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luxoire:
well well a man after my own heart - modern, honest with himself, realistic and likes something a bit dangerous!!
obviously as savvy as you are i am sure you will both get tested before going in there protected or unprotected
Morals in the right context is necessary and important but no point ppl wearing it falsely and thinking it is their guaranteed passport to a happy marriage

I totally agree

oyb:
offtopic, how will flogging them with a er intimacy gadget (sexy whip) make them stay on topic 

are you er trying to arouse them into doing the right thing 

I still dont understand how flogging will arouse a human being - its meant to be painful. . .  and that should kill any form of stimulation 

How did she understand him before the marriage?

Take a few sips of gin n juice, go shopping, or if i'm really pissed i just take a trip out of town to a place i've never gone before - lodge in a hotel and get the best treatment for the entire weekend. . . Then i can choose to return in good time for work on the monday or i can go from the hotel to my work place for like a week

I'm not very sure i want to be the first in there, honestly. I'm not a sucker for morally-correct attitudes or behaviour - its just boring, I like them tested and trusted, virginity has lost its importance for the likes of me.

luxoire:
isnt that only the case when you are deasling with an experienced woman? if you are both virgins on your wedding night then that's be.

surely a woman saving herself for her husband should also have the right to a man that saved himself for his wife?!

That may be a desire, but it is also the cause of many breakups and breakdowns

Be careful what u wish for. . .

luxoire:
would she be the one to disvirgin you? i am sure she too will be happy

isn't it funny how guys expect virgings and cant seem to think that women too may want same??

And then when he doesn't know his left from his right,  after getting u all high and then leaving u dry, u'alls frown and kill his dignity??

In my experience, most women seem to want a guy who can rock that boat and captain that ship - even in rough waters!

The cherry will surely get popped if she's a virgin and its happening that night!

How can it not be popped? It can only make things worse when u postpone it cos its painful, u will still go there the next day. . . so why put away until tomorrow what can easily be completed today

Its called a phobia!

I wonder what the fear of extreme happiness is called sef?

Jordin Sparks - Battlefield

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You should visit sheraton in zone4 on a friday night. . . You might even find your babe there

My babygirl has her way with everything! and i mean everything, is this how a marriage works? I can't even watch my soccer team on match days - whether on tv or at the stadium! We go where she wants, eat what she wants and buy what she wants! or else there is trouble in the horizon

She's so strict about some of these things too, and while i like it to an extent, i'm a bit worried about how i can fix it as soon as possible. Surely there has to be a leverage point in all these

biola44:
shouldnt be a big deal, i know a lady who jilted her fiance, d guy later married her best frnd n d rest is history, though she regrets her decision now but their frndshp isnt as it used 2 be,

They always do, dont they?

I wonder oh

I told u i could go on and on and on. . . Recently one of my previous escapades who felt dumped by me had the guts to call and try to destabilize us
she took it so calmly and maturely that i got scared she was gonna give me otapiapia to eat

She doesnt encourage me to misbehave and believes the past is the past, but she is sooo understanding and thats another reason to love her!

justwise:
How do u mean? He asked her out and she said no then he tried her friend and she said YES wats wrong with that? They are not going out at all. i mean wat are u going on about?

The world is full of greedy girls nowadays who think it should always revolve around them and them alone, so if u look elsewhere and its begining to gain momentum - u r a playa
You def cannot eat your cake and still have it, if asking your friend out makes a guy pathetic, then why not leave him to take his pathetic mind and body elsewhere? Its simply cos they're so busy living a fake life that they dont even know when the interest in them fades away. . . then they realise what they've lost
awon olofofo oshi wo

heather:
it really happens but let me ask this question HOW DO U KNOW WHEN A MAN LOVES U

If his hands go in his side pockets everytime u're around, he's probably hiding something

justwise:
Keep ur nose out of it. u said NO to him, she saw something u did not see. Be happy for them or backoff

Thank u very much
Same people that say no, want to stop u from being with their friends, why? If u dont like him/her, move on and free them, haba!

Nothing wrong with meeting people online, i met a few and so far not good enough for me but i meet loads of people in church and at friends parties etc who are also definitely not good enough. I met someone new and she's looking really good so far and guess what? though no on nairaland, I met her online!

Aprilmay:
Who is this? I dont have anything to say,ur old school profile pic needs some little touch olodo

LMAO

lmao ;d ;d ;d

Itohan123:
So does that mean your boyfriend can become a gangster?

Define Gangster

Keeping it in the family eh?

smooooooth:
i never talk since o. but now i must yan.

you berra be careful of benin girls o.

i no go talk pass tha one.

Yeah, be careful of benin girls oh

;d

Seriously, back in the days of our fathers and grandfathers there was no such thing as compatibility but love grew with respect and marriages thrived, today what we have is totally different and the divorce rate is going upwards every minute as a direct result. I'm a very old-fashioned man and believe those things that worked for our folks can work for us even if we adopt some level of the western behaviour.

Sacrifice from both parties in a relationship or marriage will surely help towards that goal, without it, u can as well remain single.

busybody20:
ehnnn so u will rather do it for free?

U no dey do am ni? Some GUYS sha!

LOLsssssssssss

God loves a cheerful giver ni
Man loves a cheerful helper too

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