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PDP is the master when it comes to rigging and they don't like being beaten at their game. If PDP should win 2019 election, it will take divine intervention to ever get them out.

Give her a second chance. You should lay down your rules once you get back together.

Until you have evidence that she's cheating you can't make accusations. But you can discuss with her that you are not comfortable with her friendship with this person and you want to her to cut off the friendship.

Don't draw conclusions on a hunch. Being friends first before being is a relationship is a good thing. You can talk to her as a friend when things are not going ok.

If things don't work out, you can break up and still remain friends.

Send your resignation letter by email and copy your private email address.

Don’t agree to stay even if they offer you more money. They will use you to train the new recruits and when they believe they have a good replacement for you, they will sack you with or without any agreement.

From the post, I don’t see the part where Putin murdered MKO.

Someone please show me.

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

You’re right. Both of you in the relationship will claim privacy while you each continue with your nefarious activities. Until you meet each other at nacking point.

You were obviously just friends and not dating at the onset. You didn't make your feelings known to her so she just saw you as a friend. That said, now she is available again and maybe you guys were meant for each other and fate has given you another chance don't screw it.

Make your intentions known and find out from her if she feels the same way don't conclude.

If she does feel the same way, don't waste time.

Threebear:
Education is highly overrated.
Shakespeare the greatest writer in the world wasn't even educated.
If Nigerians put a lot less efforts acquiring certificates that most often than not end up dusty at the bottom shelf of some room and actually used it to advance creativity, our economy would be a lot better.

As much as I agree with you on this, I don’t think we should derail the thread.

Let’s celebrate with him.

Even in Canada it don't work.

Instead of demolishing the building why didn't he seize it and put it to a good use that will benefit the public.

Give him some breather. But try telling him how you feel and ask him to be straight with you.

If he says there's nothing just that he's busy, the paddy don waka far from you. Start preparing your mind for a break situation so when it happens, you won't be caught unawares.

As a bonus advice, keep yourself more occupied with things that will advance you as a person not a guy.

Statsocial:
Lol I totally take an exception to his attack on pentecostals. I have always tried to restrain myself when Catholic bishops in Naija talk so we do not muddy the name of God in public.

How can the catholic church with about 170 billion USD in annual spending and also wealthier than the top 3 corporations in d world put together be accusing Pentecostals of prosperity gospel.

Is it offering, the catholic church collects. I guess they collect tithe too. There own schools are also expensive. Infact Loyola Jesuit Tuition is about thrice of Covenant's own. So lets not be hypocritic here. Don't try to validate your own church by invalidating others.

Also I am pretty sure the likes of catholic, Anglican etc even passes more offering envelopes than the the so called pentecostals in one service. I lived as an orthodox christian for close to 20 years and I know that the number of offering envelopes passed in some services far outnumber what the likes of Living Faith do.



**for those asking about my source for catholic wealth you can check this links
https://douglasbeaumont.com/2015/07/13/catholic-wealth-and-spending/amp/

http://www.economist.com/node/21560536

You are deviating from the message with sentiments. Everyone knows that a lot of Pentecostal churches (not all) in Nigeria today only preach prosperity. I urge you to name any catholic church parish (in the whole world) where they only preach prosperity.

Tell your fiancee to visit a dermatologist for her acne and stop self medication. As for you I suggest you visit a health professional and ask them to recommend a test to you.

Explorers:
Five men are going through the street.

It starts raining.

Four of them start moving faster.

The fifth man makes no effort to run from rain, however, he stays dry.

The other four get wet anyway.

All of them arrive at their destination together.


How could this be possible?

The fifth man was in a coffin

Since it seems to bother you, tell her to stop it.

There's always more than one side to a story. Just as you've told us your wife's fault, I'm sure you have yours. I think it's wrong for anyone to draw conclusion about someone based on one person's submission. This don't mean I'm calling you a liar.

I'll tell you from my experience, the first thing you need to do is to talk to your wife. You may need to take her to a quiet place where it's just two of you. Open your mind to her and also you try to listen to her. Listen to what she says and what she doesn't say.

Sometimes this talk may need to happen more than once.

If there's no improvement then you move to the next step, like someone said find someone she respects or is close to and ask them to mediate. It may also involve bringing in elders. Mind you, only bring in third party if you have tried to talk it between yourselves and it fails.

Don't rush into separation or talk of divorce. Exhaust all other options first. Finally you need a lot of patience in marriage and two years is still too short.

Regards

Fine girl �. Any woman wey bleach skin because of man na akamu!

In addition I advice that you change environment

SalamRushdie:
What a useless country

Really useless!!!

Nbote:
Torture kini... Abeggi... He's sick becos he swallowed drugs and refused to shit it out jare...

So you had the evidence and refused to come out with it.

Redoil:
Are you pondering what i am pondering
@vedaxcool and bmc et al Tinubu family owns oando and are having high stakes in agip so stop ecouraging tinubu family to buy up nigeria after buying up lagos and south west.

This is the kind of reasoning that has kept Nigeria in the dark ages.

this is an example of a cock and bull story.

For those of you making so much noise about the president not explicitly naming Osibanjo as Acting President, you need to take a look at section 145 of the constitution which the president himself mentioned in his letter.


145. Whenever the President transmits to the President of the Senate and the Speaker of the House of
Representatives a written declaration that he is proceeding on vacation or that he is otherwise unable to discharge
the functions of his office, until he transmits to them a written declaration to the contrary such functions shall be
discharged by the Vice-President as Acting President.

This section is very clear and un-ambiguous.

I don't understand why this issue should be politicized. Even some lawyers who should know the law better are not left out.

Is it that Nigerians do not read, or they just enjoy controversy?

I thought some people said the money belongs to Amaechi.
They won't speak now.

OlajumokeBread:

Buhari

You will never go unpunished

You are one of those people blinded by so much hate that you don't realize your comments are distractions​ from real issues.

If you don't want your aunt's death better for her not to go back. The man is unstable and unpredictable. Your family should get a good lawyer and file for legal separation first. Divorce can come later.

We need to hear your wife's side of the story before we can pass judgement

Though I do not doubt your story, I also find it hard to believe.

You were wrong. You knew why he asked for your number all you had to do was turn him down politely.

The day you will mistakenly give your real number na you sabi how you go explain to your husband when call start to enter.

I think the real question should be, why an international airport of Abuja's caliber have only one runway?