kunleweb.

What next?

I’m actually astonished y’all can’t tell when you’re insulting women. It’s now second nature to you. Such that you get surprised for being called on it.

I don’t engage anyone who won’t take me seriously because they believe I’m a woman hence my judgment must be clouded by illusion or whatever it is you’re thinking at the moment.

Sorry if you’re used to continuing in conversations where you say such to women and they laugh it off and still go back and forth with you.

Mindfulness:
Hold on to them and remain lonely.

cococandy:
The generalizations are insulting to start with.

bukatyne:
All these game theories only work for people with low self-esteem on both divides.

Which is why I wish more ladies read all these game threads so they understand some things.

I believe a man should woo a woman, cultivate deep friendship with her before introducing sex.

Know her, know her value system, know what makes her tick, observe her etc.

karli4nia:
There exist no effect without a cause and no cause without a corresponding effect. This is what in Sanskrit is called Karma.
No one knows the details of the lives of these disincarnated souls. This is very deep.
There is always a portent before any such events occurs in the 3d world..cos it wld have happened in the 5th dimension etc..
We have the opportunity to negotiate death karmas with the Lords of karma, or our own inner God or even the Christ.
Justice and mercy must go in tandem.

Life is very deeply spiritual.

silentEXPLOSION:
jessica.
i don mark dat name

generationz:
Lol

You see when they say read and comprehend you won't listen.


If you have a faculty of law in your school you'll know most law lecturers also have chambers that handle cases worth millions of Naira. Their lavish lifestyle doesn't come from the peanuts they earn as lecturers.



Saka (I don port go mtn) is a lecturer at OAU.

Did he learn anything apart from theater arts?

Tell me, if he didn't have a side hustle as an actor which gave him the platform to earn millions from endorsement deals with Glo and later Mtn what would have been his fate?

What about our very own Sam Dede? Who is also a lecturer at Uniport as well as an actor.

Isn't that also a side hustle?

You mean to tell me Wole Soyinka has made more as a lecturer than he made from his books?

Isn't that a side hustle?


Please stop distracting your school biko. Read to understand.

As for your last paragraph, you not only proved you don't read, you proved that you are dull.

When in my first post on front page did I say first class was worthless?

If anything, I said he would enjoy the true worth of his first-class degree if he leaves the country.


In Canada, a gate man in a construction firm earns a better than your lecturers.

If he gets a gets a scholarship to do his masters there (I'm sure he will finish well) he has a good chance of securing a white collar job and sending giving his kids good education.

Stop distracting.your school by quoting me. Deep down you know your country is a pit of destruction.

juliciousbabe:
some where in abuja

koyyes:
100% Correct. Lucky lady.

But trust regressive baboons. This woman has bruised their already deflated ego. Their balls have struck by 99%.

Even after their venting on this thread, they will cry and w@nk themselves to sleep.

harbighsohlarh:
Do you have a good business idea or you even have a shop and you are constrained with money to stock up goods? Do you reside in ikorodu or ota.let's talk about it we just can work something out

Alennsar:
Good morning. Please i don't know how to send the audio recordings faa, i have been trying to send it since yesterday but I don't seem to get it.

jesusjnr:
You're very right bro. Jesus preached this, that men ought to pray always and not faint. {Luke 18:1-8, 21:36}

However, truth be told, it's easier said than done. So kudos to those who are able to yet persist in prayer and not faint, even when the prayer seems not to be getting the desired result, as the mum of the ex-satanist.

This also shows that all hope is not lost even for the Satanists.

Thanks and God bless.

OLAADEGBU:
God bless persistent praying parents.