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Dakolo and wife are at home enjoying while these ones are stressing themselves.

Dakolo and the wife should lead the front.


All these people are rented.

A Christian going to another church to disrupt their activities.

Exactly, I love people responding to allegations in a matured and secured way.

Very nice start.

I would have loved to be there, present at the church just to learn how to be brave and worry free.



When the church closes and members are on their way out, the protesters will keep shouting and raising their boards, but church members don't give a dame.

I am very sure the protesters will be tired since it is not affecting or having any impact on them.


He is still innocent as we speak. Only the court decides if he is innocent or guilty.


Things should be done in a proper and peaceful way.

IamSoProlific:
Like hello?

You people should stop this "what will she gain" line, one even asked whether they're hungry to bring up such evil accusations.

In actual sense, that girl that accused CR7 by standards isn't hungry. Asides that, people have their different motive. Celebrity,hungry or not!

All in all, I support none of them, mine is that court is the best place to do that, 15years incident is too small compared to the lady that accused one of Trump's aide, with a sexual abuse that happened bunch of decades years ago.

She should have started ranting on social media, but she chose to do the needful which was throwing the book at him, R.Kelly saga comes to mind.

I have no affiliates whatsoever with the coza guy, never knew he existed prior to the incident. But I wouldn't suspend my sense of reasoning and turn emotional in factual stuff, hereby becoming a slanderer by default.

You nailed it.

This is the only reasonable comment I have been reading so far.


Some took Bisola's side out of pity and emotion but couldn't ask themselves "how sure are we he did it?"

I cannot be defaming someone I know nothing about, it's just like they are committing slandry.


Today being their service day they chose to protest.


Sometimes after displaying anger when we are calmed, we begin to penitent.

Tribunal is the right place to go and not social media.

She could even lose this case as a result of defamation. Her first action was to defame the accused, then went on to social media to make the accused look guilty in the eyes of the public.

Monaco2:
U need some COZA

It's not funny at all. Hope you know you are making mockery of a church.

The fact still remains, "no body is holy, we are all sinners"

Some of all those celebrities supporting Busola had raped some girls before.

Hypocrites everywhere.

Benekruku:
Your Pastor made a statement. Please listen

Goodnight. See ya tomorrow #PastorStepDown pic.twitter.com/nT4jDRFuOO

— Ugoada (@Ugoada22) June 29, 2019

"Listen, One thing you need to know, In the mouth of 2,3 witnesses, The truth is established"

See your reasoning. You are just making a fool of yourself.

And who told you Fatoyibo doesn't have those supporting him. lol how people reason.

Elbone2:
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He probably did have sex with her.
She should admit so and stop branding the MAN a Rapist every where.
Do u know who the real rape victims are?!Those who now develop a Phobia for men and can't stand to feign that love and pleasure for sex/men any more.
Probably,If you've never dealt with a real VICTIM before...you have no idea.
Not someone who has Jumped from Pole to pole within the shortest period then be forming Rape syndrome & Naivety.
No one is above mistake...Lets admit it,She lied Somewhere SomeHow.

How did you know he had sex with her?

like were you there when it happened?

And what exactly should he admit?

If a woman tells her 10 years old daughter to lie that you raped her, then the whole community support her and out of pity started criticising you without hearing your own words concerning the matter.

I will tell you to admit you raped her for the sake of your family.

Put yourself in the man's shoes and feel for him also, not only Busola.


Alot of people has been supporting Busola out of pity but wouldn't wanna ask if the man actually did it.

You should know how a girl reasons when she gets angry. She uses everything you both had had to criticise you.

daddytime:
The looting machines been wan push GEJ to him early grave with their quest for a free for all but my guy dodge the bullet.

He's obviously well relaxed and enjoying his retirement.

Gentleman who was too gentle for the complicated marriage called Nigeria.

I can't believe a graduate reasoned this.

Say the good things he did and forget the bad side. That is what life means.

Busola Dakolo can't stop Sunday's sermon.

The word of God must be preached. If you have a personal problem with someone, deal with it personally and stop publisizing it.


Going to social media to talk bad/slander isn't the way to do it.


I wonder why everyone isn't seeing this from their own point of view.

Some took side immediately they watched the video which wasn't the right way to judge.


Something that happened 10yrs ago

Let's talk about the evils of APC and forget about Busola vs fatoyibo.

Who doesn't know this will happen?


Step down first, We cannot lose Sunday's offerings .

Every guys should be very careful nowadays. Just a quarrel with your GF, you are already in trouble.

Haa, onome, this your back side dey sexy oo.


John, you dey mad oo, foolish boy.

After two days, they quarrelled. Onome went and told her friends that John wanted to rape her.


kaiiii, we guys are in Trouble ooo.

Florblu:
Who could have thought your brain is empty?

Meaning?

Since yesterday, only this news.


The pastor can sue her for defamation.


It's like those who are guilty make the loudest noise,While the innocent one's makes no noise.

Dakolo should stop polluting the social media with her ordeal.


Let them go to court and stop being childish.

Go to the tribunal, file a case, and hire lawyers.

Beverlyjean:
Even the presidential election dint take up this sort of space... everyone has gotten involved... even Satan put mouth for the matter... This pastor will never recover from this... This is what u get when u are selfish and try to hurt others to satisfy urself... I think he took advantage of her ,and these days it's classified as rape

I gat a few questions for you.


Were you present at the scene of that incident?

Can you substantiate with valid proof?

What makes you think the pastor did it?


Have you heard from the accused?


Does it means first to report is always right and should be sided?

If you were a judge and they brought a man accused of rape, the lady narrated hers and the accused was about to narrate his, would you tell him to be quiet and take side on the lady?


Wouldn't you hear from the accused too?


Whatever, I was just trying to know how you judge or deal with a situation. You need not be bias or emotional when hearing a case.

Go for points and evidences.

hisexcellency34:
I feel Timi's pain. But what evidence will he and his wife tender In court now for a rape case that happened over 10 years ago? Even if the wife can describe the length and width of Pastor Fat Oyinbo's dick, he may have done surgery to either enlarge or reduce it.

My advice is, if you want a good lawyer to win this case for you get Prof . Itse Sagay or Mike Ozekhome. You can't win with Falana

Why are you all taking sides on Dakolo, let's hear from the accused too to determine if it was true/false.

This is not fair at all, many men had suffered in the hands of women.

I just kept on wondering the way people see things from their own point of view.


Remember how solomon judged two women.

One's son was dead, the other alive. The dead one mum exchanged the baby. The one whose baby was alive fought for her son.

Las las, Solomon heard from the both sided and applied wisdom by saying, "I will divide d baby into two''

The real mum rejected and rather suggested they give the other woman the baby,While the other woman wanted the baby halved.


I believe if we hear from the man, we draw conclusion.

Nice decision.

abels:
answer my question?do you just rush into a trend and spew rubbish? i repeat my question how many men of God have been falsely accused and brought down? Timi has been in pains about this issue since May, several girls have secretly accused this same guy but they face threats and backlash from people like you...okay explain to me how i should change from what and how? If you can answer my questions correctly i owe you apology....and if i may also ask you, change from what exactly?

You started your conversation with "shut up"
Is that how you talk to people?

Enough of this news naa. We have had enough.

Bikonu oooo.

ejor ooooo

We already had enough. Must every celebrity that reacts to the COZA vs Dakolo make FP?

Enough of the news, let's see something else.

We have lots of bad roads in lagos, insecurity in Nigeria and many more.

Let them settle in court and stop disturbing us with their issues.

abels:
shut up, how many men have been falsely accused of rape and where brought down by it that you know? huh

I can see you don't have manners. Why must you behave immature?

Very bad.

I gat three words for you:

Change for better

This news about the COZA pastor is going viral.

But I believe by next week it will be a news of the past, forgotten and dusted.

There is no voice on social media, it's just like being in a negative time frame voicing, without it affecting the positive / real time frame.

I wasn't there when the incident took place, why should I believe without hearing from the accused.

To all ladies out there, the only way to bring a man down is by saying, " he raped me"


and people will believe. Very easy be it true/false.

Please why do some Nigerians like to take sides without hearing from the other person?

Today is just very dull. Rain!! rain!!! rain!!!!

lalasticlala, mynd44, seun. What's up?

Our sister here needs support.


The fact still remains, Nigeria is long gone.

Imagine a soldier man having his own boys( thugs to be precise) . Ordering them to block the road and extort motorist.

Imagine a state, lagos to be precise. You paid your nepa bill and your wire still gets disconnected. Just because they brought a bill of 5k you paid 4k and someone who did illegal connection will bribe them with 5h.


Evil everywhere. Once you wanna fight them or take them to the tribunal, some tribal bigot will support their act.


To those set of people who collected 1k bribe during the past presidential election just to vote whom they ought not to, hope that 1k is still sufficient till today??

idalove:
Meaning?

Has any person sounds absurd.

It seems rape cases are on rampage.

Very bad of him to had raped her. He should be dealt with seriously.

Paedophile explains him.

Justice96:
I see high tension wire above what if it fall on the flooded water.....naija which way

I think when it rains heavily, the power supply would be interrupted or intermittent .

gozzlin:
It is rape, statutory rape, because she's not up to 18. The law says that anyone who has sex with a girl not up to 18 has committed rape. Whether she seduced you or not is immaterial, you must resist the temptation else you end up in jail. Period.

What if she drugged you, tied you to a post, removed all your cloth and started riding on you.

You woke up only to see she's done it.
Now two weeks later, she reported to her parent she's pregnant.

My man reason well ooooo.

These are the reasons why Nigeria laws are complicated. No reasoning before setting them.

A white man would always think and reason in different ways before approving a law or before amendments.

The teacher became randy immediately he saw her laps/pant ( I guess she is voluptuous)..hmmmm


What do you expect when they have phones and laptop to access porn sites?

I am very sure she had seen many sexual movies and how the girls in the play mourns.

That is a case of lack of sexual control and not a rape case.

The father just escalated the whole situation there by making it public.


That should have been kept private and discussed privately.

If that teacher presents a good lawyer or have a good lawyer, he will win the case and even not married the girl.

With valid strong evidences, she tempted the man and made him slept with her.

I am looking for clues on how to justify the man.

Clues like, she tempted him, she opened her laps so that he could see what she wore..etc.

The question now is," who forced who?"

Who first touched who?

Who removed whose cloth first?

Where did the act took place?

Now, another girl can't come to a guy's house and the guy would expect the girl to start first.

So does it, a guy can't come to a girl's house and the girl would expect the guy to start.


With the assumptions above, I think the teacher started it first and he is older than the girl.


The teacher has a lesser chance of going scott free, but it could be possible.

But why didn't she tell them at first that she had slept with her teacher?


Because she did it intentionally.

Now she noticed she is pregnant and decided to tell her parent. This shows that the girl was at fault and to be blamed.


These are among the things the lawyers will check and wanna know so as to know how to save their clients.

Free the man and let him marry the girl.

Case closed.

Had it been I knew the man and he told me his story of how he feels depressed, I would have helped him overcome the depression with a book written by Vincent.P

It's so sad seeing people committing suicide. Suicide is not the solution but the reasoning perspective.

When you subjects yourself to pessimistic thoughts, worry or anxiety comes and starts weakening your system there by making you feel dejected.



When a person wakes up, he or she decides if he/she wanna be happy or sad. This decision is to be taken by you.

Some people when they didn't make any sale for the day, they become angry. When they are home, they channel their angers on their children. Some men on their wife, some women on their children which is very bad. Always put up a smiling face even if business ain't booming well. You will still be happy and treat people around you with love.


Let reason an incident that had happened at a viewing centre.

A man was watching football, he had a team he supported which happened to be his favourite.

In first half at 40:23, his team was loosing 3-0, he became angry and started frowning his face. He also cursed the players in front of the display tv.

After I had noticed how he was and his capricious attitude. I walked up to him and told him to stop doing that to himself.

I said to him," sir, why are you doing this to yourself? you look terrible and unfriendly at the moment, please stop this shouting and abusive words on players."

He said that they made him angry and played as if they ain't paid.


I brought my chair close to him and I told him that he should see what's happening to him. I told him that he could be happy again and he said never with this 3-0 at half time.



I told him that as this second half was about to start, that he should choose the team that would make him happy.

I suggested he chose the team leading with 3-0 and forget about the losing team of his.

Second half started we both started supporting the team leading 3-0, in five minutes time, it was 4-0.

His mood changed for better and he was saying good things about the team leading like; what a nice pass, I love that dribbling, what an accurate through pass, that number 7 is a good striker...etc.

Happiness came immediately he made his decision on supporting the winning side.

Now tell me, If you were that man, would you prefer to support your losing team and be eaten up by angerness or you prefer to support the other team and remain happy for the rest of the moment of that match?

You see, now from the above, had it been that man taught about his wife,his children, when businesses were booming well, how his wife loves him, how his children call him dad with sweet voices and many more, he wouldn't have committed suicide.


Always think positive and the thought of suicide would never take over your mind.


Let me say my story.

I gained admission into the university which happens to be a month to exam. They have done practicals and tests and I missed that as a result of late admission.

I started reasoning in a negative way. I couldn't sleep,eat, i even lose weight.

As we approached the next month, exams started and I was very studious and sad the same time because of my late admission.

Results were out and out of 14 courses I had F in a 2 unit course, "Foundry" because they didn't organise make-up for those admitted late. Although phy,chem,bio organised theirs but only foundry.

I told myself that there is no need to feel depressed, let me move on.

I celebrated my "F" because I don't wana feel depressed or let the word "F" keep taunting me.

Year two first semester, I added it to my unit and in the end i cleared.

When i was about to check that result, I told my self i need not be scared. Since I did practicals, all three complete, I did assignment, test and exam also. I told my self it's gonna be an "A"

I went straight to the lecturer's office, entered and told him what I had come for. He asked me why I failed it in year one. I told him I was admitted late and I didn't do practicals.

He said he asked me that question because i made "A".

I just smiled and pen down my result and left.



My strength here is that i celebrated my "F", there by making me happy and free of depression as a result of the celebration.

I got freed from depression and I had a better view and reasoning.



So my fellow Nairalanders, no situation warrants suicide. Always remain focus and strong in life.

olanrewaju99:
Now last Saturday of the month is environmental sanitation well it's a nice move.... Lagos pride of Nigeria.

I know you didn't read the post before commenting,but the heading line should have given you an insight.

He should have used it to save his relationship naa.

Two wrongs don't make a right.

That guy should be dealt with seriously. Who knows how many people he and his gangs had killed.

New evil emanating every day. Governments need to tighten the securities in and out of lagos.

Evils that have been happening in Nigeria:

1. Cannibalism
2. Looting
3. stealing
4. Armed robbery
5. Rituals (blood money)
6. Internet scam(cyber crime)
7.One chance motorist
8. Drugs peddling
9. 419ners
10.Kidnapping
11.Organs harvesters
12.Cultism
13.Land grabbing
14.suicide bombing
15.Terrorism
16. Fraud
17. Patricide, matricide, parenticide
18. Rape
19. Selling of infants
20. Tyranny
21. ..............

There are many more, new system keeps coming as time goes on or things gets harder.