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vimi:
Dangote, a man whose life was changed with just 500k by his uncle

Ravenwolf:
No, we won't die, we won't get tired, we won't be stopped, we await the miracles promised by your Messiah the Dullard....


The Dullard made mountains of promises, one week gone and he is still in Chad and Niger buying cows for fura de nunu.

Utchgirl:
ka m mere gi ebere

zed7:
How many Nigerian women have left their husbands for cheating only? Most cases of divorce I've seen is because of abuse, neglect, irresponsibility and maybe in addition to cheating.

Yet to see a woman who marries a hardworking, providing, and decent man whose only weakness is cheating. Men fantasize about sleeping with any good looking female. Sex doesn't equate to love for men, more like adventure.

onatisi:
this is the truth majority of young married ladies don't understand. But older married women do and that is why they are never bothered when they learn their husbands in cheating outside ,their only problem is him marrying them. Now we have married women who even pack condoms into their husband things when he is traveling. Women must know that the first thing in a man brain about the opposite sex is sex .that is the way god created us.

Ravenwolf:
Said it bwfore.... Will say it again.... The Dullard of Daura will make Nigerians wish they hadn't been so gullible.

I have a feeling this presidency would have the feel of his earlier stint... Docile Buhari In the background while the vice president runs the show.....

The Dullard of Daura made me expect a situation where he hits the ground running, his mannerisms and speech were obvious tells, he promised that.... But I haven't seen jack... And I am also fuxken tired of hearing nothing.... The fuel crises is still on... You said you would end it within hours.... Days and counting the scarcity persists... I can even say without any fear of correction that the only thing Buhari seems to excel in at the moment is filling his thick head with fura de nunu while people are dying.

superior1:
And that yeye ogogoro man Jona released her killer from jail

Abagworo:
Silly post. After heavy rains there must definitely be flooding especially in a city on flat marshy land like Aba. The issue is how long the flooding persists. If you visit same place 5 hours later and there is still flooding then it means either lack of adequate drainage or in most cases blocked drainage.

The blame actually goes to Aba people who deliberately dump refuse on the road or in the drainage. If those drainages were not blocked it would not take up to 2hours after the rain for the roads to clear.

medamillion:
Desist from spewing thrash about Islam, STOP it!
Say nothing about what you lack knowledge on.
Bokoharam is not in anyway practising the ideology of Islam.

Many people (terrorists) have also committed a lot of attrocities in the past all in the name of CHRISTIANITY, this doesn't make the religion an evil one as some brainwashed fellows are painting Islam.

These are Christian Terrorist organisations that have come up in the past.
1)National Liberation Front of Tripura
2)Antibalaka
3)The Aryan Nations
4)The Christian Identity Movement
5)The Orange Volunteers
6)Catholic Reaction Force/Protestant Action Force etc

READ ABOUT THEM.

Christian Terrorists:
1) Joseph Kony:
#The founder of the Aryan Nations:
Wesley Swift
#The founder Antibalaka Group
Levy Yakete

I have formerly addressed these issue on this thread but THEY won't stop their religion blackmail of Islam.
https://www.nairaland.com/2196623/terrorism-blame-extremists-not-religion

Becareful what you say, so that you won't blame yourself in the hereafter.

lurlah2014:
1. Is for better or worse making me better or worse?

Does your partner encourage you to be your best self, or does he or she get intimidated by any triumphs and feel more secure when you're not putting your best foot forward?

2. Do we really accept one another?

There will always be things you want to change about the people in your life, but no one should be in a situation where they feel they aren't allowed to be authentic and accepted as the unique, special (yet flawed) person they are.

3. Who am I?

How can you know if your partner is a good match if you have no idea who you are?

4. Am I happy to be in this relationship?

The idea of sharing a life together is not to find someone to complete you or make you happy. But let's face it: being unhappy at home can seep into other areas of your life . . . and fast. If you're always fighting or just generally not feeling great about your twosome, it doesn't mean you have to bail out (counseling might be a good option) but marrying someone in the hope that it changes things is a bad, bad idea.

5. Am I feeling trapped?

Do you really want to be in this relationship the majority of the time or do you find yourself wishing for a way out? Do you stay because you've invested time or are you really invested in your mate?

6. What am I doing to hold us back?

Maybe you could be more attentive, more thoughtful, quicker to let things go, or the first to bring up going to counseling. Whatever it is, take this as your sign to step up.

7. Is this relationship balanced?

Do you feel you're both on the same page in terms of compromise, care, support and sacrifice? Or is one of you doing most of the giving while the other just sits with their hand out?

8. Can we have fun together?

Have you ever seen two people sit across from one another in silence at brunch as though they are being forced to walk through their day together? Not. fun.

9. Can we have fun apart?

Co-dependency ain't cute, y'all.

10. Why am I in this relationship?

Is it because you respect, love, trust, and value the person you are with? Or because you're afraid of being alone, worried about finances, or have built a life you're scared to leave?

11. Where is this going?

Living in the "now" is great, but eventually the partnership will need a plan or someone will begin to feel anxious.

12. Do I really trust my partner?

For some, the immediate response to this can be devastating. If you're one of them, it's time to ask why and how you can begin to build or rebuild trust. Without it, there's no chance.

13. Am I with a good person?

Knowing what you know about your partner today, would you vouch for them if they were a friend?

14. Am I attracted to my partner?

Physical attraction is hardly the most important component in a relationship, but forcing yourself to be in a relationship with someone who you're not attracted to — just because it's comfortable or "perfect on paper" isn't fair to anyone. You will feel resentful and they will feel rejected.

15. Am I a parent or a partner?

Taking care of someone you love is a great thing to do, but when you feel like you're raising a boyfriend — or worse, a husband — things get a little complicated. You'll resent his childish ways. Who wants to sleep with their mom?

16. Does my partner have my back?

Do you feel like you're a part of a loyal team who stands up for one another, supports one another, and shows a united front (even when the other is not around)? Or, do you feel like you're constantly being thrown under the bus by your mate?

17. Are we looking in the same direction?

Some couples avoid having the big talks (religion, marriage, babies) because they think that, somehow, these things will just "work themselves out." By the time they realize they won't, they're in a complicated, painful situation that leaves one (or both) feeling a little bit duped.

18. Are we growing together?

Being a human being living on this earth, we all have a right to grow and develop, and create a full life for ourselves. Are you and your partner still indulging in your passions (individual and shared) and growing as individuals?

19. Am I still me?

Being in love with someone should not require changing our identity to fit someone else's idea of who we should be, on any level.

20. What is my gut telling me?

You have intuition for a reason. Listen to yourself.

http://citifmonline.com/2015/05/29/dont-marry-someone-until-you-can-honestly-answer-these-20-qs/

Utchgirl:
ka m mere gi ebere

Utchgirl:
ka m mere gi ebere

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Utchgirl:
onye amuma ugha


chineke kpokwa gi oku

Utchgirl:
For ur mind

Utchgirl:
ntorrrr gi

Utchgirl:
Mo ti gbo oooo


keep on opening n closing ur mouth.



Anuofia

swezenberg:
Sorry about that my brother. I still appreciate our law enforcement agencies for now allowing another two heads to be chopped off in China

swezenberg:
Did you sit down to read what you have posted at all. Did you see the part that says they were enroute to China. What kind of stupid achievement is one to be jealous of. What Government forces you to injest cocaine in your Vg. As for catching them, I blame our enforcement agents for that. They should have allowed them to be caught in China. So if it were your part of the country you would have allowed them to travel with it. Pennywise pound foolish. If Yorubas were to reason like you, they would just let them travel with it and inform the Chinese government. I just pointed out how daft your post is.

Utchgirl:
Before anytin, jus go and check d meaning of 'Seem'







Let's start 4rm dia



Anu npama

EverestdeBliu:
Lastprophet,are u saying that there was a stable power supply within the period of '83-'85?

Utchgirl:
Seems all of dem r 4rm southwest. Dts Y people 4rm dt side r nt commenting. If these criminals r 4rm SouthEast now, d reverse wuld hv bin d case.







Quote me if u like

EverestdeBliu:
I literally have no probs with him fighting corruption,but my stand is that he should try and prosecute anyone found wanting; whether PDP,APC,Hausa,Yoruba,Igbo,Ijaw,etc. He shouldn't be biased. I don't want to hear,he gave one 2days imprisonment and sentenced the other to 200years.
....
Talking about power; the power situation didn't just start with GEJ administration,it has been there even before independence,it was there throughout Buhari's military regime and Obasanjo/Atiku (who are now APC chieftains) 8years tenure.

ITbomb:
Did you read the article at all?

ifedubatoochukw:
I repeat once again the Central Military Command are not combatant soldiers they are experts there you find computer scientist manning the drones and satellite images rebroadcasting Enemy troop location to the combatant soldiers on ground and the airforces, there you even find Military nuclear experts etc..

they gather information, plan and cordinate military assaults ...

Central Military Command is an intelligent unit in the Army that is where military operation is directed using satellite images .. Buhari in this single directive acted as a man who is no longer in touch with modern military techniques



Nigeria military Command Area Of Responsibilty covers the whole of Nigeria and outside Nigeria where our troops are stationed currently

so it is very much senseless to relocate such a unit with sensitive data right at the frontline as if modern military intelligent information is gotten by trekking around sambisa forest in the middle of the Night? what are military satellites for? and surveillance drones?

cococandy:
my dear nobody is above learning.
I've learned from great folks like you that divorce is evil and is the devil's weapon against God's awesome plan for families all over the world.

So henceforth I've repented of my stand and agree with you that people should endure adultery, pray for God's grace and work on their marriages instead of walking out because of little issues like cheating.

wy2000:
You STILL dont want to let go! Gullible People

SMH...

route6six:
Liars Go To Hell , Dr Kale is still in Nigeria