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What you feel is normal at your age... every guy goes through it, especially if you're coming out from an average or below average family background.

You're just confused about life, that's it... and like I said earlier, its normal... ladies go through it also but in their case, its the pressure to find a spouse & get married.

As guys, we come to a point where we want to start working & making money and when things don't pan out the way we planned it, confusion & fear sets in..

Since you said you don't enjoy what you're currently doing, I would have suggested that you should write out the things u love doing & build ur work around them, but I'm sure it won't work.

... it'll probably take a couple of weeks & you'll return back to the way you're feeling presently.

This is Nigeria & you don't need to enjoy what you're doing as a work... As a matter of fact, it's in doing what you don't enjoy that you discover the things you enjoy doing.

You may not enjoy the job you have or the job opportunities that are coming at you, that's okay! But go out and do the job still... what matters is that you're not idle. As you go on, things will become clearer to you and you'll adjust easily as they come... because you've not been idle, you've been working, learning, establishing contacts, etc...

You're still young, so there's enough room to make mistakes with ur choice of job, you'll learn as you go.

Don't stay in the house thinking on what to do when you have job opportunities open to you... time is going! Get involved in any job & give your best to it, if you don't enjoy it now, it'll be what will lead you to the job or thing you enjoy doing... life is a journey!

PS; I wish I could talk to you, it'll be better...

This is nice OP... You said the urge is intense in the first 14 days, so what did you do to not relapse & fall back to masturbation in that time?

ravensckar:
Honestly, when I read one-sided write ups like these, I feel appalled. Ain't there two sides to a coin any more? The so-called 'desperation' from ladies may not always be what you think. It could be a way of saying their own mind is made up. They have no more time to waste.

Now, let me shock you with my own story. When I met the lady I'm married to today, she told me straight up that she's not in for any long term relationship. She's almost done with school and that if the relationship won't lead to marriage, I should jejely excuse her. Me being the 'guyman' that I was then, I wanted to chop and clean mouth. I sha played along with the intent to chop until I'm full. Now, therein lies my confusion; the said lady in question was everything I wanted in a woman (beautiful, educated, well behaved, God-fearing and highly industrious). But I have just one problem; I wasn't ready for marriage. Money no dey, even the job I was doing then, salary was around 70K.


She sha encouraged me that we should pull our resources together and that we'll survive. Long story cut short, I decided to give it a shot. After all, person wey dey ground no get anywhere to fall to. We got married in less than 4 months of dating. When I mean married, I mean a proper and elaborate wedding. Brethrens, today we're still together. Yes, she's not perfect just like I'm not as well, but we are still happily married.

It was later I understood the reason for her 'desperation'. She had wasted too much time dating some Bleep boys, hence, she felt she has no more time to waste. To her, if it's not going to lead to marriage, then, she shouldn't even venture into it. What we guys see as 'desperation' to some ladies, it's called making up their mind.

Sincerely, this is the best comment I've read on this thread... there's nothing wrong with a lady stating clear to a guy the direction she wants for her life and relationship. You don't call that desperation.

When a relationship fails the ladies tend to lose more, so it's only normal that they will do their best to build a solid relationship... a lot of times, the ladies don't really want marriage instantly, they just want to be sure that the guy they are dating has solid plans to settle down someday and they are top on that plan especially now when commitment scares a lot of guys

Your rabbit is beautiful... I've been contemplating getting one for myself but I heard they chew a lot and I'm scared of it chewing valuable stuffs...

I'm following your diary to learn what I need to know about rabbits before I go on to get one for myself.

Kubernetes:
If the python isn't killed.
How long will it take the ante to digest?

It could take months or even a whole year to digest that antelope completely... it's why they can stay for long without eating.

seankafor:
But I wanna ask, how will this digest in this python stomach had it been it wasn't caught?

All these snakes that swallows big objects,how do these things digest?

Stomach acid... they have very strong stomach acid that digests anything including bones & horns..

Nicklaus619:
You can get a dog, my own job requires my time, and I leave my house as early as 6-7am.
Below is my dog, his name is chance, I got him at a tender age. He is 9 months now.

This is how I train him
1. I potty train him to poo in the toilet, and I leave my toilet door open, I live alone in a two-bedroom duplex and he stays in the veranda with protector whenever I leave for work, fortunately my toilet is located at the veranda and I leave the door open for him.

2.i feed him twice ones in the morning and the other at night

3. I exercise him 3 times in a week because his energy level is very high

4. I love dogs to the core and dude is security alert all time, he refuse to be friendly with my neighbors even though he know them very well, he will bark and charge at them if anyone comes close to my door .

Nice dog... what breed is this pls?

Tigers are stronger n bigger than lions, that means they have the advantage already... but if you're bringing both animals to face each other pound for pound (same age, weight etc), then the result will be 50/50...

I think the lion will win...

Adult male lions are known to rarely hunt. Their main task is to protect the pride from rogue lions looking for a pride to take over. And there are many records of male lions fighting to the death to protect their pride.

In the case of a tiger its different... they are solitary, so they hunt alone whether male or female... a tiger will usually back off from having a serious fight with another tiger so it doesn't get injured and unable to hunt..

This is to say, the lion has more fighting experience than the tiger and I see it as a key factor in fights like this...

By the way, I see a lot of people rating tigers above lions in aggression, you should go and read again... An adult male lion is far more aggressive than a tiger (even a Bengal tiger that's known to be very aggressive)..

Habit has made it that way...

To an extent the tiger is king of its habitat n it doesn't really have much competition for food...

For a lion, they are top predators but they still have to battle with animals like hyenas, known to be ferocious... this alone ensures that the male lions is always aggressive and battle ready.

Benz4pimp:
i have 7 at the moment,at first I left them in a big cage,one day I felt they should play around the house.Thank God I was around,from wood to books to rubber gloves,they chewed everything....I don’t know why nigerians hide the truth all because they want to sell...Most of sellers block me on IG because I always let people know

So, is there a way to stop them from chewing things?

Skyloloprince:
4 months Neapolitan mastiff for sale:
Location port harcourt
08066105842

How much?

I've been in this space before so to an extent, I can say I understand how it feels... the truth is, there's no force holding you back. You're just attached to her emotionally - 7 years relationship isn't childs play...

Clearly there's nothing for you in that relationship, so you just have to leave... forgive yourself, forgive her and move on... eliminate everything that connects you to her - pictures, gifts n even her phone number... unfriend her on Facebook, unfollow her... just do away with everything that connects you to her. It'll be difficult but you'll be fine in a couple of months... takia

lilfreezy:
Wild animals can be tamed, if you raise them from infancy they will no longer see you as food. People have wild animals like lions tiger, leopards, pythons and comodo dragons as Pets. It all depends on how much bond you've formed with them.

At the same time, an ordinary dog can kill you, this is because people don't treat them with love and care like they are part of family, some people prefer chaining them up all day for security purposes, thereby turning them into wild animals .

No doubt, they can be trained... but even the most tamed of wild animals still has that instinct of being wild. It's like a programme that had been written already.

It only takes one little thing n that programme kicks in... theres a reason they are called wild animals, its because they are better off in the wild

NoGender:
All of the people that commented above either do not have sense or they're so myopic oh my?

Like.. in 2019 —2020 already, somebody would come and start telling you this night read children's story and you would believe.
This story is a mere fable. And to think that some of y'all calling Lalasticlala already, like what? He should come and do what? Smh

One plot of land in Lekki for you bro... in OP's mind, he has dropped one shocking discovery to save lives. Lol.

I believe in letting animals in the wild be, but this story is just one terrible folktale & surprisingly a lot of people just believed it.

Even if I decide to believe the story self, is it the python in that picture that will eat an adult human? Does it make sense that the Python will stop eating simply because its measuring itself for a big meal? Won't it need to grow bigger to eat a meal that big? If it stops eating, how will it grow to eat the meal self? Mtchewww.

PS: it's never been recorded anywhere of a python eating an adult human.

Heavance:
The cool adage is made for Africa.
Asians see Tiger as the king of the jungle, and it can hunt down a crocodile on its own (I still wonder why Lion is king, when it is not among the top 5 bravest, or even the top 5 apex predator)

Comments like this are really laughable... the tiger is bigger cat compared to the lion & even stronger, but what you must know is that the lion is not regarded as king of the jungle because of its size or strength.

The lion is called king of the jungle because of its majestic appearance & attitude.

First of all, the mane of the Male lion resembles a crown on its head n gives it a kingly appearance. For most predators, the female of the specie is usually the leader e.g Hyenas, wild dogs, wolves but its different with lions. The Male of any lion pride is the highest ranking, it's why its allowed to eat first when the pride makes a kill.

The male lion is also the protector of the pride. It'll protect the pride against other predators, mostly nomadic male lions looking for a pride to take over. Lions are very brave, they'll confront anything & they hardly give up during a fight to defend their pride.

When you look at this qualities/characters & match it to humans, you'll observe they are common with the same characters seen in kings.... this is why lions are called kings of the jungle, they live and conduct themselves like kings.

Then about tigers hunting down crocodiles, there are different types of crocodiles n they differ in size, strength & aggression... the biggest crocodiles are usually saltwater crocs (found mostly in Australia & some parts of Asia) and Nile crocodiles (found in Africa)... a full grown saltwater or Nile crocodile has no predator, not even an hippo. (Its possible for an hippo to be able to kill an adult croc, but at that level they rarely get attacked by hippos). A tiger is certainly not a match for an adult saltwater or Nile crocodile.

Finally,

That you see a lion avoiding a crocodile on land doesn't mean it can't attack and kill it... these animals are smart & they respect each other's territory as predators. They would always avoid confrontations by all means so not to risk injury - an injured predator is as good as dead. But if it comes down to life n death, an adult Male lion is formidable and feared by virtually all land animals, even crocodiles...

Mynd44:
Can you really pick one? Because with the right maintenance, you will drive either until their parts fall off on the road and even after that, you will still find someone to buy them.

Coupled with the availability of parts and mechanics, I can't pick? Just go for the one you find more appealing.

This is the answer you need @OP

Originalsly:
The write up is a lie. You really don't have a clue of the power of a constrictor snake that size. Forget about the girl.... the strongest man you ever know wouldn't stand a chance with that size snake.

Have you ever read or seen anywhere of any adult human death that was confirmed to have been caused by any giant constrictor?

If yes, pls share link with me, I would like to see it too.

Maybe I decide to believe that a full grown anaconda(not python) should be able to take that girl down. A full grown is over 10 ft long, so at that size, it has the strength to strangle the girl. But not the python in this post bro, it's not big enough to strangle that girl...

This story is a big lie...

Its not possible for a python that size to strangle that girl

FunnyDude:
Not runs girl bro.. she's a mummy's girl. She know i dont check chats so she is relaxed. I hitted her unaware.

It works bro. This is 2019. I learnt it here last month.

See ehn..you can hack into anyone whatsapp.

This is how it is...

Enter this

https://www.web.whatsapp.com

You'll see a Barcode scanner on the site.

Collect the person's phone. Go to their whatsapp look for web whatsapp at the top right hand tick.

Scan your device and the other person. Youll be logged in and can read the person's past chat.

This is not hacking... All you did was to sync her whatsapp account to be viewed via web.

Its actually meant for desktop users...allows a user to use WhatsApp on their computer & smartphone simultaneously

People will always find a way to disrespect & talk down on a pastor & Christianity(somehow I don't blame them).

Pastor Eneche's miracle experience are even too small...what will people now say if were to be recreational miracle e.g restoring back an amputated leg.

This is beyond human knowledge & understanding. You just have to believe (have faith) & know that God is not man, he's not affected by man's limitation.

Its a not a surprise to see people bash PST Enenche online. Things like this can NEVER be understood by ordinary men, to them its a mystery...For the very keys to understanding such things has been given only to believers.

jayson87:
the guy said he designed payoneer... LWKMD

I think what he meant is that he designed a site similar to payoneer to process payment and its how he collects credit card details from his victims

The world has gone mad

Lolsss... Sharp guy! Retire from Senate & become Governor in your state...

@OP, look for sulphuric Ointment, buy it and rub on affected area. It will fix you in less than a week...I think the name Aqualsulphur (I've forgotten the name but it's not far from what I Spelt), it's an anti fungi cream

Maroghene:
m./home doesn't open on chrome but does on opera and every other browser.

Have u tried using chrome in a different device and it still didn't open? My chrome opens the site, so my guess will be that the site is blocked in your chrome browser.

Give an example of the sites you're talking about...It's possible such site has been blocked in your chrome browser

chadahh:
local setting. they should have dimmed the bright lights and put a spotlight on david. the boy looks terrified sef

You won't blame them... They are not used to making such grand entry

All this points don't apply at OP... The questions you ask on a date depends on how the conversation is going.
Just be yourself as a guy and know how to hold a good conversation, that's all you need.

7Alexander:
'His' baby lion indeed. If you know what it costs to cater for a big cat, you won't mention Runtown and baby lion in the same sentence

Seriously bro! Feeding that cat for 1yr is enough to make him go broke even with his music earnings

No doubt op, it's your faith in Christ that makes you a Christian, however, the faith in Christ you talk about has to be confirmed by works.

Do you fear God enough to desist from the things that don't please him? Are you walking in Christ's image in your day to day activities? Is there an explicit difference in lifestyle between you who's a Christian and people who are not?

The work is what proves You a Christian, not claim of faith that nobody sees

Good standards are dead in our society... There used to be a time when as a guy or lady you will be scared to come out to say you have a child outside wedlock, because society will surely frown at it. Now it's no longer so now, because we've now found a way to make what's wrong sound cool - Baby Daddy, Baby mama

FunnyDude:
Some people don't have the opportunity of going to school, here you are talking about 2.2 bullshit.

For the record, I'm even regretting why I went through school and wasted FOUR years.. Bullshit

Instead of going into entrepreneurship earlier and employ people like you, pay you like 100k monthly.You'll be happy right?

You think 2.1 is the end of it all?

If you don't have the creativity and brain you may die poor even with your salary as 2.1 holder. Bullshit graduate

I graduated with a 2.2, but my colleagues with 2.1 are not better than me. Why? I developed myself to be a better person.

It got to a stage I no more look for a job because I'm not happy being locked down from 9-5.

Registered my company name with CAC recently.

Get that freaking Skill-->Save Up--> Start a business.

You better open your eyes to opportunities around you, till then I wish you success.

This is the best comment I've read here on this matter... Op, you are there pitying yourself and complaining of how you've been at a teaching job for 3years not knowing it's this attitude that is keeping u there.

It's okay that u don't like your current state, decide on what you want to do next and start doing it. There's no time to start telling pitiable stories, probably looking to get succour.

I know of so many young people who had to drop out of school because of financial issues, currently they will pay you a 100k salary comfortably without having to sweat.

Stop complaining & move... You can't stay doing one thing consistently for 3 years n not see increase...jus keep moving

These ones are the problems we are facing in this nation, confused and insensitive people. The worst is that there so many of them scattered everywhere around the country.