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I believe that every guy and lady in a romantic relationship should most likely not shy away from Public Display of Affection (PDA). You should be able to peck, kiss, hold hands and even cuddle in public. You shouldn't be using shyness as an excuse.

Most people who use shyness as an excuse to avoid PDA are most likely cheating and don't want to be caught by other interests in public.

I have accompanied this post with a picture of Governor Wike and his wife in a lovely PDA position. This does not in anyway suggest that I am a Wike supporter, in fact I'm more endeared towards Amaechi (but that's story for another day), however I commend Wike''s public display of affection for his wife.

cruzita:
I think I'm emotionally matured then.







not kidding o

Is that so?

Onila on a scale of 1 to 10, what are the possibilities of him getting with you?

Relationships need to be handled with care. Are you sick of a boyfriend or husband constantly nagging and being self-centered? Does he cling to you without respecting your wishes or demands?

Trying to figure why he’s doing this. Chances are he is emotionally immature. Here are some signs to figure out if you are dealing with an emotionally immature partner:

1. Loves the blame game – Emotionally immature people always blame someone else for anything that goes wrong in their life or in your relationship. Does your partner always blame you or some weird circumstance for a mistake he needs to accept? Beware.

2. My personal space – They want their personal space and freedom but don’t understand that their partner needs it too. Emotionally immature people find it difficult to compromise.

They become sensitive to the slightest problem but don’t respect the fact that you are sensitive to certain things too. They are too self-absorbed. You can try these tips to develop intimacy in your relationship.

3. Drama king – There is more drama in your relation than the latest flick. He takes no responsibility, acts dumb and creates an issue out of the slightest things.
They fall apart too easily and are easily tripped by their own emotions. Temper tantrums are an everyday thing in your relationship and if you relate to this, then your partner is certainly emotionally immature.

4. Insecure always and forever – Fear of being alone or insecurity are also signs of being emotionally immature.
Such people have very few relations and hence are scared to lose the few friends or a partner they have.
They are overly dependent on you and hence seem to be clinging all the time.

5. Impulsive at his best – This almost seems like a synonym of immaturity. Whether they are serious in the relation or not, they take impulsive decisions.
They work according to their whims and fancies and this behavior can be very pressurizing.

Beware, this behavior could easily rub onto you. Before you realize, you will be an emotionally immature couple and will be struggling to maintain the relation.

GloriaNinja:
that's your own cross to carry tho.

GloriaNinja, you is a fine a<s>s girl but...

nkemdi89:
He had his children legitimately, even the alleged illegitimate child was never recognised, great man who has respect and honour for family life.

Kindly explain the boldened part.

nnachukz:
Which kind handshake is Saraki and Tinubu having? Right to Left with no warmness as if it was just done for the public to avoid some unpleasant headlines from the media.

Mehn, you have an interesting angle to this. I see warm pleasantries being exchanged here, nothing else.

Lalasticlala, Myndd44

Last night, there was a Presidential Dinner in Honour of National Assembly Legislators hosted by PMB. In there you could see Senate President Saraki having hearty discussions with President Buhari , Former Vice President Atiku and wait for it.... he shared a warm handshake and pleasantries with the Jagaban, the man himself Bola Ahmed Tinubu

Photos below

Gosh, some people are so backward minded it beats me. What has ear piercings got to do with morality. I bet the OP is not quite versed on the issues of life.

Busy majoring in the minor smh.

evegran:
I think it is childish girls that lie about their virginity.

I am not a virgin!!!

Nice one

Obviously these cockroaches are only from your village o. I've seen cockroaches that die on their sides severally. Yes of course! Thank me later

kenonze:
Why are women nipples dark

Which Tips?

This doesn't make sense.

juhan:
whats SAN

Senior Advocate of Nigeria

juhan:
Typing....

SAN you're here too.

juhan:
kekeke why? E dey pain you?

No o, no be only pain, na throb.

DonnaCorleone:
Hehehe. Sorry But I thought we came to an understanding, hence I didn't respond.

An agreement of sleeping on it? That's forever!

DonnaCorleone:
Yes?

Whiles I wait upon thee for a response to my request, though hast forgotten about me but hast instead been happily treading the streets of NL with no care

DonnaCorleone:
Nairaland is a way more "child-friendly" place than other forums out there, where they're straight out raw & brutal. You gotta understand that people have different personalities. Some like to censor themselves & sugar-coat their opinions, while others are the exact opposite of that. You just have to roll with the punches. Your two choices are- grow a pair because the people on the net won't act like an au pair or just avoid/stay away from trouble.

DonnaCorleone...

DonnaCorleone:
I need more convincing than that You sound like a cool guy so let me sleep on it

Ha! You gon sleep on it? You gon make it cold girl

Vorpal:
And if his hip bone is connected to his feet bone, what do you intend to do about that?

Mr Leprezident, I want to believe you feigning ignorance

Lol Vorpal, I was truly totally ignorant. I kinda reflected later and got it.

Mr. P you're not a legend. P Square is the legend. Legend 2Face I see you bro✌

DonnaCorleone:
Lol, what's fun about it? Give me your best sales pitch & who knows, I may buy into it

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From our convo so far you can get clear hints that I'm not creepy nor a stalker as such you can make room for possible meaningful and harmless adventure. After all, pm friendships hurt no one

Errrm, I don't think this is my best pitch, I tried considering you sprang this on me out of the blue

DonnaCorleone:
A difficulty that makes life so much easier imo.

Nope, it saps the fun out of life . Like right now, you just crashed anticipation.

Nice boots.

FTC

DonnaCorleone:
OK, never mind No, I'm not on BBM. I don't use communication apps. I'm a call me or text me if it's important kind of person.

Now that's a difficulty

DonnaCorleone:
"I can reveal myself in private" kinda sound naughty

I already made a few notes just by looking at your profile pic but I'm gonna need you to confirm or deny my "study", alright? You have large feet. Is it true that your foot bone is connected to your hipbone? I hope you get what I'm trying to say lol

Haha, I don't know about the large feet part. And truth is I'm totally lost with the foot bone and hip bone part. I think I might have to change my dp. Are you on BBM?

DonnaCorleone:
Reveal yourself & let me take a good look
How old are you?

Lol, just like you, I like the annonimity. I can reveal myself in private. So you need to help me out here

DonnaCorleone:
Lol, no, no,no, I'm not calling YOU crazy. You need to look into their eyeballs for that, to check for signs of the crazy eye, so I meant everyday people

My age? Well, I'm definitely not shuffling around with a walking stick I'm still relatively young. Older than 25 but younger than 35

Lol nice, I like your age bracket. To help you finally put a nail on my possible craziness or not, won't you want to look into my eyes to have some sort of closure?

DonnaCorleone:
Yeah, being older does sometimes give you a 3rd eye, so to speak. You spot the crazies at 1st glance

Ha! She says I'm crazy. Lol, I sure do know I'm not crazy. You keep saying older, how old are you sef? Or you'll prefer telling me in private. They say you don't ask a woman's age, but I've developed the balls for this question over the years

DonnaCorleone:
I'm just older than I was back then & not looking too bad for a hag

Lol this one that you're trying hard to let a brother down gently, I'm sure you're still gorgeous but you have now become an expert in disengaging both stalkers and admirers.