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Jokerman:
Hello. I need advice on this topic

About a year ago, my Dad died, being an owner of a primary school with my mom, thereafter o assumed head of the school, although I run my own freelance engineering installation and maintenance service on HVACs and Diesel engines.

In course of this education line, I'm obtaining my certificate in PGDE( in view).

Now this is the case...

There are some old staff in the school then whom use to collect school fees on behalf of the school and you know Nigerians, instead of remitting the fees to the school, they divert and scam and even go as far as lending money to different people in the vicinity.

However since I took over, I forcefully stopped the collection, and redirected all fees to be paid at the bank. Mhen, it was not small trouble, fight, gossiping, spoiling me at the back etc, but I never listened to such, and right now no one collects these fees again... Everything goes through me coz I'm trying to sanitize it. I also required the services of a registered security company operator (sheriff deputies) for the school

Problems I needed advice

1. Sometimes these rebellion. They gossip and talk evil to people that I'm very harsh etc

2. I have changed 2 security operators because of compromises with these staff. I will give instruction, Buh those they'd do otherwise and bend to what other older staff tell them. Recently, the present security did something contrary and I scolded him toughly. Recently, he had an alteration with a parent and I asked him to just plead with her. He refused blatantly. I was surprised and even my mom too. He said he doesn't like the way I scold him and that's why bla bla bla, infront of all other staff. My mom asked me not to change him Buh I'm skeptical

I already feel like changing him with his company supervisor coz he lives around the vicinity and he now gossips with those old staff who might be telling him I'm too young to order him to do things

4. These old staffs are like friends to my mom and they already carry a lot of influence with most of the parents (which I also cut off too). One of them is wife to my mom's brother

5. My mother has been telling me to be patient even my wife. I do not want to employ an headteacher until I change a lot of things

The school has about 300-350 pupils, and employs 18 staff

Advice needed

Lalasticlala

OK listen, you are doing well, you are a good head master but you need to learn leadership, go to daystar leadership academy next year and how to play the game of diplomacy.

You need to employ new staff to assist the old ones before firing them peacefully.
You also need to enjoy yourself, do not let familiar strangers give you high blood pressure unnecessarily

Also, talk with them and try to reason with the. Else they may secretly be planning to set up their own school that will compete with yours since they have been in the game before you.

rtdCivilservant:
Oga solve that thing and stop telling us how to make it easy to solve. Just say u no fit solve am simple.

My dear. Am not your student. I solved it.


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SEGLIZ:
any idea conceived is executable.

OK go and conceive

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Be careful what you ask for.

Don't you think it is one thing to know business and another to be able to do it?

This is SET Theorem

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luvyaself95:
this mean money can buy your love.

Nope it simply means when your heart is in love always take your brain with you.

Bye

Preshy561:
Nauseating generalization.
Though, most men of this generation do not worth the stress.
Cos once they make it, they dump the lady for a more golding pussy.

Yes you are right only if the lady remains broke.


But in this case, she is a doctor and won't be poor. So no matter the money the guy has, marrying a doctor is still a big plus any day

Sorry
You don't need a lady. Why not get busy making your life work, getting out of that house... Then you can find time to truly know it a girl is legit or not.

Girls can not be true to broke dudes without getting financial satisfaction from another

thecloak:
About 10months ago, I met this girl and we connected well like never before and the chemistry Btwn us was intense, we knew we really liked each other so much, we couldn’t go a day without talking to each other, I am in my middle 30’s and into real estate and the business hasn’t really been good nor bad and she is in her late 20’s and in medical school and will be graduating next year.
when I met her i made my intentions known to her bcs she’s the kind of girl I want to be with for a long time, prior b4 we met she told me that her prophet prophesied to her that she will meet someone she really likes but if the guy asked her to marry him she should say NO that she should wait. I told her I’m not asking for her hand in marriage now that I want something serious that will lead somewhere, she said okay let’s see how things progresses, we talked about anything and everything and she was very happy meeting someone like me and she said I was man enough for her.
As time progresses we became so close we had a one time thing but the experience was awkward.
And after that day her mood about everything changed, she didn’t want to talk to me so I had to beg her to forgive me that it won’t happen again, it took about a week before we reconciled and we kept the communication as effective as ever, at a time she said she doesn’t want me to do anything for her so she doesn’t feel indebted to me I said no problem, then problem started last month when they left school for there 3months program in a hospital in the same state which I reside, we do see twice or three times in a week so one of those days, we were in my house and we’re talking and something led to another we kissed and romanced but I didn’t go further I had to stop and boom the next morning she sent me text that she’s not happy and when ever she’s around me she’s not at peace and she’s troubled within her and doesn’t want to be with me so I ignored her, I had to let her be for a while, then we later met and she told me she doesn’t feel her self when ever she’s around me and it takes her days before she can pray and all that and she doesn’t want us to be talking anymore so I was already fed up with her attitude meted towards me and I decided to let her be.

fast forward to 2 weeks ago, my sister was sick and I took her to the same hospital she’s doing her program and accidentally we met and got talking and after my sister was discharged from the hospital she called me that she wants to check on my sis and know how she’s doing so I took her to my family house and after the visit I drove her back to there hostel and when we’re bout saying our goodbyes I told her can I get a peck but she refused and I let her be, and later she texted me that she just wants us to be normal friends and nothing more than that, this was a girl I dedicated 10months of my time to when I already met beautiful and good women I had to let them go because of her.

We were so good to each other but all of a sudden everything changed I’m tired of her flimsy excuses towards everything and from my observation I feel she’s already admiring someone else that’s why she’s giving me this kind of attitude, we have not communicated in about a week so I’ve made my decision already and moved on
I am suspecting 95% she might be the one that wrote a topic few days back that hit the front page with the subject (
I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? ) because it sounds very similar, but niaralanders, ur candid opinions would be of help

Candid bitter truth.


She needs a spirikoko brother that is very good sexually.

You are not a spiritual dude hence she feels you are only good for chat and visits... Nothing more.

You also need to know she dedicated 10months too so calm down, she denied other guys too, but your game was lame and too shabby for her.

You need to move on. She has met someone else, she must be very smart and intelligent to have summed you up after 10 Months so she knew a life with you will be boring for her.


You are not adventurous or wealthy or sexually great enough for her.

Good church "moral" girls like church bad boys o. It's a fact.

Cut off from her. Friend zone is a graveyard, disconnect totally from her for 10months, use it to upgrade, appear very committed and be seen with a more pretty lady. And she may come back begging you. Use your upper.

Inerepamo:
pls mind am not good at writting
i had a dream having sex with someone a friend precisely i had release only to wake up to see cum on my bed and was like wtf i had the dream twice and the thing is that anytime i release i just wake up
pls help

Men, always letting their erection control their direction.

Please go and read better books and get busy with your life. Before you start what you can not finish.


If you are having it reoccurrently then you are under attack.

Oh no, she must be desperate

grandstar:
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Are there really Hausa Christians in Kano? Have you met them? I know they'll exist among the Hausas since there exist Hausa pagans. Some Pagans most likely converted to Christianity

I'll like to be educated on them

Join Joshua Selman church, Abel Damina church, etc

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Penansen:
Hello everybody.
I need your help.
I’m an italian guy, i met a girl on internet, and she told me she lives in Lagos.
We had a lot of conversations, but i start having some doubts about her since she asked me 950€ in a westen union money transfer to pay the Travel and the passport to come her in italy.
When i ask her to call me me by phone she told me she doesn’t have a phone, and she told me there are no internet cafè in lagos with a webcam.
Is it true?
She ask me to give the money to a guy who works in a travel agency called “Amicable Travels”, but there isn’t any website or facebook page about that.
Is she/he definitly scamming me?
Thanks guys

Provide her pictures, Facebook link, etc....


You are being scammed.

Expose her name and details here.

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Tosinex:
this is pathetic of you.. So he is now your holy spirit whom Jesus promised to you to teach and explain all things to you. Don't fall into the snare of the devil, receive The Spirit and receive understanding to know The Truth.

This is a shame.... That you quoting a scripture you barely understand.

So why not stay at home na.... Don't go to church at all since the Holy spirit will teach you.... Ozwor.... I see jesusjnr as a good teacher here on nairaland.... E dey pain you say I no call you abi...


Pls learn to judge rightly. Why didn't the Holy spirit explain to the Ethiopian eunuch.... Why was Philip sent.


You helpless bible twisters will just be here ranting. If someone knows more than you, then you fight the person.
Pls don't try it with me again

Jesusjnr this contradicts the former post

This has nothing to do with the birth of Jesus

mikezuruki:
dry

It was not meant to be funny

This is not jokes section.

Your question should be properly addressed.

True heroes do not seek gratitude.... He didn't have to announce his good deed.

If you have not figured it out from your Bible yet, kindly ask Google.

MrCork:


Ihategirls....bro.. Ladylike should be the last thing u take advise from. She kinda disturbed. (true story)

Troll

Ihategirls:
Is there anyone there to give an advice in this situation? Especially in the case where this lovely guy tried his best to keep the relationship going. Where do i start from? How do i imagine giving another person a chance (that is if single guys exists these days). Please feel free to drop a comment. No matter how stupid, i am ready to take it all in

No one can help you sis, give complete story and not some vague idiomatic phrases.


Give complete story if you are truly seeking advice or help.

Jahbless

porshnuel:
I came to port Harcourt 1st of December to work as a stylist .....the manager of the salon fell for me and we had sex(unprotected) on first visit...since then it has been a continuous process...I don't love her,she threw her self at me...now she don't give me space, she is all over me ...it's nw obvious at work and I dont feel comfortable any longer, she comes to the house anytime she want...the house was rented by the owner of the salon for workers coming from outside the state ,sleeps over ,don't want me to converse with you any customer.or have there number..am feed up and tired...dont know what to do nw bt am in hell no ...pls advice

Get a girl, let her see you with her and get pissed or jealous, then she may break up with you.

Or get a guy who would disturb her for relationship

Am not even sure this is truth, jesusjnr we need your explanation o

Larrykaysail:
really is it that hard to find girl in Nigeria ?

Nope. Everyone is just a player. Pretending.

boozykal:
I'm currently in a dilemma. Someone suggest to me what lucrative business one can go into with 1-2 million naira. I sincerely want to start a business that will be fetching me money. I'm based in the Eastern part of the country. I have a degree in electrical engineering and also practicing it.
You kind advice and suggestions are welcome

Buy a car of 650k and do Uber with it, either you drive or use higher purchase

Import phone and computer accessories from China ND sell. Since you are an engineer, to repair won't be an issue so you make more cash

Sit and think of what problems people in your community face and then provide the solutions and you will be paid.

For example, if you live around campus students simply sell wigs, phone gadgets, repair services etc.

All these things should not cost above 1million and keep the rest or invest it with in very safe investments like treasury bills or others.

MurphyG1:
As if its that easy to save for him to be settled by now. What if he just started working would he have been able to save? What if he had other projects or he was investing in himself?
Bros, 92k is not the minimum wage in Nigeria. Let's not lie to ourselves. He can survive on 92k with backup from his wife and they will live happy and comfortably to an extent.

Minimum wage now is 30k and his salary is over 300% of that

Speak for your self sir.

He pays his bills
Do you know how expensive his fare to work is on a monthly basis
What if he has siblings or parents he supports
What about he is the religious type and pays tithe
What of his rent
What about his feeding etc

At the end of all these, he may have just 9200 left.

All those who live under minimum wage are debtors because 30k can never be enough for an adult that supports himself.
Pls let's be reasonable.

Ellarhh:
I'm feeling sleepy joor. I'm serious tho' I need a man. So drop your PM's

So you want a man to come into your boring life and spice it up with money.

Olosho

Get a life.

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