₦airaland Forum

Yes its scare because you want a piece of Nicki Minaj inside Chioma Jesus with a touch of Kim kardashian seasoned with Mercy Chinwo.

DroppingLiquid:
If your wife was a wise woman, she would know that it's her they hate and not you. They don't want her to be happy, it doesn't matter which man she marries, whether you or someone else, they want her miserable and they will not stop. She better realize it quickly. You and your wife must cut all contact with them. And if she brings up that 18 years nonsense, you must shut it down immediately.

She’s not the only woman that lives with a family member until they got married.

To the best of knowledge she is so daft.
Sorry to the OP o. But I have to be realistic.

bummyla:
I dont think you are married Sir! Am in the same situation with him! Some Aunties and Big sisters do not know when to let go! They are manipulative

That is not just the issue. They are evil and want to destroy lives.

uyimen:
Just to add that initially there was nothing i did not do humanly possible to please these people name it. All to no avail.

Stop pleasing them, stand your ground. Tell your wife to choose between her aunty and her family. Imagine someone laying curses on her and wishing her bad for that matter.
Just relocate and tell her strictly no member of that her Aunty's family is welcomed to your home. Be the man.

jaeyking:
One of the ways Nigerian parents made us have trust issues.

It might be funny but that statement created a rift between parents and kids.

Your parent would say dey won't beat u but would still go ahead to beat u.
Then next time you expect the child to say the truth

Not all parents o.
If some say they will not beat you they won't.

Davash222:
There's no good and focused Nigerian girl again!

There are

Greystone:
OP, the true wife materials don't fall prey to yahoo boys.

Most times, the problem with the victims is Greed.

You have spoken

Fulaniherdmens:
But it reads 2face kids, so why is she blowing hot, btw she doesn't know ur daughter. Madam forkaholic nonentity.


Still does not justify her choice of words. Linda cropped her out maybe not knowing her and plus it reads 2face kids. Her daughter is not for 2face so make she relax. Her daughter get her own papa...

It is a very sensitive situation. Children take such things to heart. Being cropped out of a family picture for the whole world to see is no joke o. I tell you. She snapped the pic with her kids not to show off who their father is, but its about her and her kids.

larryking540:
ya I kw many guys have been hooked to the happening type of Ladies but many are also very very careful,men are after comfort and peace of mind than problem and issues ,,,no man wants his kids to be raised by a crazy woman ,,,see same way woman look for successful men to mate with ,it's the same way we men look for homely ladies to mate with

OK o. I succumb.

larryking540:
homely girl is the top priority,,,the happening girl is just a temporary distraction

Hmm. When the happening one hooks you. Then it will be too late.

larryking540:
check the ladies most successful men settle down with,, when a man is ready to settle down different factors are put in place..the good marriage that men and women practice don't circulate only the bad ones we hear of

Hnnmm. But would rather you have a homely girl or an happening babe?

SSpeter:
Dear Guys

I am writing to formally inform you to ensure you painstakingly and meticulously examine the type of guys your girlfriend has dated in the past. Please and please don't fall for the scam of " my past stays in the past". Dig the past, scrutinize all you have unearthed before you finally propose.

I saw a former colleague recently and he was almost a shadow of himself. He narrated how he is just recuperating from all his loses. He said his Church revealed to him that his wife is a pipe that keeps sucking his wealth and remitting his resources to the yahoo guy that performed the ritual on her. He explained how his logistics company crumbled and I almost cried. He said the court officially dissolved their marriage on a Friday, on Wednesday (the following week), a small reputable company gave him an offer to head their supply chain unit.

Please and please do not touch any lady that a Yahoo boy/man has touched. Fortunately they no longer hide their rituals. Please as an ambitious young man, dig into your potential wife's past. Know her dating history and the type of people she has dated.

Approximately 5 years ago there was this guy that invited us to a treat after his wedding while we were chilling someone asked him how did you meet your spouse he said "we met on a plane". To cut to the chase, the guy met a lady that a sugar Daddy was sponsoring to Dubai and "wifed" her. How can you meet a lady in business class who has no real job and the parents can not afford a 1999 Toyota and you say na she you wan marry? Although him body tell am and he advised himself.

As an ambitious young man the final trap ahead is your partner. Guide your steps towards marriage jealousy. The signs are always there. Your downfall begins when you marry an unfortunate person. I have seen someone who earns 650k monthly dismissed because of cheque issued on an unfunded account (No be juju be that?) He said the pressure from his wife was becoming unbearable. This was same wife that was catered for by a Sugar Daddy before the mumuni "wifed" her.

Finally, I will advise you to take this piece of advice: start digging. Never date a yahoo or sugar Daddy by-product. Your college girlfriend is using a premium iPhone and you know quite well that the parents are poor and she often calls you for bailout funds and you think one magical uncle gave her the phone?

But you guys don't like good decent girls na. You like happening and trendy babes that you meet today and is ready to crawl in your beds that very day or next.
It's well!!!

Saintdan0421:
Serious o..dunno how to convince u.

Hmm. Try and do. Maybe I can faint too.

Saintdan0421:
Thread full of cock and bull stories and fantasies....

See my own..

Sometimes in 2018, The Otedolas visited our family house to say hi.....
To cut the story short I opted to use the visitor's ladies room to shower for no just reason without bolting the door. While taking my bath, I heared a knock once and and almost immediately the door flunged wide open before I could say pim. Boom there was I standing face to face with DJ Cuppy completely starked naked & listening to Naira Marley's song 'Am coming'. Well, we both fainted......

"Lyon!!!!!!"
Uncle you can "lye" o.

TheGift:
Don’t be blinded by the stereotype.

It takes two to tango.

Stop thinking only about what you can benefit but what you can give to the relationship.

He who tends His garden will enjoy its fruits .

This is wisdom

Righteousness2:
Wow! That's so beautiful from the VC.

Thank GOD she didn't give the Chocolate based on who is Vaccinated or not Vaccinated. Because in many Cities and Nations right now, People are given free donoughts, Marijuana, Free ice cream and even free sex on the basis of being Vaccinated.
Be Watchful and Prayerful so as not to fall a victim of these Last days.

Are you being serious?

Iseoluwani:
She is not the youngest regent

This is the youngest

You people don't read before commenting. She was crowned at 16 that is what the article says. Bit now she is 23.

Juliusmomoh:
When jesus was saying " It is finish " he was actually talking about your brain....

Sometime what i read on nairaland, makes me vomit.

I mean how can you be crushing on a married woman

Though some married woman are sex stave. But aleast na... Let some married men Bleep her, not a guyman like yourself.

You even went and mastubate using her image... You start imagine how you were ontop her shaking your potato head like standing fan ...

You sure say your G-wagon never bend ontop mastubation.

Am leaving nairaland for you people... Thank you

Ah ah ah hahaha you have killed the guy. Kuku killi mi. Ahahahha
I tell you of a truth the forum is becoming a den of anything else but morality and sanity.
I left at a time also.

impactValue:
Greetings, good people of Nairaland

Please I need a piece of honest advice from experienced nairalanders, I am a Software Engineer, I got an offer from a very close friend (He is like a brother to me) of mine that resides in Dubai to come and manage a club he co-owns to enable him time for other activities. I will need to learn how nightclubs operate since I have little or zero knowledge about the nightlife. I have the freedom to pick up side gigs (or remote work) when I can and He is not in any way restricting me but he needs me to learn the business with him.

The plan, in a simple language, when I learn the business well enough he will pull out and open his own so I can be his manager since he doesn't want recognition.

He paid for my flight ticket and was the one that processed the visa for me (tourism) and he is currently working on how my visa can be extended and my work permit too.

Before I came to Dubai, I applied for this opening with a tech firm in Berlin. I completed the last stage here in Dubai and have been sent the offer but I will have to relocate to Germany because the work is on-site, the company bare expenses regards flight ticket, travel insurance, visa process et al. The start salary is 56K euros per annum (gross).

Also, I resigned from a bank as a development specialist (full-time staff not yet confirmed though, was earning 450K naira net with other benefits) prior to my trip to Dubai. I was doing well in Nigeria because I earned a total of up to 800K (with all my works combined) just that the work ethic (the bank work) is toxic to me because you will work your brain out debugging code, plus I am looking at a good place that I can start a family when I am ready and Nigeria is a no for me unless I have enough money to send my kid abroad to study.

What do I do now that I am already in Dubai? I am passionate about tech and I love the echo system. Please any input from experienced fellows will go a long way for me.

Thanks in advance. Mod please help so I can get as much input as possible

Refund the Dubai club Man's money and go to move to Germany for the job. The club kinda life is not for decent men. My opinion though.

TeamLeader:
Defaulted? They will bring the prove that I truly took a loan from them

This is Nigeria.


Take a look at this.
I got it severally I'm sure a contact on my phone collected loan from them this is the third app saying the guy defaulted in payment.


TREAT AS URGENT: This is to remind the general PUBLIC that xxxxxxxxxPHONE xxxxxxxxxxx PROVEN BEYOND UNREASONABLE DOUBT to be a DEBTOR and an unremorseful shameless person who goes about COLLECTING MONEY from different loan APP COMPANY and ends up acting in a criminal manner by turning off mobile phone, insulting account officer and default. This person is currently on the run with our companys money (NCASH) and has refused to make payments on a loan that was out as an emergency financial recovery funds. Be informed that this person has been declared wanted and investigations has been activated and BVN of the person financial institute blacklisted. YOU ARE WARNED NEVER TO DO BUSINESS TRANSACTIONS WITH THIS PERSON, contact us if you have any information about this person as soon as possible, else the company will proceed to the next LEVEL of action, because this person provided us with all your details as a guarantor and if you are not aware of this loan you can call the person to delete your information in the app, because the person pictures will be declared wanted in the next FEW HOURS......NCASH MEDIA TEAM WARNING

Don't worry, they will surely come for your soon and paste your name all over the place that you defaulted.
Just wait a little.

BigDawsNet:
Its depends if the dude reports you..

That's how meta Developers can pick a users to deal with easily

OK. Except that. Thanks

I just wrote clown in a friend's post about 20mins ago. I don go delete am now. I no fit shout.

You are not too old. Most men that are your age mate in Nigeria are not even married yet.

NovesaTillie:
YES.
He said he needed some time off his own place that's why he over stayed

Don't Accept their invite again. Avoid constant meetings with them. Spend more time with you bf instead.

They just want to see the end of this man since he did his mother's burial. Naijiria, naijiria, why

Risingsun127:
Chai ...
Who have I offended bayi??
When I first noticed this was when I was asked to lead prayer during a function.. I’ve always been a bright person that people look up to .. So I’m the one that they choose to do the talking most of the time . while praying it got to a point I started blabbing .. Then my leader now asked me if there was hot yam in my mouth.. She was surprised..since then it has got worse..To pray sef I’ll finding words to use..
Please what do you advise me to do and share more light on leg of house.

Then probably it may be a spiritual issue from a jealous person or attack front the congregation. Maybe someone was weighing and sizing your spiritual level through attack during that program. It's well.

Are you okay?
Education is very important, if you can school and learn altogether better. But don't ever drop out of school

DSC7:
I have been thinking of connecting with her but i remembered that she deactivated all her previous social media handles due to her job...

She is the understanding type but I can't say same with dat my bro.....

I fit tell am now make he just flare up...

Flare up say wetin?
You have to tell him or even your parents. His reaction is not your business do your part and clear your conscience because you don't even know if there are some implications for two brothers to sleep with one girl so just do your part ASAP and gboju.

Go and be barbing the barbing you intend to be barbing in naija abroad abeg.
Mind you its expensive over there so you will make quick money.

Differentiate:
White don't do money rituals. Even some of them don't involve theirself in shitty things like fraud,theft and so on, and yet 70% of them are rich asf .
You're right i guess its our country...

Fallacies. Go and watch READY or NOT movie 2019. Whites do money rituals and cultism for money. No race is absolutely pure.

Tallesty1:
I don't know who you're.


But I will look for you.


I will find you.



And then I will collect this kiss.

Ahahahhahaba