Family › Re: How Can One Find Genuine Spouse In This Era Of Ritual Killings, Organs Harvest? by kurlz(f): 11:18am On May 06, 2022 |
Pejumolabalie: Simple! Date broke men Those ritualists were ones broke bro. Many broke ones still end up indulging in ritual killing to get rich due to poverty. The best is know who you are dating. Ensure the person doesn't love money too much and know his source of livelihood |
Nairaland General › Re: What Is The Weirdest Human Names You Ever Heard? by kurlz(f): 12:27pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
Mail Governor Stone.. |
Romance › Re: If You Are Guilty Of Getting A Girl Pregnant & Abandoned Her For Years, Do This! by kurlz(f): 9:43pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
MadeINchenzen2: Perhaps u were trying to be smart as a street dude who wouldn't take such responsibility. Don't make your life hard, if you got a girl pregnant... I mean if she told you about it, claiming you are responsible, DO NOT DENY IT & DO NOT TELL HER TO GET RID OF IT.
E get why !!!
It's common with most single guys to deny a pregnancy, probably because they are not ready for it, or they dont have plans of getting married or that the lady is not good enough for marriage or that they don't want to be sudden unfortunate dads or that they are so broke— so they run away, never to be seen or heard from again for many years.
DON'T DO THAT... E GET WHY !....
If a lady you had sex with, protected or unprotected... says she's pregnant for u, do not say words like " How?, who's responsible? because we both know I used protection" dont say that... that's lame.
If a girl gets pregnant, its never a question of whether or not you used protection, It is a question of "Did you have sex with her or not?"... and if the answer is YES... then u shouldn't be asking lame questions or trying to dodge responsibilities.
E get why !!!
If she says she's pregnant for you simply ask her "What do you want to do?" If she says "I want to keep it" just say... "FINE" 
E get why !!!
Though u won't get married yet but support her all through until she put to bed and follow through as the baby grows with child support.
If there's a woman out there who should be getting care and support from you which she's not getting because u went into hiding. Try and call her right now, try and establish a rapport with her, know how she's doing, know how the baby is doing. Don't ignore her permanently....
E get why !!!!
My 1cent 
All young single mothers kindly drop your AZA, let me do something in the spirit of Easter !!! You are loved! UBA 2066866958 Thanks |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Man Stabbed To Death By His Onlyfans Model Girlfriend In Miami (photos) by kurlz(f): 10:11pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Kandeed: Highest she get 10-15years jail time and she out on to the next nigga...US is really a hell of a place to be, You can spend much time in a mall, open field or club house cuz ur nervous a crazy pissed mofo can just come firing some shots indescriminately at people, justice is slow and very biased, you can't even argue/challenge ur neighbour. Thank god I left to somewhere better
A real definition of shithole Trump said. F**ked up country Imagine they even claim they are trying to investigate if she did it out of self defense imagine? Is there any justification for murder? Imagine if reverse is the case. If the Nigerian is the one that stabbed someone to death. Pure racism!!! |
Music/Radio › Re: Wizkid Loses To Angélique Kidjo In Best World Music Album Category by kurlz(f): 8:56am On Apr 04, 2022 |
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Family › Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by kurlz(f): 8:46am On Apr 04, 2022*. Modified: 9:22am On Apr 04, 2022 |
Calibrator: Entitlement attitude is a progress blocker..... Doubt if you will notice your brother's cold shoulder if you are doing well yourself.
I don't blame him for cutting off dead weights. Family is the only one that will stand by you in crisis at least 80%. You see all those neighbours, friends and lovers many of them, if not all will flee when you have issue. Family have no where to push you to. Besides if you are not giving your family you are definitely giving others in your environment except you are a total miser. So what's the difference? I'm speaking of a good family anyways. |
Family › Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by kurlz(f): 5:01pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cheerycherry: Good evening family landers, I created this account because of this and I need advice from people that have been married for a while.
I've been married for almost 3 years now and we were in a relationship for more than 6 years before then.
Since I married my husband, I've noticed that he's an emotional cheat so to speak. One time I stumbled upon a chat with a girl saying things like if I catch you I will wound you with d ick.
When I bring it up he will tell me he was joking and even swear with his life that he will never cheat on me he's just joking.
Earlier this year, I stumbled upon his chat with a girl who I happened to know as well, a very young girl sending his shirtless pics and asking her if she knows how to ride d ick well if she can kiss and suck his whatever well.
Asides this, he sent her money up to 13,000 in the space of a week while he kept telling me he had no money and I was managing my personal money to run stuff.
He apologised and said its because I don't kiss him when we have s ex and he didn't even intend meeting the girl that it was him catching cruise.
This week again I stumbled upon his chat with another girl, he has known this girl for a while tho and I've met her too. He sent her a message saying Je ki n do e kara e bale in yoruba which means let me f uck you let your body calm down. I've been mad since I saw this one cos he apologised and afterwards said he was just joking.
I'm tired of the disrespect the whole nonsense brings to me and I'm considering leaving. I have a well paying job, I take care of my personal expenses and send money to my parents and siblings myself and we have a child together.
It's not s ex cos we have sex not less than 2-3 times a week; very satisfying s ex.
I need inputs from married people please. We have an ongoing building project together which we are both sponsoring 50:50. I'm not an uptight person at all, I talk, I make jokes, I'm not boring! Sorry to say o but, he's a very useless man. Well this is my advice to you. If you like take it or not. It's not advisable you build with such a promiscuous man. Don't be surprised one day he will bring in another woman. So if you join resources with him in anyway make sure you have records. It happened to.my mums friend, thank God for the record the man wanted to throw her out, she provided the proves in court and their joint ownership We proven so he couldn't throw her out nor bring in the woman. Be very smart, ensure you have proves of every penny you spent or buy for any thing or project you do with him. Or you build your own totally separately. Some Men can be funny and unpredictable especially when they see a new pussy, that's, that's why some of them jam mean and diabolic women. Besides some can never be content with what they have so give yourself rest. My 2coin. |
Health › Re: University Of Ibadan Doctors Discover Cure For AIDS by kurlz(f): 10:42am On Mar 31, 2022 |
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Family › Re: Help! My Wife Says She Doesn't Love Me Again & No More Sex From Her.... by kurlz(f): 6:03pm On Mar 26, 2022*. Modified: 2:34pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Stop pampering her. Stop giving her money. Anything your child needs buy it don't monetize it. It seems she's too comfortable. A jobless woman that is till an ingrate. Sorry I can't tolerate that. I give you at most 2 months you will see her begging. |
Food › Re: Mouthwatering Vegetable Sauce/stew For Rice by kurlz(f): 9:53pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
YoungLionken: It is always like that and I don't know why... It's well |
Food › Re: Mouthwatering Vegetable Sauce/stew For Rice by kurlz(f): 7:42pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
YoungLionken: Very nice..
But am I the only who still can't prepare a delicious meal despite the recipe and all ??
During one of my service days as a corper, there was a particular night I asked my gurl( we were apart, different states) about the recipe for this same vegetable stew, even while she was telling me carefully..
It still ended in premium tears as I couldn't eat it, I had to go out and get something else..
I learnt that day that we can't really be an expert in everything, and that we can't be forced to learn what's beyond us..
Since then, when a man asked a lady "what are you bringing to the table"? I assumed it to be cooking, cleaning, caretaker of the home and every other thing a woman is supposed to know, other than financial support these lazy bones always pressure our ladies about... Reminds me of when I tried to make groundnut soup. My brother I cooked rubbish, in spite of all the recipes I saw and all. |
Romance › Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by kurlz(f): 11:11am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Uncle96: Why would you allow another man to be dropping your woman off at work everyday ? There's is nothing wrong in it sir, if the woman is disciplined and has self control. |
Family › Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by kurlz(f): 10:37pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
All I ask for you is that God should intervene. I understand what the word pain, molestation, disappointment and not being appreciated mean. Just try and give God a chance. I think Hes the only one that can help you now. He always do if you turn to Him. I feel your pain |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russian Cats Sanctioned & Banned By US, EU & FIFE (Photos) by kurlz(f): 10:35pm On Mar 04, 2022 |
Righteousness2: Wetin Cat do una? Crazy world filled with Crazy people! Pls o is this the righteousness we know? |
Family › Re: Can You Marry A Man Who Lives In His Family House? by kurlz(f): 4:14pm On Feb 28, 2022 |
2braithe: I'm confused at one thing,is it the responsibility of the lady or her family to finance the wedding? It's the man that is coming to marry her na. Abi o. Anyone that wants to marry should be ready to bear the cost. But trust Nigerians na. Especially Yoruba's the girls family will not want to be left out. Its not totally bad though. But the man should have a source of living and be up and promising. |
Family › Re: Can You Marry A Man Who Lives In His Family House? by kurlz(f): 3:56pm On Feb 28, 2022*. Modified: 4:15pm On Feb 28, 2022 |
Iyaebe: Living in husband's family house while married is a disaster, ladies should not be deceived by that deceitful words like "his family is my family" your eyes will clear when troubles set in (which you can't totally avoid because fighting your in-laws is like the air we breath, you can't avoid it,just choose your fights wisely by avoiding the very elderly ones but be strong and ready for those young ones that'll come and test you).It's a hard and enduring decision on it's own to marry a man that does not own a house not to talk of marrying one that'll put you in a rent but going further to marry one that'll put you in his family house is what I can't explain.Let me stop here before my nairaland Chief judges begin to rant. She's already angry that you don't want to finance it. She's a child in deed. And a child should not be allowed into marriage yet till she's mature. What does she know about life? Does she even know what it means to live in a family house with in-laws everywhere. I so much pity this girl. She will be turned to their house help. And I bet with you she can never please them all no matter what she does. You have to be blunt. Stand your ground. Tell her you are not in support j til the man has a place of his own, bit if she wants to go ahead they should bear all the costs themselves. If they want to marry they should finance it themselves yours is only to support. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Imelda Acosta Sentenced To Jail by kurlz(f): 2:25pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
FreeStuffsNG: This was the exact thing DJ Switch did!
She did a livestreaming where she claimed a lot of people had been killed at Leki 
It later turned out that DJ Switch was lying and her claim was a big fat lie that added to fuel the subsequent suspected Ipob terrorists co-ordinated arson in Lagos with billion naira worth of properties burnt and lives lost in the cordinated arson attack.
No single person was killed and no family appeared before the panel to report death. Those reportedly killed were either found to be alive or dead even before the Lekki incident! Are you serious? |
Romance › Re: My Experience Dating Girls In Their 20s And 30years by kurlz(f): 12:19pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
Arkmanbuddy: You only date women for sex. There's no way you would have written this nonsense if you dated those ladies for reasons other than just sex. I wish there's another word better to say to you than I love you. |
Celebrities › Re: BBNaija's Tacha: Some Of Us Are Becoming The Men We Wanted to Marry (Photos) by kurlz(f): 5:17pm On Feb 12, 2022 |
We4all: She is actually right. I am impressed that more women are becoming financially independent. Many people didn't understand her proverb. Good you grasped. See all the interpretations some are splitting on the forum. |
Music/Radio › Re: Cross My Lane - Broda Shaggi Ft. Falz (Official Video) by kurlz(f): 11:11am On Feb 12, 2022 |
Bahamas95: You didn't open it? .....Just tell us you don't have data we'll understand. OK I don't have data. Pls send me data  |
Music/Radio › Re: Cross My Lane - Broda Shaggi Ft. Falz (Official Video) by kurlz(f): 10:01pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
ToToMassacre: Great to see how hard the mods are trying to promote other sections of the forum. No be everytime be pol.itics, roma.nce, or crime
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The video and the song na complete nonsense.
RUBBISH! What were you expecting from 2 comedians? Well me didn't open it i |
Properties › Re: Man Singlehandedly Saved A Filling Station From Burning Down. Photos And Video. by kurlz(f): 10:16am On Feb 10, 2022 |
spinna: Juicy cash reward abeg..at least 500k. Investment wey for don burn 500k for a whole filling station? Nah too small. He saved a fortune, lives .... |
Romance › Re: A Lady Slaps A Guy For Proposing To Her In The Public by kurlz(f): 6:34pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
jesmond3945: Na staged skit for lazy youth. I can't take those kind of slaps for a mere skit o. Chai. She's so mean. |
TV/Movies › Re: What Are The Best Movies You Watched In 2021? by kurlz(f): 8:36pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
MITCHELL96: You people should comment oo, let me Know movies to download this night
Nigga has 42GB Data Unused  Chai. Share with me na. Biko |
Family › Re: My Wife Wanted To Commit Suicide Because I Asked Her To Show Me Her Phone by kurlz(f): 8:06pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Let her go ahead. |
Politics › Re: Reno Omokri: Oby Ezekwesili Does Not Have A Beautiful Face. by kurlz(f): 7:58pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
MufasaLion: Well, there's freedom of speech. It's left for the receiver to determine whether to react or not. Moreover, he can't insult some people like that. I tell u. Imagine the national insult. |
Politics › Re: Reno Omokri: Oby Ezekwesili Does Not Have A Beautiful Face. by kurlz(f): 1:11pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
MufasaLion: Yes, she's ugly and she knows. Reno should go and use it to cash money in the Bank of America. Don't one the big mouth. She's not even ugly, except he doesn't know what ugly means, besides beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. He should have simply shut da Bleep up, if he had nothing reasonable to say. How can that woman be called ugly? How can he even call God's creation ugly? |
Politics › Re: What If Nigeria Was A Picture! Describe Nigeria Using A Picture. (Photos) by kurlz(f): 12:46pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Sekoni003:
 This picture speaks 1000 words. ...Imprisonment Imprisoning the innocent... Helplessness.... Sorrow...... Dejection... .... |
Family › Re: Finally!! I Moved Out Of My Parents House!! by kurlz(f): 10:19pm On Feb 04, 2022 |
DEXTROVERT: Please Dont Put Chair In Your Room
Only Bed
so when you have visitors They Can find somewhere to rest
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Romance › Re: Lady Shocked After Discovering A Waitress Tried To Steal Her Man (video) by kurlz(f): 9:53pm On Feb 04, 2022 |
abobote: I was hoping to see the photos of the the two girls, so I can compare them, but with that her nails, she can't make a good wife. Meanwhile I have copied the number to try my luck 
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Romance › Re: He Met His Girlfriend In His Friend's Room by kurlz(f): 10:01am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Beebah2000: Did he caught them knacking or what??  Una go just dey confuse person  What is she doing there? Business? That's disrespectful na. Imagine But yet, they deserve each other though. |
Health › Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by kurlz(f): 2:47pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
nelszx: We don wait for mama Reign3 tire sotey we don dey lose weight. Wow |