TheSourcerer:
The Anti-woman campaign on NL is wrong, I even made an article about it some years back, sad really

https/www.nairaland.com/6317707/surge-womanhate-redpills-simphood-pussy?iorg_

We really have lost intelligent women here..

Good to know . But that just doesn't stop the fact that the hate train against women has never from time in memorial decrease. The internet just made it more popular hence the reason I had to go back and draw scenerios from history.

Boniwhite:
Downgrading of women will never gonna stop. Nature has placed women to play 2nd fiddle to men, and you people go against nature, and it is fighting back! You cant cheat nature.


em.. I smacked one of your so called ferminist at the atm stand the other day for bypassing quee in the name of ladies first.

i havent seen her fellow so called ferminists sue or arrest me since!


naija women are not created to be loved but for leisure.

Dear women, do you still think my submission is wrong?

You only reaffirmed my submission,so thanks for that.

Again, you didnt respond to my call to start the Islamic treatment with your mother and sisters, Or you only want such for other people and not those close to you?

Misterdhee1:

You're being mischievous. No woman provides all these without having anything to benefit from the marriage. Even when a man stops providing, they still find one reason to stay put not necessarily because they truly love the man.

And wth do you mean by psychologist, emotional cushion and tolerant? Is that some joke?

Oh so women can be loyal?

She a psychologist for the children ,she knows their moods,is the first to sense when something is wrong. She know to to condone their tantrums, pain ,likes ,dislikes,their favorite food,their allergies etc.

Boniwhite:
Because you people could 've set the world on fire if enlightened and empowered.

reason why i hold islamic countries in high regard for the way the treat and regulate their women.

You can as well start by treating the women in your family that way, it's not too late. Just make sure your keep it within your family.

CaveAdullam:


1. Women will always blame men for their lapses and failures. Social media and the advent of feminism, gender equality and inclusion has provided a leeway for women to express their independence, yet, nothing to write home about them.
Even if a woman becomes God, subtract all the men from the equation and they will run heaven to the drain. Even in the Bible fictional tale, Eve caused the fall of man and yet blamed Adam her husband.

2. Not that men don't like women or vice versa but that their sexual selection strategy is conflicting. Women are opportunistic, emotional, instinctual and always goes where the bag is bigger, ladder is higher, and walls stronger: Hypergamy. While men are the ideal lovers: sacrifices and care for the women and children.

The conflict here is that men want women to reciprocate their good deeds but women are unable to do so even when the man falls low. Women always stretches their tiny necks like giraffes to something always higher and forget the good deeds of the man that once treated them with care and love.

3. Men may prefer women for their wombs, vaginas and breasts while women value men for their money, power, status and attention.

However, this conflict as a result of their sexual selection strategy hasn't stopped men and women from coexisting as there has been a whole lot of compromises along the way in order to get better. Simply put, the sexes evolved to be complementary to one another, that is, the strength of one covers for the weakness of the other.

4. You are just cherry picking nonsensical claims: bride price, ritual killings, female genital mutilation blah blah blah to justify your assertions. Of course, you are very wrong.

Female genital mutilation is now a thing of the past even though the cultural reasons behind it was to curb female libido and promiscuity. However, male circumcision is still in vogue, infant baby boys still getting severe pains as a result of sexual hygiene purposes. No two ears hear about this.

Male and female offsprings has been used for ritual killings in the past, reason because the "land must be cleanse of demons causing famine, diseases, drought"...men, women, children all benefited. If you're referring to the present ritual killings in Nigeria, then blame it on female promiscuity, myopic tendency and greediness; same way you'll blame young boys that are killed daily as a result of cultism.

5. You make mention of bride price as if there's anything men gain solely through marriage but rather pains and agony. Men diminish themselves in marriage because they want wives and children to be happy. Despite that, all they get most times is henpecking and inveighing from spouses and sometimes their children. Offsprings are of benefits to mothers and fathers. Even children still prefer their mums to their dads.

6. Men: Short life expectancy. Highest number of homeless people. Highest number of prisoners. Highest number of school dropouts. Longer jail term. Highest number of work casualties. So, what are men enjoying actually?

7. Do you know how many men from yester years has losed their lives as a result of war? If women were truly hated, they would have gone alongside with men to wage war and bring prisoners. But the love men has for women and children, women aren't conscripted, after all, they are the weaker sex.

8. You lots, women and feminists should be grateful to men, had it been possible, you lots would have gone into oblivion long time ago assuming males can reproduce on their own.

"Abeg getat".

Highlights;

1)Eve caused the downfall of man and blamed adam her husband.
2)women are disloyal and opportunistic
3)women only value men for their power , attention and power.
4)Blame the current ritual killings in Nigeria on female promiscuity, myopic tendency and greediness
5) Children prefer their mothers to their fathers.
6)men have the highest number of prisoners, school dropouts ,shorter life expectancy
7)men were the ones that went to wage wars in the past
8 )women as a gender are still existing due to the benevolence of men ,women should be grateful to men.


Dear women,as I was saying;
1) These men believe ,they would still be in the garden of Eden chilling if our predecessor eve had not ruined things for Adam. Hence daughters of eve.But if I recall correctly and my Bible knowledge is still sharp eve blamed the serpent and not Adam ,but hey it won't be sweet if he doesn't add Maggi to twist and spice it up a little bit.

2)He claims men are the ideal lovers who's only duty is to pay bills and lift his feet up meanwhile this modern woman ,goes to the same work(regardless if she earns lower or not) faces the same work related stress as the man , come back home ,takes care of the children ,the house and her husband as well.

3) Refer to number 2

4)He claims male circumcision is still a thing but is not strong on stopping it either,but hey let's just throw that in for the sake of argument.If you want the next generation of boys to be moving around with no cap and their penlses looking like one eyed snakes , your call, you can start the movement.


In this present day, he says if women are used for ritual , then blame it on their promiscuity,greed and myopic tendencies but if men and children are used let's just blame something else ,like "the heart of man".

5) Women change their surnames,battle hormones, give men offspring to carry their legacy to the generation,change her identity,sometimes religion, sometimes drop her dreams and aspiration to meet his needs, but for some reason marriage doesn't favour men. Because they are burdened with paying bills. One then has to wonder how widows and single mothers raised their children alone if paying bills is such a weight of the world for men.

6) If men are the highest prisoners,does that mean men are more criminally inclined? If so just blame women. If men are the highest school drop outs maybe it's because they subscribe more to the "school na scam" slogan,chase money and you will get all the women you want. But hey ,let's blame women for that as well.

7) wars were started by men wanting dominance over the other and wanting territories, and women ended up being the biggest casualties of this testosterone induced wars as they were shared as spoils of war.

8 ) A male nairalander once said the female gender should be totally annihilated, well I guess all women should be greatfull to you men for allowing us to stay on earth then.

Misterdhee1:
Ok, let's say you're right. But will you also accept that no woman loves any man truly and that whatever feelings she has towards him is hinged on his ability to provide?? And that on the other hand, men actually love their women irrespective of their status or ability to support??

I am right, not let's say.


He provides while the woman is the care taker,the therapist ,the psychologist, the emotional cushion, the tolerant, the maid, the baby making machine. Etc. All this regardless of status or "ability to support".

Funmmyastic:
You are right.Nairaland misogynists can keep on denying this fact.

It's a normal reaction from misogynists. Being on the defensive and even calling you toxic for calling out their bullshit is normal reaction you would expect from such people.

Truvelisback:
They weren't denied access to education, neither were they compelled to perform terrible traditions. They weren't even maltreated. Their love was real. They chose to marry whom they love, their parents only guide them. In some cases, where the parents tries to oppose the marriage probably because they think the guy isn't that financially bouyant enough to marry their daughter, she stays strong in agreement with her man to ensure the marriage works out. Now, how many single ladies would the same in this present time?

Are you sure you know your history? Or you are just feigning not to know?

Until you are ready to be sincere ,there is no point for this conversation to move forward.

Truvelisback:
My point is that, their love, loyality, and respect for men they claim to love is based on materialism. I.e his wealth. No woman loves u for who u are, they love u for what u have and can provide for them.

The women of old who you claim had all this things were denied access to education, compelled to perform terrible traditions like widow treatment ,denied inheritance and so on. So if they loved and were loyal in the old days but were rewarded with maltreatment ,it's not surprising that the only excuse you can give for men not liking women is materialism.

Truvelisback:
No, women of old were driven by love for men. They weren't materialistic like nowadays women. The women were hardworking too. The husband may not be earning much but they are content unlike many nowdays women who are opposite. I'm a psychologist. What is in the head of most women is materialism. Nowadays, women love men for what they have or what he can give them(materialism).

If you were compelled to stay with a man because of traditions, you literally have no choice than to accept it.

And your talking about materialism makes it seem like only women of old worked hard because as far as I know I see women everyday hustling .

Truvelisback:
Women of old are far better than women of nowadays. The love of women of old were genuine, very real. No hypocrisy compared to women of our time. That's why u rarely hear divorce of women of the old in our present time. Nowadays, women's love for men is based on materialism. I.e what the man has, not what she can add to make the relationship or marriage work.

Sure ,the only good woman is the woman who " suffered". The one who endured and took bullshit, the one who abandoned her dreams to raise a family.


I hope you also know that the reason many women stayed put in their husbands house in the past was because it was a taboo and stigma for a woman to leave her husband's house? Infact fathers refused to allow their daughters back home no matter what the case may be. In some tribes , the family is stigmatized for allowing their daughters to be divorcees.


Also you talking about women not adding to what men have, I am tempted to ask what the numerous women hustling everyday are doing?

Also just so you know, women of old did farming and trade mostly and farmlands were given by their husbands to take care of the children while all the men did was marry more wives and have more children.

So it wasn't as glamourous as you paint it in those days.

Deicide:
Men don't like you because you females hardly have anything to offer.

Ok.Thats the purpose of this thread.so women can accept the fact that men don't like them ,but thanks for reminding us .

LedRock:
People replying the OP have a lot of time, there are some things you just let be. There is no lint arguing with a delusional human.

And later you will go and tell your wife " I am the head of the house".

Who is now the delusional one? . I expected nothing less from misogynists

Truvelisback:
Let me be honest with u. I think they behaved this way because many ladies are being materialistic. They have made materialism as their basis/condition for their love for men. Did u read on fp abt Natasha, who said, the reason she hasn't been in a relationship/marriage is because she hasn't seen a man that is richer than her.

Let's go back a bit,

So tell me how then did women of old behave to be denied education ,sold off to men and never allowed to return when maltreated?

Popjoan:
so are men liked?

women have been known to make sacrifices to keep marriages right from time. Infact even the bible put that burden on women and the society followed.


So you tell me , would you carry such a burden for someone you don't like? The answer is yes men are liked .

Codepain:

That's not the crux of the matter. I, unlike you know the important and complimentary role played by both gender in society.
I never played down role of mothers.
The point I'm making is males make life easier for females and sensible people don't denied that.
We hired the first female programmer in our company and the only person that's unhappy about her is the female secretary

So? You hired a first female programmer in 2022, so that invalidates the fact that men still see women as evil after the devil?

toujurs:
Don't drag other women into your personal ordeal, you are alone on this your thought. There are women with substance, Grace and they are blessed with a loving man who care about them. Please take your frustrated and toxic mind out of here, almost all the thread you have created are all traits of toxicity.

lol.


So the anti women campaign is ok, but if women decide to accept that they are not liked ,it's toxic. Double standards never seem to end with you male folks,smh

toujurs:
A man can't be compared to a woman, it's simple. You are just frustrated and bitter. Go out and make friends, and stop creating threads, all these introverts will just be behaving like weirdo's

No one said anything about comparison tho. I don't remember where in my original post I made any of such ,you are the one throwing warranted accusations around.


I made points as to why men don't like women. But hey ,it's allowed to have a slow understanding.

BigJoe19:
Ok goodluck to the women. It would be the best thing for everyone.

Exactly, it's best everyone knows where they stand. So expectations are not high .Most women are too emotional to see that they are tolerated simply because men are disgusted with the thought of being alone on earth with just their fellow man.

[quote author=Popjoan post=109956150][/quote] Bullet for who? For this naija? You've got jokes bro

toujurs:
What can you provide for your self with the level of education your parents have given to you, is it not your fellow women that scream about, how they must marry a rich man. How do you expect men to value women, when a price tag has been placed on them, become a rich man and you will have her, and you expect men to value women. You can't eat your cake and have it aunty. Its just few ladies that hustle to provide for themselves, others rely on their boyfriend or husband for support and finances to do anything.

So the only challenges men seem to have is having to make money. Right?

Truvelisback:
I know that u are pouring out ur anger and frustration on men because a man probably broke ur heart.

Nope ,not all.

There has been an anti women campaign on this forum for a long time, so let's not pretend like we all don't know.Infact most intelligent ladies don't like to come to nairaland any more because of the trend that has been going on.


It's only fair that women accept the fact that they are not liked , and serve the hand they are dealt.

YinkaOlusesi:
why are you trying to twist my head? Is man not human being? Is woman not made out of man? Let ur understanding be clear.

If you claim a woman is made out of the man, so she is a sub-man?

toujurs:
See this mumu, abeg take your toxicity out of this forum, All this bitter old early thirties with their frustrations, looking for young girls to drag into their toxic thoughts.

Tell that to your ancestors who thought it was wise to tell a girl child to sit at home while the boy child goes to school.

Codepain:

That's besides the point.
You're saying men hate women when in actual fact men have made sacrifice for women.
Father pay your school fees.
Boss hire you for quotas.
Brothers support your dreams and aspirations.
Husband love you and tolerate your excesses.
What else do you want?
Which gender are rescued first in emergency?
Which gender have a whole ministry dedicated to their well being?
You listed some challenges faced by women.
We faced worse we just don't bitch about it

Mother go through labor pain
Some mothers actually pay school fees
Mother do maid work for her husband and kids
Mother is the psychologist for the child,knows their moods, is the first to know when they are sick .
Wife, tolerate and kill her dreams to raise a family.


So tell us which challenges men go through that women are immune to?

YinkaOlusesi:
no, i tolerate women because God says lets create an helpmate for him which is woman.

So you tolerate women because they are "help mates ", and not fellow humans?

donbachi:
U need prick to think straight.

I guess using your brain is not your forte.

BigJoe19:
Ok men don’t like woman what else

The next phase is for women to put their emotions under control and match the energy and vibe they are served.

donbachi:
Agony of a lesbian.

Put on your thinking cap,that's if you have a brain at all and counter my points.

Codepain:

Everything a girl achieved in this life is because of sacrifice men in her life made for her.
Her father, brothers, husband, male boss etc.
If by merits fewer women will amount to something

Translation ;
Women are lesser than men.

YinkaOlusesi:
It`s just that we can not do without you people. You people are the salt of the earth. Adam admit he collected the apple from the eve. And eve admit she was deceived by the serpent. That`s the problem we are facing till today.

Translation; you tolerate women , because you need them, prolly because of their biological makeup ( breast , vagina and womb) right?

Torosk1:
Speak for yourself

I speak for majority of women.


Or maybe you should counter the points I have made if you feel I am wrong.