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FarmTech:
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Thanks. Although Google is saying otherwise.

This is what we have tried in our house o. Infact any feed goes self starter or finisher. We rared rabbits for years, it was a family thing and in large quantity.

Anyways what did google say?

FarmTech:
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Thanks for sharing. Which type dobu use? Broilers starter or finisher.

Starter. Then later finisher. With just small quantity and water they are okay. And it makes their infants grow so rapidly that you will be so surprised.

The best so far has been feed. As in chicken feeds, it works like magic, gives them rapid growth and prevents incessant urine. Tried and trusted. Besides they only consume little quantity so this saves you a lot of stress, you won't have to be entering forest every time all in the quest of finding your rabbits food.

Lutherblaq:
Translated:
Are you playing or watching?

tinubu and initial gragra are 5&6

No. Are you playing or are you mad?

VenExchangee:
Different peo

Ok.

VenExchangee:
The moment he Carried my ex when we broke up.
The moment he told people he gave me clothe to wear.

The moment I thought him something and he went to my back to start doing it.
The moment he started stalking all my girlfriends.

The moment I knew the moment

You mean only one person did all these?

KingKO22:
They are devil I they cannot control their grudges on live program then I wonder how they would embarrass themselves at home

If I'm the man I will leave the house for them and marry a new wife. Rubbish!!!!

notmyrealmonika:
I received similar sms too. I registered for batch c too but didn't write the test.
I tried login so I can get my Nasim-ID but it's not logging in.

Nawa o

I just got a message just now:
Dear Applicant,
You have been pre-selected for the N-power Batch C2 program. Please confirm your status by visiting http://xxxxxxxxxx

What does it mean.
Because I was shortlisted for Batch C but I missed the biometrics last year. Only to get this message now.
What's the next step pls?

TheSuperX:
But he settled her now, gave her her house back and cheque of 10 million dollars or so besides he wasn't the one that divorced her, she was the one that took the drastic decision following the wrong influence of her sisters.

The guy wasn't wrong to me because he just wanted her to believe and support him to the end but she didn't, however after hitting it big he settled her with big money, times 10 of what she has spent on him.

I hear.

oladiran2:
Did you even watch the movie at all. You are too bias. The guy wasn't faultless but he tried to his best after the first bleeped up, he never cheated anymore to the point of working with the lady's family but they never loved him and looked down on him cos they wanted the lady to marry their friend. Their pressure didn't help matters to make the lady make the right decision even down to divorce room where the guy was begging not to take such path that he loved her dearly, how supportive do you still want him to be after been forced to sign which he must sign. Bought the house back, gave 10m dollars which was x5 of all her expenses to appreciate her.

Everyone with their own opinion.

WHITELIGHTER:
From a lady, I wasn't expecting anything less

Thank you jor for putting yourself in a lady's shoes.

codedguy1:
That's why anger isn't really good, na you bash him mobile house come lose ovaries. I don't know she still expected him to be loyal to her after the divorce.


Like I said earlier you'll still be biased even if you watch it 100times.

She was sacrificing for him and got tired of sacrificing for him. She then divorced him even when he begged. See you describing him going into the next available female who he slept with in sch. You fail to realise how she set up the meeting with her bosses and how she was looking for him after he lost his phone in living in homeless people place.
Okafors law came into play with huge benefits for both of them.

At this point what did you want him to do.

The story would have been better for you if she divorced him and he ended up penniless abi.

He became successful after she left him is now a crime again.

After she divorced him, he has no right to have an affair with anybody again even if it was the girl he slept with in sch years back who eventually made his dream come through?

I tire for you.

Hnnmmm. Okunrin. It's okay o.

codedguy1:
I can't can't recall anything about her losing her ovaries anytime in the movie, but that's not even what am talking about.

Yes she was patient but wasn't patient enough because of the pressure from her sisters who felt she should leave the guy.

Yes the guy wasn't supportive because he had no money and he placed all his hopes in his dream of selling those batteries. When he eventually did he bought back her house and gave them about 10Million.

Remember she and her sisters pushed for the divorce which he still begged her not to do and even said he wanted nothing. They were even laughing at him when he was begging her not to divorce him.

He cheated on her once and that was in school, so don't make it look like he was a constant cheat, as you put it, " he was never faithful" And if she wanted to leave him because he cheated then it would have been her choice, but she she didn't, her choice again.

What do you mean by he doesn't or didn't love her. If he didn't have any feeling for her at all he wouldn't have bought her house back and given her money.

Unfortunately for her the lady that helped him was the one he had an affair with in sch and sparks were always going to come back.

Everything was not his fault. His major fault was that he couldn't make his dream come through earlier enough for her. Life!

She lost her ovaries during the accident when she used her car the batch the guys residential trunk out of anger when she discovered he cheated on her.
Well I think he doesn't really love her hence he cheated way back and also ran back into the arms of the next available same woman barely after the separation.
In spite of all the ladies sacrifices, yes he bought her back the house and gave her money, but her sacrifices were much more than that. It's an emotional thing.

codedguy1:
Na wa ooo.

If you watch that film 10 times you will still come up with the this biased bias.

How I'm I biased nah

The man didn't try at all. While the lady needs to work on her anger issues, she lost her ovaries due to that in the accident.

She was so patient with the guy for years but lost it at last. The guy wasn't supportive she beared all the burden in the home. Well if I were to be the guy I would go back to her sha. Those her sacrifices were too much. The guy was never faithful right from the beginning though.
I think he doesn't even love her, he only used her to gain stability.

Lucifyre:
Not bad... Your peice is kind of apt. Kind off cause there are some major things off about it. First of it's presented like all three are categories of the same thing which they're obviously not. It's like presenting red, circle and blue like they're all colours, which they are obviously not. You could have a red circle just as you could have a blue circle, but u can't say they're all colours.

Narcissm is a personality disorder which affects people's behavioral patterns in their general relationship and interactions with everyone else in all spheres of their lives. It's a mental disease diagnosed, researched, studied and proven by science. The other two on the other hand are basically male behavioral patterns in a relationship with the opposite sex and its psuedo science at best and like astrology not backed by actual science. So they are very different where its not a situation of one or the other.

Let's say the psuedo science of alpha, sigma, beta and all that is valid. An alpha could be narcissistic, just as a simp could be narcissistic as well. They both could have the mental disease that is narcissism, even though one of em are more likely to be narcissists than the other(you know which). So they are not all in the same category where its one or the other. Narcissm is an illness, the others are behaviours. Totally different things. The whole alpha shit theory is really flawed but that's discussion for another date.

I'm not trying to point at what's valid or in the same category of assertion or context. I'm only trying to differentiate between these 3 words, especially due to the fact that these words are commonly used on this page and also because some are Narcissists but claim Alpha males. And just to buttress on the word Simp as it's almost the opposite of Alpha male according to the "science" of nairaland. This is my point. Thanks for your additions and elaboration.

DonroxyII:
An Important Attributes of Alpha Male is Arrogance and Courting the Entire Aura of an Environment to Themselves without leaving no room for even one head not turning at them while also Striving internally to gain Attentions of all the ladies ....

I'm a Sigma-Masculinity ... We Cleared the Doubt of Alpha-Male Because We are the Humble Alpha-Male:

Check Putin That's Sigma Right There .... Sigma are the real Dudes away from the Fanfare ...

They just do what needs to be done No Trumpets!

That's near selfishness though.

abba09:
simps are best humans

Hnmm. Best?

SkengRay:
it's not funny at all. I have this one friend that post all these toxic masculinity post online regarding every other guy as a simp because they've got a girl while he's lonely and self-services every night. His life is nothing to write home about

I bet depression is taking it's toll on him.

Flora2Sweet:
Women see Alpha males as Being proud/Rude....
But I love it..... cus they still end up wanting them last last.. as husbands..

Well this depends on individual differences. Some Alpha males can be egoistic you know.

abba09:
I AM A SIMP

Ahahhahahahahhaha. Why na?

Fahvvy:
Yes...
Alphas are not bad people, they only treat trash as trash and value as valuable ...

Exactly. But many mistake this for being a Narcissist. I mean some Narcissists claim Alpha males.

Fahvvy:
"An alpha male is not a guy who treats ladies anyhow. He is a guy who treats ladies based on their values.
He is not an heartless individual but he's someone who treats you based on your person and actions. So if you are good, he is good to you, if you are nice he is nice to you"

The bolded is EXACTLY why females mistake Alpha for Narcissist ...

You don't have any value as a woman and you're expecting men to value you, is that not witchcraft? ...

You treat men like trash and you're expecting an Alpha to worship the ground you work on, isn't that a proof that you're possessed with serpentine spirit? ...

Any lady who hates men who treat men the way she is being treated is VALUE-LESS ...

Well that's another angle to it. But Alpha males are not bad though.

SkengRay:
My own advice for you guys is don't be a Alpha male online while you a Beta, or simp offline.

Ahahahhahahaha

Hezzyluv:
Of the three you mentioned, I hate the last one, A SIMP.

Some of them can even beat their parents because of woman.

Ahahhahaha. Yes even ladies hate them. Hence they take advantage of them.

I have seen on several occasions people mistaking Narcissism for being an Alpha male, hence I will like to write a little on Alpha male, Narcissism and simp.
Pls you can add your own opinion for more insight.


ALPHA MALE
An alpha male is not a guy who treats ladies anyhow. He is a guy who treats ladies based on their values.
He is not an heartless individual but he's someone who treats you based on your person and actions. So if you are good, he is good to you, if you are nice he is nice to you. He's in absolute charge of his emotions and actions. He loves with his brain not heart, he is logical, calculative and domineering. An alpha male is a man who takes charge, one who imposes his will on others, not the other way round. He has self-validation and therefore needs no one to validate him, he doesn't feel inferior. He is strong, intelligent and in control. Can't be swindled with any form of emotional blackmail.
Don't mistake a Narcissist for an Alpha male, they are not the same.

NARCISSIST
A Narcissist is a person who has an excessive interest in or admiration of himself or herself.
Narcissism is a mental health disorder. Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health condition in which people have an unreasonably high sense of their own importance. Excessive love for ones self hence, treats others as secondary and immaterial. They need and seek too much attention and want people to admire them at all cost. People with this disorder may lack the ability to understand or care about the feelings of others. They only care about themselves.
The following are the behaviors of Narcissists
*Sense of self-importance
*Preoccupation with power, beauty, or success
*Entitlement mentality
*Can only be around people who are important or special
*Interpersonally exploitative for their own gain
*Arrogant
*Lack empathy
*Must be admired
*Envious of others or believe that others are envious of them

SIMP
While a simp is a guy who treats ladies nicely situations not withstanding... Yes a Simp is one who treats ladies nicely and they don't reciprocate his nice gestures yet he is never bothered. He is gullible, and in dire crave for attention, hence, he can do anything to have it. The word Simp simply means fool, simpleton.
A man who foolishly overvalues and defers to a woman, putting her on a pedestal.
He loves deeply with his heart while his brain is on transit. A simp can be emotionally black-mailed and taken advantage of by the other party.

It is essential that we know how to differentiate between the three so we can understand who really we are friends or in a relationship with. So Narcissists should stop claiming Alpha male please.

So guys which category do you fall?

Alusiizizi:
What about Tega(BBN), Etinosa(Father is a pastor), Tonto Dike and so many others, where they not from good families too?

I know this girl and her family. Those ones I know not let alone their families.

HeartlessMan:
Your parents are late but hers are still alive.

She's from a good family. No need to fear. I know her family.
She's someone I can recommend. I tell you.

vicshub:
You are all invited to my wedding ceremony coming up on the 25 of March, 2023. Nairalanders come and support one of your own.

Wow. Our Ekenwa brethren at living faith church aka winners slope ( Benin). I hail o babe. Congrats.

Good girl you got there. Keep her o. I know her well. She's god-fearing, beautiful and humble.

KeyEndurance:
I Was Thinking The Same just that at Time If I Cook before I Come Back From Work He Will wicked My Food because He Has My Key

Oga change your key. It's very wrong for a friend that's not ur spouse to have ur key to himself or herself.

Supreme145:
A job that I percievd as a miracle job is turning out to be a nightmare. I got a job in Lagos last December as a web designer for the firm with a pay of 150k. The job was supposed to be hybrid but since I couldn't afford relocation we agreed I work remotely pending when I will be able to relocate.

This is the end of fabuary and I haven't received a dime, the man has simply refused to pay me and from his body language he's not going to pay. I contacted the HR and she told me the man isn't responding to her messsages or calls about the payment matter.

He has stopped viewing my messages on WhatsApp or taking my calls too. The guys that referred me mentioned something about him treating the predecessor same way and adviced I take it as employment fraud and walk away from the job.

The issue is I've put efforts and resources into the job and I cant just let go of 300K like that.
I've been borrowing to fuel my gen everyday to work and other expenses. My rent is expired and landlord had been on my neck to pay up. A lot of stuff is hinged on that money.
It's been from one flimsy excuse to the other.

Please I need suggestions on how I can get my money from this man, I have my appointment letter and he's a lawyer.

Mods please help me push to front page so I can get wider contributions

The most wicked sect are lawyers. I have my own fair share of their wickedness.
They believe you can't do them Nada.