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Gerrard59:
It is good you know it is not easy to remain after studies in the US. That said, no company will issue you a work visa based on truck driving. Your best aim is to marry an American, most likely an African American, so you can obtain Green Card status (permanent residency). Also, authorities don't recognise certain skills certifications obtained from certain developing countries. If that were possible, the US would have listed Nigeria alongside South Africa in visa classes for certain jobs.



I checked Reddit/MBA, the labour market is dealing with foreigners really bad. Indians don hear am after collecting hooge loans. That is the advantage our people, especially men, have: there is an existing black population to mingle with and marry. Like this now, if I want to school in the US, I would target Atlanta where rumours have it that black women are in dire need of single and heterosexual black men to date and marry.

Green card in the bag

Let him know how long it could take which is getting longer by the day, also that you can never travel out of the country until your papers are done, and also that AA women are now the most wicked evil species in the US, they will frustrate you, hide your papers if it comes in your absence, cause you to get angry towards when your paper uses ready so they can throw you out, their kids will try your patience to the high heavens, and a 5-year trip could easily turn to a 15 years experience. OP don't go to the US, go to Canada

chronique:
You are confusing the money with child support. The $800 is not alimony/child support. It's just to hire a nanny. He pays for everything else from tuition, feeding, clothing, house rent, etc. $800 is just one of the several things he is to pay for.

Oh I see, then that is actually too much, thanks for the correction

Iamicekid:
It is, cause that just nanny fee, ur own Neigbour total amount for a month is 990 which covers feeding clothing and all but Davido own na only nanny fee, when u add school fees, clothing, feeding and housing then u will know what’s up, if na so that money easy make u will be a billionaire also

I'm not the one that claim to wear N30 billion jewelry

NoGreeForAnyhod:
That's his problem. He was Speaker for 4 years, and he was paid. Nigeria owes him nothing.

He was supposed to be a professional in any field which is expected to provide him food, clothing, and shelter. Anybody that thinks otherwise should be publicly executed

That is it, but we must still comment him for the exemplary character which is what we should encourage

C2Ok:
Not sure MTN would survive in developed western societies… lawsuits would make them go bankrupt within a couple of years🤌

Weeks not years

Iamicekid:
Cause he is Davido con mean se make he dey spend him money anyhow, if she can’t take care of the child then give the child to her father and if u don’t want to then be reasonable with the amount you going to ask for, ur child is not your meal ticket or poverty alleviation scheme, Davido has kids with girls in London and USA, those girls ain’t asking for such ridiculous amount even with the fact that they are outside the country and things are more expensive there yet they are reasonable, na u wey ur pikin dey 9ja wan come dey collect $800 monthly person wey dey mad

the amount is not ridiculous, always seek deep knowledge first before talking especially when others say something strange to you. My neighbor a normal Akwa Ibom man pays $990 per month alimony to former wife who is an illiterate AA. Davido flashes private jets and 30 billion jewelry everyday with police escort even to the toilet, he's silly not to want to pay $800/month, advise him and stop defending nonsense

SalamRushdie:
Tinubu should take it easy with this one ..no need to throw away the bathwater and baby..This is how Barth Nnaji was removed when he was fixing electricity

Yes, that was how Madi Sambo single handedly destroyed Nigerians electricity completely, sold Nepa to politicians who have no clue what electricity is. But this is Nigeria one day you will Sambo running for president

Karlifate:
All those advocates screaming: "include youths", "include women" in politics are nowhere to be found now.


Youths (and women) are being given opportunity to serve & create a good standard for their [young] successors. They didn't do that, but decided to turn the dilapidated country sidedownup

It's because of the society we created.

advanceDNA:
What are u saying?? iran is an Islamic state..100% governed by Islam laws

So non nigerians can break Nigerian law when they enter our country ??

But you insist on your right to wear your hijab in a Christian country like UK or France Abi?

cenaman:
I believe they (the 4 traditional rulers) didn't support the evil party called APC in the last governorship election.

Of course that us clear and unfortunately our politicians think this kind of misbehavior is sustainable, can you build a country like this? Azikiwe had nothing that pointed to him as a rich man, Tafawa Balewa had nothing despite being a premier, Sardauna did not leave houses and mansions for his children, I don't know what people think leadership is, as at today Bello has more money than his state but to what end? I was ill for some months in the last year and accumulated medical fees of over $44,000 in a hospital, a foundation I didn't know of came and wiped the bill. That's why white people continue to progress because they know what it means to be human. There's a hospital Houston Texas called saint Jude hospital, they not only treat children with cancer for free, they also take care of the living expenses of family members that are around to look after the child. In the life you are stealing just in order to chase clout like the majority of deluded people around nowadays, another person is treating thousands of children for free and feeding their families. What is wrong with us black people, how long do we want to remain the laughing stock of the world? How long?

36yr old lady that's made minister in the most unlikely country resorts to stealing instead of creating name for herself. Just like yaya bello who would have set himself up as an icon the youth can look up to but rather chose to steal from poor logic indigenous and murder opponents. What an unfortunate country

RenaissanceGuy:
These murderers with their unending lies?? I think you people didn't count well; it was 3.5 people you lost.

The Fulanis get attacked too but because they don't speak out nobody hears it. It's good they are revealing all these so the govt should investigate then try to create peace

ObiCertificate:
Very soon the real truth about the killings on the Plateau and other restive parts of the country will be exposed.

By tagging every single crime to Fulani Herdsmen out of sentiments, we could be making it even harder to identify the true perpetrators and stop the senseless killings.

Kudos to VeryDarkMan. Celeb with sense.

Have you asked yourself why is the Fulani not concerned with explaining their side if the story? Maybe they have a grievance in the whole matter but why can't they come forward and tell the world their side of the story? After you kill people either in retaliation or something, why not come forward and explain? So you shouldn't be the one explaining for someone who did not care to explain. I have gotten some information of late and I see that the Fulanis are also victims at times when their settlements are attacked and even wiped out, but it never reaches the media. But when they retaliate the news is everywhere, but I think it's best if they explain and expose their own side of the story. And the issue that most of these is even caused by Fulanis from another country, that's a whole issue on it's own entirely

YoshihideSuga:
Achievement is subjective. Marriage might not be an achievement to you, but it's to others.

Live and let's live.

Nobody said you cannot marry or that it is bad. no it's even a good thing but it's not the ONLY good thing. There are other things too and some of which are more important. I',m married but it's not in my top 4 achievements. If I buy a house the house cannot change its mind tomorrow and say I'm no longer the owner, it;'s a hard asset. If I get a degree it is a hard asset it cannot be changed by the mind of another person, I remain a degree holder. I wont tell you the rest, ask around for people like Oscar Onyeama, this is pathetic

This is why Nigeria is poor and continues to remain poor. At the dawn of 2024 all a youth can think of is marriage even after it has been debunked as an achievement. I'm sure this young person is a graduate and if you ask him/her of what contributions he hopes to make to his practice he'd not have an idea. He just wants to get married, have lovely kids he can post on social media, and taunt others with wedding anniversaries etc. Eya, how did our education fail like this? Who will tell these deluded youths that your marriage is your business and it means absolutely nothing to an increasing number of people nowadays?

Eliminate indigenes at the rural area levels, dont bother with urban areas because they belong to no one after all. That is the strategy playing out. Plateau Governor and others you can go back to your slumber now

StrongAlphMale:
The earlier Africa is recolonize, the better for us all.

Gbam! That's all the truth

One among the many things Ganduje did well, Ganduje thoroughly fixed Kano and no argument there. Kwankwaso started it though, but Ganduje finished it

Since that family is the only family you focus on then your downfall will ultimately come from there. Of all the families and people in the whole world you decide to focus on only one. You are the one that went to look for that step sister, stop telling us lies here, and you will see what you went for quote me

Abifarin16:
Just Imagine what will happen If their candidate had won?
This is an eye opener, abysmal sour losers.
This will jeopardize their candidate come election time, the internet don't forget.

You are a foooool not to be interested in why a First degree holder will ask his university not to release his result, you are pathetic. I'm igala not ibo muuumu

Botragelad:
France is saying, listen, we don't have anything against your religion, but I think you should keep it at home. It's a private thing, innit? You don't need to flaunt it in public, especially not in school. School is a place for learning, not for preaching/spreading religion. France is a secularized country, meaning that it separates religion and state. That's why they banned the abbaya and other religious symbols in state schools. It's not discrimination, it's integration. They want everyone to feel equal and free, regardless of their faith.

France is already a Muslim country within the next 30 years whether they like it or not. Muslim strategists have finished their life before they realized it

OyeofIkoTuN:
When you are done spreading propaganda...Take a number and join the slave queue .. Your name will be called.

Lobatan

Does taking new vehicles invalidate what he just told you? He referred to a particular incident with pictures and your counter is what? Just picture? I know you must be igbo

Omoawoke2:
The hatred only exist in your head. There are over 200 tribes in Nigeria, nobody has your time. You only seeking attention and validation because you feel you are not relevant

There's nothing you will tell him that he will understand, even their home video doesn't sell if the story is not about hatred so pity the boy. In their culture they are not taught that you earn love or hatred by your attitude, they are only taught about hatred for the sake of nothing. Every ibo is brought up to think he deserves admiration no matter his behavior. You should love no matter what. Stewpid set of clowns

TajuDEENaMao:
With this alone Tinubu is a goner. The supreme court of Nigeria will have no choice than sacking him from office.

You mean the supreme Court in the hand of Wike and Odillis wife? Or another one?

If she's Fulani nothing will happen, these southerners don't know anything

addmole:
She was not a virgin before I MARRIED HER. Infact I know her ex. Though she doesn't cheat on me. She loves to be alone, make money, cruise, vibes with her friends, family. But not with me. Dont cuddle her, don't tickle, don't laugh with her. She gets angry with every little thing. Doesnt apologise. I once cheated on her but apologised. But now, she's starving me of sex, coupled with the height of disrespect from her. Last time I CALLED her elder brother about our frequent quarells. He just said he would talk to her. But he never did. Her mother shouted at me, if i wanted to divorce her, i should go ahead. So much quarells. I am tired. She even left the family prayer whatsapp group i created. OMO, I don't know what to do. I am just tired.

All these churchy dumb dreamers that preach marriage is everything, your eye don clear now abi? You forced yourself on her, she never really send you from day 1. You irritate her in case you don't know. The day you will accept yourself and stop being fake then you will start living. Your wife is very lucky, if is me she for no see sex sef not to talk less of refusing it. And what are you doing with sex 3 times a week for the past 5 years with the same person?! Kai I may not even blame your wife sef, you don't seem to have big things you pursuing. I can't have sex even twice a week.

Offpointng:
Reason why I tell young men like myself, Dont allow Love becloud your senses of reasoning. Trust me the sign were always right there, you were just blind to it

I used to have what you'd call an Ex then, Same way OP describe his wife was exactly who she is. Twinkling annoys her and she immediately changes it for you, hugs from the back esp when she's in the kitchen immediately changes her mood and get her so angry, Simple romance like hugging (common hugging) she'd push you away, You can't have a healthy and Intelligent talk with her, Always defensive and hardly apologises, Any Play other than the use of mouth to call each other Big head is a No No for her, Loves sleeping like some descendants of Koala, So boring and everything bored you can think of. Firstly, I thought all these happened cuz she's still a Virgin at that age, but I've got Virgin friends that we play and have lotta fun without having sex and are not so boring like she is. Later Got to find out that's just who she was, not cuz she's a virgin or something

So that faithful night we were all loved up on chat and we chatted till she wanted to sleep and told me we'd chat the next day, so we said the lovers Good night and went to bed. But before I got to sleep, I told myself I'm so done with this girl. Normally, she always expects I do the Good morning text first or the Good morning call all the time. But this time, woke up and din call her or text her Good morning, I went bout my normal day activities like she never existed. All those time till in the evening she never call or texted until I uploaded a picture of Myself and my guys chilling bfr we replied the status and of cuz some Rude Bullshit text, I read and din reply.

She called me that night bout twice and I din pick nor returned the call, of course she took to WhatsApp again forming boss lady, I made sure i read and din reply and went to sleep putting my phone on flight mode incase she wanna disturb my sleep with calls.

Oooboy I dabaru that girl head cuz we had no fight the night bfr, we chatted so cool and was even talking bout marriage plans next day she kept calling and calling, pick for where. took her sis phone to call me unknown to me I picked, my people come see cool broken voice that I've not heard in months. I immediately cut and blocked. Any she took to crying on VN telling me if she's done anything forgive me bla bla, But nigga man's mind was made up. She got into depression and every effort her, her friends, her family made to reach out to me, I blocked em all. I moved on. Well after so many months I'm glad to let y'all know she's still single cuz I doubt any guy can be patient with her like I was

So Op the signs were always there, you just turned blind eyes to em.

Na man you be, correct man, that's exactly how to treat fuckup.
The op is a classified muumu

GanagiBitrus:
There are people being paid salaries that are responsible for approving buildings. Why didn't they stop such illegal structures? They should also be arrested for negligence of duty.

They never touch them because civil servants defend each other

Tareq1105:
LastProphet, don't twist the issue. He was talking about mentorship. How can you be Gov for 8 yrs and we cannot see some of your Commissioners out there for you. That doesn't mean godfatherism.

The truth is Obi didn't mentor anyone. Tinubu mentored a lot of people and till today, 90% of them are still around him among which one of them succeeded him as Gov.

Who succeeded Obi as Gov? Obiano did. Was Obiano in his cabinet? No. He was an Executive Director in Fidelity Bank where Obi has a major share. Is that mentorship? Obi didn't see anyone worthy to take over from him after they worked with him for 8 yrs. He had to bring someone from his Bank and what happened after 3 months? Party scattered, relationship scattered and guy man jumped ship to PDP for appointment. Have you seen Tinubu decamped before?

Yes, Obi children may not attend election rallies but they would have turned up for inauguration if Obi had won. So, forget that, we're not kids.

Just sit back and rethink what you said - the governor that decides the next governor, do you really like him? Is that what the electorate wants? We always called such people by a name and you should know that. Obi did not support anyone to succeed him, yes he blessed obiano because of party obligations but he never supported anyone. See, the electorate has always lost when paddy-paddy people run public office, just think back. In the countries where things are working, how many times do you hear things like: "I'm the one that made him commissioner, I mentored him, bla blah blah.." Have you ever heard that? All the Tinubu commissioners did they do it for free? Where are their names now? Ministerial list? The first failure of most naija leaders is this very thing you are talking about!!! Don't you get it? Obis method is the way out, help people but don't keep them as boys and you as the godfather - that's how we got here

favor914:
It absolutely reeks of hypocrisy that Gringory Obi is going around talking about how to fix Nigeria, but his track record shows that he is only interested in his own success and not the success of others.

Sir Tntsi, how can Pandora Pete, as a former Governor and Chairman of a bank, and a multinational corporation, not have people you mentored following you around? None of his predecessors or successor governors of Anambra State be it Apga or pdp included, We know people in his cadre who still have those who worked with them while they were governors, ie Bola Ahmed Tinubu, but in his case.

None of his commissioners has been heard of, or seen in his team or around? Perhaps, after Peter Obi, there will not be another person who represents the values he claims, That is not a good leadership example.

Please I await your reply, Penguin2 or Racoon could help you in explaining

That very thing you mentioned, keeping boys you helped become commissioner, playing godfather to so-called boys is what has brought Nigeria to it's knees. Did you see obis children during the campaign? Was he a bad father to them? Be prepared to serve Tinubu's family because there will be office of the first son, office of first daughter, and so on, same nonsense since 1960 and this one is here begging for it all over again