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ForensikOrder:
Hey Labake1, first off, congratulations on landing the job! After such a long search, e must feel like a big win. Now, concerning wetin your husband talk, e dey important to approach this matter with plenty understanding and also stand firm for your own rights and career aspirations.

E be like say your husband dey feel threatened by the prospect of you earning more than him, which might be stirring up some insecurity or societal pressures about roles within marriage. However, it’s key to remember say marriage na partnership, and success for one partner na success for the other.

One approach could be to have a deep, honest conversation with your husband about how this job opportunity is not just about the money or the car, but also about your personal growth, your contribution to the family, and the fulfillment of your career goals. Emphasize how this could benefit the entire family in the long run.

You fit also explore why he feels the way he does. Sometimes, these feelings stem from deep-seated beliefs or societal expectations about gender roles. Understanding where he's coming from can help you address his concerns more directly.

Encourage a mindset of teamwork within your marriage. Make am clear say you value his input and support, but also highlight how your professional growth and financial contributions could bring positive changes to your family’s life.

It might help to set joint goals for your family’s future that this job could help achieve, be it owning a home, saving for children's education, or investing in a business. Showing how your job aligns with these shared goals can help shift the perspective from competition to cooperation.

If e dey possible, consider seeking the counsel of a neutral third party, like a marriage counselor, who fit help mediate the conversation and provide professional advice on navigating this kind of challenge.

Lastly, remember say your career and personal growth are just as important. It’s essential to find a balance between your relationship and your individual aspirations. A supportive partner should want to see you succeed, just as you would want for them.

Thank you for the advice

Dzzzz:
..He see girl,he like,he buy phone,he toast,he Bleep,he love,he do shopping,he pay rent,she do birthday,he do paranran,she bring sister,he pay for lodge,she see man friend,he carry her to club,she see pretty mike,she no go house,man friend pay another day for lodge,bf call,she cut call,she call bf,he vex,he para,he cut relationship,she beg,he remember yansh,he call,he drink,he smoke,she say no yansh,he say yansh please,she say small small,he Bleep,he see ring for yansh,she go,he block her,he advice us..The End...I try Na 😂😂

You try well, come take kuli kuli

BscHolder:
you're welcome.
Can we talk via email?

Yes

Verbtips:
ha much

Don't worry about salary

drlateef:
Waa alaikumu Salam warahmatulahi wabarakatuhu. I remember we chatted some time ago.

Yes, your name looks familiar

Karlifate:
Dear HR,

I will accept Jeff Bezos net worth for a start.

Deal or no deal.

Warm regards,
Karlifate.

Eheen, send your CV let's see if you are qualified

Job vacancy

I am looking for someone that can summarize the above post.
Salary is attractive

Kriss216:
I cook very well and you like me.

I like men that can cook and do house chores

Eyah, You used Bobrisky to risk your movie. Waiting for movie box to upload the movie

BscHolder:
you're a young lady that I love so much and have feelings for.
Don't join the group of no future ambition touts like goodlady turmacs euoniaa candidlady and the rest of the trolls.
You're special, stand out and separate from them as you have a bright future ahead of you.

Thank you Sir

drlateef:
Assalamu alaikum warahmatulahi wabarakatuhu

Waalekum Salam Alhaji
How is fasting going?

Ohferanmi:
I don't have any Quranic verses to back my suggestion

Stay back to care for your dad and family business

Allow your wife to go abroad to practice

Marry a second wife
Be traveling at intervals to visit your wife abroad while she also come around on holidays

Coming from a female
If he marries another wife then the wife should get another husband

Focus on your father's business in Nigeria and let her go abroad for her career with her child you can always visit. When everything is better, you can get a good person to management your business then you move abroad

Goodlady:
Going well Hajia.
Assalamualaikum.

Waalekum Salam Haija

BscHolder:
so you're Muslim too?

Yes I am

How is fasting going?

MrsAminaBello:
hi is your mail active?

Yes

TheFinesseKid:
All these ones no know say she dey troll? Who dash am husband?

Ki lo mean

Wawelexy:
Hope your hubby is not a nairalander?

No, he is not

jamesversion:
Something that posted on twitter (X) days ago.

Everyone can have a similar problem

Olachase:
that was how i sent Mercy 5k transportation money from Edo to Lagos
today makes it 2years, 3months, 17 days, 5hrs Mercy still day inside motor


since then any mercy way i catch i no day show them Mercy

their namesake don collect everlasting loan

As Mercy's Lawyer, her phone lost then so she no fit reach you that year. Bring evidence make we pay you

gfelo:
Please nairalanders my girl friend had a baby for me 3years ago and I promise to marry her, but due to the nature of my work am not always around, suddenly the mother in law called me and ask me about my genotype that the school the went to enrolled my baby is asking for my genotype.

I can't really understand why the school is asking for my genotype.

Please doctors and teachers help me.

Mod please to front-page

Am I the only one not seeing anything wrong in knowing your genotype? Is not like babalawo can do anything about it. Tell her and stop the headache

Gosh!!!!

jeromestarks:
What are you saying sef?
He doesn't know how to approach a lady but he got married.
She texted him insults and he acted like nothing happened?
Girl, use your head naaa.
I thought ladies are smarter when it comes to relationship matters. Now I know that not all of them have brains; some just carry poo in their heads.

Go sleep

I got a job after 3 years of searching and the salary is higher than my husband's salary in fact it comes with an official car. Although my husband doesn't have a car yet. After telling him about the offer, he told me that I should reject the job because he won't allow his wife to get richer than him.

What should I do?

Godada:



Take her to knack city.

Shift the pant quick.

Let me drop this quick.

If you get a lady that is into you.

Rush and grab if she meets your specs.

jamesversion:
Knack her sharp sharp. Delay is dangerous.

STI is real

Just like how empty barrel makes the loudest noise, na broke nigga dey always complain.


What if the gift is just a way to express his love for her?
She should ask him what he want?
Some guys don't know how to approach a lady so they just do some actions