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Datboredberry:
You just defined black men...


With their community dicks, get-rich-quick schemes, etc...

You're not in the position to judge...

That's also true for some black men, not a lot of difference between both genders, with exceptions.

Even you aren't exempt,looking at how you prey on foreign men for fairy tale dopamine induced social media relationship's leading no where, whilst you ought to be actively looking for stability, essentially wasting time.

Black women live lah lah land.

Datboredberry:
When black men date white women, who supports the family financially?

Then from third world countries who can't afford a decent meal?

Nope.. the poor grandmothers who they take advantage of...

Next time, simply put that black men like white women because they desire to be burdens on them...

I asked what the vast majority of poor African men offer African women... The meagre change you all are so proud of?

White women give you a home, green card, even the food you eat...

So at the end, black men still offer nothing... You date out mostly to alleviate yourselves from poverty...

What's the difference between you and the black women you condemn? Because black men duping white women seems way worse; shallow and cheap.

Black women are uncouth, masculine, degenerate, greedy, materialistic and have no sense of high culture.

The last point is the worst. Clearly not all but by average black women are either too much or too little, the lack of high culture is the reason for this.

Lol, a whole 2 Nigerian girl's are not worth more than 32 EUR for the whole night for party.

I wonder what they'll do for 60 EUR.

Those girls are probably in the Uni or graduates, yet people can't see how fcked southerners are.

Southern pedos are only different from northern pedos in the sense that in the north they're married off , whilst in the south the girl's turn prostitutes.

None is good.

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eazzzy1:
Definitely, no adult can be forced to do anything they don’t want to do. The man also can’t be forced to fully take care of the home or to contribute more than his wife is bringing to the table. If the wife was living alone wouldn’t she sort 100% of the bill despite being economically disadvantaged?

If a man decides to take full responsibility for the bills it should be seen as a favour to the woman, not as a responsibility.

Let me tell you a long story, a friend of mine was working as call centre agent, he was making $34k per year, his wife worked in a bank and made $76k per year. They were splitting bills and chores. The guy was sponsoring himself to school too in hope for a better job.

Soon the guy got a job in a firm with $90k salary. The next month his wife asked him how they were splitting the bills, he responded with nothing has changed, same old same old.

The next month after that she asked again, he repeated his response and that’s when she went gaga, she said if he wasn’t going to man-up she had no need for him. Family got involved, the guy said she was earning double what he earned and bills were split equally, now he’s earning just slightly above her and she wants to change the formula.

Family then advised that they share bills on a percentage of income basis. The couple reluctantly agreed, after the meeting, the wife insisted that he paid the rent $2k while she takes care of food and water, electricity etc $500.

Long story short, they got divorced. Moral of my story; most women will not do for a man what a man would do for them. If my guy was the one earning 76k while his wife earned 34k, he would have been solely responsible for the bills, he would not have been splitting bills equally with her.

Biggest issue abroad..

Those kids on here think marriage is about cheating and sex.

How to delegate bills and responsibilities are the biggest reasons for break up, mostly with black women. You know African mentality with feminism never works.

Lol

These old men were the real alpha males.

Ontop all the money wey wizkid mama get, see as the man old frame.

Those women are still in competition for him.

New efulefu generation think say them Sabi.

Kobojunkiee:
If you truly believe the statement in bold, then this discussion is meaningless... and this meaning the OP is just another bigot attempting to impose his views on women who don't dress like he wants.

Lol, as if I don't have women in my life.

My mother for example did everything a woman could do even without feminism.

She traveled, bought properties,employed staff, raised children and stayed married without feminism.

So what restrictions are you on about.

Feminism did it's job , what's left anti woman.

Kobojunkiee:
I don't see the world the way you do. And I certainly don't believe Nigerian women are fked.

I see Nigerian women breaking free of shackles imposed on them by society and trying to find life and meaning on their own terms. It will take them sometime to get there, and there will be bumps in the road but they are certainly moving in the right direction which is away from societally imposed control.

Lol, Nigerian women were never in bondage.

They have been free to do whatever for decades but now the unlimited freedom is turning them into an inferior version of themselves.

Just wait, you'll understand what I'm talking about soon.

Kobojunkiee:
Unintended consequence of what exactly?

You don't know what's going on dear.

Nigerian women are bleeped. Anyways, we're on the same page now, let it burn, no one gives a shit anymore.

Kobojunkiee:
How so?

The new mantra is thotery under the guise of liberty.

Nudity, sexual liberation, recklessness.

This behaviour is the unintended consequence of what is being encouraged.


There's has never been a time Nigerian women were so cheap, easy and just deliberately making anti woman choices which objectifies them and gives men more access to cheap sex.

I've joined the bad guys, let's encourage them to be sluts.

Na the people wey get time to dey advice them.

Let's encourage them to be indecent since we no longer have any codes of conduct, as they say the dance of a mad man is interesting to watch but we'll never wish it on ourselves.

Can't you see how cheap women are lately? , their daughters will suffer the fate of what they encouraged.

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PoliticallyLeft:
You're both correct and incorrect Ma, but more incorrect. You're very correct that some parts of the human body that are now classified and covered as private parts were hitherto public parts and you're correct about same-sex marriage in Africa (it's still in practice today by your tribe).

Why are you incorrect? You'll find out as you read.

I've always had interest in African traditions that are gaining acceptance in the West but declining in practice at where they stem from in our continent (which many studies conclude to be where life started).

Earlier this year, I published a thread on this platform about why masquerades and artifacts intrigued the white man but weren't enthralling to those whose ancestors designed them.

https://www.nairaland.com/6345810/why-foreigners-appreciate-nigerian-masquerades

That was a famous troll genuinely searching for answers . The replies I got uncovered a plethora of perspectives I did not focus attention on in the past.

The BBC video below is that of same-sex marriage which is welcomed in Igbo culture


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VEFC0xJh8uI

I'll talk about tattoos in Africa too.

So I'll write about masquerades and artifacts that rake in hundreds of millions of Euros in European museums, same-sex marriage, and employment of those with visible tattoos , all of which attract prejudice and segregation in Nigeria.

1. The masquerades and artifacts are held in high regard by citizens of Europe because to them it is arts. Arts is freedom and liberty. It is archeology. It is history, a path to the past of medieval African technology. Some of the curators that handle these artifacts in Europe are females. There's no embargo placed to prohibit them from touching those artifacts and cleaning them.

Masquerades and artifacts are demonized by Nigerians because it is bondage, it is tragic, it is gender discrimination and autocratic. In Nigeria, women are to remain indoors during some of these festivals where men parade the artifacts and masquerades. Women cannot join the societies that manage those artifacts and virgins may be sacrificed during these ceremonies.

2. Same-sex marriage to the inhabitants of the West is freedom to explore one's sexuality and be with whom they love irrespective of gender.

Same-sex marriage to tribes of the defunct Eastern region of Nigeria is the subjugation of a woman who is not allowed to have sex, explore her sexuality, or move on after the death of her husband or her betrothed. If there was an existing male sibling of the deceased , the wife would be inherited as a property. Since there is none, she has to live with the deceased's mother and perform traditional wife roles apart from sex (whether consummation happen in secret is another thing ). If she's the deceased's betrothed, bride price will be paid and a wedding ceremony organised to hand her over to the deceased's mother as her new wife. This arrangement is slavery.

3. Tattoo in North America and Europe is fashion and arts. It can represent something or someone we hold dear like the one near your wrist You were neither forced to draw one nor the part of body where the tattoo should be drawn chosen for you.

Tattoo in Yoruba land is the tribal marks which damages the face of children without their consent. It is deeper and more brutal when inflicted on a first born and they have to live with it for the rest of their even if it makes them ugly.

Where am I coming from?

Let's draw an analogy:

Country A prohibits the eating of locusts except as punishment for the crime of goat theft. When a thief is caught with a stolen goat, the thief and is family is to provide 2 turtles, 1 python, 5 tubers of yam , a keg of palm wine, chicken, a goat and eat a plate of locusts or the thief will be banished to a thick forest forever.

Country B colonizes them in 1900 and calls them savages for eating locusts because it is alien to Country B's culture. They ban eating of locusts and introduce a criminal code which those who steal goats should be prosecuted under and sentenced to 2 years in Jail.

In 2000, there is a scientific breakthrough in Country B which correlates a newly discovered type of protein to locusts meal. They come back to convince Country A to eat locusts that they abolished because it is a good source of a rare protein.

To country B eating locusts is eating a rare form of protein but to country A eating locusts is sacrilege and meant for criminals.

An author would be correct if he argues that eating of locust which is now "locustphobia" started in Country A. But he isn't entirely correct when he doesn't talk about the motive.

Muiga, K, the author you cited up there, and the rest fall in that category. They deliberately omit motives when they write about that controversial but obvious past.

In criminal law, actus reus (act) and mens rea (intention/motive) must be present to convict criminals. It is why no judge in Nigeria where same-sex marriage is criminalized will sentence the women in the video above to a day in jail.

The intentions, purpose and motive of most of these acts which definitely began in Africa are different. To the West it means freedom but to Nigerians it is a remembrance of their dark past which they seek redemption for.

If you quote to disagree answer this question:

If there is a law that for a start , same-sex marriage in Nigeria should only follow the pattern in the video where women remain slaves , would those who claim that same-sex marriage started in Africa and Africans shouldn't be homophobic agree?

Wow this was nice to read.

They omit the cultural context in which those same sex marriage's happened like those of the igbos, which is quite different from the western free love same sex types.Very disingenuous, and an attempt to re write history using tact, which ommits the cultural context of those events.


I don't know how they expect people to resonate with an obvious lie.

My only question is where is this all headed?

Currently on twitter, there's a guy advocating for incest.


It never ends, hence why they need to be put back in the asylum .

Rydermaverick:
Lol keep seeing what we don't without proving yourself..not impressed on your points but you did quite ok unlike your counterparts.. enjoy yourself and have a good night rest..

What do you want me to prove? Thought you're great at Google definitions. Why don't you Google everything I wrote to check?

You refuse to see the truth because you're deep in. No amount of rational argument will make sense.

Good night, remember your life is bigger than this homo bs. Gud night.

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Rydermaverick:
I didn't said they were born that way... modify that comment..
Secondly you haven't answered my simple questions..

It's terrible. Incase you missed it in the previous comment.

Pedo rape, non procreating, sti , sexual and domestic abuse, hiv are disproportionately higher in comparison to straights.

There are no benefits evolutionarily and economically.

To make matters worse, these people don't stay in their lane. They're forcing themselves into children's cartoons, movie's etc. We simply can't breathe.

Trans men trying to share bathroom's with young girls. Lesbian and homo partners sexually abusing adopted children.. check the stats.

Violence, especially in the lesbo community.

It's a choice, a terrible one at that, leading no where.

Rydermaverick:
Thank you for being sensible by checking out the meaning I did prove some wrong but they were bent on insulting me so I had to ignore most of them..
So now can you tell me how being a transgender is bad or does not deserve to live like normal being?

It's based on feelings.

Essentially mentally ill people being pushed to the mainstream.

I understand intersex which is biological but trans, LGBT are all inter woven as mental illness.

A culture bread out of abuse in prisons, Catholic churches, boarding schools etc.

Accounts for a huge proportion of pedo rapes, stis and hiv.

It's terrible. I can recommend you to a black American channel on YouTube where previous LGBT people denounced the doctrine and explained how they were brainwashed into it.

It's insane but I'll give you a chance to prove me wrong with sound evidence,not the usual emotional blackmail like homophobia and we're born that way gibberish.

Convince me.

Rydermaverick:
At all ..most of them on naira land ain't intelligent..all they do is come online and spit gibberish..

But you haven't proven them wrong. All you're doing is emotional blackmail.

Here's the working Google definition.

Transgender people are people whose gender identity is different from the gender they were thought to be at birth. “Trans” is often used as shorthand for transgender. When we're born, a doctor usually says that we're male or female based on what our bodies look like.

Essentially it's based on feelings.

Ok I feel like a stone.

Goes to a doctor: I feel like cutting my fingers off.

Doctor: you must be insane.


Goes to a doctor: I feel like I'm a girl, I need to cut my dick off.

Doctor: you're more than welcome to do that.

Thegracefulness:
In Nigeria, you’re either known for “the good” or “the bad”.

The good covers feats like academic excellence, giant strides in manufacturing infrastructure, or medical development and research breakthroughs.

The bad covers for “Ex-BBN housemate, Instagram Celebrity, a.k.a Twerkaholic, Political Godfather a.k.a my generation alone is entitled to good living.”

This girl’s father has probably lost hundreds of thousands of naira, but her nyash is an open door. It’s a breakthrough to a new miserable lavish but wealthy lifestyle.

Watch people start hunting for her Instagram page. Then by tomorrow, she’d audition for the highly publicised but morally deprived BBNaija and be known as “The University Twerker,” and then acquire have a “fanbase” filled with dimwits and ottelectuals alike, that would be ready to literally kill for her. That would have time to send death threats to themselves and whilst trekking and starving, contribute millions to buy her birthday gifts and cars.

May God have mercy on you and give you a job so you barely have time to read long epistles like this on the Internet.

On point .

ottelectuals

Good on paper until you have to share bills.

Oga stop day dreaming.