₦airaland Forum

eyeview:
And you say she is a pastor in RCCG?
Where then is her humility? A lot of these people are not broken one bit. Pride and arrogance.
Anyway, she can fool people as a Christian and pastor, but God sees and knows the depth of her heart and will treat her accordingly.
The church should just reassign the pastor elsewhere, get him settled down for his family's sake. They should not dignify the woman by seeking her audience.
Look at the kind of arrogant thing that RCCG is parading as it's pastor. They crowd themsrlves every first Friday to block front seats at redemption camp to listen to Daddy GO but has refused to heed to his teachings or adopt his lifestyle of humility.
May God reward her accordingly

That you spiced your comment with "god" doesn't make it any less political.
You are just another bitter hater. You are one of those who defend all
immoral acts of pastors and G.O's but Ambode's wife doesn't qualify for
your loyalty because she is ambode's wife.

If she is your god of men, your excuse will include that she is only human,
we are not infallible bla bla bla but here you are acting saintly.

In Christianity, anything can be justified,
that is when you will hear I am covered by
grace.
This 10 walks is too long, the important
one followed by most christian is to attend
church service, defend pastor and pay tithe.
Anything goes after that.

thesicilian:
They would have still been detected, so no difference really.

Being detected has never stop people from stealing e.g our politicians
and yahoo boys.

The most presidential Igbo man. Ride on.

Alitair:
Could you enlighten me on the ivf.... Is there a bad side to it on the mother or child(ren)?

IVF is not bad just that Nigerians prefer miracle stories to be told
about their kid than the doctors stories.

Congratulations to the couple and the doctors who made it happen.

The man should visit a specialist or teaching hospital,
the problem is probably genetic.

freddymanny49:
Hello NL,

I don fumble men. Some lady came over to my place to sleep over. As usual things went down that i couldn't help but release my sperm in this young lady. I bought her contraceptive pills to use but it turns out that she didn't use them. Now she called me to tell me that she hasn't seen her period for days now and i banged this chick first Friday of this month.

I am so confused because I have a girl I want to marry and i am truly in love with this girl i want to. My world is crashing because of a stupid choice i just made by sleeping with an ex without a condom. Now she wants
to keep the baby which I am cool with. My concern is that her people will force me to marry her. I cant marry a woman that i am not in love with.

What do i do? What do i do? I don't want to be forced into marriage because of circumstance.

This chick forced herself on me to sleep with her and i was drunk and under influence of hard drugs when this happened.

Now I am rambling and rambling because I don't genuinely love this girl. She is someone i am not even proud to show the world. The girl i want to marry comes from an affluent background just like i do. How do i handle this?

@OP, it is unfortunate that you slept with an ex without condom,
let us even forget the pregnancy for now.
You were proud of cheating but not your cheating partner.
I will advice you go test yourself for STIs, the only person I pity
is your girlfriend who might be infected without knowing.

Prepare to be a father in 8 months time.

@OP, it is unfortunate that you slept with an ex without condom,
let us even forget the pregnancy for now.
I will advice you go test yourself for STIs, the only person I pity
is your girlfriend who might be infected without knowing.

blizard44:
You're in a country where you can't decide your own existence - where and how you want to live, and you think you're not in bondage?

The zoo is called Zoo because the resident animals are caged and not allowed to roam free. But then, the animals are fed.

This one we're caged here, with we paying tax and no commensurate commitment from the people we're taxing to, is it not safe to call it a hostage and slavery situation?

You don't need anybody's permission to emancipate yourself - including that midget's.

Well done the lion of the slave tribe of Nigeria.
I feel your pain.

ekems2017:
Pls can the op stop using the name of the church in this matter and use the useless man's name?
It's not the church that sent him to destroy that young girl's future.

Let him face the music. Pls stop painting the church black.
Note : Am not a member of Christ Embassy

When he stage manages a miracle magic, you ascribe
it to the church but when he sexually assault a woman as
most pastors do, you quickly reject him.
Where is your conscience ?

three:
Not because he sacked a religious leader but these man's actions speak greatly to his character

He appears to enjoy wielding unilateral power and taking impulsive decisions for the WRONG reasons masked with a veneer of 'progress'.

His online apologists are always on standby to argue nonsense to the ground.

How is that any of your business ?

Dexema:
Which one is husband material again? For me Once you are attracted to someone, you understand each other (sexually inclusive) and you guys can pull resources to stay afloat and build a life wetin remain again?

NB: if you like someone and you guys understand each other in the bedroom, there's a high probability you will understand each other in other aspects.

Yes there are husband material and there are men only good for sex,
that is the way many modern women see it.
They will never let go of their cash cow because he is rich and influential
and is often busy,
and they will still retain the fuckboy whose only worth is the sex he can
offer.
Remeber , no matter how good a husband is, there are always better
men outside who are specialist in bed affairs.

Only a woman knows who she understands in the bedroom as there
are a lot of pretense involve especially when the man can offer her
financial security.

So she go for the husband material, even though he isn't the best man
she has ever met, knowing that she can always employ the services of
her numerous exes who are far better in bed.

Dexema:
More reason why you need to find someone who has same level of sxual appetite who you are attracted to and stick with him.

They won't stick with such because he is only good in bed and is not
husband material.

Chidex2442:
Marry an Nsukka woman and you won't bother kaif she cheats cos she knows the consequences

Forget that myth, some smart cheat have learned it is all bullshit
and have used the opportunity to go wild, meanwhile the husband
would think he has a faithful wife because of the "consequences".

soberdrunk:
Are you for real? Did you just type this? Are you aware that people live in 'earthquake' zones, imagine if their government has this same mentality, do you know how many deaths will be recorded yearly??

As I stated there is nothing anyone can do about it.
Some parts of the US suffers from hurricane and wildfire every year
and I haven't seen anyone apportioning blame because they understand
that raging nature can't be tamed.

BoleynDynaSTY:
And Rochas the criminal is always dirty and indecent with that classless muffler always around his neck like an agbero

Take heart, IPOB women leader, Okorocha remains the only presidential material
in the entire south-east.

soberdrunk:
..................and yet some of them will still come out and protest for their 'Mama' and her millions of dollars in her account, they will defend their hero of democracy to the high heavens..........

It is caused by natural force, it can happen anywhere and no one is to
be blamed for it.

jomonic:
Why is that a problem if Midwesterners are not Yoruba and they are happy to have their own region. The Zik I know promoted national integration so your claim is very unfounded. But Zik became aware of Awo's subterranean moves to ally with the Sarduana but pretended that he was open to political alliance with the east. Both Zik and Sarduana understood the nature of Awo and this served as the impetus for Igbo / Hausa alliance. Hausa people are great people. It is still possible to mend fences with them if there are no external influences. Our problem with the Hausa is solvable.

I suspect all the IPOB agitation was about how to get into the good book of the Hausa's,
it is an attention seeking ploy,
we know the real slaves of the Fulanis.

RichYoungNigga:

What drugs are you on ?? Stupidity pills ??

What is "Above their class" ??

Mention any woman that married a man in her class

And Jay Z is married to Beyonce who is $600 million less than him and will never achieve what he has achieved

And E money is married to an unemployed woman

And Mark Zuckerberg is married to an unemployed woman

And Fashola is married to an unemployed woman

I've told you to stop doing drugs, it's not good for your little brain

Sorry to burst your bubble but you are wrong, if you can educate yourself
more you will eventually understand that the world is not black and white.
There are many marriages which the husband depend on the wife with higher
class but you won't hear about it because no sane wife will publicly degrade her husaband.
One example I know of is Mary Akpobome and Ali baba,
the woman was of a higher class when they started.

missioner:
mine is simply that I don't see anything wrong in Gay.

Congratulations Mr. GAYbriel more oil to your bum.

dingbang:
Urm I thought a secret might be something like you are a gay or Smth..


Fighting na normal thing na.. That one no be secret

Are you looking for moral support ?

Blizzy9ja:
Madam KOO, as she likes to call herself has been in Port Harcourt jail for about three months now and although she reportedly secured bail, but does not seem to have the funds to take care of her legal fees and secure her bail. She was arrested on March 14, 2017 on the orders of the Inspector General over a story she about actress Iyabo Ojo and Pastor David Ibiyeomie committing adultery despite being advised to take down the story.
This should serve as a deterent to all the other bloggers and online attention seekers that intend to malign and destroy the reputation of people in our society especially God's servant, always remember it is clearly written in Psalm 105:5 Saying touch not mine anointed and do my prophet no harm.
Madam KOO is a typical example of God's wrath metted on a defaulter of his command about touching his anointed. It could come in any form and she is lucky because she will have a chance to tell her story when she's out. I hope and believe she has learnt her lessons and will turn a new leaf when she finally secured her bail.

@blizzy9ja

So you are celebrating oppression because your pastor is involved ?

ifenes:
Keep crying and exhibiting self hate. Saying Ebuka and I are less intelligent is totally out of the line. I think this sub Saharas are less intelligent thing is a story about your family. You feel inferior to others and want to make others feel like you. Misery love company.

Spot on, that guy is probably mentally retarded, that is why he thinks
his personal life failure is the norm for all Africans.
Unfortunately, white supremacist love people like him because
he works for them for free without even knowing it.

CreamyMoltenLar:
Humans and bonobo monkeys are among the few higher animals that don't operate sexually on strick mating periods. So yes, sexuality plays a large role in our existence, we actually use sex as a social construct. We are highly sexual creatures. I already submitted that some women are incapable of enjoying sex due to various physical and psychological issues, but a normal healthy female ought to feel intense pleasure if her vagina is orally stimulated. The clitoris is highly sensitive and has a million and one nerve endings, so reasonably one can assume stimulating it ought to provoke a reaction of some kind. You talk as if normal females are totally numb down there and that's just not true

No one is denying that humans employs sex as a social construct.
As I stated most women consider sex for sex sake(neither orgasm
nor reproduction) as worthwhile. This has nothing to do with health
challenges.

So telling a random woman she enjoys sex more than you do because
she has more nerve in her clitoris is insensitive.
It is not news that some women even fake orgasm just to massage a
man's ego.

Sexual pleasure in women is highly subjective regardless of what the
textbooks say.

CreamyMoltenLar:
OK, you want me to get scientific. Biologically speaking, most female animals exhibit aversion to mating, even when they are on heat. They produce pheromones to arouse the males then avoid mating, to the point where the male has to 'conquer' her. The vagina is like an open wound and has far more nerves than the penis, this mans enhanced sensation. Females are biologically wired to be outwardly....non-eager..about the prospect of mating. That doesn't mean they don't enjoy it more, it just means they're better at suppressing the urge, occasioned by biological and societal restraints. Girls often live in fear of what people would say

It isn't about fear, even some married women do limit their husbands
access.
Evolution didn't design female for orgasm, clitoris exists
because their is an embryonic structure that becomes
pen.is in men.
Research has shown that over 70% of women do not experience
orgasm during sex and that sex for the sake of sex is considered
by most women as satisfying enough.

So trying to convince a woman that she enjoys sex more than
you baseless if you consider important factors other than
higher number of nerves. Biology isn't like physics where
cause and effect can be predicted with absolute certainty.
For any biological traits, multiple factors are always involved.

As for suppressing urge, there is no scientific evidence to back
your claim.

Those who wear the shoe knows where it pinches

CreamyMoltenLar:
Why do you ladies talk about sex like its a chore? A healthy lady enjoys sex thoroughly, probably more than the guy. The only exception is when the guy is inexperienced or the lady is frigid having undergone genital mutilation or trauma from rape. I assume you're frigid? Surely you couldn't possibly enjoy spreading your legs like a compass and grabbing your guys head while he eats your muff and thrusts away

This myth is baseless, a lady enjoys sex more than the men,
yet it is the men that will kill for it.
Some will even ruin their future in the process.
Are you telling us that all this sacrifice by men is just to
make the woman happy ?

I am not denying that nymphomaniacs exist, but you can't generalise
based on some insignificant percentage of women.

Trudax:
You all can lie to yourselves all you want. You can blame the environment and blame the culture, but isn't the culture and the environment a product of the thinking, easily avoidable mistakes and structural errors of sub-saharan Africans? And I am tired of this whole language game about race. Sub-saharan Africans, the people who currently dominate the parts of western, southern and eastern Africa, are intellectually inferior to people everywhere else, on the average. And the kind of intelligence I am referring to is the ability to think critically and objectively, to decipher complex issues and to reason abstractly. This is my opinion and I'll keep on having this opinion until I find evidence that says otherwise. But right now, I am more than convinced. You all can keep yanning bullshit, until one world power decides to perform a holocaust on black people, then maybe you'll change their mind with your argument that race doesn't exist. Nonsense!

Other parts of the world are progressing at lightening speed, and in meaningful areas, while sub-saharan Africa is regressing in the same speed. If we had as many intelligent people as they had, and at the same statistical average as them, why aren't we progressing as they are? Is information a problem? Anyone can get as much information as he wants today. Why cant we utilize the mountain of information available to move our country forward? Why can't we rule ourselves? How is that so hard to do? Why can't we build sustainable and progressive political structures? Why do we have lots of greedy and unintelligent people in positions of power? Why do we still have a very pious majority, despite how obviously flawed and harmful religious beliefs are? Why are we still mired in this quick sand of tribal bigotry? If we actually had lots of intelligent people, then it would follow that we would be less tribalistic, but the reverse is the case. See, it doesn't take one to be a genius to let go of culturally entrenched prejudices and stereotypes.

It's only when we evaluate a situation with honesty and objectivity, that we can recognize the problems underlying that situation and mitigate them.

From your posts, I doubt if your IQ is up to 80.

All I can deduce from your rants is that of an anti-intellectual provocateur
whose purpose is to enrage by making dumb propositions.
You made a wild claim and challenged others to disprove your position,
a classical tactic of shallow thinkers.

Saying other parts of the world are making progress without being specific
confirms your reasoning as been myopic at best.

All you have to do is declare yourself a failure, coming to the net to project your bitter
life experiences on the entire African race won't help your condition, it will only make
it worse.

I blame those who didn't see through your tricks and engaged with
you in directionless arguments.

lilytender:
Nigerian women, please control your tongue. Nigerian men are depressed and frustrated as a result of the economic recession. Please, don't allow yourself to be used to pay for Obasanjo/Yar'Adua/Goatluck/Buhari's sins. A frustrated man is a dangerous man. Avoid danger. If a frustrated man abuses your father and your mother even if he slaps you once, just walk away before he starts punching you, you wont die. Silence is golden in time of recession.

I know your type who blame the victim will soon show up.
Cowards who won't face their fellow men but show superiority
when they see a weaker opponent.
A beast will always behave like a beast.

Ask them why they are protesting and I bet you that 95% don't,
it is easy to recruit jobless uneducated people especially with
the current state of the economy.

I blame Bihari for this.

chumakk:
I like China because they believe anything USA can do they can do too

USA doesn't own Wikipedia, neither does it ban its citizens from visiting certain websites.

conductor111:
You think Igbo women are like women from a particular region who sell agbo and sleep around with mechanics and Okada riders just to feed their lazy husbands?

After calling the women" irresponsible ", you go and soak bread with water inside your sad IDP in Ogbomosho.

Biafra matter will continue causing eternal pain to some people

You should bury your head in shame given that your women constitute 99.9% of Nigerian prostitutes.
They shamelessly ply their trade everywhere across Nigeria,
though I don't it is the backward culture that regards women
as object to be bought and sold coupled with excessive greed
that drove many of your hopeless women into prostitution.