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Ol’ boy in this case, no matter who is right or wrong, your marriage is irreparably broken. That’s if what you’ve said is true.
It’s time to move on and go your separate ways. If she wants to go please let her go.

Invest your money in the First Bank Money market fund and let your money grow while you take time to decide and plan on what next steps to take.

Don’t be hasty to make a decision and always consider the risks. Also consider worse case scenario.

Setup motion detection camera or cameras that will cover the points where the event occurs. This is the best way to find out what’s happening.

RUN

Sometimes, a better thing can spoil a good thing. Thread wisely and cautiously.

There’s nothing wrong with what you did after all like you said it’s a proposal.
But from what you wrote it didn’t seem like you made it a proposal to her. It seemed more like an imposition (I may be wrong). Did you ask for her own input?

Mko123:
Pls, what's really happening?
Does it mean the government aren't considering the masses? Lagos state with unnecessary claim trying to oppress people that are victim of bad governance.


Don't forget to put this in the new year Eve prayer. God, my parents have given birth to me in Nigeria, don't let me do the same for my children

Did you actually read the write up before commenting?

I advise that you get out of the area. The effects of the soot has long term consequences.

Alternatively, while you remain there, try to get air purifier in your home if you can. You will also need N95 type masks whenever outdoors.

I know these options maybe expensive. You best option may be to move to another area of the state with less pollution.

Moral: There’re times you must not mind your business. It can save a life.

Woman no dey Catholic church?

She’s not your wife. You have not made any serious commitment on marriage to tie her down. You are faraway in another country where no only God knows how you’re living your personal life and you want a woman to be faithful and wait for you for how long?

Be realistic man. If you really love her, hasten your moves to legalize the union and find a way to bring her to be with you or pending that time, impregnate her. Otherwise don’t expect too much of her.

Kempinski:
Good morning guys , there's this woman in my neighborhood who has been having an extramarital affairs with the bike man that normally use to come and pick her children to school in the morning, she has two kid, a boy and a girl, but her cheating spree is out of this world...

Her husband is a nice person and works in one of the big bank in the country on the island, due to his nature of his job, he leaves for work early and return very late...

This crazy woman has been using this to hit her children's bike man on severea occasion, there's was this day I was at home working on my laptop early in the morning, the window of her bedroom shares the same as mine only a fence blocking us apart, I kept hearing heavy moany and repeated thrust sound coming from the bedroom,

This man in question is a cool headed gentle man, easy going in the estate and doesn't deserve this kind of trouble and heart wenching action the woman is taking him through, I don't preay he finds out and I need help on how to tell the woman to stop doing this and at the same time I don't want their marriage to crash....

After knacking, this woman goes to her shop and pretends as if nothing happens.....

Please mind your business.

Beloved3:
Oga this issue is long thrashed. Why quote me after many days?



Okay do you care to elaborate on what you mean @ the bolded?
Isn't that suffice to say there are actions you expect he should have done after the rape apart from breaking up or before breaking up?
If that is correct, what are the actions you expected of him? Please list them.

Let's compare and see if he didn't indeed take some reasonable actions after the rape. E.g asking for explanations, asking to have the rapist prosecuted, asking to go to the hospital for treatment.

Cheers.

I am happy with the level of maturity you have shown in your latest response and I’m sorry if I seemed rude earlier.

I can’t really give you the answer you requested because that would involve me typing a long reply and besides I won’t be able to adequately express myself. Also, I don’t really like typing or texting it’s too stressful for me. I prefer talking.

So, I will just summarize. His girlfriend had just been raped, she informed him and after asking questions blamed her and decides to end the relationship at the time she needs his support the most, he decides to end the relationship. That decision was ill timed and selfish and shows that he’s not someone that can be relied upon.

Beloved3:
You are projecting falsehood. Breaking up with her was not the first thing he did.

He interrogated her and got a clear picture of what really happened. Then he decided she is not the kind of person he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

@ the bolded (what really happened):
Read his post again slowly, think and comprehend the situation.

1. You obviously not smart enough to understand that I don’t mean “first thing” literally.

2. Were you there when he was interrogating her?
3. You go back read his post again slowly, think and comprehend the situation by also reading between the lines if you know what that means.

Your girlfriend tells you she was raped and the first thing you do is to break up with her.
If she was your wife you’d probably have done the same thing. From your write up I see a very self centred person.

dapsoneh:
Paul Okoye's wife, Anita Okoye, files for divorce after 7 years of marriage
LindaikejisblogAug 20, 2021Read original

After 17 years together and 7 years of marriage; Entrepreneur & Children’s Retailer Anita Okoye has filed for petition to divorce her husband, Paul Okoye of former music duo group P Square. The former couple share 3 children together.

Anita and her kids relocated to the US a few months back.

Leaked Divorce Documents pictured below.



Trouble in Paradise
Morals- appreciate your marriage, no be all the things you see for social media real
Olorun a wa pelue oo

You probably think money brings happiness.

Righteousness2:
Madam Tina, I don't Blame you.
It is the So called General overseer of "World Bank" that I Blame.

I Don't understand how a man that calls himself a Pastor opens his eyes and Marries somebody's wife under any guise.

This is Unholy, Ungodly , Unfortunate and the height of Adulterous sodomy.

These are the Last of last days and Indeef the Love of many have Grown cold.

obviously you didn’t read before commenting.

God help you chase your problem away you dey cry say you need your problem back instead of you to go do thanksgiving.

You better move on with your life and forget about her.

She said yes to you yesterday it’s your turn to say yes today. You need to reciprocate her kind gesture.

Oga go and see a dermatologist

Coldshisha:
They can't revoke his citizenship since he never commited any crime on UK soil.... If it had been in the UK he did all his nonsense with ESN, then his citizenship might get revoked after jailing him

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Get your facts right. His citizenship can be revoked if there’s evidence either or both of his parents have origins in another country. It’s also not until he commits crime on UK soil. You can reference story of British citizens who helped IS in Syria. Their citizenship was revoked.

You don't need to choose, you can have both.

SUFFERInSMILIIN:
]Nigeria is a nation of illiterate and stupidity.
What did she do for Nigeria in terms of development nothing what did she do for Africa in terms of development nothing. How can you have somebody for one of the most backward countries in the world trying to lead the wto please let her come and build our country before taking her illiteracy to other countries. You cannot destroy your country and you want to go and destroy another person's country. Nigerians are suffering from mass illiteracy[/color][/b]

It’s obvious you’re ignorant and illiterate as you have said yourself. You were probably a kid when NOI was first made Finance Minister under OBJ.
Always check your facts before you speak.

Atiku being economical with the truth. Just for politics.

There’s nothing in the video to indicate they’re discussing anything relating to Edo election. Whoever released that video, had ulterior motives.

You say she’s the lady in your life yet you say you’re not helping her for personal gain. That’s either contradictory or ambiguous.

There’s no guarantee that she will be your wife so you need to have that at the back of your mind while you’re helping her.

I will advise that if you have no intention of asking her to marry you, then you’ll need to rearrange your priorities. Help her as you can afford not as a necessity. Channel your energy and resources more to achieving your own set goals and objectives.

But if you want to marry her, which I believe you’re not quite ready for, you will have to begin the process immediately before you create a finished product that someone else will collect.

First4:
Is it for yourself or are you an agent?

I’m no agent. It’s for me.

I am interested but would like to see detailed pictures first. I would follow up from there.
Email: santosmike78@yahoo.com.

Thanks.

First of all, don’t tell your husband you have money to buy land. That’s a recipe for disaster.

2. Make your research with full details of the kind of projects you want your husband to invest in.

3. Do something you know will put your husband in a happy mood and while you two are alone bring up the projects you would like him to get involved in. Don’t mention his family. Just discuss about yourselves. I mean your immediate family. Say your mind without bitterness or blames.

4. If you do the above and there’s no change or any conscious effort to change, then invest your money in a mutual fund like someone suggested or some other safe investment. Or an savings scheme for your kids. please don’t buy land and build behind your husband and don’t let him know you have funds. Also tighten up this is not the best of times to have more kids.

If you let him stay with you, it means you’ve learnt nothing about life.

My advice to you. Keep away from him he’s no longer your friend.

When you fell in love and began dating her in spite of her status, you didn’t think what people would say. Now that things have been going smooth between you and you’re about to start a family you’ve started thinking what people would say.

Don’t be the architect of your problem. They say if it’s not broken don’t fix it. Leave trouble where e dey sleep.

Since you truly love each other, I advise you continue with your future plans and keep your secrets to yourselves.

My 2cents.

Why cut off the head because of a headache?
People’s livelihoods has been destroyed with that demolition action in a country where employment is hard to come by.

Wike could have sealed the hotels and prosecute the owners.

Why are Nigerian leaders so destructive? Why do they use destruction to punish offenders?