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Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by lavylilly: 6:10pm On Dec 02, 2024
Adebisi444:
All these are copy and paste write off. What happened after work. I have a friend that does that too and he carefully nurses his nails to grow... One night he slept and discovered everything was gone before he woke up in the morning

Cc: Oovi5
is this you or your friend?
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by lavylilly: 7:30pm On Dec 01, 2024
Chetas81:
Bleeping 4 times a month will reduce to 3 or 2
It's another form of exercise as research has shown men that bleep live longer
Investment › Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by lavylilly: 7:29pm On Dec 01, 2024
As a student, have coin you trade daily to help you meet some few expenses

As an unemployed individual, have coins you trade weekly to help you meet some expenses such as printing your CV, money for interviews etc

As an employee, have coins you trade monthly, so that in the event salary doesn't come on time, you can have a few bucks to hold body and soul together
Investment › Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by lavylilly: 7:29pm On Dec 01, 2024
As the year is coming to a close can you point to anything in your life that is better? Have you made any gains?
Investment › Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by lavylilly: 7:29pm On Dec 01, 2024
Just FYI….y’all should be careful of FREE VPN apps. There’s no awoof wey no get why. No b the day you insult iroko e go beat you oo.

When you download these free vpn, they automatically have access to all info on your device. Including keystrokes. All your internet facing activities now pass through the tunnel and they can decipher it. Forget encryption. It’s going through their signalling. They have raw access.

For free VPN providers, they necessarily don’t need to check your bank details, they make money buy selling some level of access to those info to 3rd parties.

There are loop-holes in the trade laws that allow them to use your details/data without being liable.

So in short; your details are now available in the dark web the moment you start using those free VPN clients.

Abi how you think say dem Dey make money? When they aren’t ejima Jesus.

While they may no check ur gmail account today, they may tomorrow.

For starters, you’ll begin to notice some adverts that are unique to only certain transaction receipts or so in ur email inbox.

Anyways….sha be careful is what I mean. When you finally get off the VPNs, change all your passwords.

If your safety matters well enough, do a clean install.
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by lavylilly: 7:02pm On Dec 01, 2024
Congratulations on taking the first step towards mindful spending! Stopping impulse buying requires self-awareness, discipline, and strategies to overcome temptation. Here's a comprehensive guide to help you achieve your goal:

*Understanding Impulse Buying

1. Recognize your triggers: Identify the situations, emotions, or people that tend to make you impulse buy.
2. Be aware of marketing tactics: Retailers use various techniques to encourage impulse buying, such as strategic product placement, discounts, and limited-time offers.

Strategies to Stop Impulse Buying

1. Create a shopping list: Before heading to the store, make a list of the items you need to purchase. Stick to your list to avoid impulse buys.
2. Set a budget: Allocate a specific amount for shopping and stick to it. Use cash instead of credit cards to help you stay within your budget.
3. Practice delayed gratification: When you see something you want to buy impulsively, wait 24 hours before making a decision. This helps you determine if the purchase is something you truly need.
4. Use the 10-second rule: When you're about to make an impulse purchase, pause for 10 seconds and ask yourself if you really need the item.
5. Avoid shopping when emotional: Shopping can be an emotional experience, and buying on impulse can be a way to cope with stress, boredom, or other emotions. Try to shop when you're feeling calm and rational.
6. Remove shopping apps: Consider deleting shopping apps from your phone or moving them to a folder where they're harder to access.
7. Find alternative hobbies: Replace shopping with other activities that bring you joy, such as reading, exercise, or creative pursuits.

*Additional Tips

1. Keep yourself occupied: When you're in a store, try to focus on your shopping list and avoid browsing.
2. Use cashback and rewards apps: Apps like Ibotta, Fetch Rewards, or Rakuten can help you earn cashback or rewards on your purchases, making it easier to stick to your budget.
3. Consider a "one in, one out" policy: For every new item you bring into your home or workspace, get rid of an old one to maintain a balanced level of possessions.

Overcoming Impulse Buying Challenges

1. Be patient: Changing your spending habits takes time and effort. Don't be too hard on yourself if you slip up.
2. Celebrate small victories: Acknowledge and celebrate your successes, no matter how small they may seem.
3. Seek support: Share your struggles with a trusted friend or family member and ask for their support and encouragement.

Remember, breaking the habit of impulse buying is a process. With time, self-awareness, and the right strategies, you can develop healthier spending habits and achieve your financial goals.
placeofallure:
I want to stop impulse buying. I have clothes I've not worn in years and I keep buying. Argh!

I've started to work on it. One of my hobbies is shopping. I go to the market every week and I'll just be buying-buying. What I do now is I try to be Cashless and Cardless. I'll be going to work, I'll leave with just #1k in my purse. Even people who will come and borrow money are not spared. I hope to do more towards saving in 2025. I've improved a bit, but it can be better. God help me.
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by lavylilly: 6:59pm On Dec 01, 2024
Kamalex2:
Smoking
How? When you took 3 sticks this morning.
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by lavylilly: 6:58pm On Dec 01, 2024
YOUNGESTAMAY:
Gambling 😭
At young age, it gambling your priority.
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by lavylilly: 6:58pm On Dec 01, 2024
jibnet1:
2025 no more gambling Amen
It's not by mouth it's by action.
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by lavylilly: 6:57pm On Dec 01, 2024
Says who? Let him get a job that takes his time. The reason for nail biting is boredom and anxiety
Adebisi444:
That one can't be stopped. Na me talk am.
Quitting nail biting (onychophagia) can be challenging, but it's definitely possible with the right strategies and mindset. Here's a comprehensive guide to help you overcome nail biting:

Understanding Nail Biting

Before you can quit, it's essential to understand why you bite your nails. Common triggers include:

1. Stress and anxiety: Many people bite their nails as a coping mechanism for stress and anxiety.
2. Boredom: Nail biting can be a habit that develops due to boredom or lack of stimulation.
3. Nervous habits: Some people bite their nails due to nervous habits, such as fidgeting or tapping their feet.

Strategies to Quit Nail Biting

1. Identify your triggers: Become aware of the situations, emotions, or events that trigger your nail biting.
2. Keep your nails trimmed: Short nails are less tempting to bite.
3. Find alternative habits: Replace nail biting with a healthier habit, such as:
- Chewing gum
- Eating sunflower seeds
- Playing with a stress ball
- Doodling
4. Use deterrents: Apply a bitter-tasting nail polish or a topical solution to discourage nail biting.
5. Practice relaxation techniques: Regularly practice stress-reducing activities, such as:
- Meditation
- Deep breathing
- Yoga
- Progressive muscle relaxation
6. Seek professional help: If you find it challenging to quit nail biting on your own, consider consulting a therapist or counselor. They can help you address underlying issues and develop coping strategies.
7. Monitor your progress: Keep a journal or use a mobile app to track your nail biting habits. Monitoring your progress can help you stay motivated and identify patterns.
8. Reward yourself: Celebrate small milestones, like reaching a week without biting your nails, with non-food rewards, such as a new book or a relaxing bath.

*Additional Tips

1. Keep your hands busy: Engage in activities that require your hands, such as drawing, knitting, or playing a musical instrument.
2. Use a nail strengthener: Apply a nail strengthener to help grow stronger, healthier nails.
3. Avoid situations that trigger nail biting: If you know that certain situations or environments trigger your nail biting, try to avoid them or develop strategies to cope with them.

Quitting nail biting takes time, patience, and persistence. Don't be too hard on yourself if you slip up – simply acknowledge the setback and continue working towards your goal.

Cc: Oovi5
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by lavylilly: 6:54pm On Dec 01, 2024
dkidd:
None. Already stopped cigarette smoking since 2022, stopped womanising/ sexing last year and been celibate since, wow I just noticed all the bad habits I stopped them in December lol. I won't stop Mary Jane though but I haven't smoked it since yesterday even though it's looking at me. Abi, God na style u dey use removed me? Omor I'm just realizing it now 🤔
One drag is all you need to get back to your addiction.
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by lavylilly: 6:53pm On Dec 01, 2024
steeltrust:
Giving money to people anyhow
Next year I wan stop am
You be LAPO
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by lavylilly: 6:52pm On Dec 01, 2024
DigitB:
I want to stop calling Nigerian girls in 2025
Don't worry NCC would help you quit that habit.
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by lavylilly: 6:52pm On Dec 01, 2024
frankputer:
Habit of not making plenty money,
Not investing bigger
You had better start investing as you would thank your stars 5 years from today.
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by lavylilly: 6:51pm On Dec 01, 2024
UselessBuharist:
The habit of not saying “NO” to any demand. 2025 i want to stop giving
You are feeble minded.
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by lavylilly: 6:50pm On Dec 01, 2024
Amen.
Sonofgod1990:
Stoping smoking of cigarettes was my New year resolution of about 2 years ago and I conquered it. And I'm stopping to drink alcohol any moment from now. Help me God
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by lavylilly: 6:49pm On Dec 01, 2024
bivic:
I want to stay with one girlfriend
Wait till you get infection.
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by lavylilly: 6:48pm On Dec 01, 2024
omoadeleye:
Lack of money na bad habit, I pray God take that bad habit away from me
Get to work, te pa mo ise
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by lavylilly: 6:48pm On Dec 01, 2024
GloriousGbola:
Nairaland

Value of engagement is dropping and I am literally burning time that can be used for better things
You are getting old start investing.
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by lavylilly: 6:47pm On Dec 01, 2024
Overcoming procrastination requires a combination of understanding why you procrastinate, developing strategies to overcome it, and cultivating habits that promote productivity. Here are some steps to help you quit procrastination:

Understanding Procrastination

1. Identify your reasons: Reflect on why you procrastinate. Is it fear of failure, perfectionism, lack of motivation, or something else?
2. Recognize your patterns: Be aware of when and how you procrastinate. Do you put off tasks until the last minute, or do you get distracted by social media or email?

Strategies to Overcome Procrastination

1. Break tasks into smaller steps: Divide large tasks into manageable, less overwhelming chunks.
2. Set clear goals and deadlines: Specify what you want to achieve and when you want to achieve it.
3. Create a schedule: Plan out your day, week, or month, and stick to your schedule.
4. Use the Pomodoro Technique: Work in focused, 25-minute increments, followed by a 5-minute break.
5. Eliminate distractions: Identify common distractions (e.g., social media, email, phone notifications) and remove them while you work.
6. Create a conducive work environment: Ensure your workspace is comfortable, quiet, and free from distractions.
7. Reward yourself: Set small rewards for yourself when you complete tasks or reach milestones.

Cultivating Productive Habits

1. Develop a morning routine: Start your day with a consistent routine that sets you up for success.
2. Establish a regular work routine: Create a daily or weekly routine that includes dedicated work time.
3. Practice time management: Learn to prioritize tasks, estimate time requirements, and avoid multitasking.
4. Stay organized: Use tools like to-do lists, calendars, or project management software to stay on top of your tasks and deadlines.
5. Take breaks and practice self-care: Regularly take breaks to recharge and prioritize activities that promote physical and mental well-being.

Additional Tips

1. Seek accountability: Share your goals and progress with a friend or mentor to increase motivation.
2. Celebrate small wins: Acknowledge and celebrate your small achievements to build momentum and confidence.
3. Be patient and persistent: Overcoming procrastination is a process that takes time, effort, and perseverance.

Remember, quitting procrastination is a journey, and it's essential to be patient, kind, and compassionate with yourself as you work to develop new habits and strategies.
Ixodes:
procrastination
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by lavylilly: 6:45pm On Dec 01, 2024
Quitting an addiction requires therapy.
Jaboranky:
I want God to help stop weed smoking and the spirit of lust it's really affecting my spiritual life,anytime I want to stop I still see myself doing them,but I know this year is the last for those things in Jesus name
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by lavylilly: 6:38pm On Dec 01, 2024
grin
Oovi5:
Biting my nails…
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Habits You Want To Stop In 2025? by lavylilly: 6:37pm On Dec 01, 2024
monsuru56:
Gambling cry cry cry
Awon aye ti mu e
Romance › Re: Your Own Don Finish If You Register Your Woman For Gym - Xxssive advice (vid) by lavylilly: 6:13pm On Dec 01, 2024
grin
Career › Re: At What Point Did You Tell Yourself "Damn It! I Am Done With This Job"! by lavylilly: 5:35pm On Dec 01, 2024
Realguyman1:
98 percent of companies in Nigeria are just taking Nigerians for granted, especially the ones own by Nigerians, na by grace of God u go take manage see companies own by Nigerians that are not giving their employees hell and psychological problems.
I swear
Career › Re: At What Point Did You Tell Yourself "Damn It! I Am Done With This Job"! by lavylilly: 5:35pm On Dec 01, 2024
thedarkened:
At the Interview, I knew the job wasn't for me! Three elderly people interviewed me, and at the point where they usually ask interviewee the question "can you tell us about yourself?" which normally is a brief summary of one's work experience , these elderly people Said I could have mentioned personal information instead of work experience. When they finally talked about salary, I was offered 30k for a job that shouldn't be less than 70k; Immediately, I started crying within myself when I thought about the amount spent to get there and what they presented as offer!

After the interview, they said they loved the way I dressed, groomed myself and my performance; that i should come the following day as their overall boss would be coming and would like to meet me!

I looked at them and shook my head. I've already spent a lot to get to the company, they expected me to spend same amount for nothing, just to come see their boss!! I left without looking back.
They hate modern use of technology.
Career › Re: At What Point Did You Tell Yourself "Damn It! I Am Done With This Job"! by lavylilly: 5:33pm On Dec 01, 2024
grin
wellmax:
Na God go punish ICST then in Ikoyi.

You cannot put in generator except Md is around.
Every day you have to explain to MD why diesel gauge has gone from 50 litres to 49 litres.
Before you use A4 paper, one piece oo. You have to sign.

You cannot use office Wi-Fi, only MD can use it.

Very useless company. I resigned after one month.

MD refused to pay me till today. Kayode Sodimu na God go punish you.
Career › Re: At What Point Did You Tell Yourself "Damn It! I Am Done With This Job"! by lavylilly: 5:33pm On Dec 01, 2024
Provided you get paid & of course wink
liver123:
Working in a one man business, you have to endure so many things. That's the summary of my situation
Career › Re: At What Point Did You Tell Yourself "Damn It! I Am Done With This Job"! by lavylilly: 5:32pm On Dec 01, 2024
grin
Openair:
For mine, I just wanted to do a little hustle before the new semester as school was on break. It was a cleaning job at an oil deport in Lagos. I think the pay was supposed to be 20k.
First day of resumption, I had to put on rain boots and their uniform on my black trousers. I was literally going to fetch a bucket of water at the back of their toilet after anyone takes a piss or so, I was really sweating. I complained to a colleague that the job is really strenuous and all he said was "sun neva even come outside sef"
Omor that was all I needed, I was done. I returned their uniform and rain boots, I was done.
The security guys were really laughing at me shaa....I resumed work by 8am resigned by past 11am....
I later got one PA job to do during that holiday (sitting down with system morning till night), we were really closing late ooo but I preferred being on that system to carrying water up and down....I can't come and kee myself😅
Investment › Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by lavylilly: 4:57pm On Dec 01, 2024
Sarahray:
This my own is since in the morning,the annoying thing is that it’s from Kuda to PalmPay so it’s not even supposed to take time.
Fintech for month end huh
Investment › Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by lavylilly: 4:56pm On Dec 01, 2024
Sarahray:
Guys I did a p2p transaction with someone on Bybit since in the morning,he’s claiming he sent the money but I’m yet to receive it,I appealed and sent my proof,he did too and even sent his proof to me as well on WhatsApp.He said bank transactions has been like that for some days nw.Truthfully someone else sent money to me since on Friday but I’m yet to receive it so I don’t knw if this other guy is saying the truth of actually sending the money to me since dis morning.Pls who is experiencing any issues with their bank of sending and receive money.
if it commercial banks, just know once it month end and and beginning of the month transactions are bulky as most commercial bank can't handle it and there would be delayed transactions.
Investment › Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by lavylilly: 4:55pm On Dec 01, 2024
Why is XRP rising? Selini Capital founder Alexander Jorje, a WSOP bracelet holder, shares his thoughts on the unexpected pump of the "dinosaur coin." Part 1 of 2

"The 275% rise in XRP following Trump's victory has left many puzzled.

Initially, the market narrative throughout the summer was: 'Forget VCs, dive into memecoins.' However, after the presidential elections, coins with cash flows and 'dinosaur' coins outperformed memecoins over the past month.

First, Hyperliquid demonstrated that startups with cash flows could effectively distribute tokens to their communities. Jeff initially funded Hyperliquid using his own trading profits.

Second, XRP showed that crypto whales are far more focused on the reliability of a protocol, which is often a function of its age. The reason VCs hate this narrative so much is that:

A) Their portfolios don’t include XRP.
B) XRP lacks smart contract technology, a foundation for most of their investments.
C) XRP has only 20,000 active wallets for sending transactions, yet a $180B market cap, contradicting the belief that a protocol needs millions of users to create value.
D) XRP’s massive growth makes other projects’ performance look weak in comparison.

The iconic XRP/SOL candle emerged at the peak of memecoin euphoria. During this time, Pump.fun was broadcasting live streams where users metaphorically "turned into animals for money." The market slowly began to realize that having lots of users and zero censorship often leads to dark outcomes, eventually catching the attention of regulators.

This brings us to another feature of XRP that people used to dislike: trust lines. (Authorized trust lines allow issuers to create tokens that can only be held by accounts explicitly authorized by the issuer.)

You can’t just send inappropriate tokens to any address. So yes, XRP offers a "high-minded" UX that discourages low-quality use cases. But high-quality users, like banks, demand this. And now that the market has seen what happens without these safeguards, it's gaining more acceptance.

BTC doesn’t address this issue, while ETH, despite being hailed as "enabling Web3," has faced similar problems. When the world witnessed the chaotic livestreams from memecoin creators on SOL, people truly understood what "mass adoption" looks like when it lacks rationality and realized why some restrictions in other projects exist.

Another point that hasn’t fully sunk in since Trump’s victory is that the era of aggressive enforcement is effectively over. This means U.S.-based protocols are shifting from existential risk to being defended by "the U.S. military."

Want to censor Ripple Labs? The U.S. Navy will step in to protect Ripple.

XRP’s biggest existential risk was the U.S. government raiding their offices and saying, 'Hey, your unique list of nodes that secures your network has facilitated criminal transactions. We’re going to hold everyone involved accountable, levy OFAC penalties, and let the SEC sue each validator individually to enforce compliance. And we’ll fine you $2B for unregistered securities offerings.'

The current price action reflects a reversal of XRP’s once-looming threat into an advantage."

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