₦airaland Forum

Boss13:
Thanks for your comment. I get to read so many ignorant comments and threads on nairaland comparing Nigerian with the West. Many of the individuals have never traveled before or reside in the west. They only get a window view of the west via Hollywood and they think that's how the west operates.

To the OP, smoking is a detestable behavior everywhere in the world. Smokers are not allowed to smoke in public spaces and are usually confined outdoors. Such lifestyle choice is frowned at by the larger society in the West. Don't let Hollywood deceive you. It is an addictive behaviour that attracts addicts and like minds to you. This is not gender related, but women who smoke get the long stick of the cane.

Smoking indicates the lack of control, insecurities, and impulsiveness. It is a dirty behaviour. The larger percent of western women who engage in this classless lifestyle choice are usually low-lives, prostitutes, homeless, and addicts. You can pick your lifestyle choice but you cannot determine how people would react towards you.

That's why it's heavily taxed in the west to discourage it.

No government wants to pick up the slack for your irresponsible behaviour.

This new generation who grew up watching western TV will even tell those who are actually living there that they're backwards lol .

Talk about naivety and under exposure.


They are yet to learn that actions have consequences. Some mistakes can't be corrected and consequences will come full circle in the future.

We have a responsibility as adults to help steer this youngins who grew up on the internet and help them discern reality from what the read and see on social media. Especially regarding imitating the west.

This girl is the epitome of what a girl shouldn't be.

All her posts irks the shit out of me. Red flags everywhere.

Girl is trying so hard to be woke but you're simply destroying yourself.

If we talk, you'll say we're backwards, and your brain is still developing. However you've drowned yourself into vice's, socio cultural battle's, non conforming behaviour and seem cognitively impaired.


You were barely 10 just 8 years ago and you think you have it all figured out.

I'm just sorry for you sha. Anyways continue. I trust the oponu foolish adult Nigerian idiots to encourage you.

arthurwillia:
I’m I right? Am I right*

Awesome. Corrected.

Kobicove:
The part about spending N20 million is fake and I will say so a thousand times.

You deliberately exaggerated the figure so you can shock people then turn this to a female bashing thread!

Not fake but slightly exaggerated. 15 million for wedding , 5 million to emigrate.

So wedding, honey moon , japa .. me traveling to Nigeria for the wedding , came to 20 million . Facts.

This was based on her estimates. I'm actually chatting with her right now as I type. So it's real.

Between why can't you simply help with the question without the queries.

I simply need an advice on cost and whether it's a good idea. Simple

chatinent:
20million for what and what actually? Do you want to invite Nebuchadnezzar?

Thought it was a joke at first, then she gave me a breakdown.

Wedding gown alone is over 500k. Then hotel, transportation, reception, bride price etc .. gulped down 20 million.


Like how much should a wedding cost in Lagos?

Kobicove:
Fake story!

You want me to post a picture or something. What's so strange about the story?

A guy meeting a girl and discussing about wedding plans is fake?

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madridsta007:
Hope you all learn:

Dangerous Flags
1. "asked for her hand in a relationship and without knowing much about her": Gentlemen NEVER ever do this. Ignore the pressure from anyone. Ignore, and abuse them.
2. "though she declined the offer by my parents and family members to go pay her dowry.". Run from any Nigerian woman that scorns traditional & African conservative practices.
3. "pleaded that her father had so much hurt her mother and her that he didn't deserve the honour of collecting her dowry." Run from any woman that is unforgiving. Run and save your lives.
If she has a bad childhood, RUN from her.
4. "I could beg Bolaji when she was my wife for sex for weeks": Run away from any woman who gives you a slight hint of emotional connection to you.

These are things that which he ignored before marriage. He is paying for it dearly. His mother went to the grave, an unhappy woman. If he dies now, God forbid, it will be 33 years of severe unhappiness.
Leave, leave, leave if you suspect these traits in her before marriage. Be unemotional on this decision and LEAVE.

Wicked Women, una dey try.
5.

Lol , you no western lifestyle again

Sho Una never see something. We wey don dey talk since una tell us say we dey backwards.

Same girls will say they don't date short guy's , only to be fighting for a short man's towel.


Listen to them at your own peril.

All Nigerian girl's are greedy & money hungry, they just have different prices.

Nigerian girl's who studied abroad will relocate back to Nigeria only to start dating Yahoo's. Ain't dat sumthin.

It's in their DNA, and when they aren't money hungry, they join some nasty woke mob's.

There are still a few good ones, albeit a group going fast extinct.

Not a lot of them anyway. Nigerian beauty is fake beauty. Have to pick from the pool of ugly.

Men in societies with hot chicks have easier access to beautiful women even when they themselves are average.

To summarize, beauty is a scarce phenomenon in naija, hence the high level of entitlement of quasy beautiful women who fall into these beauty traps.

Have you noticed the so called extremely beautiful girls are mixed.

heartofcity12:
See them affirming the redpill themselves. Isn’t it just so weird for anyone to think like this. When the husband(s) to be are already thinking the love is deep&mutual and about to be married to the love of their lives, these women meant they could still be weighing their options and willing to monkey branch at any given chance, even on the wedding day. Take women serious at your peril. #trp

Black women are shallow about look's because they themselves aren't beautiful.

We seek what we lack in others.

Nigerian girls are peculiar.

Hey Nigerian woke tards. Since you like copying the west. Why don't you copy this.


Abeg we need more woke retards.

Stds

When we say actions have consequences, they say shut it.

When kasala finally burst, they try and push accountability to others .

When will these child like people get sense.

Toks2008:
Guy just Negodu.

Pray to have good money so much that 200k will be like N20 to you.

The babe is a big fool cos she just played herself. She is not even smart.

Smart ladies will tag along and get far more than 2M.

Stupid. 200k is too much. How about nothing.

Lolz , simps deserve to be punished.

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thatsleepboy1:
Stop decieving yourself, the whites are the greatest pimps and they're very open about it. We're still learning from them.

If true, how come they're arresting them?

Go get vitamin c suspension by ordinary.

Combine it with niacinamide, arbutin and hydraluronic acid .

Use the first in the evening and the later combo during day.


Thank me later.

ise ile ni bani rode

From the village to Libya, Dubai, Italy , turkey, Egypt, Russia.

Nigerians are a disgrace to humanity especially the men and feminist's.

A typical Nigerian man/woman has no problem with pimping, preying and sex trafficking. Everything is dumbed down to.. the oldest job is prostitution. No white western people see it this way.

How's the HIV and STDs going for you lot by the way with your new sexual liberation.

Oh and not to mention the messy dating scene full of cheats and perverts lol.

Idiotic people.

Women like ugly dude's with chicken change.

As long as you be bad boy.
Lolz.

In the west, it's possible to only buy drugs from the pharmacies, and some drugs are prescription only.

So why isn't this the case in supposedly wanna be western Nigeria.

Na to dey copy useless thing's, all the good nice things implemented abroad are scorned and rubbish is copied.

So tiring.

When we say drug's are bad, them go say mind the business that pays u.
See her face.

Bodmum:
these cheap propaganda.

Why do u think so? I'm just surprised there are women like this out here.
A part of me thinks there's something wrong somewhere, hence my concerns.

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Proverbs 14:34, we read, “Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a reproach to any people.”

Proverbs 14:34, we read, “Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a reproach to any people.”

One werey said say no to hard drugs.

Say no to all drug's including weed.

Weed is the principal problem leading to other drug abuse.

Lol.

The society is beginning to cannibalise itself.

Let the shit show commence.

Blacks hate accountability, what I took from the comments.

Women do not have a sense of right from wrong, they'll keep pushing as long as society permits.