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SilGent:
Delta state

Go to warri, find prophet Jeremiah fufenyin, carry your mum there and your family will be delivered.

Or go there alone and get the prayer cloth or water... Use it and she will be fine, your father needs to go for prayers and get delivered.

FrLukas:
So the two of you opened your NL account just three days shy of each other. Something fishy going on here.

Yes so fishy that you think you have brains yet all your posts on nairaland since 2015 has never helped anyone.

Ogbeni gbe body eh, what exactly do you want to connect... Am not the kind of lady to mess with... Am only here to call the OP out as a sham and scaaaaaammm

uniquepeace:
HEY?! that hurts...

Hurt because it is the bitter truth.

Stop telling story for the gods. I know you o...

If you know what's good for you just leave Nairaland. Else the whole plateau will know your story and your real identity I swear...

SilGent:
Hello everyone
Good evening to all.

I have issues bothering me and I have been trying to share it with you guys but sometimes, I see no reason to do it or would be a form of being too lazy or a kind of being secretive.

I don't understand but it seems all these act collectively as a force to stop me but today I made up my mind and with vexation, i'm typing this.

Now, I really don't know where to post this but I believe in this section is where we have the most mature ones. People who will be ready to understand and give knowledgeable words and advices.

So let's start, i'm 20 years of age, a student studying computer science in a polytechnic in Delta state. Currently on my IT program.

Something happened in my family few years ago which have put everything around us in despair, as a result I fell into depression for four bad fucking years. Believe me I am saying the gospel truth.

Normally I'm a very quiet guy and very secretive, alot of people in my family never noticed it, even some of my friends, some who did, a handy one, never got the answer then. My pastor's wife was one of them, she was so curious about me, not that I squeezed my face always or I got a strange behavior or face.

everyone knows that I smile always.

But this woman, was as if she was inside but till now I never revealed anything because I am not comfortable with them..
I was living like that till I clocked 20.

It seems to be increasing each year and I am seeing effects.
this depression is from the problem my mom is having and increased by my family wellbeing.

My mom is mentally unstable
And secondly, my dad is struggling financially.

It is not that my father is wretched, you know the problem?

The problem is what ever my father set up, my mom destroys it.

Plans, money and energy (all down), this have been happening for four years.
My mom mentality is really weird that everything she does sound or look absurd.

Yes she dress well
Yes she not roaming in the street.

But
Her food cooking skill is -2, she now cooks like the food are for the gods or goddesses. I keep seeing a kind of okra or eggusi soup that never existed.

Her speech totally unstable, from one to two, two to thirteen, fifty to ten. You will even get confuse when she speaks. Full of lies. Denials up and down.

Aggressive behavior, she is now as aggressive as what I have never seen, she chase people around, you dare not confront her.

She lay false accusations often

Always blinking her eyes and eyes so red.

Alot to mention.

All these was never her character until all of a sudden.

She also steals, never dare keep money in the house or else, there will be chaos activity.

I can't say everything here, too big for me.

Now my father is struggling, to the point he said he wish he never send me to school, because money to continue is not coming as planned.

I searched for work, I got one but I was told my IT program is important, that it will reflect in our result, so i left the work, I start my IT. Though it was due to improper planning.

Everything I think how next year would be for me, I get sick � and I motivate myself that nothing last forever. Few hours later and back to default. bleeps!!!!!

The problem I having with myself is that it seems I am not like I was before.

Know myself as an intelligent or smart type but now I can't answer questions smartly again, I look odd, dumb and helpless.

I am fuckin tired, confused and sicked.

Forgive me for any grammatical error.

Hope you are aware that this is all some SPIRITUAL stuff that has been fired into your family...

Hope you are aware that you too will soon start forgetting things and behaving absurd because the issue is now generational,

Bottom line.. YoUR family needs strong deliverance. Your extended family are were unhappy with your dad before this happened.... Go and confirm... Also your mum was very generous and nice before this happened... They fired arrows and it HIT the father and Mother.

F is for Father hence Finances
M is for Mother hence Mild Madness

Your father was doing quite well before, he spent alot on trying to get your mum well and all the money went down the drain.


Pls let us know what State you live in, so I can tell you whom to go and see.

By this time 2020 your family will be Whole and recovering. That devil is a liar.

You boys whose brain is between your legs should run o, this girl profile is not legit.

She is looking for Maga and mugu, beware.

Only Jesus can save.

Evil men on prowl everywhere

chenzen:
connects ur thoughts with ur tongue

LOL rhetoric

You should have done same.

chenzen:
women are sore losers in the end, the guys dont care... so these ladies needs the right kind of orientation not some morbid guidelines that has being reiterated via threads by some selfish OP overtime.

Your psychology is broken.

Men cheat alot BUT women cheat and get away with it easily.

No gender is more than the other.

I’m writing this with heavy heart, my wife denies me sex. We don’t have kids yet. We have been married for almost a year and half. She gives me excuses. We only have sex at best once a week. I’m frustrated. I don’t know what to do. I don’t cheat and I’m sexually active. She’s so insensitive to my needs, sexually. I’ve tried talking to her but it seems she doesn’t know the gravity of what she’s doing. I still love her very much but she’s really driving me nuts.

With all the money you have, you thought you could buy your marriage abi, see you married a good girl that is NOT COMPATIBLE with you at all.

Change her by setting up systems to educate her.

For most ladies once they are married, that is the end of working on themselves o...
This is why things are looking stiff, her mind is not wired to understand your drive and she is clearly not madly in love with you.

merit1988:
I got married as a young virgin, but I've never really felt love or being loved in my marriage..I wear the shoes and I know where it hurts...it's very hurtful

Aunty forced you to marry?

Did you not read good relationship books or at least attend relationship seminars or get guided counsel from a mature person to know that marriage is not a DASH

You can still learn to love your hubby, true love is grown, it has nothing to do with horniness.

So don't feel bad because you didn't fall in love rather grow in love.

Read books and do your duty as a humble and wise wife.

What is wrong with you.

Pls jesusjnr explain this, are these verses really against blacks

You have a dream girl o.

Better treat her right or let her go.

She is giving you every opportunity to be what she wants you to be.

Advice her to be more morally guided.

If she is too much for you then quit

idesylvester:
Happy Sunday everyone. Who is christ Jesus and what does he represent in your life? As for me, he's my God, my messiah and my redeemer... u can add urs

And if christ Jesus is to come to Nigeria today as a man, he will fight for the poor... please accept him today if you haven't

You clearly do not know Jesus.

Read your Bible, he never gave money directly to the poor.

He even said we will always have the poor amongst us.... Meaning poverty is a CHOICE... Not the government's fault.

You are simply religious, but you do not know the real Jesus Christ o.

Someone who scattered businesses in front of church and flogged people... And spoke against the church leaders... See he didn't fight for any poor person.

Jesus whose disciples entered a person's farm and stole corn to eat and he didn't stop them... Pls stop claiming to know Jesus, sit and read your Bible and pray..

See these two people that don't know what's up.

See, carry bible to read u go sleep
Get yourself into the mode of prayer and watch yourself sleep off in one hour
.

Pick up a motivational book and study u will sleep.

Watch an move you have watched 10 times in the past, u go sleep like mumu

So calm down and get yourself a real job that will burn your body to fatigue and watch yourself sleep like a drunk.

Pls u both have no issues... Get busy

KELVINWONU048:
I plan to begin a diagnostic business this month, please advice me on how to follow it considering that other diagnostic center are In the the town.

No one can do your duty for you. If you can't do that then don't even start....


What is all this? People come here asking people to use their brain for them... Oga what is your purpose of doing it when it is already being done by others...

Why not sit and plan for yourself and meet people who are not on nairaland but physical people who either are into the business successfully or know much about it.

This is the wrong approach. Don't start if you have no ideas of your own then you want contribution.... When u are not paying us or calling for partnership, abeg Park well.

Get books on startups and how to do business and study so hard till your mind opens to the right business.

richmondmond51:
Richmond is my name, base in east, master degree holder, single, ,40+ years old,, I was out out of the country befpre but decided to come back to Nigeria without reason, when I got here before I realized myself, I have been trying to get back but no means, no job, no wife, just living under mercy of God. Please I need spiritual and finacial help. PLEASE and a wife. NO INSULT, DONT ADD TO MY DEPRESSION. . Please you can reach me on what's app or call at +2348136200261

Get spiritual help first. Money is not what you need now.

Any money now will still amount to a mess.

And jesusjnr pls help this man

LilychiLily001:
It is simple trick that gurantees you atleast 2,000 naira every single day till the end of this year and beyond. Due to the rules here i will not post it, if you are interested, drop your whatsapp number, and i will send it to you. You will not spend a dime.

Oga it is wise if you who is looking for people drops your number, how will you put people at risk and claim you wanna help them.

So they will drop their numbers on a public forum and scammers plus scammers will steal their numbers and bombard them with adverts and scam calls....

Even if you are not a marketer pls have some sense and drop your public number

Felicity001:
Hello Nairalanders I hope your weekend is going in well.

Good people of this country please I need your help. I'm married with a child I lost my job some months after our wedding. For those of us married with kid(s) you can tell how hard it is with an income let alone no income all, It has not been funny believe me but in all I'm still grateful to God.

I need help in raising capital (150k) to start a business. Please even if it's to borrow I don't mind I'll pay back even with interest. I've tried getting a loan but they only give out loan to salary earners.
So please good people of mother land kindly help no matter how little I'll appreciate it.

Here is my account details
Zenithbank: 2083901322
Name (initials) : Fe Go Eme
0803 513 2876 whatsapp

Scammers please stay off

Scammer telling fellow scammer to stay off... See stop this business. Get a real job or sell your phone and start selling pure water.

Naija has no gullible love for someone to fall for this....

TheGenius001:
Good day Pals.

I want to conduct an ACID-BASE TITRATION Experiment. The problem here is that I am lost in the moment. Like how am I even going to dilute the HCl Acid( Cos I know it is concentrated). Yes I have all the necessary apparatus for an ACID-BASE TITRATION Experiment, but I don't have an idea on what quantity of water and the HCl should be adequate for the standard solution of the Acid.

Now the same question is applied to the Base, NaOH also. It comes in pellets/pearls or whatever it is called. But I just don't know how to dilute it too. What equivalent quantity of the two (i.e NaOH and Water) should be appropriate to get a standard solution for the Base

Pls someone should help me with the necessary guidance. It is urgent

Why not go to Youtube stop localizing your brain by coming here.

See bah, you need to watch it to understand it. It's not to be waiting for theoretical replies here... Go to YouTube abeg

demiwilliams:
www.thediaryblog.com.ng i mean

Nothing mind blowing about it.

Stop exaggerating abeg.
You have build traffic like that

Anas09:
From what I just read here, you have no standing to give any troubled soul counsel.
So the Bible is not the Word of God?
Do you even hear yourself? The Bible is not the Word of God but contains the Word of God? WTH?

You too don't believe Apst Paul is of Christ abi?

The Nicolaitans are gathering.

My eyes are on you from now on.

Ogbeni go and soak garri. Thunder fire your eyes.... Which eyes do you have to see.

LOL, scriptural ignoramus.... Better go and sit under true men of God like Apostle Arome, Apostle Joshua Selman and Chris Oyakhilome.

. Have some sense.

Bbkelvinn:
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We await you.

EFULEFU1:
When one dreams a Godly dream, does that mean that one entered the spiritual realm?

We are always in the spirit realm, it is our consciousness that makes us partake in it.

So it is not dream... Even where you are, spirits are there.

Anas09:
Wait did you just placed Jesusjnr in the same pedestal with the Supreme Authority The Lord Jesus Christ?

A son has a problem and instead of you directing him to Jesus Christ who has the answers, you instead directed him to Jesusjnr first before even mentioning The Lord Jesus Christ? My God!!!!

This is why I have been shouting in this platform and some people call me names.
It's happening. Lazy Christians who have noidea what the scriptures says about issues, wld believe the heresies preached by Jesusjnr and are now directing troubled souls to him so that he can finish them up Spiritually.

What happens to the Bible Ladylife?
Doesn't the Bible say anything concerning the challenge that child is facing? If you are who Christ called you yo be, shouldn't you lead him to the Word and strengthen him and pray he recovers from the snare satan has set for him?

Instead you posted him to a clear error preacher.
Do you know Jesusjnr does not believe that the Bible is the Word of God?
Do you know that Jesusjnr is against the Jews and the Old Testament.

Is Jesusjnr a Christian based on the standard laid down by Scriptures?

Who is Jesusjnr to counsel a troubled dressed soul?

First and foremost I called jesusjnr to come to the thread ooo abeg quote me anywhere and read again to know that I never equated him.... The OP said he is ready to go to a Bible believing church and get help, that was his reply to me, which again you misunderstood..... If you have a problem with jesusjnr then trash it out with him..... Abeg leave me alone...

The jesusjnr guy is not bad as you describe o, his revelation makes you misunderstand him. I only referred to him because he was the first person who chatted with me on this forum so pls calm down...

The Bible is NOT the word of God, it contains the word of God.... And in a light of revelation... If we are called to be exactly like our lord and savior Jesus Christ, then we are not Christians... Paul never called us Christians, it was Peter who accepted it, yet Peter couldn't understand most of Paul's teachings because they were too high for his fisherman mind.... But many will misunderstand anyone who understands these things and be ranting like you are.

Oga Park well and sort your issues with him and don't involve me.

TundeKorede:
The rampancy of rape in our society is alarming. On a daily basis, we hear about people who got raped on Radio and on Television. We read about it in Newspapers.

I have received messages in my e-mail of people who narrated their experiences as regards this nefarious act.

My intention is to help reduce its occurrence or totally stop it through my writings. So, we are starting off with an article on its causes and how to prevent rape.

Nevertheless, rape is the crime of forcing someone to have sex, especially by using violence.

More so, It is also the act of forcing sexual intercourse upon another person without their consent. Any sexual activity that is not consensual is regarded as rape.

See This: The Stats Of That Act

Five Causes Of Rape
• The Rapist Factor
Please, read this passage carefully and pay extra attention on the capitalized words.

Deuteronomy 22:25-27
[25]But if a man find a betrothed damsel in the field, and the man FORCE HER, and LIE WITH HER: then the MAN ONLY that lay with HER SHALL DIE:

[26]But unto the damsel thou shalt do nothing; there is in the damsel no sin worthy of death: for as when a man riseth against his neighbour, and slayeth him, even so is this matter:
[27]For he found her in the field, and the betrothed DAMSEL CRIED, and there was none to save her.
Two things are be to noted here, the man who raped the damsel shall be put to death. And rape is seen as a sin of murder.

According to this passage, the blame was upon the rapist — the man. Because the lady cried out and there was no one to help. So, it was not the fault of such lady.

Causes Of Sexual Violence

Rapists Have Issues
Here is my point; it is unfair to blame the female for being a victim of rape. It is true that some ladies dress indecently. But that shouldn’t be a reason to forcefully have sex with someone.

Every day, I walk on the street and I see people who dress indecently. Does that mean I should be raping every woman who dresses indecently? No!

Additionally, I have heard of cases where some women raped the men. But it is not as prevalent as that of the women.

In other words, those who rape the opposite sex are those who have problem with their sexuality. The rapist is the first cause of rape and not the victim.

Before You Blame A Victim
Whenever a victim of rape is seen. Don’t be quick to blame the victim. But perceive the rapist as the first cause of that act.

A person who has problem with his sexuality is the one who assault people sexually. I don’t care if he is a Pastor, Bishop or a lecturer.

No normal person in his/her right state of mind will forcefully have sex with someone.

Or will you say a 7-year old girl that got raped by a 40-year old man deserves to be blamed? Will you say it was the little child’s fault?

Besides, what does that little child know? Can a normal and mentally stable 40-year old man rape a little girl?

Let’s stop defending a rapist. Although, they may contribute little to the act. But the total blame should be on the rapist. It is either the rapist is mentally deranged or has sexuality issues.

As we have read it, Mosaic law put the blame on the rapist than the victim. Here, we can infer that the first cause of rape is the rapist.

Myths About Sexual Violence

NOTE : The male and the female can be the victim of rape. And I am writing with this view. It is not only the female that are being raped on a daily basis as we read in our Newspapers. Men are also being raped by their female counterpart.

• Total Trust In People
Read this story

2 Samuel 13:9-11
[9]And she took a pan, and poured them out before him; but he refused to eat. And Amnon said, Have out all men from me. And they went out every man from him.

[10]And Amnon said unto Tamar, Bring the meat into the chamber, that I may eat of thine hand. And Tamar took the cakes which she had made, and brought them into the chamber to Amnon her brother.
[11]And when she had brought them unto him to eat, he took hold of her, and said unto her, Come lie with me, my sister.
Amnon raped his sister. Though they had the same father but different mothers. We can infer that Tamar got raped because she had more trust in his brother.

If you don’t trust your brother as a female you can’t stay alone with him in a room.

Truly, Amnon pretended! But then, that shouldn’t be a reason for staying with him alone after the men had left.

Flee From The Appearance Of Evil
Read this;

1 Thessalonians 5:22
[22]Abstain from all appearance of evil.

Maybe she never thought his brother could rape him.

And this is why some people have been victimized today. They couldn’t just believe their pastors could sexually assault them and they were assaulted. Trust no man.

You won’t find it anywhere in the Bible where God said we should trust in man. He said we should trust in Him. But he reiterated in His word never to trust in any man.

Expressly, in Jeremiah 17:5 God went as far as cursing anyone who trust in any man.

In Today’s World
Many people have been sexually assaulted because of the total trust they have in people.

Some ladies unduly goes out with the elderly ones whom they feel they will never rape them. But these people end up raping them.

Also, some men of God have raped many of their female members and they still threaten them not to speak out.

Why? Some women have forgotten that pastors are mortal not immortal. So, they are not immune to sin.

Trust no man!


Click to read the full article here; http://www.tundekorede.com/rape-five-causes-of-rape-and-how-to-prevent-it/

Wow, awesome writeup wow. Am edified, thanks o

But I hope you are scriptural enough to know that rape is a rude child of LUST and can not be solved by writing.... We have to cast it out ruthlessly.

Rape is a spirit born by the Spirit of LUST and it follows any prevalent culture that permits it.
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To do justice to end rape... You must end LUST and that is spiritually not possible on a massive scale...

Only prayer can arrest LUST and RAPE... In all forms of its practice. Do you know that married women are often raped by their husbands?

Rape can also be a generational curse ooo.
I have seen cases where mothers were raped then the daughters too got raped and it goes on.

We can not advice or counsel a spirit because they are far apart from our reasoning. We just have to take authority in the realms of the spirit and do justice to them by casting them out.


There are cities in Nigeria where rape is normal because of the principalities and territorial wickedness in such places for example....

Delta
Edo
Port harcourt
Uyo
Calabar


These states are known for hosting demonic spirits for LUST and it expresses itself in varied forms o.

Clergymen
Government officials
Lecturers
Robbers
Police
Soldiers
Etc are all the people who carry out the bidding of such spirits.

We need more or intense intercession than writeups,

Well over to you jesusjnr

emblem2d:
hello Nairalanders, I have been thinking of how to express this for long but I have concluded to do that on this platform. it all started Feb 13 2019 around 8pm I was coming from a friend's house then I stopped by the roadside to eat since I was hungry... but unknowingly to me there was this fine looking Lady standing behind me, I turned and looked straight into her eyes she also looked back seductively then before I knew what was happening I found myself in her hand following her to her den. when she took me in she requested that I should give the money I was having on me I gave it to her then she fixed the condom ... the rest is history.
after the act, I became restless then I hated myself so much. before then I was a virgin... so many thoughts came to my mind ( I might have contracted a disease since I don't even know her). I narrated the whole scenario to my siblings and they encouraged me not to be afraid that Nothing will happen to me...
after that experience, I have visited brothels Six times, I feel empty each time I have an affair with those b**etches I have experienced a backdrop in my life, am in the university, whenever I read I don't understand. I have prayed to God several times buh I still see myself going back, there is a force pulling me... am tired I don't want to continue in that again... Pls guyz help a brother pls, advice me on what to do. will God still accept me?





thanks for your time.

Brother, there is salvation for you and guess what the sex had nothing to do with your poor academics or your depression or otherwise... But jesusjnr may have better light to this shaaaa


All I can say is Our lord Jesus is ever ready once you are sincere to receive forgiveness and cleansing from sins.

Why not go a to strong church where you will learn the true doctrine of righteousness and be saved.

Let me know if you are ready

YBNDave1000:
Please i’ve tried severally to purchase udemy courses with my firstbank MasterCard but it keeps failing.
What could be causing this?

Oh no, so people still purchase courses on udemy.

You can get all your udemy courses for free o.
There is a naija site called udemynigeria or udemyng... Not so sure... But the one am sure of is on telegram, it has over 10000 subscribers and it's free.

So stop stressing yourself. If you had mentioned the name of the course, I may have given it free