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there are pretty much irresponsible men out there, same as the women too, but lets get this straight, alot of single mothers are out there are the architect of there singleness,they forget that at that stage is when they need to display all positive traits, coz if the pregnancy was a mistake the man might see a better person in dem and accept faith,most men are ready to accept faith and move on but these ladies would frustrate the man to leave,but responsible men still take responsibilities no matter what...

Glo is not paying well, you can only get paid well if your environment is expensive, they pay according to the value of the land ,my area which is a new site they paid 300k annually, 5 years is 1.5m..

If you no get money you be simp!

I just dey fear sef like. Dis!

Oga ur wife don see you finish! Simple!

I think topics like this should be directed to the marriage section, if there is any, so that married folks can give better advices, through experience,because advices and comments from these single pringles is off key!

A lot of married folks gets into this kind of issues because of inpatients and lack of understanding, believe me before a man beats his wife, she must have crossed DAT line, ones ur husband start beating you then you should learn and start to change a few things about ur behaviour,if ur husband is shirt fused then for instance never argue,nag,raise ur voice at him, study his mood, before making financial demands, initiate sex, speak to him in all humility,if you do these ur husband will apologize for sins e No commite..
But unfortunately our women will say 5words before their husband say pim! How will he not beat you? You argue and nag because of little things, how will he not flog you? You denied him sex, how will he not slap you at any slight provocation, or refuse to give you financial support? I am not promoting domestic violence o, I will reciprocate The response whenever a man complains about his wife flogging him or denies him sex..

If they are communicating, somehow they would have meet or are planning to meet, these women don't worth the trust or energy most of them are in love with an irresponsible ex they cannot marry or that cannot marry them, instead of them to remain single they will agree to marry an Innocent responsible man, who they did not love but who is capable of taking care of them,to now hoe around the said ex ...a stitch in time saves nine..

If I am a deeper lifer I would be pained too, because her members has no social life. Imagine depriving me of a social life i would have enjoyed,depriving me of swag and all the goodies of life while growing up and the baba to just switched just like dat haba..while we were younger, deeper lifers don't own or watch TV, to say d least, they where extremist now they are victim of it...

CandyOps:
Anger management issues. I don't take it for granted when I notice that a person has anger issues. It's either I return your fire with more fire or I flee the situation.

Understand that there are people who will always be more aggressive & violent than you.

I remember dating a bitch with an unusual high temper for a woman. It was during NYSC. She stayed in my house with me for 2 weeks before I passed over

One hot Wednesday afternoon we had an argument over her indecent dressing. I told her to take off a very short skirt she wanted to put on for a b.day bash. I told her she either had to go alone or go without me if she wore the skirt.

Argument start... By then I done smoke better Benue state kpoli... I no de even see am. After the argument, I lay down to rest but the babe was pacing up & down the room repeating to herself "ah! Na me be this! Benin girl like me!"

Hmmm... Na so I quickly go comot all sharp objects for the house - knives, forks, and razors.

God knows I WILL NEVER overlook such a clear sign.

My sense of security and self-awareness was very heightned because I could sense she has a short fuse. Omo! I had to leave the room till evening.

When I came back I called her out and whined her till I was sure she has calmed down. She later had to suck my dick that 9t to prove she had truly calmed TF down.

My point is this --- DO NOT TAKE PEOPLE FOR FACE VALUE.

You have to be able to read people's true intentions not by what they say but from the small offhand and slightly subconscious remarks they give off -- a smirk, an unconscious sigh or hiss, not happy when you tell a success story, a tight face when you celebrate, never liking or supporting you on SM but tackling you in the comments or liking comments of people who tackle you.

You have to be a Master at reading people.


Your ability to spot & avoid friends or people with passive aggression and drama-affinitty will save you a lot of trouble in life.

If you ignore these signs you will get drawn into their drama and it might be too late before you get out. Trust your gut instincts.

Fcvk her and toss her out of your life because she or he is only an animal who lacks self control and belongs to the street... Niggalations 3:16

You get mind ooo...you let am give you head? What if she decides to bite it off?![code][/code]

Sukusu:
How does the yahoo yahoo work?

Biko ask your friends, i am not a yahoo boy!

PoliteActivist:
You are relying on hear-say. People into it say it doesn't work that way. One guy said they deposited N5m into his account after he completed some terrible things they told him to do. Yes, evil controls certain industries and segments of society but there is nothing supernatural about it. See below

All these stuffs don't come easy, before you go get confirm rituals you go don spend money on some that might not work or yield expected results that's if you dont fall for a scam spiritualists because its not only native babalawo that do it, prophets, Alfas also do it for people and and another thing, some peoples destiny does not align with it, so people like that no matter how much dey try it won't work for them..

I am not here to argue o, but just to share some wisdom..my people there is money rituals ooo, I have not seen the one that money will just appear in wardrobe or Ghana must go before, but I have seen the one of yahoo yahoo, the one that will bring contracts, market sales, the one that a Radom person go just ask uabout a business and boom you don land contract be DAT! business that you start with just 100k DAT will boom in a matter of months and years, anytime the ritual is done you will told to be vigilant because the opportunity go just come like play like play and if you lose guard then its gone, what of the one dat if you should just bid for contract even if it has been awarded out , trust me dey will withdraw it and give it to you,but since I don wise na yahoo yahoo sure pass... Coz anything you do as at that time will be favoured, if you do money ritual and start dating na d jazz go bring client com wey go pay u like say u do
BEC, EDD or Wire wire, even if na binary trading or forex trust me you go hit big as long as you keep to ur side of the agreement. Failure to do ur part leads to death or total bankruptcy..

Op is silly for not puting da grin

They don't look rich to me tho..

Our hypocrisy in this country is on another level...tweeh!

ZAZU

One of the reasons I hate to teach, as a teacher,lectural or a pastor,coz these females are something else no matter their age, If I were a good writer,I would make a good story from my youth corp year, serving as a teacher somewhere in cross river state..

He never know what he his into just yet

Who took d Picture?

Well I believe its because of the tons of responsibilities that lies on our shoulder,even been a mummy's boy or however you choose to paint the picture is one of the toughest responsibilities.. Nobody is controlling anybodies life, the female gender are just naturally selfish and possessive that they want there husband and sons to themselves alone..

sureprince01:
Labo baba... Ile abiye best keeper. Miss u man. Na ur junior be this too o, Alagbon and I are same set.

Howdy gee! Peace out!

Berylpharm:
Waooo, EADHS connect, labo( Adedamola) right?, So we gather here for NL, u still remember me 'Akende' ur mate 08' set....EADHS Alma maters are going places

Wassup akende..from ilawe! Trust u good FAM!

marcusaurelio:
lol labo I sight you bro

Greetings!

Yungspitta:
Ile abiye connect �

Laobo baba....Na Ur old roomie be this ibk

Hey! Wassup bro?

Nice one Ayomide! She was a junior in secondary school! EADHS

At this junction I respect those olosho that are really and truly in the business just to survive and archieve before quitting.. Its better to be an olosho Dan a corpse RIP to the dead

I felt d sam way when, stroke got my mum a couple of years back, i swear dat shit aint funny....thank God she's alit better now...praying 4 u bro