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uvie66:
The only thing I put in my suitcase is corn flakes and biscuits, valuable items go into my hand luggage

perfumes are not allowed onboard not even in your handluggage

Goodman247:
Is this story real, fake stories, how can ur girlfriend ask you for 50k knowing that your dad just died

very real I would have posted somethings to back it up at least make Una even see the manner she even asked of it

So because of my father died so she shouldn't do Christmas anymore abi you can imagine me wey dey shower you love on a normal day despite my dad being in the hospital I still spend on you

Ofemmanu1:
That dude is a broke ass niggah.

Instead of him to come out clean, he's trying to put blame on the dead man.


The babe should just Waka.

talking like a senseless adult if I don't have the money she won't ask for it and this is not the first time I am giving her money I just don't want to post personal stuffs here for verification if not nairaland would have been the judge between me and you who's broke
My dad is dead and plans are ahead to bury him in two weeks time not everyone is poor and broke like you

I was still been hit at the reality of being an orphan no mama no papa still in traumatic stress and this girl is here telling me about Christmas money with boldness with no fear even her siblings just dey beg me not to stress myself that they have told me to leave her since that she's too materialistic that she doesn't deserve someone like me but I insisted because I thought they were jealous of how I was treating her but now I know better

Not everyone is broke like you so sorry to disappoint you

bigtt76:
Swear say you never off her piant since you lost your dad

that is the last thing I have in mind now I can't do such now because what's the joy I have lost my when I was 9 now losing my dad when I am 31 seriously I am really weakened by this

Shokoloko:
You have been seeing red flags and complaining about this girl since October 2021. You want God to come down and tell you that something is not right here?

True true I don mess up sha but this is the last strike that broke the Carmel back

Am done and that it

WantsandMore:
Sorry for your loss fam, but why are you pained ? Won't a baby girl prep for Sweet Baby Jesus byday? Just use wisdom here, tell her say, mk she no worry, you have had her in mind but things are just moving too fast for you. (No.1 yimmu) also tell her, when things seckle down 50k is too small to spend on her. ( No. 2 yimmu) & lastly, you v been thinking bout it 50k is too small you were thinking of upgrading the budget to 100k. (No. 3 yimmu) last, but not the least, call her to assist you with 70k before Christmas so that you will balance her once everything is done with Dads burial, meanwhile, pay her back the money when she begins to ferment trouble cos at this point she's only concerned bout her capital not the Christmas shenanigans. But since she's your 4life, let's not take that route, why not just sort her the dough? I mean it's your fault she doesn't respect you enough . She must have done disrespectful things in the past but you overlooked it & now you want to burden us with your past. Betterstill, ignore her calls, text and don't contact her until you are done with dads burial, your excuse been you were mourning and since she's too insensitive bout you thought to let her be, plus this is beginning to cast doubt about your compatibility with her. This is gonna boil some emotions though ....all the best. No dey vex for woman instead dey always find ways to counter them in the most non violent manner imaginable.

this girl doesn't have anything all she has is am beautiful and I can attract guys that's all , no job no degree no handwork apart from the make up artist work that I even paid for her to learn bought some of the necessary equipment and finally she said she needed iPhone xxmas which I bought London used 285k infact I have never wronged this girl or refused her of any kind of money even when my dad was in the hospital she was still billing me of cream money 10k and I gave her this girl added no values to me instead she has been swallowing all my hard earned money I was planning to marrying her and I have Made plans where she's to learn pharmacy stuff because I believe in building the woman i wanted but for this act she has to go I have deleted her number and blocked her everywhere because it is obvious that she's the devil that was sent to destroy me

Kingpele:
You are a poor man that why ,I lost my dad just three weeks ago, my wife of eleven years cried bitterly for days but just three days ago I gave her 50k and bought clothes of my boys 30k ,if u have money she will know but if u don't have money to her knowledge, then run away from her for your own good

oga 50k is nothing she knows I have the money that's why she asked but the manner she asked for it and her reply when I said I don't have it shows she doesn't care about what I am going through she's only blinded by Christmas flexing and thank God you said your wife now do you know that for one year this girl has ate from me what your wife hasn't eaten from you in 4years I didn't mean to Insult you thanks

Leshyne:
What was your reply?

seriously I had the money but I can't give her a dime

She's an unapologetic person

Ag

aisha1314:
What she's done by asking you for money for Christmas after you've just lost your dad is not right at all. It shows selfishness and callousness on her part and that's not a good sign. You should consider this to be a major red flag.
I think you need to have a serious conversation with her about this and tell her that you don't approve of her behavior. If she sees the wrong in what she's done and she apologies sincerely then you can let it go. But if she just acts like she did nothing wrong the you should think about ending the relationship.
I can't imagine asking someone for money immediately after they've just lost a family member.

she has been doing things worse and I ignored buy this one hits below the belt this is a girl I met just 1year ooo I have spent close to 800k even her siblings usually feel jealous the way I treat her I have not for once wronged her or refused her demands but this her insensitive action she will pay for it and I know she doesn't even care because everything she does is right to her

I have moved because God Bear me witness I have taken a lot shits from her so if she chooses to go because I didn't give her Christmas money then fine after Christmas she should remain where she is.

I have never seen a girl so heartless though I usually see the red flags and I ignore it but if I dare ignore this one then I am a big fool

loswhite:
How can someone in pains have this stupid time to type this rubbish...Asking us stupid questions....few days after the death of your father you already on nairaland...lol. Oga go and credit her the 50k you did not lost your father.

I don't want to say something so disrespectful here do you think everyone is broke not to afford 50k but for the fact that she has the gut to ask me for money 3 days after my dad's death means a lot

Ok I will now come to nairaland and start telling lies abi

Mod please I want this piece to be pushed to front-page this is happening to me though I have prepared my Mind to do what is in my mind but I want this honourable house to look into this

I was supposed to go and do marital introduction but because of my dad's health which was going bad everyday I couldn't. I thought maybe when we stabilise him a little then I can quickly arrange for introduction but sadly my beloved Dad passed away 4days later

I have been crying endlessly and been so weak and saddened just this morning this girl I was planning on spending the rest of my life with chatted me up saying that she has looking at me since that I don't want to say anything concerning her Christmas things that she needs 50k to buy Christmas things. I was shocked to the bone haaaa why are you this heartless towards me? Does it mean you are not concerned about what I have been passing through, infact I don't want to speak more because God already saved me from a heartless lazy woman.

To the women in this forum is it right to ask your fiancee Christmas Money in the midst of seeing him mourning of his late Dad just few days his dad died this attitude of this girl is it right?

libertyfather:
Whc stupid loyalty u dey test, she be Jesus?....why would u tempt her with 200k one round? Dont you know how those gender thinks, something has no meter, no tamper proof do once 200k jst like that you know how many cake she will bake to see such as profit.....men are wicked

but the wicked man bought her phone worth more than the 200k the hook up deal will get her not forgetting that the wicked man also started up the same cake business for her

Yet they're still broke

We still borrowed to fund budgets

The next government should shade more light in nnpc we go catch plenty thief

Maysdevices:
Lol.


Was trying to see if you’ll respond emotionally like the person you were accusing.


Wanted to see if you were a hypocrite but you’re not.

Nice one

I am not an eye for an eye person Okay
Two wrongs doesn't make a right

Buhari was only a figure head nothing presidential

This country is in the state of hulaba and we don't need hulaba himself because the country is already in his state of Bala blu hulaba,

Wickedness is when you support a hulaba candidate even in our already Bala blu conditions,

Ambode treatment will be a child play compare to what Nigerians will suffer in the hands of hulaba candidate

Tufikwa bad thing

The truth is finally coming out

He inherited Lagos

No wonder

Maysdevices:
See this one. Better shut your mouth if you have nothing to say

why you come dey bash me

Policy that will end up strangling the economy

Eto is becoming too emotional

He should be careful

They're his boys

Let's not interfere in their business

Tinubu can't be born in 1952 Haba

Let's bring out those born in 1952 you will see that Tinubu is the oldest among them

Why is Tinubu 2times older than his mates