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doyin13:
hehehehe. . .

show me ur picshurr again and i will tell you  

davidylan:
crocodile tears that are based on fantasy. The way people post here, you'd think they are physically blind.

Great mother because some pot-smoking failure punched her? 

Tatase:
I love how it has become scientific. Androgens and estrogens indeed. What kind of busted science is that?!? What do hormones have to do with ugliness and what does ugliness have to do with liking housework?

Or are you saying ugly girls don't like to leave the house because they are ashamed and since they are at home all the time they do housework as a matter of course, because that would be really offensive; it would make more sense than the "scientific" explanation, but it would be REALLY offensive, even though it seems like you're in some way trying to give ugly girls a shout out.

gabrywyl:
Showbobo, Yes Oo, I'm doing good as well. if you see Azo, please do send my regards to him.

sima. . . heheh! U are sooo cute and thats why i admire you alot   

hey Shola, bawo ni? so wa pa?

plc group:
IBB did not steal any money while in office. Go and check his records. IBB only diverted some money into his personal account. Note: he diverted the money but he didn't steal it, and the money is still there for Nigeria and he is ever ready to bring it out when Nigerians truly need it.

KarmaMod:
I guess being a divorcee shows that she deserves to beaten up

Good job, you guys.

bridget007:
I have to make a decision and my heart says one thing my head another. I am a UK woman (white) and my fiance is yoruba, he is a few years younger than me and we have a baby son together (I have children from a past marriage, I am divorced). Now we have had a tough time since we met adjusting to one another as culturally we are so different and I (as he has) have found our ways very different which has often led to misunderstandings. He works PT and is a student, I am due to go back to work Full time. I do absolutey love him and have met his family, his mother has stayed with us. I have also met his uncles and aunties, some from Nigeria and some who live in UK and when our son was born we followed nigerian traditions, i.e naming and naming ceremony. We had a wedding booked for last year but my fiance decided no, now I am being pressured for marriage, which we have got booked in a few weeks but I am now having second thoughts. His visa needs to be renewed and as he has not done well in his studies he fears it won't get renewed and (although he says this is not the reason he wants to marry-so he can get a spouse visa) I am worried that marriage at this time is for the wrong reason. I love this man truly and when things are good they can be very good, but, he has cheated in the past (although he swears it wasn't sex) I forgave him but I worry as he is so secretive with his phones. I also worry about his underlying character, he smokes pot-which I have categorically told him i will not accept as a wife. He can be very lovely but there is a very arrogant, stubborn selfish side to him that I am not sure about. I would like to marry him but under such circumstances I think it best to wait. I know though that if I cannot marry him I will lose him as if he's visa is renewed he will leave to study elsewhere, or if not renewed he will have to go back to Lagos, any advice will be much appreciated.

doyin13:
But honestly . . . .is this topic that deep to elicit 5pages worth of posts.

There is no all encompassing answer to satisfy every individual case.

Thus I implore anyone who is burdened of mind to make a daily date with Oprah

chika98:
so that when he finds out himself . . he doesn't send her packing

syphillis:
i said d same thing titi until d woman explained why she did it,it was better d guy knew before marrying her,instead of marrying her and then dumping her because of that,the girl might end up commiting suicide

after she told d man d story,she also told him to choose right now,and that God will bear her witness that she's told u one secret of her child,because its d most sensitive,choose now if u will still marry her or let her be

syphillis:
exactly,this is d reason why most gals lie,because smtimes their partners force them,and just to get the guy off their case,they will just use d wind to blow lies into his ears

when i was in jss3 there is this friend of mine "chigozie" that was raped in AGIP's maintainance house,although her hubby heard bout it, it was her mother that told him bout it,because she wanted the guy to know since d girl wouldnt just like say it like that

they got married and for 2 and half years this guy never asked her anything,until d day the day she finally decided to talk,d day she talked was d day she let go of the fears after so many years

some stories r better left untold till d right time,but i wonder why u men force and smtimes threaten girls to talk,oga ooo

doyin13:
as with all things in life. . . . . . .it is always advisable to have a flexible approach#

As the situation requires, it might be pertinent to be, if not totally dishonest, but
at least fudge the truth and not blurt everything out in the name of being sanctimonious.

190:
Bleep all wot u people so far has said
as far as I'm concerned its 90% for women
and 10% for men, because na u women put us 4 wahala when we dey so
especially u miss B

rubbiee:
@yicob.ur indeed meant to be locked up inside a psychiatric hospital 4 d rest of ur fuckin damn life because ur madness is incurable.who tld ur stupid self dt I'm tosin and who is akin by d way?ur indeed mannerless and an opportunist who take other people 4 granted.ure d mst stupid man on earth n u dnt deserve 2 live 4 wt u posted 2 me.u this cheap bastard who can go 2 any length 2 spoil other people u deserve 2 be in hell but i doubt it because d devil imself wl condemn u 4 ds cock and bull story.u stupid ape.u rily think ds can work monster.welure in 4 a big shocker cs u only succeeded in showing dt u dnt ve regard 4 women.incorrigible asshole