₦airaland Forum

KingDash:
that's what they all say.

Well. That's me doesn't matter what others do, think or believe. I'm me!!!

chatinent:
You mean na that kind soft wood dem use do plane?

I wonder o

KingDash:
stay away from that ya boyfriend. make e no dey use small money deceive you, when the money stop entering what do you think he will do next??!

Which boy friend?
I'm not a child o uncle. I don't keep small boys. Besides I can't be bought.

Justice4Toto:
Pls stop being myopic about it narration. It's not yahoo boys but ritualist as a whole
Ladies should shun ritualist.
Listen a certain guy that sells phones at Akure mall used his gf for rituals but no evidence
The girls machiate till she die.
You see now he is not a yahoo boy but a phone seller
Now the guy has relocated to New York after every one start avoiding him
This is what I tell my sister's anything that look.too good to be true Run

Pls what is machiate, who does it mean? The one I know is machinate

KingDash:
All Yahoo plus boys will die this year.

I think they should just stop calling them yahoo plus. They are ritualists, simple.

Vickyvice:
Second to last pic suppose become meme

Something like. Aaaahhh eeemi

Longeria:
That's major reason you must vote JONATHAN again, otherwise you will pray for Afghanistan visa when Association of pathetic creatures, APC, takes over.

You are a prophet

Icandream:
What's classy about Destiny Etiko and Daniella Okeke? Is it the fact that they don't poo? Is it that their pussy hole is made of gold? Or does it mean that Reno that was born with a silver spoon and brought up in the US has never come across any girl that can be qualified as being classy?

It's the yansh he's talking about bro

smile11s:
Jim Iyke don talk am say nothing on social media is real. This one fit no fit be real too.

Don't mind her. Those pic are like 3years back at most. See the clothes na. Remember when that Ghanian native top was invoke, Barely 3-4 years ago. She even used snap chat, So not that old.

bigpicture001:
Thanks man.. heard from her friend that sh said am too stingy,.

Honestly I didn't make her spend up to 50k from her wage.. 300k is not big and can be exhausted soon..

The weight will be too much if I form the normal Nigerian guy who likes to carry load on their head

Will you join her with the day to day running of the house and all shores?
Do you agree no title "I am the man of the house?
How will you be of support when she is pregnant and taking care of the kids?

If you can answer these questions you are good to go.

Let me tell you the naked truth, you can't be African and Western at the same time, that is where Nigerian men are missing it. Since you are enforcing responsibilities on her, no woman I repeat no sane woman you are enforcing these kind of responsibilities on will submit to you totally, since you share the bills you have to share the shores and the cooking. That's what westerns do... In that home there will be two pilots, and you can never Lord over her.. There are no two ways around it.

Cchuks27:
It's good she contributes to the family but don't make it her duty.

True

The rich roll with the rich.
So true

How can you maintain the 3 without money?
Money answereth all things.

Theonlysonofher:
While others are celebrating the new year today I am here sobbing because my marriage is at the verge of breaking.

I loved my wife with all my heart but I don't think I will ever forgive her for what she has done to my mother.

I am the only child of my mother. I have three sisters on my father's side.
I am married with two beautiful daughters. my mother suffered from diabetes, bp and high cholesterol. She is on a special diets strictly no salt or too much sugar.

She came to stay with me because the person who was taking care of her wasn't doing her job properly so I had to bring her to my house so I will be monitoring her health.

I have a house help who prepares all her meals with less salt and she also makes sure she takes her medicines on time without fail.
Everything was fine, my mother is not a troublesome person, she gets on well with my wife and most of the time she is in her room resting.

On the 20th of December my house help had traveled to the village to see her people and she will be back in January 4th so my wife and I have to take care of my mother making sure that her foods is less salty and medicines on time.

Since I am always working so my wife had to take most of the responsibility. It is only for a week and fews days until the house help is back.

She had agreed to take care of my mother during this periods of time and I thought everything was fine but I noticed my mother become distant and tired unlike her and I had no idea that she was actually dying and I have never suspected that my wife was maltreating her.

So Thursday being 30th December I was at work when my wife called and asked me to join her at the hospital because mama had a seizure.

I rushed to the hospital and my mother was in a coma state and I asked her what happened to mama, she said mama woke up that morning complaining about shortage of breath and she told her to go back to bed and rest hoping she will be fine by the time she will wake up.
Only for mama to fall off the ground and started shaking with foam coming out of her mouth.

I was in panicked I couldn't stop praying for my mother to get better and I didn't leave the hospital, my wife went home to take care of the children because she has left them with the neighbour and I had spend all night prayer vigil at my mother's bedside and glory be to God my mother woke up yesterday being 31st but the doctor report was not a good news for me.

Actually my mother was poisoned with salt and guess who did it? My beloved wife couldn't bothered to cook a different meal for my mother, she used to feed her the same meal we ate knowing full well that mama cannot eat the same foods as us because we are salt lovers, especially my wife, she love eating too much salt which I have warned her over and over again because it is also not good for her health.

I confronted her, she said she only fed mama the same meals we ate twice only but according to the doctor it was more than two times.

I am hurt that my wife doesnt love my mother or treat her like her own mother because if she truly loved her like her own mother she would have put her diet on consideration and not allow her to eat the same meal as us. I love her mother and u treat her like my own mother.

It pains me a lot when I remember five years ago when her mother was in coma state and she was staying with her at the hospital, she is her only daughter amongst three boys.

I used to visit them everyday after work, I will bring foods and I have even washed her mother clothes with my own hands, I have done with love because she is my mother. I called my mother in law this morning and I have informed her about what her daughter has done to my mother and she couldn't stop apologising and she is very disappointed with my wife.

But see how she has repaid me by hurting my own mother.

She has apologised to me and to my mother, I have forgave her but I don't think I can stay with her again because one day if I become sick or bedridden she might treat me the same way.

Honestly speaking I am not even at home with her and the kids, I am at my cousin brother's house since yesterday I left the hospital and my mother is still in the hospital because she needs more treatment and hopefully she will recover by next week.

I don't feel like going home today and I don't know when I'll go home but I will always be there for my girls because they are the best thing that ever happened to me.

What other advice would you give me on this situation? What are your thoughts? Thank you for reading all I love this community.

Sorry about your loss. But I bet with you she doesn't know how grievous the illness was that was why she's gave her the general food to eat. I tell you if she really wanted to kill your mum she will not rush her to the hospital.
But if she did it intentionally she's a woman too, and has sow an evil seed...
May the Lord comfort you.

dacblogger:
Look at what you did to yourself...This is an eyesore.

Your head looks familiar. What is your name?

Chai

greencard:
so as thing weh I crack my head write long reach na only letter m you see pick out
It's well with your soul my dear
It's nymph

Ah ah ah hahahaha. Amen
I want to know if it's something else

greencard:
Many people love the idea of marriage but the bad news they keep hearing is distancing them from the idea.

Some especially the redpillers may claim defiance ,but deep within they wish to settle down, but they just don't know with whom

I can't tell you who to marry, But I can advise you on whom not to marry

I- Never marry someone without the fear of God. It's dangerous.
They may fear you at your presence,maybe because of your economic power as their benefactor or because you may get upset and do them dirty if they wrong you. But don't underestimate their quick change if they finally get that which you offer them from somewhere else , then the fear of you diminished and they do what they wish . Cheat on you , blackmail you and of course divorce you.


2 ...Never marry someone that find it hard to forgive simple fault

I had to add simple fault, because if I say just forgive, then you might take him/her for granted and be doing anyhow. , because you know they will forgive after all. But in this context, I mean , don't risk marriage with someone who hold grudges for long and don't see reason to let go , who don't forgive easily but hold on to fault. You will see this singns during courtship, but if you are blinded by love, money, figure 8 or 6 packs. Marriage go clear your eyes

3 Don't Risk marriage with some one with too many opposing beliefs to yours

By opposing beliefs, I don't mean APC Vs PDP, they are almost the same thing, I mean, don't risk marriage with an extremist of any kind, except you two are extremist. If you are pro life and they prefer abortion, don't go there. If they laugh at the death of another person who is simply not their tribe or religion but they feel happy at it. That person is not sympathetic, he/she will laugh at you one day and you will hate yourself. Only you can properly tell the contrast. Just don't risk marriage with some one with too much opposite beliefs to yours.


4 don't marry a liar
Fooooool, you will see it o, but you will laugh and say but you can lie sha . Don't worry na, marry him/her . You go hear whin. You will always know where you stand with a womanizer, you will always know where you stand with a thief, but you can never know where to place yourself with a chronic LIAR. Don't say he doesn't lie to me sha, the breakfast go reach everybody one day and you will hate it that you were one of the many wise people he/she fooled

5. Don't marry a sadist
There are some things smiling and laughter can àvert , there are some things dancing and playing can repair, there are some things , cuddling and chiding can fix , but if you end up with a sadist . There is nothing I have to say to you than the LORD is your strength

6.. don't marry a nyph if you can't cope
At first you will think it's fun and you can match the game , but when e go over you , even the gods with their might and wisdom won't be able to settle the matter

7. don't marry out of pity
She came from a poor background so she must me humble and needy , Bros that should not be the main reason you should marry her. If I don't marry her who will? Let me just pity him cos he has been disturbing me, the boy try self . Me I pity you o. She doesn't have a helper let me help her by marriage, no go marry witch o

8. if there have been several warning signs, don't be stubborn, don't marry o
You may have noticed the signs , when they are with you, or in the dream or through your father or mother or friends or neighbor or strangers..
e get why o.
Don't follow your mumu heart o. You self reason am

Nyph or Nymph?
If Nyph, then pls who is a Nyph?

Kobojunkie:
A half-truth is a lie .... and reveals a lack of integrity on the part of the storyteller.

Someone can still choose not to tell the whole story. They shared the glory not the story. Had it been they told the story and concealed the truth of the "HOW" then it's a lie.

But see I'm done with this topic. It's their lives let's just thank God for the goodnews.

godfatherx:
Is it the paper certificate you want to marry?
Do you have a job for her now that requires her certificate?
What's the essence of being a graduate if you can't correctly express yourself? I read your story and I understand the "grammar", for me, that's communication, but for your "perfect" educational background requirement, the blunders are unacceptable.
If you a graduate writes like this, you need to lower your standard. That girl is just perfect for you.

You are wickedt

dogmart:
Smiles. There is no need for argument. A lie is simply "not saying the truth."

The story is "Barren for 13years"
Then u ended it with "God did it"
Half truth= LIE

Simple as ABC

God's glory does not reduce a bit if they say the whole truth,but trust Nigerians. Always wanting a perfect supernatural story.

Religiosity!

The fact still remains they are not telling the story. So they can't be termed liar. Besides its as if you know their entire story and absolutely sure they did ivf.
So are you telling me there can never be babies for this kind without ivf?

TicketGreen:
They should also bring the one in zamfara to share it with everyone else

The earlier south knows that their resources is for Nigeria while northern resources is for north, the better it is for us. We are not one.

dogmart:
When u say no one is asking you for the how, I hope u will agree that the testimony is incomplete and a lie.

God's shine does not reduce even if you admit the entire truth. It is like saying you got healed of a heart disease without adding you actually went for a heart transplant.

Why must we lie?

Nigerians!

Where did they lie?
They only celebrated the children, never told the story. Had it been they told the story and journey of their barrenness and omitted if it was ivf which we are not even 100% sure of, then they can be termed liars.
Everyone have a story before the glory, but most rimes only choose to talk about the glory. Its their choice.

Kobojunkie:
So because IVF and surrogacy do not offer a 100% guarantee, you should leave out the truth that you used IVF or surrogacy when you give your testimonies?

I've made my point. No one is asking you for the how. It is the outcome or result that people celebrate not the process. Take it or not the testimony / result is what they are celebrating. And all good things comes from God. So they are thanking God that gives all good this.
People celebrate result not process.

venabili:
IVF. I wonder why they never bother to give some of the thanks to doctors who managed the process.

Cases of multiple birth (triplets and above) after long period of infertility is usually IVF (not all but most).

I wonder how our lives will be if the whites leave everything to God like we do. No research and development, just doing praise and worship like we do.

An aside, do white doctors say stuffs like, "we care God cures", "all you need is prayer", "we tried our best but God knows best"? Who do they blame when things go wrong or give thanks to when things go right?

Ivf or not. Children are God's blessings.

Do you know many do ivf on a daily basis yet it fails?

Yuakwon3:
It's alright I will plan it

Good

Yuakwon3:
I've thought of this but no fund for it

Ow. Even if its to squat with someone. Before u can find your feet do it.

Yuakwon3:
To be honest with you I'm a giver, I'm new where I live now and the guys are either stingy or broke,,,,, they offered me nothing. I tried hard to see if I could slaughter a goat to show them how things should be done but my efforts were to no avail. I actually don't understand what's wrong with me because as I speak to you I don't even have anything in my account no food items nothing at all and I can't blame anybody maybe that's how nature designed it for me maybe just for now

Leave that environment

Muyiwaipere:
I repeat Dubai is not a place to be for Christmas

This is the most boring Christmas of my life

Ahahaha. Pele.

isaiah4life:
3,700k in K-town. Especially the cock with big wings. One bite will be yummy.

Where is k town pls

Brandonx:
Because of 100k and some jewelry she had to kill the woman.

Just
Imagine.

emmalexdboy:
Tell your brother to let it go, it's very painful but it shows how some girls can be very ungrateful and terrible.

It doesn't take me anything to borrow your brother my gun to shoot her in the head for being so wicked but leave am, God go catch am.

Pls borrow me. I'm in Benin. Where is your location. Its urgent

Squidbabe:
You think far! exactly what I tell some guyz.

Because that is the truth.