A bank ATM once dispensed fake 1k note for me . If I had counted probably would have noticed it before leaving the ATM.

Kobojunkie:
Nice to irresponsible mentally undisciplined grown individuals? Hell no!

All Nigerian needs is a better police system equipped with DNA bank and processing abilities and more awareness of how crimes against women are not to be kept underwraps and many of these same will quickly get their brains reexamined... no one get tell them then.

That will not be in this century ,not with the crop of old people and youths I see .

Their mentality is so skewed and they still hang on to archaic beliefs like ritual killing, witchcraft and the likes .There has to be alot of shedding of such mentality ,else redemption is very far.

Kobojunkie:
Oh, I don’t wonder at all. I am happy to hear when they are thrown in jail not long after they arrive these shores.

No mind dem... dem carry racism for head as if we are all foolish not to realize their depravity is the reason why they end up in jail over here.

Lol ,the bolded ,you are not nice at all .


Funny how they will be the first to say "when will Nigeria be like Europe or America" lol ,where as they move around with skewed mentality and terrible archaic beliefs

Kobojunkie:
It isn't on the rise though. Instead, more gals are refusing to remain quiet about it is all.

Growing up, we had many such perverted old men and guys in my neighborhood. Rumors spread ofcourse about them but no formal reports were made by the victims because society pinned the fault, most times on the victims. The same we see happening here with many of these individuals suggesting the gal be scolded for causing a grown man to have an erection.... "how dare she live her life she way she does when a grown man is unable to control himself as a result..." imagine that.

And you wonder how these kind of men will fair in other continents especially Europe and America especially in the summer where bikinis is the order of the day. Their depravity will land them in trouble and they will claim racism. Alot of damaged folks and sexually repressed folks live on this side of the world and it's seen as normal behavior. Just see the way he was describing his cousin ,so disgusting.

Kobojunkie:
Or even a step daughter....

ROFLMAO

That people are condoning such behavior is even more worrisome little wonder why men sleeping with their daughters is on the rise . Just see the number of men that have agreed with stedygrowth whose opening statement was that what the op is feeling is normal. Like wtf! Too many drepaved perverts on this forum.

Awkabigboy:

Don't mind all these imps without logic, I don't even toast my town gals bc I see them as sisters let alone of a first degree cousin

It's sad that alot of men on this thread see this as normal behavior.smh.

Pathokpo:

It's a totally different scenerio bro. Don't forget he never lived with her nor had much contact with her while growing up. So, she is just like a stranger to him.

So if he has a daughter outside wedluck that never lived with him, by your logic he can also have an erection for his daughter as well.

Kobojunkie:
Having high libido has nothing to do with what OP described. If you don't understand what libido or sex drive means, I suggest you make Google your friend..

Any man getting an erection from seeing his own daughter naked needs to go see a psychiatrist,
not make the gal feel self-conscious for a fault that has absolutely nothing to do with them. In fact I recommend such a man should not be left anywhere around female children at at point unto he has been mentally certified as being safe.

You can't stand bum shorts meaning your daughters are not safe wearing underwear or swimming trunks around you, abi? Go see a shrink abeg!

Nigerians and there lame excuses ehn.....

One has to wonder how many more females around the op need to becareful. His future daughter, wife's sister, maid , neighbor's daughter, secretary, colleage.

To an undeciplined mind like the op, he will always have an excuse as to why he can't control his libido. These are the type of people that should not be left around children ,he seems to be of no control over his sexual urge. And it's no surprise alot of men on this thread see it as normal behavior.

Nonexisting:
If this will help, also check around your location for big stores or rich houses. Chances are that there may be CCTV and one of them might have caught faces while they walked by since they lived in your compound for sometime.

Not a bad idea. Good suggestion.

Oryen:
Security of the food is not guarantee
Money use to build robot and maintenance should pay to people better

Best comment so far.

Joshmodest:
Nick cannon has a country of kids , he's single having fun , having more kids and living his best life ...Baby mama over house wife any day any time !

can you afford child support ? . Or you just want to emulate nick and not the responsibility? .


You probably think he has kids and disappears like most Nigerian men who have no sense of responsibility.

For no reason;



"It's not you, it's me"
"I need space".



See a therapist if you fall into this category.A covert manipulator and a bit of avoidance personality disorder or even worse sociapath which the op seems to be leaning towards as he doesn't even think he has done any wrong and can't seem to understand why telling his gf to give him space and just be friends should hurt her.

Funny how the people commenting only remembered her now thanks to Denrele . Like it or not he is that friend everyone needs.


Most of you won't even remember not to talk of visiting the grave site.

At this rate na ex-convits go full outside soon.

WoundedLamb:


The only thing you need to know is that the need for sex is as natural as the need for better life standards and we are all responsible for the choices we make in quest for both needs. Women are not taking advantage of men's needs more than the men are taking advantage of woman’s needs. Both parties have needs and they are willing to exploit each other. If ladies are doing so because it's an easy way to meet thier needs, then men are doing also because it's an easy to meet theirs without any responsibility. Or didn't your Economics teacher tell you that the customers rule the market? You think olosho business is an exception? If the exchange was banned, the men will survive and the girl will not die. Each will find better ways of meeting thier needs.

What do you think the women should do to stop the societal menace? Start giving sex freely or get into a proper relationship before having sex? The first is illogical and if the second option is really a possibility, then it means men can actually do the same but choose to do it the fast way. The keyword here is "choose". Patronizing olosho is a choice and people should take responsibility for thier choices. Whether morally, logically or otherwise, both genders are equally culpable. There is simply no other possible way of looking at it, so just stop these futile attempts to make light of the issue on the men's side. I am a man and it's highly embarrassing.

seems the guy failed economics in school . He simply doesn't know the dynamics of demand and supply.

michael1508:


Please defend your argument with logics and not using words like hate speech to black mail people,I told you what will happen if everyone decides to go mad like you said,or you think you can eat your cake and have it,lol.

The generation should go haywire,it doesn't remove a sweat from my body.
Anyways,I am done with the argument.

The generation has not gone haywire already? oh really? Almost all guys are fraudsters and many are on the hunt for people to kill and mutilate , Sodomy and rape is all time high but Mr moral police is more concerned about chastity than actual crimes committed by mostly his gender who by the way are also enablers.


If e nor remove sweat for your body, why all the long epistles as if you are writing a thesis? .

michael1508:

Firstly,men have been paying for sex from time immemorial, relationship or otherwise which shouldn't be,the average woman won't even respond to an innocent greeting if you are not flaunting your dollar bundle and Benz key at her as a gateway to anything at all she wants to offer you relationship wise, sex is not a taboo as it's a biological function of every living thing,so men or everyone wanting to have sex is not the point here but of course it should be between two people joint together by marriage or other form of commitments by societal or religious law.

Secondly,if everyone put past the moral values abiding us together in doing the right things as humans and chooses to be mad like you said,the men have nothing to loose in that regard. In the buying and selling game,the one who owns the cash dictates the flow of services,if we all choose to go mad,don't you think the supply ll be much more than the demand,don't you think there will be alternatives to women as the only source of sexual pleasures,don't you think some will decide to stay abstained, don't you think the woman will one day wear out as a machine tends to when over used, but one thing for sure is that those who depend on it as a source to meal tickets will scratch the surface of the earth for grains, the load of responsibilities heaped on a man in the name of relationships, marriages won't be there, you only pay for the soft, succulent and young ones , just pay for only what you want,how fun will that be,uh?

Everything is wrong with that statement of you sleeping your way through to the top if you sleep with your boyfriend as a means to justify it,even though some ladies have been doing that from time immemorial,just a statement to backup everything she had wanted doing,meaning she can say no,haven't you heard of people demanding cash for an exchange of jobs before,we still have those that declined the offer.

I will still say it again,the urge for sex will always be there as we are biological entities, the reasons why the girls sleeping around for money is on the high is because we have many girls of easy virtues in this era, they don't want to lift a finger but want funds in their accounts, in as much as a service is needed,if the supply is not there,people will find alternative,in this case by getting married or some other forms of legal entanglement as you may call it,the sexual urge of humans have always been there but the rise of runs girl is on the rise due to its easy virtuous,no stress,just open leg waa and you will be paid as long as you can play blind to the morals biding you.
Like I said,this is from a debate point of view,I still hold my head high for good moral values.

The bolded is the reason you should have stopped typing. I don't see the need for the rant and wailing if men have been paying. .


All this wailing is uncalled for and contradicts your opening statement or y"all just hate direct approach of instant gratification and price negotiation? so you can put on your morality smokescreen and cloak of hypocrisy . I guess it's more moral if men get to pay in other ways.Its helps with the Pharisee attitude of being better and more moral .

Anyway, this generation nor send una, that's why I just love them. .

BluntCrazeMan:
This was not how they treated me ooo ...

How so?

legallyminded:


You're a pontius pig on heat of whoredom. Begone to your cave of shame bitch.

Ya real mama

Osas187:
Same here after 4 days

bukhety:

Same here

Update ;

So I just got a reply in my mail and was told that my nin will be validated after 72 hrs.

Fingers crossed!.

cococandy:
They are just fighting hard in other not to admit this. But it’s clear as day.

Lol me I like this era o . Women have been from time made to be chaste while these men have the freedom to fvck around.

From female circumcision to reduce libido,to traditions put in place to make sure women "hold their body", just name it.

But now these boys want to wail and cry? Lol let everything kuku scatter .

Even the little girls wey dey come up ,these pedophiles nor dey let dem see road.This double standard go break their neck .

michael1508:

The society is morally bankrupt already,but for a debate sake,the market and customer analogy is not a perfect example of what is happening at the moment. Biologically,it's normal for every man to have an urge for sex which means there are needs for sex every now and then[b],then again,an average man be it rich or poor is fine having a girl who can satisfy his sexual urge [/b] and other emotional needs and so on which they some times term being in a relationship,on the other hand,only few women can be in such entanglement without expecting a reward for the sex she is bringing to the table,more like a poor man can't get satisfying sex in the long run cos most women will want to be rewarded financially from time to time,reason why most ladies are opting for sex for money these days in the name of why should I be working for a 30k job in a month while I can get that in a week while all I need to do is spread my legs,or why should I stay with a man that can't foot my bills and I will be giving him sex for free,they assume such men doesn't deserve sex.
The bone of contention here now is that most ladies of this era are willing to go into prostitution for easy cash against the biological need of every man for sex

The only bone of contention here is that men now have to pay instead of hiding behind relationship.

I think this era is better,let's all be mad,make everything kuku scatter.

So you are just angry that more women are willing to offer services?what is it they say again? ,the more the merrier,lol.


A man once said ,if you can sleep with your boyfriend who doesn't know the road to your father's house why cant you sleep to get a job. This is the mindset of the average Nigerian man ,same way they have created an environment for hookups to thrive . They are the enablers.

As for your worry that the number of girls willing to offer themselves has increased over the years, we can also say same for the guys. The moral decadence is on both sides. But I made that statement because the ultimate power to put a stop to it lies in the exchange "money". If men stop patronizing, then we will see a decline.Its simple economics.

Happy Valentine's day to all the real female nairalanders.



Stay lovely queens!!!

Vickyvice:
That's y I hate omugwo nonsense

Go and read on post partum depression. The only reason it is not noticeable here is because of omugwo.

legallyminded:


You're just being emotional. Truth is bitter you know?

Shut up, there is no harm if his mother passes the message, or she nor be humanbeing? . Let his mother go and pass the message "woman to woman".

Carot:
i dont have a sister. Its your decision to make

Ask your cousins. If you don't have female cousins,then just ask your mother,I'm sure she is capable of passing the message along.

Carot:
tell your sisters to reduce the price. 10k is too much for short time

start with your sisters and female cousins, charity they say begins from home.Be the change you want to see in others, start with your family members.

If no customers market go close.


Who are the people paying for the hook up?. The op made it seem as if the men are not culpable.

ValCon888:

If you have a boyfriend, please find out what he's doing for a living. Look at his friends, look at his lifestyle. Does his income match his spending?

Asking these questions and finding out the answers can be the difference between life and death.

And children , women,men and one chance victims are to do what? .


There was a report one time that kidnapped people that are unable to pay ransom are sold to ritualists.

Continue making excuses for perpetrators until it gets to your door step.

kay29000:


Lmao! You're using Kim Kardashian as an example. Lol! You have no idea the number of surgeries she has done to remain that good.

An average smallie has better body than a girl in her 30s. That's a fact.

This just shows you some of the little boys here wear Ignorance as a national badge of honor and na their mouth run pass.

kay29000:


A girl that's doesn't use his body anyhow will still have great body in her 30s, so no need for cosmetic surgery talk. Op is talking about those girls that sleep around and use their body anyhow. They always have very bad skin by their late 20s.

So that means the op only has those kind of women in his circle, a wise person once said " you are what you attract",the op is the shlt that attracts flies.

For an empty ,shallow and crass Person like the op ,its no surprise he will have such people in his circle. .

My only problem is he isn't even in the position of esteem and class to talk about such type of women in the first place,he isn't even "that guy",he is just a dreg with money.

Biglittlelois:
Seun I don't understand how this thread is on FP, are you promoting misogyny and female body shaming? Cos on a norm, this thread is suppose to be deleted, it doesn't speak well of Nigerian males and their thought process, there are other nationalities here and they are seeing the constant negativities

Sooner or later, ladies will have to leave this forum of these rod wielding folks. The hate is just disgusting and irritating and tasteless in every shape and form.