Calabar man go say : mbok see better meat for pepper soup.

Damn! Now that's a story!

Cheif, you mean your wife goes to work early in the morning comes back to cook for you while you were all day idle at home. You leave her to go hang out with you your friends till around 12 to 1am?!!! And you are wondering why she shouts and nags every time you get back late?

Did it ever occur to you that she was worried about your safety and cares enough that you get back home before she can lock up the house and go to bed assured her family is safe. Do you know your selfishness will make her not get enough sleep cos she being the breadwinner of the house has to get up early, prepare the kids and go to work the next day. How do you think she can be productive?

See eh? I use to assume I was irresponsible because I secretly cheat on my wife with a side chick, though I provide, protect, encourage and care for her in every expected way, But I now realize that I'm only a back benching floor member in irresponsibility while you are the Exco president!

Frankbikk:
I am a Christian. Sometimes,it is not easy keeping oneself (from sexual sin).This period has even made it worse because of the lockdown. Before the lockdon,i can go to work and return by 7. I will cook and bath and before you know it,I am already asleep till the next day. But now, staying at home twenty four hours a day. Except working online. The urge is on a high side. I usually think getting married is the only way to reducing sexual urge.
Does getting married reduce sexual urge? Does your wife always give it to you anytime you want it?
I wanted to get married so as to reduce the urge drastically. But do you think this is the solution?
No insult. Matured mind only

Bro. Let me tell you, sexual urge might reduce when married due to stress and added responsibilities which can affect your libido. And also I'm sorry to tell you this your wife would soon stop allowing you to have sex at your own convenience after marriage. She would allow you only when she wants to, but most of the time she will feign a headache or one of the other hundreds of excuses in her mind.

So at these times if you are the type with a high sex drive you have to just cope with a big unsatisfied boner sulking all day or just get yourself a side chick to ease it off.

It is a well know fact that Igbo men strive to achieve as much wealth to be able to pay the very heavy bride prices levied on them if they decide to marry from their kin, most Igbo women come into a ready made home full of the man's lone struggles all the days of his youth till date, that's why an Igbo woman who loves her hubby cannot claim all his inheritance because she wasn't there when he struggled for it, his own family who were with him have the say about that.

Igbo women know they have to keep married despite any bad issues they might face in their marriages and must be willing to pay back the heavy bride price the hubby paid to have them.

stupidity:
My first play sex was with an aunts house maid. She was older, from Togo.

This girl fine fa!!. It was from her I knew humans grow hair inbetween their legs.

Every night I’ll go inside and hide. (The normal play) when she catches me, she’ll keep touching and teasing, the idiot will stand up.

Then she’ll spread it open. I still can’t forget that pinky stuffs I kept wondering why and how it’s so pink.

Many of these stories abound as I said. Women were the first rapists of most men, because no matter how much you as a child seemed to like or enjoy it, you were not yet able to consent to the act which is technically phedophilic rape!

I came across these pictures online of a sexualized children's party, you can actually see an adult lady in it probably expected to have the kids under her watch but instead urging them on with their dirty dancing.

Check this link on nairaland https://www.nairaland.com/2530107/omg-small-children-rocking-themselves

Also below are pictures of other kids' parties where sexually suggestive dirty dancing seems to be the norm.
Imagine these innocent kids at this age being encouraged to continue by the supervising adults one can only wonder the mindset of these little boys about parties and ladies as they grow up.

And years later ladies would call them dogs when they dont see them as anything but a play thing for excitement?

LordKO:


OK. My plan before I asked and got an answer from you was to assemble my kinsmen to follow me come and ask you how we offended you. I thank God say we no offend U. Lol.

Oh are you from a place called Igbo Tutu in reality?

There was a certain case I heard about in a certain private school in Lagos where some kids of about 8-9years old were caught having sex in a school toilet, the boy's dad was an upstanding pastor and this was shocking to all those around.

On further enquiry from the kids how he got to be sexually aware the boy said their maid who though never physically touched him or his siblings always watched hardcore porn all day on the family computer with them around when they were all alone in her care. This had gone on for many years unknown to their parents.

Mizwisdom:



Do you know that many guys pray to be sexually exploited by women? I'm totally against it but if a guy complains of rape fellow males will call him a phool, there goes your answer.

Most guys who are much older and sexually aware would welcome a come on or rape by a lady, but this is about the kids, the teenagers who are just ignorant or inquisitive. It's quite common to hear most guys lost their virginity at a young ignorant age by an older trusted relative or person they looked up to or were somehow put in care of...... Mostly a female.

adanny01:
I know a similar case. In his case, he grew up avoiding sex and women. Through our university days, I thought he was still a virgin until he told me what happened. 2 of his grown up aunties were living with his family who used to take turns having him make love to them.

Mindlog:

Toxic masculinity as a defense mechanism has made some feel that males cannot be sexually abused but rationalizing that it is even the female that's even being used. A boy child who admits to being sexually abused should not be construed as weakness.

We often warn girls not to let any man touch them in sensitive areas but never tell boys, this is why little boys don't say anything when the phedophile aunty, househlps or neighbours touch them in sensitive area or make age inappropriate sexual, erotic jokes and gestures sometimes even in the presence of the ignorant parent.

Many of us never saw these acts as wrong hence no reason to report them, many boys even learnt very vulgar sexualized languages and slangs at these stages.

Unknown or totally ignored by society is the fact that strange sexual perversion; which is observed in some men like phedophilia, rapist tendencies, homosexual attitudes, sexual addiction etc can be traced in many instances to this issue of early sexualized children in care of househelps, aunties and even neighbors right under the nose of their ignorant parents.

The Randy lifestyle in young men who can't stop chasing everything in skirts to be used and dumped; or the inability of a man to stay faithful to one lady are some outcomes of this careless attitude rooted in early male child sexual abuse

So each time you ignore the molestation of a male child by ladies expected to care for them you prepare the future for a sexual monster to be unleashed on society.

These predators are sometimes the ones who have turned little unknowing girls to be confused about sexuality and they end up believing they always had gay tendencies, wake up people many started through innocent looking same sex househlps

crackkhaus:
Females (aunts, older cousins, maids, family friends) are the sexual predators no one talks about. Hiding in plain sight, these paedophiles have been able to normalize their behaviours around little innocent boys.

- A female can bathe a boy child and go scot-free. A male cannot bathe a girl child without suspicions.

- Females will show off their breasts and asses in front of little boys on the excuse that they are changing clothes. If a man changes clothes in front of a little girl, the streets will hear it.

- Females can share a bathroom with little boys, but should males try the same thing with little girls, it's a cause for concern.

- You can rape a female even if she was wet, but you can't rape a man who has an erection. The idea of consent only works when it's a female.


These are some of the inequalities pro-women advocates will NEVER talk about because it doesn't fit into their victim narrative.
Apparently, only men can be predators because that's what the MSM would have us believe...but some of us know better.

There are more females walking around who have at one time in their lives exposed themselves to a boy child or touched his weenie unnecessarily than there are males who have exposed themselves to a girl child or touched her funny. FACTS!!!

Very true, the maid actually used to sleep in my room then and most times in the morning I woke up to find her in my bed wearing only pant and me ... Mostly naked.
My mom never really took it seriously cos there was always so much heat and I sweated a lot.

dawnomike:
Growing up, I had 6 sisters so our house use to attract a lot of ladies (friends to my sisters and family friends' daughters)... I never knew I was been molested back then with their luring me to touch 'suplentioisrious' places . I became aware when I grew up to become a teenager.
It never really affected me thoug

Tales like these abound amongst guys. But it's often seen as no biggie.

KELVINXY:
the sexual harassment of the males are usually swept under the carpet and its really worrisome

BTW
Op why dint you complain to your parents

Funny enough, I never knew I was being molested, it started with her trying to wash my body parts thoroughly, then fond.ling me, then telling me to have my bath with her to conserve water which was hard to fetch thenetc. At the point when I knew I was into something bad I was way in too deep and I guess I was enjoying it then. She usually gave me a lot of shut up sweets, extra food and let me get around mom's harsh rules when Mom wasn't home, which was most of the days and weekends anyway.

When I was much younger my mom brought in a house help to help with chores in the home. This quiet churchy house girl defiled me severally from the age of around 6 till I went to boarding house. She used the opportunity of bathing me every morning to play with my Willie and made me to suck her booby, till she gradually opened my eyes to everything about sex, hard core and all. I hated it at first and was disgusted with some of the stuff she made me do but gradually my innocence wore off at a tender age and I became a daring bad @ss.

She was a very dutiful, hard-working, obedient and humble lady on the outside but turned me into a sex addict at a very young age. I have also heard of househelps who awakened homosexual or lesbian tendencies in little boys and girls they were meant to care for while parents were away.

We often hear about the stories of violated girls and scream about it but brush off those done to little boys. I know of a guy who is now gay but had a similar experience with his mom's houseboys, I on the other hand was was trained for the chronic pant shifting life I lived i my younger days.

I'm just wondering if anyone here has gotten any such experience in the past or these days, please share to warn others.

Contrary to all this trash.
From my findings are that women of 30yrs and above are more intelligent, more interesting, more accommodating, more responsible, more financially and emotionally stable and a lot more experienced in life issues the those under 30
They in most cases are better prepared for marriage, family, kids and all that.
Plain truth!!!

Op tell them o, because after lockdown nau mumu gehs will start carrying load to one man's house like that claiming WhatsApp ignited love.

To any babe who wants to fall mumu, especially those sending nudes sorry to break it to you ITS A SCAM!

Liliantalks:
it isn’t cool , don’t get me wrong please.

Cheating is cool joor, especially when a lady always rations sex, this is why most guys would rather go for wild open eyed ladies who are ever ready rather than those "time table for sex" boring goody two shoes wife material ladies.

Godsfavour78:
why did you have unprotected sex? I really want to know.

Becos na heem sweet pass nau.

zimdante:

Bestie my foot, so that wen the boyfriend is not around , the bagger will transform from her bestie to a beast on her bed.

Don't worry too much about the bestie stuff jare, many guys who became besties were once in the babes picture of a perfect guy, in love and all that but were friend zoned after they saw his tiny pencil deek. Unfortunately he's too nice to be completely out of her life hence the bestie position

Kai, that My AkwaIbom chick! The way the whole room starts smelling every time I finish giving her serious rounds of nacking. It smelled like "massacre" a strange but very sexy smell. I used to hate it those days but I never experienced such with any other babe afterwards. So I miss it

lavylilly:
are you married?

Yes I am, read my first post. And my side chick knows and respects this and is comfortable being second place.

lavylilly:
What if his getting it and on a regular and still cheats? Leaving little or nothing for the woman and kids!!!!!!!!!!!!

As I said Good Sex is the main reason why men stray from their homes into the hands of the side chicks. There are so many boring wives who hiss in disgust when their man tries to be adventurous in bed. They have a textbook mechanical procedure for sex which they partake in half heartedly as a duty. No man wants that no matter how regularly he gets it. Sleeping with a woman who is anxious for you to cum and leave her alone only makes a true manly man feel like a sadistic rapist. No real man likes that.

Side chicks are different, they seem to want the man, they make him feel wanted and he mistakes it for real love. They care or at least pretend to care about him asking about his day, some even pray for a good day and good fortunes for the man, extending beyond their primary sex duty. Its no mystery that a person would reciprocate love from where he receives most, where he gets his source of value and perceived strength, this for some men becomes priority and they hence focus their major resources on this person who's the sidechick. It is not right but its human psychology.

I'm sorry to say this, Side chicks are necessary to keep many married men sane these days.

The primary reason men get side chicks is sex!
Men NEED and are programmed to want sex according to Myles Monroe and if wify ain't putting out he will eventually be tempted to get it elsewhere and eventually become addicted.

A larger number of married men are struggling through sexless and loveless marriages despite their efforts to be the best husbands they can be, yet these days any man who complains about his wife not tending to his sexual needs is given a list of like 20 things to do to see if his wife will reconsider his advances. To me that's trash, do you know that with a side chick on a fair budget a man can get the satisfaction he needs without madam being affected or affecting the home front.Yes he can, he only needs wisdom to set his priorities right.

I'm one husband with a very hot secret sidie who services my engine weekly while madam keeps her once in 2months sex timetable after plenty ceremony. Im a model loyal (mumu ) husband and great father at home in every other way. I am happy how things are �

You better go find yourself a side chick. You can still play your part as good hubby at home but konji na bastard. Many men can't function well if they don't get the nookie and unfortunately many women after getting married start listening to some dumb advice to deny their hubbys sex.
Do you know that married men are more attractive to these slay mamas than even the singles, cos they are more matured and know how to be more caring.

I was in your shoes years ago but I now have a super hot side chick who keeps my engine hot and running. I never even knew I could do some crazy styles or last up to 4 rounds until I started cheating. I didn't say be like me but I'm just saying it's working fine for me.
I'm the perfect hubby at home doing my provider and carer duties yet constantly denied sex for several months but I get my thing on a regular outside with my ever accommodating o side babe chikena. Anyone angry with my post just die!

Bros I support you! Mention the girls' names make we know them. E get some Ghanaian actress wey I dey suspect go get bad breath smelly pipo

Hmm person ear break key? Does anyone else on here not think this sounds weird and impossible? The man ear na iron

DeConsultant:


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Hello, please id like to inquire about changing the nature of business i initially registered with the CAC.
For example, if I registered "Jackson & jobs" as an importer and exporter of goods but now I am fully into real estate/property development but still want to maintain the business name Jackson& Jobs which I had registered several years ago due to its popularity amongst my family, friends and clients. Is this possible and what's the cost