[quote author=RaySimran post=136667754]As a burial ritual in a prestigious African country, family members are given the right on how suitable they'll prefer their loved one to transition.
Demetrix: Goodday Nairaland Please I have been experiencing slight pain in my testicles and scrotal sac. The kind of pain you feel when you get hit there but it's slight pain. Now,I feel pain in my left and right lower abdomen. No unnecessary discharge from my penis so I can't assume it's UTI. Please anyone with similar experience or suggestions
Oga go hospital oh... we no be doctor for here. But I'm sure some antibiotics would solve it
RevenuesBoost: My Man Tattooed His Mum's Name and Mine (Augustina and Abigail) – Has Anyone Ever Tattooed Your Name on Their Bodies?
A lady said, I can never tattoo any man's name on my body. Man wey never marry me! 😄
I replied, my Husband tattooed my name on his leg on the 29/11/2022 before our Traditional Marriage and Wedding that was scheduled on 9/10 of December, 2022. Next day he felt pain on the spot, I asked why was he feeling pain. He answered, haven't you watched how someone is being tattooed, I said no. He said, blood will gush out, so it must hurt. I felt the chill, Jeez!
He said it's his pre-wedding gift to me. He went an extra mile to proof his undying love for me. No man has ever loved me the way he did.
He said he'll tattoo our daughter's name soon.
I smiled, one significant thing is that we got our baby on same 29/11, just on a different year (2024)
The idea is cute but the tattoo itself is ugly af... would have slapped harder if it was aesthetically represented not this rubbish... you should request for a refund
Daejumong: Dear Jerry Eze, it is wrong to wear boxers to the gym! You are a pastor to millions. You need to respect your office and the people who see you as their spiritual father.
Pls learn from the brother beside you-that’s the appropriate way to dress to the gym!
Does Jerry Eze’s wife feel comfortable with her husband wearing boxers to the gym? Does she feel happy that he posts pictures of himself in boxers on social media? Is she comfortable with women seeing and assessing him in boxers at the gym and on line?
Omo you get time oh... how this one go take solve 9ja problems?
MrHandsome2013: It is very simple to spot parents that never love their kids from day 1. Like me I was never loved from day 1 by d so call parents .
1) no child fond memories
2) no single group pic with them as a kid and as an adult
3) They never care about you or how you make your money as long as you send them money
4) I was hospitalized for one good month , my dad one day never call or ask about my well bring
5) the worst thing that can ever happen to you as child is having both parents coming from a polygamous family , no single love.
6) imagine your mum from a polygamous family and your dad from a polygamous family coming together to get ma, worst nightmare parents combination .
Your message is deeply painful and powerfully honest. Thank you for sharing it. It takes strength to put this kind of truth into words.
What you're describing isn't just neglect. it's emotional abandonment, and no child should have to grow up feeling unwanted, unseen, or unloved.
Each point you made reflects years of hurt that no one should ever have had to carry alone.
But here's something important: Your ability to recognize and name this pain means you are breaking the cycle. You're not pretending. You're not gaslighting yourself. You're not numbing it or excusing it, and that’s powerful.
You're not alone. Many people carry this kind of hidden grief. But talking about it, like you're doing, is a step toward healing...
shibyc: Guys, today I believe women are truly different creatures.
I opened a small business for my babe – just something modest. She's now pulling in about 100k monthly, but ever since the money started flowing, her attitude has changed completely.
Imagine, I sell her products sometimes and give old customers a small discount—like ₦100—and she starts fighting me. Argument upon argument.
Then if I borrow small money from her during emergencies (just like ₦2k or ₦5k), wahala go burst. Even when she knows I have money and I'm definitely paying back, the way she reacts eh, like I’m begging her.
She forgets one thing: The capital is mine. 90% of the customers are mine and everything she’s using today, I handed it to her on a platter.
Now I’m realizing that, if this business grows bigger, she might not even want me anymore. She could decide to go solo and live her own life.
So now I’m asking you all:
Is the best solution to avoid empowering a woman financially ?
I was doing it with the mindset of being educated and forward-thinking, but now I dey reason am twice.
What do you all think?
Change am for am!!!
Omo I no get anything to talk again oh... make I aha dey type make the 40 letters complete
It's another Sunday and I want to tell everyone in this forum to please forgive anyone that has offended you.
Some years ago, someone offended you and you vowed never to forgive them, please stop keeping that pain in your heart, let it go...
This year, someone has offended and you beat your chest and say "if I forgive you make I die" nooo dear, please let it go.
Forgiveness brings peace into your heart, please forgive that person, be it a neighbor, your pastors, your family member, your friend or even your ex ... Please I am here on their behalf. I'm saying I AM SORRY.
Let that pain go, let it go
If you want to cry, please cry well to your satisfaction, take a cool bath and try to forget about the hurt.
Whenever u want to think of it, do something else like reading, playing games, going out etc.
But don't hold any grudge, free yourself from the bondage of that pain, and if it's u that offended someone go and apologize please, I'm begging you, if u can't say it, send a text to that person, e no go commot one hair for ur body, reduce ur pride and ego and apologize.
Gistmedia10: In a viral moment from Ghana, a deceased lady was laid to rest in a casket shaped like an iPhone 14 Pro Max, leaving netizens both shocked and intrigued. The custom-made casket, complete with a camera cutout, closely resembled the iconic phone model and sparked an online debate about the choice.
Questions quickly flooded social media, with one person asking, "Did she die in the quest for an iPhone 14?" Others questioned if she had been a phone dealer before her passing. Defending the unique burial practice, a user explained, "In Ghana, caskets are custom-made to reflect the deceased's profession or passion. If someone sold phones, they might be buried in a phone-shaped casket. This isn't unusual here."
However, the spectacle didn't sit well with everyone, with some users expressing concern about the growing trend of elaborate funeral ceremonies. One commenter boldly stated, "It's high time they ban such burial ceremonies in Ghana."
The burial has ignited a conversation about funeral customs and their meaning, leaving many to wonder if such grand gestures honor the deceased or cross a line into extravagance.
Testiebobo: #i dont understand why a 43yrs old man who is rich and healthy refuses to get married not even single-but searching. Not to talk of having children# I'hv waiting for the day he will call my family to lagos to come and eat jollof and poundo yam. And celebrate with him. What could be the delay is it his #behaviour# #fear# #familybattle# #superEagles#(sarcastly)
Keepamsafe: Just last night, this bird flew into my house. Well, it had a nest in my AC unit hole, so when I scattered its house just yesterday morning, when I got back in the evening, I realized a bird had fallen into my house through the hole.
Well, eating it is out of the picture . I support vegetarians but I eat meats not birds . Im thinking of keeping it as a pet, it’s been flying up and down in the house with no success of finding its way out, and thus weak and exhausted. I know birds are fragile and difficult to train. Should I keep it? Any idea the breed? Or what to feed it, Or I just let it go back to it’s habitat so we don’t stress eachother. Im confused. Help.
God1000: My girlfriend is my girlfriend , her past is her past. If you've ever slept with her or you know people who have slept with her, that's your problem.
DiamondJLove: I am in my late twenties. It seems strange that I have never visited an airport. Sometimes i feel ashamed and never talk about it with anybody.
I don't know if it's due to too much responsibilities on me. Who is in the same boat with me? How do you cope when people talk about visiting an airport? Do you pretend as if u have visited an airport? Do you say the truth and let people mock you?
Nothing really special about airports, especially the ones we have here
Have you ever wondered what causes individuals to pass away peacefully during their sleep? It is a phenomenon that has intrigued scientists, doctors, and the general public alike. In this blog post, we delve into the five most common reasons why people may unfortunately die in their sleep. While this topic may seem morbid, understanding these causes can help shed light on certain health risks, encourage awareness, and encourage proactive measures to prevent such circumstances. So, let's explore the various factors that can lead to these unexpected occurrences.
5 Reasons Why People Die in Their Sleep
1. Cardiac Arrest: A Silent Culprit
Cardiac arrest is one of the most prevalent causes of sudden death during sleep. It occurs when the heart's electrical system malfunctions, resulting in a sudden loss of blood flow to the brain and other vital organs. Factors like age, family history, lifestyle choices, such as smoking and unhealthy diets, and underlying medical conditions can all contribute to an increased risk of cardiac arrest during sleep. Factors Leading to Cardiac Arrest
a. Age and Genetics: The Silent Influencers
As individuals age, the risk of cardiac arrest, especially during sleep, increases. Family history also plays a role, as genetic predispositions can make some individuals more susceptible to experiencing cardiac issues. It is crucial to be aware of these factors, as prevention and early detection can significantly reduce the risk.
b. Lifestyle Choices: Pushing the Boundaries
Poor lifestyle choices, such as smoking, excessive alcohol consumption, lack of physical activity, and an unhealthy diet, can heighten the risk of cardiac arrest during sleep. Adopting a heart-healthy lifestyle can significantly minimize the occurrence of such incidents.
2. Obstructive Sleep Apnea: Breathing Troubles
Obstructive Sleep Apnea (OSA) is a common sleep disorder characterized by breathing difficulty during sleep. People with OSA experience temporary blockages in their airways, leading to frequent interruptions in their breathing patterns. Severe cases of OSA can result in a decrease in oxygen levels, causing stress on the heart and an increased likelihood of heart-related health issues. Contributing Factors to Obstructive Sleep Apnea
a. Obesity: A Weighty Matter
Obesity is a major contributing factor to OSA. Excess weight, particularly around the neck and throat area, narrows the airways and can lead to frequent breathing disruptions during sleep. Maintaining a healthy weight through proper diet and exercise is essential in reducing the risk of OSA-related fatalities during sleep.
b. Untreated Snoring: A Warning Sign
Persistent snoring can be an indicator of an underlying health issue, including OSA. Failing to address chronic snoring can lead to severe complications and fatal outcomes during sleep. Seeking medical advice and undergoing necessary diagnostic tests can facilitate early detection and appropriate treatment.
Conclusion
While passing away peacefully during sleep is relatively rare, understanding the potential causes can help safeguard against potential health risks. By acknowledging the importance of leading a healthy lifestyle, being aware of our family history, and heeding warning signs like chronic snoring, we can take proactive measures to minimize the possibility of experiencing these unfortunate circumstances. Remember, prevention and early detection are key in maintaining overall well-being and longevity. Stay informed, take care of your health, and give yourself the best chance of a restful night's sleep!
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