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I agree with all the comments that have been dropped already regarding this matter.

Lady M shouldn't even be a consideration at all.

You’re thinking of marrying her because of physical attributes, but I can promise you it won't last. Looks fade, and it doesn't take so long. It's like buying a new car. After a while, the excitement reduces.

What you should be more concerned about is value & character, and from what you described, Lady M lacks it. She has serious baggage from her background & you can't handle it.

For Lady J, forget it. The fact that she easily accepted marriage despite the distance is a reason you should be careful. She's looking for a helper - someone to upgrade her life.

If I were you, I would go for Lady H - that's if you’re physically attracted to her. If you’re not, step back & find someone else. But if the attraction is there (alongside those other things you mentioned before), then get closer to her. Date & vet her properly. Also, stop discussing marriage plans until you’re sure you want to be with her. She may be pretending because she sees you’re desperate to settle down. Hold off on the marriage talk with her & any other lady you meet too. Ladies are smarter than we men give them credit for.

canada123:
I finally broke up and I feel so bad within myself,

Breaking up is so terrible and can be heartbreaking for the other person. But I just had to do it to possibly get a chance at healing and figuring out myself

Also I don’t think I would ever do long distance relationship again .

I support your decision to break up with her. However, I don’t think it will have a significant positive impact on the issue you’re dealing with. A long-distance relationship like the one you were in is often not worth the investment, especially given the level of betrayal and dishonesty we see these days.

I also wouldn’t advise you to jump into another relationship or seek marriage right now. It’s not the solution to your problem. Mentally, emotionally, and psychologically, you’re not in the right state to date anyone at this moment. You need to first address your addictions. Any relationship now would only be a distraction from that process. In the early stages of a new relationship, you might get the sexual satisfaction you desire, but it’s only a matter of time before you start seeking something new, potentially leading you back to old habits. You need to tackle this issue head-on without any distractions.

Sex isn’t bad; it’s a beautiful gift designed by God. But pursuing it without self-control is where the problem lies. This is your challenge - you lack control. Even though you didn’t go through with it, the fact that you considered paying $1,500 for an hour with a total stranger with whom you have zero emotional attachment is proof enough.

The good news is that you recognize this as a problem and are willing to fix it. But from my analysis, it’s not something you can fix on your own. You need additional help and someone to hold you accountable - that’s probably what you’ve been missing all along. I’m willing to set aside some time for us to talk more about this and guide you toward the urgent help you need. If that’s okay with you, send me a message, and we can set up a call.

Has it been used for Arbitrage before? If yes, what was the traffic source?
Has it been limited before?
Is it linked to any ADX platform?

slim75d:
I've been dating this girl for about 14 months now, yesterday she mistakenly left her phone unlocked with me, I stumbled into her WhatsApp messages, I realized she's been reaching out to her ex, begging him that she wants him back. The guy vehemently refused her, he even threatened to block her. From what I saw in the message, he was her first guy. I have not confronted her about it, right now I don't know what to do.
Please, I need a reasonable advice.

“Right now you don’t know what to do?”

Someone is using you as a placeholder for her real lover, and you’re here claiming to not know what to do.

The truth is that you know what to do - your head has advised you already - but you’re too weak to take that action. Maybe, you’re telling yourself you won’t meet another girl like her.

EreluRoz:
After doing some findings about the family my parents discovered that the mother(a politician) calls the shot in their family while her dad is relegated and emasculated.

My brother's fiancee has been crying her eyes out and my brother has been down and I feel for them because my dad's position is final and strongly backed by my mom(always supporting him in every issue) . Well, myself too supports my dad because he can never go wrong in my eyes but I'm pitying them.

I'll miss her delicious meals whenever I visit my brother but it is what it is.

Is this a good reason to stop couples from getting married?

I support your Father’s decision 100%. Your bro is in love. He will convince himself to believe the girl is different from her mum, but it’s not always the case. He will marry her & before you know, her mother will be the one calling shots in his home, through her daughter.

In time, your bro will understand what your father did for him & appreciate him for it.

AdexAyanfe:
Guys. Please i need your urgent help, how can i a dog (local dog) from pooing 💩 at a paticularly spot (not my dog but my neighbour's). It has really caused so much misunderstanding between my neighbour and I. The dog has no leash and moves around as it pleases. (I count their stubbornness as irresponsibility).
Please I want a permanent solution to chase the dog away from my spot.

anytime it poops, take it to that spot & give it a few spanks. It will get the msg & stop going there to poop.

anytime it poops, take it to that spot & give it a few spanks. It will get the msg & stop going there to poop.

How come nobody is talking about the budget? Will 4.5m buy any of these cars?

Bass Guitar, followed by drum.

rainlover:
Seriously men need wise up. We gats split the bills 50/50.
Las las she go still claim gender equality..

If I respond to this the way it is in my heart, you’ll probably call me a simp, so I won't.

But i’ll drop this still - there's nothing as beautiful & satisfying as you providing 100% for a woman that respects you & is joyfully submitted to your leadership. There's a special feeling that a man gets from doing this.

Human being - MI, 2baba & Sound Sultan
Natural Mystic - Bob Marley
Victims - Lucky Dube

Foreign used? Where’s location??

I rarely comment here, but ur thread got my attention, so I’m dropping a comment on it.

For a 60k earner, if you’re not giving anything to ur gf, it’s not a bad thing cux I imagine the 60k is barely enuf for u. But, instead, u’re able to squeeze 5k to give to her monthly. That’s enough bro. With the little u make, if u’re able to give her from that, it means u’ll def give her more as ur income increases… and she should be okay with that.

Don’t let urself to be pressured to giving her more than u can afford because she compares u with other guys. It’s not wise…

And you might want to evaluate ur relationship with this girl. If she’s aware of what u earn & still compares with other people, it says so much about her character. It’s an issue that shouldn’t be ignored.

Disrespect, Laziness, poor hygiene

Yes… I cried watching “Miracle in Cell 7”

I’m in PH, and I’m interested… What’s wrong with the car?

Yeah. Events like this are quite strange, but they happen, especially with female animals.

I’m guessing it’s a female leopard that recently lost her cub(s). As a mother, her body is probably secreting hormones that support motherhood & that’s what was driving her reaction to the baby baboon.

Another reason would be that cats are playful & they are known to play with their food a lot, but the leopard found the baby baboon while hunting, so it was obviously hungry. An hungry cat won’t play with its food.

Ilamina:
The doctor told him, the only way for him to live is to cut off his leg �

But Bob Marley said in rastafarianism
They don't believe cutting off body parts

He said he will rather die than live with one leg

So the infection, later killed him

That's why I felt bad when I lost my hair
It's not right

You came to the world with two legs, two hands
So we leave the world like that

It was his toe that was infected not leg and the cause of his death is cancer, Melanoma cancer.

Start a training program. You have great digital skills that a lot of people are looking to learn & will be willing to pay for. Create courses to teach what you know & sell them. It’s the easiest, cheapest & most profitable business you can start.

iLegendd:
Choose One or Two and Tell Us How You're Doing It or How You Did It.

Answer only one or two of them. This is to motivate or give insight to others.

1. MAKE: How are you making money?

Or

2. SAVE: How are you saving / how did you save the small/big money you made?

Or

3. INVEST: How are you investing / how did you invest the small/big money you made?

Or

4. SPEND: How are you spending / how did you spend the small/big money you made?

Or

5. PLAN: How/where do you plan to make money?

1. Working a 9-5 with a tech company based in PH, affiliate marketing, blogging, freelancing, coaching.

2. I only spend money from my 9-5 (salary), the rest of my earning is saved, either in dollars or naira, depending on the job & client.

3. Personal development - I'm constantly getting new courses to improve my skillset. Recently, i'm investing a lot in financial education (stock & crypto trading). I also invest in properties & in human development (helping other people).

4. Personal upkeep, staffs, family & friends.

5. How I make money is online. I give value to people with the skills that I possess & they pay. My plan is to acquire more skills, so I can earn more.

lilvicky68:
Ofrima..

Uniport

Pls house, I'd like a comparison between lexus es350 & Infiniti G35x... which of them is okay for a first time car owner, considering factors like purchase & maintainance cost, performance & reliability?

There's really no reason to play hard here.

The truth is that you like her. So if your heart is leading you to call her, then go ahead & make the call.

It won't kill you.

You can also let her know that with the first date you guys had, you expect her to start treating you like a friend & reach out sometimes... atleast know what she will say.

Most ladies are used to guys chasing them. It takes time for them to get comfortable with you, but when they eventually do, you'll be glad you chased.

The main thing is you knowing for how long you're meant to chase - you're not meant to chase forever.

Don't waste your time trying to think & understand the reason for her actions. Its fruitless... make the call, have whatever conversation you need to have with her. By all means satisfy your heart pls.

Just look at the quality of people I'm sharing a country with... she even said "2021 is all about doing a tattoo of your favourite celeb"... lolss

IceColdVeins:
My brother unknowingly marched on this reptile in our compound around 10 pm and it bit him in reprisal. Kindly help identify.
He’s in the hospital now though
I need to identify this creature

Its better you take the dead snake to the hospital, the person in charge of creating the antidote should be able to identify the snake or you can take the snake to a herbalist (if there's any around your vicinity), they should be able to tell the exact snake it is.

... wishing your brother a quick recover

Karlovic:
This thief will always find enticing tales to tell his sheep that will make them part away with their hard earned money so as to fund his flamboyant lifestyle.

Even if you don't have respect for his office as a man of God, atleast respect his age... calling him, a 78 years old man a thief (for no reason) only exposes your low, poor upbringing. God will help you

Debbie34:
I completely disagree with you 100% and i will show you a video to prove my point( Visit link below to watch a male lion killing a leopard.)
Before i send the link for you to watch i need to state that a leopard can kill a Gorilla...Take note: A Gorilla is stronger than 20 adult humans combined)
Now you can go and watch the video and see for your self how a lion single handedly took out a leopard..the leopard fought back ofcuz but a lion is bigger, stronger and skilled in battle...Only a tiger can contend with a lion and live to tell the tale
The only advantage of a jaguar is bite force and that alone can't help it, i'm sorry my friend but a tiger will destroy a jaguar in a matter of 2 minute tops.

I uploaded the video for you to watch(Link below)

https://thewildanddomestic.com/audience-watch-as-lion-defeated-a-tiger-in-arena/

Nice post OP... it's TRUE what you said Tigers being more powerful that jaguars. The jaguar is strong but size matters in battles like this & a tiger is far bigger than the jaguar. So there's just no chance for the jaguar...

By the way, the video you attached; its actually a cheetah the lion killed, not a leopard.

Boss... u dey here too

The most important skill online is SELLING... your skills are great, but you need to learn how to sell them to prospects.

Spend the next 1 or 2 months to master Paid Ads.

Start with Facebook, it's easier to learn... Master how to drive traffic from Facebook Ads to your website.

You can later advance to Google & YouTube (but Facebook first)

With the things you know already you can be making money even if you don't have customers... there are a lot of people at home who seriously interested in learning a digital skill, especially students. You can turn what you know to a course & sell to them.

The only problem is locating them online... this is why its important that you master how to drive traffic online.

Traffic from Paid Ads... notice I didn't mention organic traffic & SEO. Its take time to get results, you don't need them.

I see someone mentioned Admob... Yes, it's a good way to make money online just like Adsense (its actually the same thing with Admob just that it runs on web)... there's also CPA, affiliate marketing, etc...

The BOTTOM LINE is that you need traffic to make any of these ventures work.

Invest your money & time to learn master Paid Ads... Paid Ads are very cheap when you're targeting Nigerians because the competition is low... so learn it, it's the best thing you can do for yourself.

You might also want to add list building & email marketing to what you'll learn... At this level, you won't have to pay everytime for traffic.

There are lot of Facebook Ads related courses on YouTube... Also, check out channels like - Peng Joon, Kevin David, Miles Beckler... they have good videos on FB Ads.

If you have cash, I'll you to buy a course on Udemy... your learning will be better organized with Udemy unlike YouTube videos.

Take care

GOT
The originals
Vampire diaries

Raydos:
Most of these people attacking Adeboye are a result of broken homes ooo, Some of them their parents ain't together anymore!!

But you will see them online condemning a man who has spent over 50years in relationship with the love of his life, telling him what to do!!

Very true... a lot of these ladies come out online to form woke, misleading younger ladies, but in secret they are dying...

Pride won't allow them to acknowledge that they need help...

In a time where it's so difficult to see people stay married for a long time, without any form of scandal or negative report, you find a man who has been with his wife for 50 years and instead of following him closely to learn something, you run him down to show that you're civilised...

Its really crazy... it's this stupid civilisation on the role of a man & a woman that is causing the marital issues we see today in society.

It's well!