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heartbraker:
Knowing how useless some girls of dis generation, how do u feel that Someone don already reach d dream land b4 u, couples with d fact DAT some guys will be somewhere discussing about d sex escapades dey had in d past with ur supposed wife in d beer parlors chilling with some bottle of star, some girls go still dey even tell their hubby/boyfriend about their ex and of course some hubby/boyfriend even know some of there wife "exes" personally.
Guys how do u cope with dis things?
4 ma side by just imagine dos things my love automatically reduced from d initial 20% to -20% instantly.
Or am high on some overdose redpill tablet??

Opinions please!!!!!!!!!

Hypocrite.

Are you saying you have not slept with a girl before?

Or you have never masturbate? So imagine if no one shakes your hand anymore because you masturbate.

Your Hypocrisy is uneducated. Who told you that ladies loose virginity only by sex... Many sport ladies are no longer virgins yet they have not had sex. So who told you that loss of virginity has anything to do with character.

It's ignorant people like you that end up as fake pastors.

This is very scary and weird.

iLegendd:
I'm thinking of jumping inside Lagos lagoon — I can't take it Ma. Can you wipe my tears for me? I just want to rest my head on your laps and stop thinking too much as you pamper me to sleep.

Ok come to the ikeja cantonment barracks. We have multiple resting positions.

Take heart sir. Things will get better soon.

Humanoid01:
I'm partially like the OP! I wouldn't call myself an introvert, but someone with social anxiety. I have a mild speech disorientation that makes me stutter (sometimes) and jumble words that don't correlate with the way it was formed in my mind. I really want to make friends, but I can't because I don't know what to say, I don't know how to initiate a conversation. I write way better than I talk, because I have enough time to think and craft my words the way I want. It's difficult to make friends with that, when the majority of people these days focus on one's flaws.

Sorry Bros but You are nothing like the OP. You are a smart and intelligent introvert and that is so special.

If writing is your special skill, why not make friends online. Why not make friends all over the world. You can write books and become very great on Kindle.

Then since you have identified your weakness in public speaking. Simply solve it. There is no point knowing what you can't do and still celebrating it.

Download Dale Carnegie books on public speaking and making friends and study them voraciously. You can break out of that shame or weakness of not knowing how to speak by reading and practicing ahead.

See, you just have to try it small small and soon you will get better.

God bless, happy Sunday

phantomiced:
DO you want to make money online?

You have probably researched the topic and had so many answers and marketers ( Affiliate marketers mostly) sell you one BS or the other

They tell you how they made $10,000 online with PROOF ( some are edited)

give you a teaser and tell you to buy one pdf and you would start making money online.

Well.. I have been you and the truth is they all LIE.

Look at it this way, If it was easy to make money online by reading just one pdf book, they wouldnt be anyone NOT doing it.

So the big question is?

Can you make money online?

YES - ABSOLUTELY.

But you have to prepare yourself mentally and if you want to learn to make money online for FREE without investing in your own education ( not just pdfs, but lessons, webinars and developing the habits that would make you keep working when you don't feel like?)

YOU NEVER START.

In 2019, after working at my day job - ( post Msc,) I decided to look for ways to make money passively online and when i came here i saw losts of posts on how to make money online.

If these guys could doit why couldnt i?

I thought to myself, but i was sadly mistaken as YOU only get to hear about the good part - the results - never the struggle or the hard work and sleepless nights these guys have put in.

hearing it would probably scare you of and you wont sign up or by to their programs.

This is why i am taking my time to write this post for you!

I had a friend quit a job he was managing because he thought he could make money easily online.

He lost the job and for 2 years now has been jobless and NOT made money online ( and he bought paid eductaions)

So before you think of buying a pdf that promises to make you thousands of dollars in a month, think to yourself

If it is that easy? why is every one not doing it?

One thing you should also realise is, It IS DOABLE

with the write knowledge, resource, PRACTICE and habbits, you ould make money online.

so next time you want to buy or buy ito a program to make money online, ask whoever is selling you the promise "What iis the hardwork involved?"

Never get caught into something half heartedly or YOU WILL LOSE!

This is a sincere and honest rant and i would be back to show you HOW YOU CAN escape the rut of always being broke.

Am I rich? not by a long short but i am getting closer by educating myself as you should too.

If you are ready to change your financial status in this world ( especially in this country) be ready to start self education

Reading books ( not just one pdf) on ways to make money and from learning you can carve out a niche for yourslef and decide how you want your life to play out.

I was 26 and 11 months old when i realised what i wanted to do with my life and i am a year into actualising my dreams.

It is never too late to WAKE UP and smell the roses.

People who are still on the way don't encourage others.

You should have waited to have results before posting this epilog.


It is not inspiring if you are not in a place people can aspire to.

Keep grinding.

TheOdd1sOut:
I spent the whole of today indoors. The one friend I have in this world wasn't around for like 3 months so I was virtually alone. No plans for weekend.

I should I have called my bae? My bae changed base early last year and distance has taken its toll. A guyman of mine then told.me that she has found another boo where she is. I realized that my turn with her was over so I just freed her.

Here I am, I haven't asked a girl out since 2016, the latest gf of mine who left me has been with me for 3 years... and I don't know what to do.
I just wanked and I am tired of it all. No friends and no bae.

I.am considering that a change of location might help me. What do you guys propose?

Changing the location of a leopard from the zoo to the wild does not remove or increase the stripes on its body. Bros wake up to reality, soapy(wanking) will weaken your willpower and keep your emotions weak and down. How you have wasted a large portion of your life on what would not give you greatness.

Bitter truth my Guy, is you are either proud or infected with low self esteem. What stops you from walking up to people and being friendly.

At your age, you have only one friend.... Who does that. Grow up and go out of your comfort zone. You are the one loosing. I don't care if you are a genius but you are loosing. Success in life largely depends on networking with friends and helpers.
Someone needs to shake you out of the useless life you are building for yourself through idle wanking. No man is an island o. Position yourself to be inspired else you will expire for sure.


Now look at how you are reasoning things so wrongly. Instead of focusing on building your life and increasing your achievements. You are so insecure, you can't make it alone.

See ehn, you don't deserve a friend or girlfriend because you are a burden.... A parasitic one at that. If you truly offered great value your friendships won't end and distance won't kill your love life. But since you are boring, what else do you expect. Everyone moves on.


My words may hurt but it is the wake up call you need. Get off your bum bum and go make some good friends out there. Make money too so you can travel and go wherever you want.


It is sad and so immature of you to be coming here and expecting us to sympathize with you when life gave you too many opportunities to have friends and keep them. You didn't read books or even have a mentor to show you how to live a balanced life. Yet You have good looks and great gifts inside you bt you are just focused on the wrong thing. Wake up bro.

So you have so much work to do on yourself. So much work that you don't have time to be entertaining such low level thoughts right now. Idleness has wasted you through porn and soapy, when you could be reading a book that will give you ideas, or trading online or teaching a Whatsapp class.... Why did you allow your life waste like this, you must wake up o.

Fast and furious love.

coolestofall:
Broke guys we don suffer. Hope u know not all guys are broke cos of the reason u typed up there. Some of us have husstle na just baba God finishing touch we dey wait.

So from my comment who told you that you are broke?

You only proved it by the way you replied.

Have you been given millions?

Have you been sponsored and helped?

If no, then you are hustling NOT broke.


I clearly spoke of broke guys.... Not hustling guys. Read with understand abeg

gift2xl:
Hmm... No man is broke, it's just lack of opportunity to step forward.

Never ever say that again


There are broke men. Their minds so broken... Even if you give them millions or opportunities to make millions with full sponsorship and government backing.... They will use all the money to drink, womanize and eat.... Without saving or investment.


I have seen and met many.

Did the tears bring the celebrity to Jesus? Or was there an award for making a celebrity cry?


We focus too much on the wrong stuff in this country.

GreatResearcher:
Once a happy and lively fellow. Now moody. Lost interest in most things. No appetite for food. Everything around me disgusts me. Future seems blink. Dreams broken.

It's called growing old

ChristLikeLife:
The female pastor has been trending for the past 4 days for the wrong and awkward reasons. The internet world was shocked to hear that a certain female pastor claimed that God sent her to heal men of their infertility problems by sleeping with them.

Ofcourse this did not sound so nice and true to a full flesh believer, secondly she was alleged to have advised married women to sleep with their husband's brother for it is not a seen. Well we made a little research and below are what we found out.

1. Pastor Mrs. Veronica is really the General Overseer of Life of Faith and Prosperity Ministry, Asaba, Delta State.

2. Her church boasts of over 500 members and she has 3 other pastors.

3. She is not married and is about 38 years.

4. She comes from Awka in Anambra State

5. She really made those statements and claimed she is the angel sent to liberate men by whatever means possible.

6. She said she will never stop helping any man that comes her way and has fertility problem but insist each person must carry out a health test to be conducted by her own medical doctor.

7. She disconnected herself from her family and claimed she belongs to everyone.

See the statements she made this last four days below;

Video: God sent me with an anointed thing to heal men of their infertility problems by sleeping with them - Pastor Mrs. Veronica
If you sleep with your husband’s brother you have not cheated on your husband – Pst. Mrs. Veronica advises
Those are the few facts we discovered about Pastor Mrs. Veronica and we will keep updating you with new facts as we keep digging.

She is not trending shiiit.

You guys just posted it several times. There is no video, and all the pictures of the same story were different.

See I will ban you then you will know that all mods on nairaland know your IP address and all the different accounts.


You think you can just bring junk stories here and fabricate it?

Tell us the address of the church. The flier or poster of the church bearing the woman's pics.


You jobless bloggers, you have caught an idea to spread lies. Yet you don't even know all the check measures that we use to verify everything we read.

Continue o, we will frustrate you. We have time and data, let's go there.

Westernlove:
My only concern here Is you should stop being stupid, uncivilized and stop thinking like a stark illiterate. They both slept with each other, there Is nothing like after sleeping with her. She fuvked the guy and The guy fuvked her too.....Nonsenseee..

Your pervert brain will soon go on strike.

Ediot

So now it is religious.

Not mosque o BUT church.


You people should keep deceiving yourselves.

The corona virus will end this year. It is human engineered.

Sunnesther11:
This is not scam..
Do not just conclude. No-one is asking for money from you

The real definition of scam is when there is no transparency.

If you made such money daily why not pay for advert as proof.

Why not tell the true story about it here.

Do you know that even the ones that are free and sound too good to be true like your own are blordyyy time wasters? All in the name of referrals?

Nigerians never learn sha

Utanisco:
Pls nairalanders I want a cool answer to this

I can't figure out what I can use my 300k that is in my account base on business to do...

I HV some small scale business idea but I need more suggestions to that


Pls help here
Thanks

https://www.nairaland.com/3591737/what-business-start-100k-please/2

https://www.nairaland.com/4060066/what-business-start-up-200k

https://www.nairaland.com/4107965/16-businesses-start-nigeria-n50000

https://www.nairaland.com/758126/please-which-business-start-n250000

https://www.nairaland.com/4121262/need-good-business-idea-start

https://www.nairaland.com/3000621/10-hot-profitable-business-ideas


If you did your research, you would not need to come here.

Newtonarialand:
Have been with this gal for almost 7?months now but she's the very jealous she even feel bad sumtimes wen I go out with my friends . we both have misunderstanding almost everyday in a week we may have issues up to 5 times out of 7.this is someone I took serious but right now I'm thinking of calling it a quit because I can't take it anymore I fear same thing will continue if we both get married.



Even if relationship have ups and down but this is too much. Out of 7days we both have misunderstanding for 5days

So after sleeping with her, she is now annoying right?

Before you proposed to her, she was an angel and you loved her character.


You men are funny.

Relationship is not for immature people. Take time and study the person but most of you will not hear, you deek will be the steering of your Brain.

Get this fact.

Friendship must always come before dating or courtship

Marriage will be a Test of friendship.

They are all scams. If a person is making such money won't they have paid for adverts.?

Dariyan:
No he didn't use a smart phone.

Meet his bank account manager. They will give you forms to fill and ask you for several identification things

Dariyan:
Good day Nairalanders.
My dad, a pensioner passed away one year ago precisely in January 2019. Since then we could not have access his account because as at the time he died, his bank atm card already expired. We went to the bank to make enquiries and they told us to bring Administration form.
Pls how can I go about this court administration stuff? Will I be able to access all the funds in my late dad's pension account after all the court process? Pls does experienced in this area should help.
Thanks for your time.

Did he have bank app?

Undissputed:
It's time we start to change the narrative. The moral decay in today's society is almost beyond repair.

I don't care if you are 60 years old or 18, I don't care if you are graduate or business owner, or paying your own bills, if you are a single woman and you visit a man without your parent's consent, then you are a prostitute.

This may sound harsh, but it's the truth.

The only setting where a single woman can visit a single man alone is when her parents have given their consent for both of them to be in a relationship. In this scenario, they are most likely courting with the intention to get married and their relationship is consented and guided by their parents.

Oh, this brings me to a final hypothesis: If you are single woman in a relationship your parents do not know about or consent to, then you are probably a prostitute!

.

OP let me epp you push this further off the cliff.


Parents who visit pastors and prophets whose churches they do not attend seeking solutions are...... IDOL WORSHIPPERS


Anyone who visits a hospital that is not his family hospital is not PATIENT even if they get admitted.

Parents who visits children's school or homes unannounced are KIDNAPPERS

Parents who enter child's room without knocking are just RUDE

Mr OP... Shey our mumu never do?? So if parents are dead nkor and the person has been surviving alone, she is still a prostitute.

OP you are a self-servicer and hypocrite. You are regurgitating doctrines from your ignorant pastor. Open your Bible and read and have some sense before you shave.

So the ladies that gave Jesus food and he went to their houses, they were not married o yet they didn't ask their parents for permission. Your Jesus didn't even ask his parents if he could stay back in the temple when he got missing at 13 years old.

So in your church, the "Christian sisters" don't follow up brothers? So if two single Christian sisters go to a brother's home it is a threesomeee?

OP Your brain is Menstruating.

Jesus sent you to preach good news, here you are condemning what you don't understand.

Liposure:
Love is an important ingredient in every romantic relationship. But, is it enough to sustain the relationship?

https://www.nairaland.com/5721216/whats-hardest-part-marriage-no


That thread has answered everything you are asking and more. No point flogging the issue.

900-1.3m if it is in Ota area but Lekki area is a much higher price.


The location determines the price.

Leezah:
During your childhood, what are the best things your father did for you that you can never forget?
Taught me about my Cycle
Sex education
Made sure I ahd the best tho gs of life

My first squirt

More Interior pics and amenities would help us in deciding

t00dugged:
In the light of the Corona virus break out ,economies are slowing down, china the manufacturing hub of the world is on lock down and there is a likely recession ahead . However Nigeria being a consumer nation ,the ways to invest during recession here might be different from that of other first world countries . So folks let rub minds together .


What are the the sectors one should invest in during this period?


Cc Lalasticlala

There are too many topics that show all profitable investments. Pls go to business section and dig them out if you are really looking for any.


There is no point creating the same topic that has been recreated over a thousand times on nairaland.

Search and you will find.

coolestofall:
U right, but if we count self service then no guy is a virgin.

Gbam