₦airaland Forum

Odunolumide:
Its not hate .its called rivalry....and it dates back to the early times . You dont understand how deep the rivalry between Manchester and Liveroool not just in sport but also economic wise.

Lmao like Liverpool and ManU are in the same league. Rivals are usually close. Man U needs to be wary of Everton Newcastle Arsenal Crystal Palace Southampton. All these fighting topten with her and not Liverpool. Radarada

aimuan:
They said Liverpool hv won the league how does that translate to hate?

"fuming" dufos

Jokerman:
Hello. I need advice on this topic

About a year ago, my Dad died, being an owner of a primary school with my mom, thereafter o assumed head of the school, although I run my own freelance engineering installation and maintenance service on HVACs and Diesel engines.

In course of this education line, I'm obtaining my certificate in PGDE( in view).

Now this is the case...

There are some old staff in the school then whom use to collect school fees on behalf of the school and you know Nigerians, instead of remitting the fees to the school, they divert and scam and even go as far as lending money to different people in the vicinity.

However since I took over, I forcefully stopped the collection, and redirected all fees to be paid at the bank. Mhen, it was not small trouble, fight, gossiping, spoiling me at the back etc, but I never listened to such, and right now no one collects these fees again... Everything goes through me coz I'm trying to sanitize it. I also required the services of a registered security company operator (sheriff deputies) for the school

Problems I needed advice

1. Sometimes these rebellion. They gossip and talk evil to people that I'm very harsh etc

2. I have changed 2 security operators because of compromises with these staff. I will give instruction, Buh those they'd do otherwise and bend to what other older staff tell them. Recently, the present security did something contrary and I scolded him toughly. Recently, he had an alteration with a parent and I asked him to just plead with her. He refused blatantly. I was surprised and even my mom too. He said he doesn't like the way I scold him and that's why bla bla bla, infront of all other staff. My mom asked me not to change him Buh I'm skeptical

I already feel like changing him with his company supervisor coz he lives around the vicinity and he now gossips with those old staff who might be telling him I'm too young to order him to do things

4. These old staffs are like friends to my mom and they already carry a lot of influence with most of the parents (which I also cut off too). One of them is wife to my mom's brother

5. My mother has been telling me to be patient even my wife. I do not want to employ an headteacher until I change a lot of things

The school has about 300-350 pupils, and employs 18 staff

Advice needed

Fire all workers that can be fired. Keep only that your mom's sister. By diluting the workspace, the seed of greed and bad attitudes is eradicated. Move the woman who's related to you to another department that doesn't deal with managing people and handling money



You see why a mentor or consultant should be hired. I just solved this nagging issue in just few minutes.


You'll need a consultant for the long haul. I recommend it.


Be on the watch out for revenge/diabolical attacks



You don't have a strategy. You need a strategy which I won't say here. Get a consultant to oversee your running of affairs in the school.


No wonder your father died, a good person won't last long in such a toxic place. Who knows what killed the man if they aren't the ones

Americanboy35:
I agree 100%

Please stick around for updates over the next few hours to days

Hate isn't Black/Nigerian after all.

Man U needs to worry about making the top half of the league than Liverpool's laurels.

If only hateful people would focus their energies. On their hustles

Let's donate money for this guy abeg. He deserves it. Calling out people who can give 1000 Naira or 500 Naira.

Americanboy35:
Pls did anyone have the op acct number?

If the OP could manage a situation like this so effectively with his resources, I see no reasons why he shouldn't be trusted with much. I'm not wealthy but feel the need for us to contribute funds towards the whole legwork and bruhaha


This is a call for us like minds to donate to save this woman and probably help the op plan towards getting a new okada as I feel that okada is gone. 500naira 1000 naira from multiple persons feels okay to request. Wouldn't you agree Sir?

premiumswizz:
May God almighty reward and bless you and your family, may help such as the one you showed and displayed not be far from you. Please next time take name and other information of the police officers, doctor, nurses and the hospital so that we can make a scape goat of people like these, please and please be sure to do this and we will take it up from there.

Let's contribute money o. These people are our own. 500naira 1000 naira. Anything

yeyeosoronga:
I dont absolve the staff of the hospital from being unprofessional, nobody should abuse anyone coming for help.
But the help was sought in the wrong quarters, which is my point.
Private hospitals should not be given that responsibility to 'do what they can do' in an emergency. Many private hospitals have only a single Dr on duty at night time who is likely just someone who has just finished medical school, mandated to look after their stable patients overnight. Even if those stable patients develop complications overnight, they will be in a very tight situation and should be moved to the government hospitals.
Rudeness or politeness in this particular case will help bruise or assuage egos, but that still hasn't helped the patient.
So if the purpose is to talk about unprofessionalism/rudeness that's fine we can go ahead. However, that still wouldn't resolve or bring solution to the daily problems we see faced by patients in a true emergency- such as delay in receiving appropriate care which will invariably lead to a poor outcome.
This leads again to the question- why were they in a private hospital in the first place?

In that case they should turn them away not mock them. Please don't tell me you've lost your humanity too

WIZGUY69:
This type of hospital have no business in taking care of people.

God bless you

frndfghtr:
I reicieve a call this evening that she will undergo brain and eye sugery, pls nairalander, if she needs our help, I will let us know, may b I will ask her, her direct means of getting money, if is her acc number, I will forward it, if d case arise pls, and I need ur prayers, cos people said if anything happen to the woman, am in danger, thanks

My brother. Please keep us informed... Let us know how much you need. Drop an account number too. May God punish that hospital. That's how they do. And do not stop from doing good. Drop an account number.

goldensoul55:
I truly love my husband and I am willing to go back but I am deeply hurt , confused and scared

Let time process everything. Go back to your clergy to help you guys make amends.

[quote author=fieryy post=85290952][/quote]Exhausted dearie..

Find ways to process all that transpired. This is not a divorce issue. Give yourselves time. That's all you need time.

Nooil:
Ajah

Send an email to musbuq@gmail.com for talks. I know someone that wants to sublet in the region

fieryy:
I just saw this. The f? What did I do?

Too late

pansophist:
Also to Ariza, Martinez39, kunleweb, franchasng, jackals, omar09, astroG, michellekabod2, goalnaldo and all my followers.

And a happy new year in advance

Very very merry Xmas Boss to you and your household. I'm wishing you the very best of this season and the glorious new year.

sassysure:
@op got what he want.
Multiple ego massage.

yeye girl

bukatyne:
I responded directly to the post I quoted.

You guys are the ones that started the fights that was why I did not answer Crackhaus' question as regards my husband chasing me.

You guys stared ruining the thread at that point.

Playing the sisters card. Was it not the same. Comment I made that we both had back and forth was claimed sexist by your sisters upon their comments you're now playing the sexist card too, something we both left the bus stop over 5 hours ago. Smh. Human beings sha. So predictable

bukatyne:
As if broke dudes don't marry every Saturday

A lot if women senseless chase money, yes.

Still, a lot of women marry men they love and whom loved them every Saturday.

Rich, average, poor or outright jobless.

Sorry, I don't do gender fights. Thks

Nooil:
Hi, do you still have a selfcon

Do you have a location in mind?

ahnie:
Yeah right...not those 2 by 4 inches father's
That instead of rescuing the child they would by shouting....Yee Yee,egbami o.
Modarun,mogbe,moku...haaaaa gbami o.
Talo wa ile?
Lolz!

Ye ye. My back. Kuku knack me stick for head na make you kukuma kill me.. My belle o

There are some men who's only work is to fertilise you and walk away, leaving you to do the whole training and when they become governors you call them to come receive the credit for your pvssy-whipping

NoRetreat:
madeinheaven

I swear down death is a greedy coward. Such a cute looking man can die in his youth God punish evil village witches

Originalsly:
You're assuming two fire extinguishers are in the passenger compartment ofthe car. Fine. Where would they most likely be kept considering there are 5 passengers?

Extinguishers are meant to be hunged inside the car behind the drivers seat can accomodate even four extinguishers

Otunba2004:
do you believe they can even remember fire extinguisher in this sinero,most people kept their fire extinguisher at back of the car in this situation I don't think anyone of them can come out to use the extinguisher unless good Samaritan can use his or her own to save lives

Any car owner that keeps a fire extinguisher in the boot doesn't have an extinguisher. One day I was in my house, thieves came in to attack. Immediately they saw me approaching the door they felt intimidated ran back to quickly put their rifle together guess what I did as I ran back in, I didn't try to close the door, I ran for the light switch and killed it with the hope that no strangers can intimitaely walk around the house :Dguess what I was right. They fired multiple times inside the house as they groped for darkness.

See there should be a safety mechanism in almost every thing thesedays and it should be the first thing to consult and most be within reach when the need is called upon

franchasng:
Of course for every human action, there is a reason behind it, so everybody date or marry for a reason, and I will list some of the reasons people date or marry.

REASONS WHY GUYS DATE OR GO INTO A RELATIONSHIP

1.) To have a sex mate - this is number one reason guys date
2.) To study a lady they would love to marry - this is very rare though because reason number 1 is the commonest reason guys date
3.) To have someone that will be helping them do domestic chores like cooking, cleaning, washing, etc - common among lazy financially buoyant guys
4.) To have babymama - common among financially buoyant guys who don't want to be tied down by one lady in the name of marriage


REASONS WHY GIRLS OR LADIES DATE OR GO INTO A RELATIONSHIP
1.) To have a man that will be footing their bills - this is the major reason most girls agree to date a guy

2.) For emotional need - this includes sex, romance, partying, cuddling, someone to showoff to their friends, someone to share their burden with and someone to confide in and get support from emotionally....this is another major reason most girls agree to date a guy, especially girls between the age range of 16 - 24yrs, and you must be very handsome and well built to attract this class of girls or ladies

3.) Marriage hope and expectation - this is the major reason (not only though) ladies above 25yrs go into a relationship with a man, and they always consider number 1 reason above before agreeing

4.) For other selfish needs like academic assistance during exam, career, business, errands, etc - some girls and ladies agree to date a guy just because they need a guy that will be helping them during school exam, assignments, etc...or for career growth, for promotion, to have a guy they can call to come fix their home appliances, do manly chores and sometimes for business reasons.


Now, as a man, you must make sure you have any of the needs above to offer to women in order to attract them or else, you will end up chasing girls around with little or no success.....

So op, don't expect to spend nothing in a relationship, don't expect to give nothing, don't listen to people telling you lies that love don't cost anything, Jennifer Lopez was just deceiving her fans while she went to insure her buttocks for $1million so that broke guys won't come asking her out....but she told her fans that love don't cost anything.....

Human love; romantic love cost something; it could be your money, your beauty, your intelligence, your skill, your talent, your wisdom, your strength or even your spiritual powers/gift....you must come with something to attract women as a man, and same with ladies, they must come with something to get their desired man.....or you think ladies don't offer something too


And in summary, all over the world, women are attracted to successful and popular men, and in our world today, before you can be seen as successful, you must be doing well financially...and before you can be popular too, you must have some financial command....and it is the level of financial wealth you have as a man that determines your level of influence and confidence in today world, and women are attracted to you based on your level of confidence.

The more money you have, the more ladies of all age and class are attracted to you, it is not their fault, it is their nature....it is the same all over the world....in fact, in western countries, physically attractive white ladies believe they are entitled to date only entertainment stars....and if you are a black guy that want to date a young, physically attractive white girl in US or Europe, then you must be an entertainment star, or a successful surgeon....if not, you will only be getting fat, plump, old white ladies

What am I trying to say op If you are a guy and you don't want to be the one chasing ladies around for a date or fling or one night stand or relationship, etc, then you need to improve your influence and confidence, and how do you do that Work on your financial life, and watch ladies become naturally attracted to you....and who said digging gold is not allowed? Let the ladies come and dig your gold of course.....it is allowed so long as you get what you want from them in return and so long as you apply your manly wisdom and not go about falling foolishly in love.




Cc: kunleweb, pansophist,

Your last paragraph kuku knack me stick for head

OndoRaph:
In that kind of situation; a crashed car that caught fire, how would an extinguisher have been useful?

If they weren't killed by the impact of the collision or from fainting in the aftermath of the whole brouhaha, an extinguisher can be used to break open the glass/door to free one or two persons and can be used to contain the intensity of theheat/fire

That's what you call a man

Lol. This is a new one. You and my toto na mate?. You fon kuku carry am give your mate before na, otondo

dominique:
Heard he's a nairalander that's active in the religion section. Not sure how true this is

RIP to the family

If you find out his moniker if incase you do, could you please let us know

sassysure:
Suit yourself dear
It's a free world

Clown. What a funny meme