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Naanlong01:
This question goes both ways, as a guy can you marry a lady older than you and as a girl can you marry a guy younger than you. If you can, how many years interval can you bear and on what ground ?
I have always said i would not marry any lady older than 26 but prefer 24, mind you i'm 29 and planning to get married when am 31 and presently friending an almost 33 year old lady whom am comfortable with though not dating but i may shoot my shot. So what do you guys say?

It's your life and choice. Not out business.


Learn to keep your private choices to yourself.

Stop coming online to ask people who do not know you and who really would never care, for advice as sensitive as this.

Khd95:
he's useless yen yen yen, mumu boy, you are just assslicking this babe just to appear saint and perfect in front of her

Do u know how many men a lady can play,she calls one boo,big head,he can disturb for Africa,bestie etc, while she's getting favours in cash and kind from them,so what's wrong with a local man trying to secure two poosie as well, make Burundian thunder straf ur bald head dia


U say better man will come for her,tell me are u a better man ur self,I know u will say yes

Unku did I tell you am a man. Pls get a life if you can't help her.

Rachael30:
Hello guys, a guy av been seeing for a year told me that he was to give the relationship he has with another lady he met before me.
This was a guy that it took me so long to accept, he is still telling me that he still wants me but was asking me what do we so about the situation which I have no answer to. He still communicates with me, trying to be close and all that but I don't believe he wants me.
Am devastated right now, I need loving advise pls .
I found it hard to love this said guy in the first place because of the relationship he haa with the first lady.

Aunti Aunti pls walk away.

Shey you gave him your heart cheaply ni, then walk away. Better guys will come for you.

The guy wants to double rvcck two babes. So he is now asking you jamb questions.... He is useless. Have some self dignity and leave, don't stay o even if the sex has been good.


Aunty next time have some class to ask critical questions before opening your heart and legs. Relationship is not for fun but for marriage. Biko

seanblaise:
Good evening guys, I trust you all had an amazing day.
I have a problem which has been bothering me for a while now. I recently landed a job few months ago. The pay is not all that wonderful. When I add my other allowances, it sums up to 90k per month. I have been squating with a friend for some time now so am planning on getting my own apartment next year when I save up some money. The only beauty about my job is that it gives you alot of free time. I can be done with work as early as 1:30pm and go home.
I am thinking of going back to school for my M.Sc in UNILAG but as it is, I am my own sponsor. I have a first degree in Biochemistry.
Should I go back to school or continue working?
Does UNILAG offer part time options for students in my line of study?

What is the benefit of going back to school when you could save up and invest and double your income in 10 months.

If you buy a land for 900k.... That would pay your more in one year or more if you sell it. Or if you use the some money to get into Uber, it would also increase your earnings.

Pls sir have multiple streams of income before going for MSc. It will help you. Many who have done masters are dreaming to have a job like yours o. Please you have a blessing at hand now, don't sacrifice it for what is commonly pursued.

Religion nko

E no dey show for face ooo

Preciousgirl:
If a married man sees his ex girlfriend with beard in a dream

What does it mean?

Nothing.

It means nothing. Have your peace.

How much is the total.

All roads lead to zaria. Am ready

Lalast:
I should study about what better?

Dating older women

Lalast:
Hi guys,

So there's this lady I've known for a long time from my home church but she's 10years older than I am. She's like 35 but not married. She got my number when she learnt I moved to the state she is and sent me a message on whatsapp congratulating me on my new job. We started chatting since then. During one of our chats, I told her I would find time to come and see her and she said that would be nice. She said we could even see a movie together. Later during that week, she sent me a message and suggested we have lunch instead. Recently, she texted me the venue and time for the lunch. My concern is that I don't know what to expect given that she's older than me. I'm also wondering why she suddenly said we should have lunch instead of seeing a movie.

What do you guys think?

Well don't assume. Let her land and open her mouth to speak oooo.


And I wish you well. But go and study about it better

Can ladies join

Lol. You are exposing yourself to danger o

Daejoyoung:
The scripture you quoted is only telling you that sin starts from the heart. lt is thesame thing with murder, if you bear grudges and hate your neighbour without a cause, then it is as though you committed the physical murder already.

As humans, these things happen once in a while when we see beautiful men and women, and jesus knows that. So your scripture would apply perhaps against excessive porn for instance.

The scripture is just a caution to make us aware that the birth place of sin is the heart, so when we look at another man's wife lustfully, we must learn to guard our hearts against it immediately.

But note that it says Adultery.

NOTE he was talking to people who may have been married.

The Bible also says if your EYE causes you to sin.

See, stop trying to draw a thin line of inference. You cannot think Holy thoughts and masturbate


Philippians 4:6-8

Also the Bible says as a man thinks in his heart so is he.


Let's not flog the issue.


When people want to sin... They start explaining scriptures to suit their damaged minds.

Eazyclick14:
From your own view... is masturbation a sin? prove your Answer with the scripture

Matthew 5:28
But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.



So tell me while masturbating you will be reading Bible abi?

Masturbation is aroused by sight or memory... So that scripture applies.

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Sheggz22:
Good morning

Please am in a state of dillema right now
I really need advice.

Currently am 24years. I was withdrawn from pharmacy school due to the fact that I could not pass the required pass mark for each session, It was quite depressing and sad but I shook it off and went on with life

I took up some jobs which earn me some good sum of money, but it's a toxic one but I was able to save the amount I needed to start a business

Am thinking of starting a popcorn business on a campus next year and start my life from there (because I've really drafted a plan for my life).

But my parents just called me now to tell me to go back to school. Truth is, I really lost the passion of going back to school. I saw hell while I was in school

Please nairalanders.. should I heed to my parents suggestion or proceed with my instinct and go ahead with my business?

People please help me

Go and discuss your reasons with your parents.... Do not let them live their life through you.
Bless you

Ghana is a purnhub oooo


Maybe she went there to use the MIC in his trouser to rehearse for her next program.

AceOfRed:
We have advised him to involve both, but he is reluctant, he will rather call never-ending meetings that never yield any result . My dad is all these 'peace loving' kind of people. There is nothing that these people have not done in his own house.

There is another way tho.... If you are really desperate... Pay some boys from a different area to rob them.... And they will MOVE

robertmugabe:
Pls moderator, help a brother by pushing this to front page...thanks


I am writing this with sadness of mind and a sense of worthlessness. Standing tall to see my self as a loving man that lacks capacity to take care of his lovely woman by averagely acceptable standard continues to tie me to perpetual tragedy that can only be wiped out only, as of now, if miracle happens. This decision I am about to take is like committing suicide but at this point in time, it is worth taking, in the spirit of selflessness. I have a very beautiful girlfriend, so charming, respectful, well mannered, God-faring, submissive, caring to me like my mother would, not money freaked and above all, consistently committed to Gods things. I can boldly say, she is fit into the dream woman of any sensible man alive. I do love her dearly and in her I found a cushy and scenery environment that persistently dispense a fragrance of love comfort.

As it is, I am 32 years old, dangling in the middle of hopelessness of everyday living and meagre finance that hardly accommodate my personal feeding and support my struggling activities to make fortunes. I have been struggling and trying hard to hit the jackpot and yet to no meaningful results. You know life can be so brutally funny especially for those who comes from the lower cadre of the societal strata.

I can hardly point to anything tangible I have brought to the table since the inception of the relationship which is running to a year and four months now. This sometimes calls me to shame and constantly configure me to think of not worth the girl at all. Till today, some of my friends still they tell me say ah get luck with my babe. How else should I describe a babe who is in the middle of many compelling and intimidating options and yet still firmly stand by me.

As I am writing, I am planning to breakup with her for a number of reasons which are summarily analysed into two;

1) I can not afford her to be the first to breakup with me when the time to do so presents itself. Though I am not sure of this but I once had a dream in this regard.

2) Even if she decides to stay and marry me, I can not afford watching her living a tattered life which i can only afford for now. And if care is not taking and I insistently decide to take her under my roof, I may be forced to engage in illegality to scoop money that can take care of her soft textured skin and at least propel our union to standard.

Some may call my decision a product of inferiority complex but I call it an act of selflessness.

It is far from my wish and a sad one at it, to take this decision of alienating my self from someone after my heart, from someone that i think of almost at every idle moment and from someone who has seen my naked soul completely many times over. However, if I really do love her, then it is just doubtlessly and fundamentally worthwhile to take the decision to save someone I love and somebody's daughter from impending rough and emaciated household economy. I am not a pessimist though. I am just a realist. If ah eventually make ham and she is still available and I am still available as well, maybe we can still come back together, but if she is taken, then so be it, but I promise to stand firmly by her in any scheme outside her matrimonial relationship...

I LOVE MY OLUWATOSIN...

Pls how best can I breakup with her ?

Here is how to save your situation

1) Talk to her about how badly you both need to come out of this poverty life

2) start a business together.... That way you both can give your 100% and it will work

3) find a spiritualist (pastor/alfa/priest/priestess/prophet/prophetess) that will clean your life and aura spiritually...

4) pray together.... It works o

5) give a seed to you mother or some older people in your family and tell them to bless your life with prayers.

6) relocate, you need a new environment sometimes that's all it takes

7) go to the business section of nairaland and learn importation and other businesses for free.

attend business conferences like AYE conference in Akure where you can rub minds with others and get uplifted

9) repeat these processes again every three months and watch how fast your life will change.

Bro you are bloody good. Why not give us your Twitter and Instagram links.... A celeb like trump should see your works.

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charliboy654:
You bf was just a lucky yahoo boy, many other guys has tried yahoo plus and still broke.
Stop being gullible.

Oga calm down. They went to fake spiritualists, you are the gullible one. Just as we have fake pastors.... There are fake herbalists too. If you don't know then you are on your own. Follow those who have proven results. Money is not hard to make, it is just hidden

michaelbills:
I have heard and seen strange rivers. Like one in Delta. The tree cherry tree is rooted very close to the river but the leaves and fruit can never be seen dropping into the river. Are mermaids real and please why is it that people who have encountered them don't like to talk about them?

Brother go and pray and stop asking questions about matters that obviously will not make your life better.

Mr man, look at the time... Even witches are having meeting at this time... Then you want to invest your insomnia in knowing about mermaids...


If they are not real to you then guy rest na, leave those who have encountered them and go and pray or play game or study.... 2020 Don come... U are here to gist stuff that has never improved anyone's life.

Stay woke.

Asking a question is NOT bad, but asking a wrong question at the wrong season doesnt make it right either and it should not be encouraged.

AceOfRed:
Lalasticlala Please I need advise from experienced people.

My dad built a house in the early 80s; a 5 bedroom bungalow, that's before he got married. As at the time he completed the building, he was about to get married, while his 2 brothers were still single then. Because my dad was not based in my town, he gave all his 2 brothers 1 room each to stay in, as tgey were bachelors. My family occupies 3 rooms ensuite, while my uncle's occupy the other two rooms, with a detached kitchen and toilet.

As time went on, they later got married, but still kept living in the single rooms. Now they have families, with my oldest cousin being in his 20s.

The problem is that the relationship between my dad and his brothers has deteriorated terribly over the past years to the extent that my uncle's and their wives now threaten my parents with murder and diabolical acts. In fact, I can't put on text the many issues tgat have arose between my parents and my uncles.

Now, my dad wants them to vacate his house but they bluntly refused saying that they will live there for as long as they wish. As the first son, he has divided their ancestral lands amongst them, but they have refused to put up there.

Their continued stay in that house has become a huge source of worry and headache to my parents. There is no day, tgat one issue or the other doesn't come up.

Please, I need mature advise on how to get these evil people out of my father's house, especially a legal or customary step. My parents are now retired, hence they live there in the village now.

My dad has reported them severally to the 'umunna', but this hasn't yielded any benefit. As members of the umunna are people of questionable judgenent. They keep telling my dad to wait till my uncle's build their own house, but they are not even interested in building anything, as they have made it clear that they will live with my parents, just to be monitoring them.

Wow. Consider bringing police or lawyers into it.

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