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Travel / Re: Tanker Crushes Fresh Abia Poly Graduate After Clearance (Graphic Photos) by Lekmanz87(m): 12:28pm On Mar 06
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Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2024/3/tanker-crushes-fresh-abia-graduate-after-clearance-photos-2.html

You don’t know what tomorrow brings in this crazy world…so sad 😔

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Business / Re: Naira Vs Dollar: A Picture With Deep Meaning. by Lekmanz87(m): 12:08pm On Feb 19
Nvestor02:
Naira rise and fall base on the choice of people.... Tinubu has already taken that burden of baring responsibility of Naira on his head.

He has unificate Naira, the goods and choice of the Nigerian citizen will determine the performance of Naira in the international market.

I would also advice the president and the senators to take down some of our denominations. There is no reason why we should have 1k in one note.


There is no country that have that amount in one note and their currency is doing well. Dollar last denominations in $100. Same as Pounds and euro.

Even the pounds denominations end at £50. The highest Ghana denominations is 200 cedis.

Nigeria govt should take down our denominations too and make small dominations like 5N, 10N and coins to be available.


US still dey spend coins. Why not us?

Tinubu is doing well in the cost of living, it's us the citizens that needs to step up to the new reality.

Please explain what you mean by citizens needs to step up
With the same minimum wages abi wages are now being paid weekly not monthly?,how do you expect people to step up when the basic income is not enough to sustain you…always think deep before you speak pls
Sports / Re: Kashim Shettima Leads FG Delegation To AFCON Final. by Lekmanz87(m): 2:50pm On Feb 10
Franklyspeakin:
Emilokan is still not going. I hope he is in good health

He’s there too…there’s hunger in the country both vice and the president are in another country to watch Nigerian playing Afcon final misplaced priorities …so 😔😔
Politics / Re: Onanuga Blames Moles As PDP Demands Probe Of Leaked ₦1bn Memo by Lekmanz87(m): 2:41pm On Feb 10

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Politics / Re: FG & OGSG To Jointly Finance Rehabilitation Of Lagos-Abeokuta Expressway by Lekmanz87(m): 9:20am On Sep 01, 2023
naptu2:
Federal Government and Ogun State Government to jointly finance reconstruction and rehabilitation of Lagos-Abeokuta Expressway as Dave Umahi visits Dapo Abiodun and tours Federal Ministry of Works projects in Ogun State.

Prince Dr. Dapo Abiodun - MFR, CON @dabiodunMFR



https://twitter.com/dabiodunMFR/status/1697255256315601193

Long overdue sef
Business / Re: South Africa Opens Women's Only Bar - No Men Allowed! (PICS) by Lekmanz87(m): 12:17pm On Aug 14, 2023
WannaHowzit:
SOWETO has unveiled a delightful haven known as The Shebeen, an enchanting women-only oasis nestled within the vibrant tapestry of the Johannesburg township. With Women’s Month in full bloom, this establishment emerges as a resplendent tribute to the spirit of womanhood.

Nestled within the heart of Soweto, at the charming RockerFella Tavern, The Shebeen emerges as an ephemeral sanctuary, a whispering secret that beckons women to gather and celebrate. Crafted as an exclusive pop-up initiative, it shines a radiant spotlight on the essence of womanhood during this special month.

Beyond its doors lies an enchanting realm designed to whisk women away from the tumultuous currents of life and into a space where they can bask in camaraderie, laughter, and sheer delight. This sanctuary is a heartfelt response to the yearnings of a generation, a place where women can revel without the shadows of unease that have grown across the land.

“This is She-been,” a name chosen with artful care, where the “She” resonates profoundly. It’s a linguistic dance, a harmony of words that echoes with purpose. This is where “She” finds her canvas to paint her story. It’s a tribute to “She” who thrives within each woman, a place for her to don her authenticity unapologetically.

Candice van der Bosch, the steward of Brutal Fruit Spritzer’s brand, captures the sentiment with eloquence.

“It’s a place for She to be, for She to shine amidst the embrace of National Women’s Month. Here, she roams free, her spirit unshackled, a symphony of authenticity where she finds her tribe, her tapestry of belonging.”

Amidst the hustle and bustle of life, The Shebeen stands as a testament to the power of spaces tailored for women. It’s a haven where friendships are cultivated, laughter is the currency, and the bonds between women are woven ever stronger. In a world that sometimes dims their radiance, The Shebeen emerges as a beacon, reminding women that they deserve a sanctuary where their spirits can soar without restraint.

https://showme.co.za/cape-town/news/theres-a-new-shebeen-in-town-and-its-only-for-women/?post_id=102330#:~:text=Brutal%20Fruit%20Spritzer%20has%20unveiled,to%20the%20spirit%20of%20womanhood.


So what would be the faith of transgender…
Romance / Re: How Do I Know My Fianceé's Ring Size Without Her Notice by Lekmanz87(m): 12:20pm On Jun 24, 2023
Lungdick:
Get a tape rule. Invite her before the date, when she's asleep you'll use the tape rule to measure her finger.


Not everyone sleeps deep though…dey play…lol
Family / Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Lekmanz87(m): 6:10pm On May 04, 2023
[quote author=JeffreyJunior post=122896304]You guys have been dating online, have only known each other for 10 months and she has already agreed to marry you.

Lord have mercy.😮

You really need to slow down, dude. No wonder your dad feels uncomfortable. I'm sure you are currently lying to him about knowing your woman so well and all that sh1t just like I lied to my folks too.😄

Been there, done that and I have a feeling you're headed the same path that I did. Thanks to heavens, things fell apart and it was like the shells in my eyes fell off.

You may not be as lucky as I was and once you're all in, your clock of destruction starts ticking.



Exactly my thought…you haven’t met her before
Spend few times together to see her behavior and you just decided to marry her,no be so na…slow down bro 😎 I totally support your dad’s decision
Crime / Re: Woman Survives As Live Wire From Electric Pole Lands On Her In Lagos (Graphic) by Lekmanz87(m): 11:59am On Jan 13, 2023
ibechris:
She still carry extension put for bed.

Nigerians don't ever like safety.

Safety is zero.


You sure say you dey see well, no be fan base dey close to the extension box…alaye na ground dey extension dey…shine your eyes �
Travel / Re: 7 Burnt To Death As Commercial Bus Catches Fire In Lagos by Lekmanz87(m): 1:47pm On Sep 26, 2022
neonly:
Probably over load d bus whereby not allowing passengers to escape
Those bus should check and should be carrying one 3 passengers on a row

This is where the issue coming from especially oshodi to ajah bus,they have started loading 4/4 on a row which makes it so tight and uncomfortable to sit,I wish govt could do something bout that…but who cares #sad
Politics / Re: Fresh Nigerian Army Recruit Resigns After Being Posted To Maiduguri (video) by Lekmanz87(m): 12:14pm On Aug 05, 2022
Gistsme1:
Fresh Nigerian Army recruit resigns after being posted to Maiduguri, Borno State

Video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PvILFhFFaeA

https://www.instagram.com/p/Cg3iRldMC-Q/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=


One of 1000 thousands way to die in Nigeria…lol
Family / Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Lekmanz87(m): 9:30am On Jul 31, 2022
generalwo:
.. Bros which kind Maid dey collect 200k to tKe care of pikin?? How many bank managers dey collect 200k per month Or u no see say na 200k monthly she talk say maid wan collect??

Oga try to read and understand before commenting…

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Family / Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Lekmanz87(m): 9:22am On Jul 31, 2022
H0711:
I got married two months ago. I am 7 months pregnant my husband didn't tell me he had a child from his previous relationship and the child has a disability celebral palsy. Her mother came to dropped her off in my house saying she has done enough and she's tired it is now hubby turn to take care of her.

The child can't do anything for herself she can't sit, talk, walk and she does toilet in her clothes. I can't do it anymore I love children because I have taken care of my own nieces and nephews before I would have taken care of her if she was normal but taking care of a child in this question is hard and if her own mother has had enough she abandoned her and why would I kill myself taking care of her in my condition.

I want to divorce and go back to my village I have told him i am leaving next month. He is pleading with me not to leave him that he will take the child somewhere else but the place is not free he has to be paying like 200k monthly for them to take care of the child and he doesn't even have that amount of money because he is not financial stable.

I will stick to my decision but I want to know what will other people do in my situation.


Well apology on his behalf for not telling you about the child and her condition too,guess his dishonesty is from being scared of losing you though but I would suggest you guys can get a maid specially for the child atleast to save cost and since his not financially bouyant to take her to the home of children with disabilities…don’t lose your marriage because of this and I sincerely understand and appreciate your efforts too but you can always work a way out though

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Education / Re: See How My Jss 2 Student Rudely Wrote An Apology Letter To Me(photo) by Lekmanz87(m): 5:23pm On Jul 20, 2022
Tonnierichy:
These are the kind of students we teach in schools now. They will soo frustrate your life and there is nothing you can do about it. Beat them and land in Cell.

I sent this particular female pupil to report herself to the principal that she was mocking me in class. She went there confidently and returned with a smug face, telling me principal asked her to tell me sorry.

I looked at her unconvinced that she went to the principal. Well I later realised she actually did and the principal didn't take it seriously.

I then asked her to write an apology letter. She went and came back with this piece below.....



APOLOGY LETTER

This is to write that I'm sorry for the disturbance I made in the class. And I'm sorry for the insult if you think that is the way it looks and I'm using this to make a statement too that I disturbed Mr Anthony. But I don't see it as an insult or an offence but I'm sorry for my wrong deeds. And I will not do it again.

During class I will listen attentively.

And also please increase your voice when teaching or explaining or teaching your subject so that it will be interesting.

Sorry for the wrong deed and mistake I have done.

Yours faithfully
Elisabeth
She signs.


Na with the kind writing person dey take know pikin wey go become doctor…lol
Nwa teacher mbok…
Romance / Re: My Virgin Girl Says No Sex Till Marriage by Lekmanz87(m): 9:28pm On Jun 30, 2022
dopedan:
My girl is just 20 but she doesn’t want sex till after marriage, she is a good girl very sweet and pretty, shes still a student and has never demanded any thing other than my attention and love, i don’t know if i can be celibate till i get married cuz im in my early 20’s and i may start thinking of marriage in d next 6 or 7 years, please what is ur advice for me
no insults please

Ogbeni focus on how to make a living,leave marriage matter for now….so ra fun obinrin oluwa awa pelu

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Crime / Re: Owo Massacre: CAN Calls For Legalisation Of Firearms For Nigerians by Lekmanz87(m): 2:38pm On Jun 12, 2022
UselessBuhari:
There are far more killings in Nigeria than America. As it is now, guns are only in the hands of the bad people, we need guns in the hands of good people too to balance it


Then tell me who are the good people? Atleast it wasn’t like this from the inception of nigeria so what actually went wrong ? Why the upsurge in insecurities? Those are the questions begging for answers in conclusion legalization of firearms is not a way to go…
Travel / Re: Think Well Before You ‘Japa’ — Nigerian Man Shows Homeless People In US (Video) by Lekmanz87(m): 10:37am On Jun 12, 2022
Artiiclebeast:
Here they go again with their demonic lies.

I trust the mod to push this to the front page too while the thread I did to debunk all these evil and envious lies were deliberately ignored.

Evil people wet go use ladder climb up remove am make others not fit climb.

Below was my response on a similar thread which the evil mods keeps deleting including the thread I started to debunk all these lies...I wonder what they benefit from all these.

Withchraft get different departments truly.


Abeg make una no listen to all these nonsense oh..

America na God's own country truly truly if you get the right info and know your way.

If na only the gun violence, I go manage am like that dey careful where I dey enter and the kind neighbourhood wey I go stay.

I start one thread for my profile like that to talk about this same issue but because the mods dem too follow for the people wey dey try preach the abroad life no easy dem abandon am. Dem no want competition for the good life...

https://www.nairaland.com/7145274/re-abroad-life-not-easy

Abeg, anybody wey get legit way to jakpa come America, you better take am oh...

Sweet and blessed country.

I dey come to write more..make I drive reach work first.

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You see all these spoilt, lazy, and rotten brats, if you listen to them mislead you or successfully make you keep away from competing with them out of wickedness and envy, na you sabi.

This kid could be a privileged rotten kid back home in Nigeria who probably had a whole room to herself with a driver to chauffeur her back and fro wherever she goes without much of an understanding to the fact that "nyansh dey pepper egg wey dey lay egg wey she dey chop".

Her parents obviously needed more in life and thus migrated making this silly kid see herself as living below her standard because of sharing a house and bathroom. She's clearly not happy because she could barely find any poor man pikin to oppress out there.

The idiot even went on to say their condition improved when their asylum was approved. They should have sought the asylum in Nigeria na..

Talking about her parents doing long hours of work. It's evil and ungrateful to God and nature to make such complaints. Now it isn't the lack of jobs oh but the long hours of job. The question people of sound mind should ask are:

* What is the hourly wage
*Do you get owed or short paid for these jobs?
* Are these jobs back-breaking or hard jobs?
* What are the general working conditions of these jobs?

Only wicked and selfish people will tell you America is bad, unsafe, and hard to survive.

Very wicked and mean people.

Even if you find a job with an agency paying $10-12 per hour, you have enough hours to work if you want and can do the job to take in as much as $4k per month.

Now, you can imagine how much a direct staff at the same job who knows what brought him to the US will take home.

Na so all of them dey collect and drive big big new cars because work hours dey to dey pay monthly na all these enjoyment dem no want make people come enjoy with them.

My dear people, there is so much work and less hands such that na me dey reject hours because I need to rest but when I dey my bed I no dey fit rest because my mind go dey calculate how much I dey miss because I want siddon for my bed.

One thing though, it depends on the people you met when you got in and the information you had before making the moves.

One can successfully live and work in the US for 100 years and more as an alien without the right documents so long as you stay away from trouble and keep to the rules.

The system is aware of this fact that loads and loads of illegals abound in the country and of course, are doing the jobs their people won't do which are jobs in very critical sectors and the authorities turn the other way so long as the jobs get done in a timely manner and the economy/system keeps spinning.

In my 1 month that I've been here, Na God bless America I dey take sing every morning...

God bless my destiny...

God bless God too...

Na to work move all my family if possible, my entire clan comot from that dustbin called country.

When I step out from airport, na cry I cry go reach where I dey go inside train when my eye see wetin country and living suppose look like.

May all Nigerian evil leaders both past, present, future, and the ones in the grave continue to rot in hell....

Demons...

I pray for every Nigerian to experience life outside of Nigeria, particularly to first-world countries to understand the difference between life and living.

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All the people quoting me to type nonsense and call me names, I pity all of una and wonder what it'd profit you lots to keep discouraging people who seek to better their lives. The best you can at least do is encourage and give the best positive ideas and information as you know it and be sure to mention that what information you are giving is to the best of your knowledge and not going on and making a blanket statement with all airs of authority.

Most of you earning nonsense based off of your personal experiences are babies in life matters, trust me.

That you had it rough or still having it rough has a lot to do with your mindset, the vibes you give off, and your general way of life.

How do you expect not to have it rough when in your mind you'd rather feed people with discouraging and wrong information just to dissuade them from coming to compete with you as if say na your money dem wan come pack for US or wherever.

How do you expect not to have it bad and rough when all you do is lament, complain, and get ungrateful to God and life with your negativities.

I wish people well and always want to see the best in fellow humans plus I do not play with gratitude. Do you know what this does for me, it makes me navigate through life not without any hurdles but the ability to surmount all hurdles with ease, grace, and favour.

You expect me and other people to have it rough and preach same?

Common, go check yourself.

I repeat..I can confidently gross $5k-$6k per month and mind you folks, I'm working through an agency and as such get paid less than the direct workers oh....just this morning I had to turn down 2 shifts to get some rest but as I think of the amount wey I for make my mind dey judge me but man need to rest to see body take enjoy the money.

If you don spend 100 years for America and you no get the right information it's best not to say a word at all.

My attitude to life and zeal to see others prosper has been working perfectly for my good and I keep finding grace and favour from unlikely sources.

There is work in abundance here that I wished I had the means to bring people suffering in Nigeria in to come work and earn a decent living without breaking a back.

Where I work presently through an agent, they've been disturbing me to leave the agency and come work directly with them because they love my work ethic but dem no understand say I never get my papers complete..

They are even willing to buy me off of the agency for as much as $5k upwards, you can imagine. Na me dey dribble dem with excuse and other gists.

Funny enough, the system and authorities know that there are people like me but they deliberately turn their eye because we dey meet need for critical sector.

Forget oh guys, America na the world.

For some of you chastising me say I be JJC lol..I had lived in Germany for more than 10 years and believe me when I say now, I feel those years were wasted with what I have seen in the US particularly as an immigrant but God never makes mistakes so I'm grateful for all the lessons and process to get here.

The Hispanics all around here in their millions will never discourage their folks and a good chunk of them no get papers and are living well...

Common..

God hates whiners, complainers and ungrateful people...

I'm just 2 months old here and I use a 2014 car.

Most of those discouraging people and who have lived here for year's and had not even a bicycle in Nigeria all drive brand new luxury cars here.

Cars here aren't luxury but pure necessity and our people dey use big cars well.

Me sef jejely settle down collect my small one as time dey go I go upgrade lol

I forgot to mention that I was called up for the job I'm doing right now the very next day after I arrived here and since then, na me dey tell dem say I want rest.

This my epistle is to encourage someone..

My the good lord continue to be with you…thanks for sharing what life is all bout over there…God bless you abundantly
Crime / Re: Owo Massacre: CAN Calls For Legalisation Of Firearms For Nigerians by Lekmanz87(m): 10:12am On Jun 12, 2022
Loveurneighbour:
Urges members to suspend vigil

Amotekun mounts surveillance around churches, combs forests




https://punchng.com/owo-massacre-can-calls-for-legalisation-of-firearms-for-nigerians/

This is not a way to go by cause in the end after the whole of insecurities had die down who will checkmate those in possession of fire arms we are not even close to a nation that deserve such rights,look at america as of today. Killings everywhere,just imagine same scenario in nigeria with the level of unemployments and frustrating situations all around and you still expect someone from such unstable countries to have access to firearms…infact the insecurities will be overwhelming …then you will be seeing corpses on every street,corners etc pls just strike off the thought of legalizing fire arms
Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by Lekmanz87(m): 1:38pm On Jun 03, 2022
julie90:
I have been working for this company for two years. In December 2021, there was a change in management, a new manager was assigned to my Department. Before the change in management, I applied for some jobs in November 2021 but I didn't get any response.

Things between my new manager and I developed really quickly (he is not married and he is 10 years older than me). Although we have been working together, when he became the new manager we started dating. it was mutual, it wasn't like he forced me. We liked each other and we started dating in March 2022. We kept things professional in the office. Nobody in the office knows about this even till now.

Those companies I applied to in November 2021 reached out to me for an interview. I got two offers at the same time. Both offers come with great pay (similar to what my boyfriend currently earns) and a significant boost to my career. I spoke to my boyfriend about it and being my boss he told me to reject both offers, he told me he would be able to cater for my needs that the only commitment he has now is paying for his house and once he is done paying for it, he would have more money to take care of me and I didn't need a job where they would pay me what he's currently earning and be in a role similar to his.

I told him it's not the money but it would be about moving up the ladder in my career. These are offers people do not have, now I have two, he is asking me to reject them. He told me even if I have to move the only offer I should take is the one close to the company where we work which has a lower pay compared to the second offer. I told him I would go with the second offer which has more opportunities for me. Both offers are in the same state although my preferred offer is a bit far from where I live but it is still a reasonable location to commute everyday. At one point he told me, I was too ambitious and I took it as a compliment.

I noticed he changed since then, he informed the company management that I was leaving and we began the handover process, I noticed he changed after we had the discussion about me accepting the second offer but I thought it was about him missing me. May 31 was my last day and I noticed few days to my last day he was acting strange so I asked him what the matter was. He said he doesn't feel anything for me and we should stop seeing each other.

This is a man that was really excited when we were dating, all of a sudden doesn't feel anything for me because I got a high paying job? Is it wrong for a woman to be ambitious? When has it become a crime for a woman to aim high in her career? My role will still be to support him. I have never been rude to him and I am not going to be rude to him because we now earn the same salary. I really like him and I feel disappointed that he could act this way.

Is it now a crime for a woman to be ambitious?

Different strokes for different folks…hmmm
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do In A Job Interview by Lekmanz87(m): 11:54am On May 30, 2022
Tinaabbey:
1. Don’t be late or too early
Arriving late for the interview is a rude gesture that always makes a bad impression, but so is arriving too early. In both cases you can cause the feeling that you do not calculate the time well, in the first case, it is also perceived as disrespectful, and in the second, it can seem that you are living in a desperate situation.

2. Do not have the mobile on
Turn off your mobile minutes before entering the room where you are going to be interviewed. Do not leave it for the last moment or you will run the risk of forgetting it. If your cell phone rings during the interview, it will interrupt your interviewer’s work and create an awkward situation that will not benefit you at all.

3. Don’t get bogged down in an argument
Freely express your opinions but never start or maintain an argument. It is not about giving the reason without complaining to those who do not have it, but try not to see yourself involved in an argument. It will be an embarrassing situation that will position you as a conflictive person.

4. Do not gesticulate exaggeratedly
Your gestures and your postures are more important than you think. They say a lot about you and reveal what you feel. For example, don’t sit on the edge of the chair or wave your hands insistently. Try to look your interviewer or interviewers in the eye, but not in a threatening way. Smile and behave naturally.

5. Do not take the initiative: let the interviewer direct the interview
Remember that you are the interviewee and not the interviewer. You are there to answer questions, not to ask them. Do not compete with the interviewer, he must always take the initiative. Do not interrupt him and always answer his questions. Without detours or ambiguities.


6. Don’t answer questions aggressively
Never get defensive. Respond calmly and use a calm and collected tone. During the interview do not behave aggressively or act violently. If you get nervous, take a deep breath and stay calm.

7. Don’t show up looking bad
Choose well the clothes you are going to wear that day. Clean yourself and take care of all the details of your personal hygiene. Your appearance is very important to make a good impression. The image counts a lot and provides a large amount of information about your tastes, your preferences and your way of thinking. A careless image will harm you.

8. Don’t chew gum
Chewing gum during a conversation is rude. It will appear that you are not serious about the interview and most people find it very uncomfortable. Do not hesitate, your interviewer will find it highly inappropriate.

9. Don’t lie
The proverb is wise. “A liar is caught before a lame man.” If you lie on your CV or if you answer false questions, sooner or later you will be found out and the cure will be worse than the disease. No company wants to hire liars or cheaters.

10. Don’t stop being yourself
Everyone is nervous about a job interview, it is clear that it is not an easy time. Most people try to memorize learned answers and some interviewees try to play a role to make a good impression. Don’t fall into that mistake, don’t act n pretend to be who you are not.


If you keep these tips in mind, you will behave during the job interview with more confidence and poise. Read them carefully and if you have any questions, we can advise you to find the job that best suits your profile. An interview is a decisive moment to demonstrate to the interviewer that you are the most suitable person to fill the position offered.

For more job updates and recommendations, visit https://mextechy.com.ng/

In the end who go get job, go get job in whatever you do pray make grace and mercy follow you I’m a living testimony…#shalom

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Romance / Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by Lekmanz87(m): 9:04pm On May 12, 2022
6pack:
I broke up with my ex 3 months ago. I have not been able to get her out of my mind.

She moved on got dumped by the guy in less than one month and she contacted me 5 days ago and I responded today. I tried settling it out and she said I responded late. That it can't work now. She even said she was going to see another guy . Like wtf.

What type of useless mind game is this please.
The fact is I love her so much. She is not the type that is after money or material things.
And I don't believe in double dating. We have been moving alone for 5 years now. I don't know how to get her off my mind. I have watch countless YouTube videos on how to get an ex off your mind but non is working. I have tried having sex with different girls just to get her thoughts off but its not working. This thing is affecting my hustle seriously.

Damn, let me drink some beer.
Life has been unfair to me relationship wise cry

Okay here it is…if you could waited till 5days later before you responded to her,then you can do without her just focus on those things you were doing within those days and gradually you will overcome it
Travel / Re: Beautiful images & tales of Ikogosi Warm Spring, Ekiti State! by Lekmanz87(m): 10:13pm On May 11, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked


So beautiful.


I would've loved to visit these places, but I am scared of my head being harvested by skull miners.

Well I can be your tour guide to the place…finished from ekiti state university

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Get A Federal Job Or Move To Canada by Lekmanz87(m): 2:52pm On May 05, 2022
fortz007:
Good evening fam. I believe everyone’s doing okay. Please I’m caught in a dilemma. I have up to 5m and i have two options.
1. Get a high paying fed job
2. Go for msc programme in canada.
I believe everyone’s mature enough here to share their candid opinion.
I’ll be reading the comments. Thank you!
In my own opinion,take the federal job and you can plan on relocating your family abroad later on that if you have one or when you start having one coz life sometimes is not always greener on the other side and with federal job you can always go for vacation abroad…#shalom
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Liverpool vs Villarreal UCL (2 - 0) On 27th April 2022 by Lekmanz87(m): 8:46pm On Apr 27, 2022
001spice:
Many of u folks will shock. Villareal will win tonight

Alaye wait till then…
Crime / Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by Lekmanz87(m): 1:19pm On Apr 08, 2022
Iyaebe:
I don't believe in men's sexual abuse,if it was an abuse why did he sustain erection?

Then you could have asked how do woman get wet during rape You need to go study biological science

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Romance / Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Lekmanz87(m): 11:48am On Mar 25, 2022
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,

I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.

Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.

However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.

I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.

I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.

Thanks.
In my honest opinion there’s nothing new under the sun…the fact that she always cleared the chats btw her and the said guy is enough for you to know something fishy is going down “in davido’s voice “ apparently the guy knew you guys are engaged but just wanting to have a taste of her coochie that if they vent started yet, well you alone know the right decision to take except you are shying away from reality in other words violence is not the answer too…#shalom
Romance / Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Lekmanz87(m): 8:55pm On Mar 17, 2022
Descottes:
Tell him how you feel.
Risky thing to do though,not all naija guys fit handle this kind thing maturely,so far the guy is not into her and the moment she does that menh she’s sold out…that dude will just play along and bleep her till everything fades off

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Travel / Re: Ghana Bride In Coma After Groom Died In An Accident On His Way To Their Wedding by Lekmanz87(m): 3:17pm On Mar 15, 2022
Cyntie55:
May his soul rest in peace cry. A day that suppose to be his day of joy turns to his exit day cry.
May God give the bride the fortitude to bear the loss.

May God also have mercy on us alive.
Amen ��
Family / Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Lekmanz87(m): 10:14am On Mar 14, 2022
Atimjessy:

I know what I want. No one can ruin my live. You men always think girls can't take care of themselves.

Ko buru…wait till you starts falling in love then you will understand life has 2 phases…#shalom
Foreign Affairs / Re: Ukrainian Pilots Arrive In Poland To Pick Up Donated Fighter Jets by Lekmanz87(m): 6:10pm On Mar 01, 2022

Foreign Affairs / Re: Vladimir Putin's Black Belt Revoked By International Taekwondo Organization by Lekmanz87(m): 3:10pm On Mar 01, 2022
NTAChannel5:


https://www.newsweek.com/vladimir-putins-black-belt-revoked-international-taekwondo-organization-1683304

Hope Putin would not end up walking naked like this,everyone just dey revoked everything …lol
Romance / Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by Lekmanz87(m): 9:54am On Jan 27, 2022
lordaltruist:
Dear Nairalanders,

I got this job in 2019 and it turns out that now I am the only male senior staff except from the security guard. Way back in 2019 there were 2 other guys but they left in 2020 after our company transferred to a different location and since then, I have been the only male staff other than the security guard whose job is not in internal affairs.
She is actually my senior colleague and way older than myself but over the past year and some months now, we have been so friendly though we don't discuss relationship together or talk anything boyfriend and girlfriend together but something seems to be odd in her look whenever I talk about a girl likewise myself I felt odd when she talks about a guy she flirted with.

In my office every other staff have a nickname for us both even my boss was the one who initiated the nickname because of how close we are and even though I nurse getting under her skirts, I do not have yet the muscle to tell her that and lately I am beginning to like her more as we share everything about ourselves.

I have been to her house and can go to her house at anytime and she was the one who persuaded me to return to the company after I didn't want to return when it relocated and also convince my boss to retain me; sometimes she buys me food in the office likewise myself and always like to have me around her like working together and whenever she needs assistance over a job, she will want me to be the person to help.

I notice she and my other female (married) colleague who work in the same department with us had almost had squabble because of whom I should be assisting and since she's the most senior colleague she won over that one.

She is very single and above her 40s but I don't mind as age does not define my relationship and right now I am growing so fund of her in a way I can't stop imagining and I need your advise on how to relate my feelings and make her confess hers to me.

All criticism and advise will be duly accepted.

Once you’re craving for something you tend to see anything abnormal as normal, till you get your thirst for her cochie quenched till then you will realized it was lust you had all along,you getting to like her is because of the closeness and being the only young male too in the office,not sure you ve a genuine feelings for her and the moment you are satisfied from your urge then your eyes go open
And by then it would be too late for you to back out coz you will so regret your actions

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