There is something about this huge Multinational companies and their CEOs that makes them unbelievably greedy.
Always trying to cheat people out of their dues and when they are finally forced to pay, they just pay peanuts.

is sending by email compulsory ?......because i only submitted hard copy at my school's DSA and I've also done the verification.

x

Lastbornbuns:
Yeah.. any recognised court of law like high court. Ask for the commissioner of oaths

is it really that necessary �....because I've already submitted it before hearing this

Good morning guys.
pls the oath part of the award letter, are we to go to a court to get a stamp or something ?

chefetalkane:
Th8ose that have collected, how much is NA?

250k

Oyerinde16:


Cos I have gone through something similar, let me advice you from a point of experience...

I deducted clearly you are tired of always begging your mom, My brother you must NEVER get tired, keep begging at every single opportunity, Working as a customer care with MTN taught me to at all times apologise to the customer even if they are at fault... I have apologised more than 100,000 times until I left, so keep on apologising...

I deducted you don't have your moms PASSWORD, My guy u failed woefully here, every living thing has a mumu button, find it, even if you have to behave like a monkey.

Once you detect she is calm, shot your shoot, ask here questions, initiate play, if she insult and curse you jokingly insult yourself, curse yourself remind her of the curse she forgot, turn your lemon to lemonades, gradually you will see those insult fades because what more, is it not the insult you will even remind her of...

Cook and give her, tell her that you miss her meals, when she is laying down, go lay beside her, find her trouble, naso play go take start, once she begins to like you, forget you have won...
However, if you decide to raise your shoulder, refuse to apologise, keep in fighting, my brother what you type is what you will keep getting... You need to chose your fight wisely...

" go and lay beside her, find her trouble"...SMH...
dem never stone you mug before.

rajiedreez:
Helloooo,

firstly your dad knows her and married her like that

Secondly she's your mother and not anyone else's

Thirdly she might be bipolar

Fourthly do you want to tell us that there's been no time ever that she was "sane" and "normal" since you've known her.

Guy if you don't also want to inherit that bitterness from your mom, because as you've well detailed out all her bad characters without saying one good thing she's ever done, it shows that you're subconsciously being bittered about her and do not see anything good about her which is what she also do to other people.

You need to accept your fate and try to manage the situation as your isn't the worst case. So please try love your mom irrespective of her flaws.

Most bipolar patients do not accept that they're suffering from it

So people should accept being treated shabbily, Cursed and starved by someone because the person has been nice to them in past �.

CalliDora1:


Ok. But I want you to know that when someone is angry, you can't always really control the words that come out due to the flow of adrenaline. So, it's best to avoid any triggers that could lead to such.

You know what I find funny about this whole Anger ish.
People like this only have power and hurtful words for their spouses. If soldiers piss them off ,they won't do anyhow o �. If their bosses in office pisses them off, they will seek redress In a reasonable way �.

But when it comes to their husbands and wives, they will use fists and hurtful words �

CalliDora1:


I can't and will never answer this question because it's not my portion.

Redirect it to yourself and answer. I'm waiting.

I never said it will be your portion hence the word "if".

I'm just trying to show you that there are things we don't say to people especially our loved ones because we are angry.

I'm sure there are some things you would not like to hear from your loved ones.

The fact that we are angry at a moment in time does not mean we should say or do whatever we like.

Ezini:


I bet you are not yet married

Marriage isn't a bed of roses
Every marriage has its peculiarities
People don't change people,rather get used to them, that's why it is adviceable to date, so as to know the character you will deal with for the rest of your life
And yes i will repeat it again, an angry woman can do the unthinkable which might be regretted afterwards

married or not.....it's not okay. It's because of excuses like this men beat ,maim and in some cases kill their wives. Women say and do cruel things like pouring boiled water on husband and stabbing them.
The fact that you're are angry doesn't give you license to behave anyhow.
You're married. I don't think you'll like it if your husband were to beat you up because he was angry at you.
It's wrong

CalliDora1:


He's not her first choice but she's stuck with him all these years...
And even if the wife did not mention those things, did the op think shes not aware they are there?

Please guys, this is two fighting and when people are exchanging banters there's no limit to what they can say at that mad instant hence it shouldn't be something that should be used against them after all is calm and settled.

That is why it's good to marry your friend. All these uptight husbands sef. Hm!

Answer truthfully pls. How would you feel if *you* had issues having children and your husband called you barren in anger ?

Ezini:


I beg to differ a bit
OP tortured the wife to a point of contemplating suicide if she were to be a weak person
That was a real psychological trauma,
Those hurtful words were the last struggles of a drowning person, anything to make you feel what she was feeling

Afterall when she said she was done with the marriage and you added salt to injury by asking her to suit herself, did she leave you?
Rather she became scared and frantic
Your wife loves you very well,
On the issue of repeating an offence, marriage is a union of two different people, you may not be able to change her, consider taking her for who she is,

Lol, why were you angry, is your uncle not a juju man? accept it n move on biko,

Dont just make a.woman mad, some will pour you boiled water and still offer to stay out the time with you in hospital, when the anger dies down

The fact that you think what you wrote, including the bit about boiled water, is considered to be normal behaviour is scary.

exegesis:
I don't go and visit family friends without buying even if it's hundred naira oranges, let alone my in laws. But that's me naturally. I don't like visiting people empty handed. I'd rather stay at home if I have nothing to give. But my husband is different. He believes it will give people entitlement mentality. So he alternates when he goes visiting with gifts and tells me I worry too much about pleasing people. I have had to learn the hard way because there's a family friend who expects me to bring gifts anytime I'm coming. When I don't, she beefs about it and has even extended the entitlement mentality to everyone because of me. Before hubby and I got married, I once apologised to my mother in law for not sending her money and she asked me if I was trying to bribe her.

Different strokes for different folks. My parents would be more concerned about making my husband comfortable whenever he visits than looking at his hands to see what he brought or didn't bring for them. I guess it's different upbringing. The op should have put it jokingly to the guy to get why he didn't come with anything. Good to know they settled their differences though.

do you now see the wisdom in your husband's decision ?. I like how you both understood each other..
May God bless your marriage

Bunnatex:
Maybe Africa have started to recognize that democracy ain't the best form of Government. How can majority of FOOLS determine the fate of the LEARNED. It's quite not good.

Propose an alternative

osazsky:
Dont expect a coach that sits on his sit till 88min without altering his tactics to beat pep..someone who has nerver won a cup since he started coaching.even if they give this one real madrid. Backward passes as usual.no plans of going foward how did man u degenerate to this lvl...who ever runs that club is definitely a white buhari..boring as usual

He already beat him three times last season �

Pls who knows any website or app to watch the match ?

nograv:


Stop moaning and answer my point...

You were the one running down Nigerians and once I called you out you couldn’t take it..

Well maybe think before running your mouth..

you should just apologize. you know you are in the wrong; that is why you edited the post in the first place. A simple "sorry" would put all these to rest. People should be able to discuss opposing views without insults

Collins4u1:
Well traditionally, you can't take the child as she was born out of marriage.

The ladys' family has exclusive right to the child.

By which tradition specify abeg.......where i'm from and in most places in the world the "owners" of a child are the two people who brought the child to the world i.e Mother and father...not the mother's family

banio:



If it were my sister that child will NEVER be yours. Except You come and marry either the mother or the child.

So You are looking for free child.

Thats not for you to decide.......HE is the FATHER. it's not your place to allow or not.

How does a brother decide who the father of his sister's child is ?

AdedoyinO:


Imagine if the ladies in your life, related and non related treat you based on their sad experiences with men and sore stories from other women?

You'd not mind being treated like a scum because there's a general belief that 'men are scum'? Right?

some women do this already.if you think its not true, ask men around that you are close to

CHoccolaTE:


Where did you see me blame anybody? Can you read at all?

Then leave this random man to as he pleases......and the question was unneccessary as i can obviously read.
So as i asked earlier can YOU help random men not your friends and family ?

CHoccolaTE:


The random men dont help women without expecting sex in return from the women. Na their way be that.

so if your answer is no.....why blaming the OP ?........since you said random men dont help random women

AdedoyinO:


I pray all the females in your life get to know about this your stance and belief so they'll know how to relate with you, what to expect from you, and what they can do for you based on your gender.

The females I am referring to includes your mum, sisters, aunties, girlfriends, your wife(or wives), your female colleagues and your daughters.

The funny thing is another female will get the opportunity you have denied your female friends because about 70 to 80 percent of nurses are women.

How do you think your friends will feel if they get to know you denied them an opportunity just because of their gender? They'll continue to be friends with you? I am sure you don't care about that. You care about females not been helped by men because they are 'whores'.

Continue to let the vague stories you read on social media influence your decisions and life.

But those ladies were not his family na........and you call them vague stories but the fact that numerous men can relate and act on such "vague stories" should tell you something

CHoccolaTE:
As for those of you males hailing Op and demonizing women, I don't understand how males that many of them are evil and heartless,
Males that are selfish like shiitt, are the ones gathering to say that girls are bad, girls are this and that.

I no blame una, you fools are still kids living under your parents roof so you clearly dont know how the world works. So women never help men? How many women have helped their husbands or boyfriends become something in life only for the evil Male to dump her for a younger, finer woman? You people are mad for even saying females are more selfish than males when you idiots are in the gender of armed robbers and rapists and scammers and ritual killers.

You idiots can actually fix your mouths to say females are worse than males because your girlfriend dealt with you in the past.

you said husbands and boyfriends...meaning y'all help your loved ones and family.........we talking about random men which you would not benefit from if you help them. have you helped any of such people.......

Janet200:
You have a bad spirit you need to pray against. Spirit of jealousy. You have done the calculations of how successful they will be but you never had the thought of them helping you in future. You rise by lifting others up.

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ModestGal:

I call him stingy because its something I would do for an ordinary friend if its available and I see the friend in need. He said he doesn't use money

would you do it for a boyfriend ?

alizma:

I still wonder what we find difficult to understand in this relationship stuff. If as a girlfriend you love her and have the financial strength enough to help her realize her dream by giving her some money, do it not because you want to marry her tomorrow but because you think she deserves it AND you have enough from where you can give her that little one. People should stop helping others with the hope that they will marry the other person or so. Give as a way of saying in appreciation of the good time we have shared, not in expectation of what you are going to share, you give your partner some money and then expect him/her to control the future that you can not control.

i always wonder why women are the ones that always need this help.....and the men have to keep giving it, not the other way round

can we have like piece of paper for jotting/wrkings

Thecreatorx:
I have valuable info for snepco on Friday, just quote me so when I write it I'll mention the monickers of interested People.

I'm dead tired now - blogging about iPhone and new trends takes my energy + exams coming up soon

quote me.......i'm interested

horpeyemmi66:

Yes, I thought I was commenting on a Total Scholarship Thread.

Zeenab, Mustapha1029, pstmikol1 please be guided appropriately.

It would be preferable if you used a laptop with a functioning Webcam or Desktop with a Mounted webcam.

Do not open more than 1 tabs (the tab you're using for the test) as your IP address would be monitored.

So are calculators allowed for the snepco exam on 17th ?

Supan:


This your reply sef... So after paying for the burial was the child restored alive to his loving family?

I would like to see the feeling of that dog owner if a neighbour's dog bite and kill his own 12year son.

As in........see rubbish talk