₦airaland Forum

Like play like play a lot of naija guy's don become redpillers by mistake .

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Cloutina

Is it me?

Why does it feel like nairaland mods are on codeine diet.

Fruit's of moral decadence. Enjoy.

Educated liberals keep telling them to live their best lives

1. Lose your ego (it's low frequency)
2. Your focus is a super power
3. Don't stick your dick everywhere
4. Learn real world skills
5. Master the art of de-escalation
6. Become a money manager
7. Get some redpill awareness
8. Unleash your inner beast and take life
by the balls

From hip hop to feminism, drug's, decadence and baby mamas creating useless kid's and father's in prison.

This is what I fear for Nigeria, we gotta learn how these people messed themselves up so we don't fall into the same trap. Note... Yahoo's and prostitutes are the Nigerian version, once they outgrow the sane population. It's over.

Rip.

Not minding the pic. Drug's are bad including weed.

Abeg try quit if una dey take am. You'll look fresher and will be more focused. Your decision making skills will improve and overall quality of life.

However, if this sounds like a moralistic gripe, remember actions have consequences.


Sellah!

What to look for when picking women for a long term relationship.

Femininity - Traits traditionally cited as feminine include gracefulness, gentleness, empathy, humility, and sensitivity.

Awareness - perception of a situation or fact.

Maturity - mental, physical, emotional, somatic growth.

Class  - showing stylish excellence (no peircings, tattoos, ratchet dress sense, doesn't post nudes etc)

Cheerleader - enthusiastic and vocal supporter.

Beauty - pleases the aesthetic sense.

Fertility cues

Copying westerner's, immorality and social media destroyed the basis for marriage in Nigeria.

Something you could have avoided if yall had sense.

It's going to get worse, enjoy your western lifestyle. and accept that everything will collapse ultimately. At least on the plus side there'll be more sluts to fvk.

Magnoliaa:
You can start by creating the uproar.

I just did by posting it here.

Lol.

Always reactive never pro active .

How long have some of us been raising the alarm about drug's only to be shut down by woke Nigerian's. Now kasala don burst.

Woke people who promoted this are now saying why not rehabilitate . Una get rehabilitation center for Nigeria ?

From weed to meth, una see your lives?

They should ban weed as well , it's the leading factor but as usual nobody listens.

Just waiting for a break out in the south west, particularly secondary schools. U go hear am.

Why not advice women to become accountable and more feminine.

Instead you'll be teaching feminist rhetoric, telling them it's ok to be sluts as long as they're hurting no one.

Promoting all type's of anti woman behaviour, then complain when there's a backlash.

You haven't seen anything yet, the manosphere is global and a lot of men are seeing the true nature of women.

Selfish, entitled, slutty , immoral, unfaithful and more.

Shebi you no want get sense, we will fck you mercilessly under your approval and still dump.

Mercychen:
Not all women go after such guys.

You too, why is it Those pretty hot ones you have eyes on?
What about the one with low or average looks that are mess around?

Every one knows what he or she wants and they for it. So, just like you wish to have those kinda girls that are obviously bad or too hot, that is how they too go for guys you feel are not good.

But he didn't suggest going for pretty girls. He said girl's who want to build.

Between why do most women now think guys like bad girls?

This is a big misconception.
A bad girl to a man means a slut, could be hot or ugly and no man wants them unless for quick knacks.

Guy's like hot chicks with character = yes

Guy's like bad girls aka sluts = no


Please stop confusing yourselves.

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So I'm currently chatting with this hot chick. She'll text me first after ignoring her by never making contact, then send something like this after a while.

What type of game is she playing?

I remember warning about this drug epidemic.

Nigerian intellectuals said we should shut up that it isn't a big deal.

From Igbo straight to meth.. the whole crust of my argument back then.

Educated liberals are evil promoter's.

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Datboredberry:
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I don't source for men... You Nigerian man do that, 'source' for partners like they are some kind of prey...

I liked his comment, we're friends, and we're dating...

The way you say the word 'colombia'... Like you're disappointed he's not a rich European to scam... I'm proud of him as a person, I love his country also...with all its flaws cos money doesn't come first in relationships! Stop thinking weirdly!

My level of intellect? I'm more intelligent than the vast majority of you here...

You have zero exposure... How many more foreign countries have you been to more than I have to write such a dumb statement?

Ok , if you think so. I'm not getting into any silly arguments.

Soak up whatever ideological stance works for you.

Datboredberry:
If I say Nigerian men don't have sense, I'll be the bad guy...

You're encouraging black men to date western women... Who even have to learn your values and make efforts to understand and accept your culture...

Yet condemning African women for borrowing little from the culture of the same western women you just applauded...

The white women is gonna spend years learning hope to speak your language, even prepare one native meal...

But you're here lying to yourself that white women are submissive?

You're either naive or very unexposed...

That black men just said goodbye to whatever masculinity he had...

More grease to his penis... And may his tongue never cease to put forth sweet words...

That's the prayer...

The same feminism you mentioned, who's spearheading the movement?

White women are gonna chase you outta the home, talk back, disregard you authority and you can't do nothing...

Nairaland is funny.

Girl, you're an 18 year old who sources for foreign boyfriends on Facebook. Colombia for that matter.

Stay within your level of intellect and exposure and stop dabbling into adult affairs.

Shouldn't you be learning some worthwhile skill now that you have some time.

No , you'd rather pre occupy yourself with rubbish insulting people who actually have more exposure than you.

I won't waste my time trying to expose the flaws with your logic, as that have been explained to u in your thread.

Your problem is immaturity but I'll give it to you because you want to learn, albeit, you're already learning in the wrong direction.

Lol , meanwhile my Nigerian sister's are forming feminist woke.

This white girl will gladly submit to the guy. She has even started by embracing the African cultural wedding.

Men scarce die everywhere and more men are refusing to commit because of gynocentrism.

If una like, don't go back to your traditional ways and be fighting western socio cultural issues in poverty stricken Nigeria.

She should post her friends pictures if the story is true.

Woke people and complicated logic.

Datboredberry:
Be non feministic yet bring something to the table?

Have high standard but don't make relationships about money?

You contradicted yourself twice..

Your points are simple:
Black women should be submissive housewives who shouldn't do anything themselves so they see you as some kind of alpha...

You're not going to take care of her financially because you CAN'T.

You want her to lower her standards so much so that she shouldn't even care how you look, whether or not you can feed yourself and the family.

You have nothing to truly offer, not good genes, not money, nothing... So you wish black women would play the fools and be supportive no matter how unprogressive your life is...

That's what Nigerian men want...

No dear. The average woman wants the high value men which are only roughly about 20 percent of the population.

Meaning, If you don't lower your standards, you can't find partners and would have to share the high value men with other women, temporarily.

However, a good average man with love and great ambitions will suffice better because you can build with him.

If you want patriachal benefits then you can't be feministic, if not, then you can find a liberal average guy whom you have to share responsibilities with. Either way, you can't go wrong.

All in, stay classy.. no cardi b bs, no ghetto hood rat behaviour, no nudity. You can be sexy without all that crap. More importantly, be realistic and accountable.

I'm on your side.

Hintona:
So your biased generalisations about black women weren't mean

This is exactly what the op is talking about. Black men set impossibly high standards for black women, standards they themselves can never reach.

Dear, I love black women. I just want you to have some class and be accountable.

High standards mean be decent, non feministic, accept good average guy's, bring something to the table and stop making relationship's about money and looks.

Biglittlelois:
Your mother must have been a pain in the ass to your father for you to think like this since they are black.

And for you to think that bad character traits has to do with race and color e.g black, means you have esteem issues, self hatred of your skin and lineage, and a white worshipping slave mentality.

That's a hell of a mean thing to say in a debate considering you have no understanding of my background.

You've confirmed my assertions with your response though.

Datboredberry:
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You presume to know me...

I'm dealing with my age mate... He's just from a different country... Plus he isn't doing anything I didn't encourage...

Well I read your previous posts and know exactly what you are doing. Doesn't look great.


Ok be good. I only offer advice based on receptivity.

Datboredberry:
Lol... I'm preying on foreign men looking for a fairytale... One you can't offer...

Nigerian men condemn sex and now, romance?
What do you folks want?

I'm eighteen... who cares for stability

That's the biggest mistake you make.

You think time is on your side. Babe if you think black guys behave like slave's to white women, then you can conclude you're doing worse. Allowing random foreign men to have sexting relations with you pretending it's romance, note not "relationship". You are an object to these strangers. The typical black woman archetype. Worse yet, you begin to slowly damage yourself and in the end join the men are scum movement at 29.

At your age you should be putting more effort into building yourself, skills and knowledge.

Find a cute Nigeria boy to date/friend if you can't cope with being single (for romance), that's what those white 18 year olds do abroad.

You have no business knowing what old ass grown Nigeria men want. Deal with your age group but you can ask us for advice.