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Family › Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by LexngtonSteele: 9:39pm On Jun 02, 2017
Mayflowa:
Lol. You don't have to look far. These things happen all around you. I am surprised you make a mountain out of it

Just 1 single question :

Is it the norm or the exception for a man to want to take care of another man's kids?

Answer before I start yawning again.... YAWN...

I know your type, after ranting here, you would be the first to say an "after-1" has lost market value in real life



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Family › Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by LexngtonSteele:
Mayflowa:
who said no man wants to accommodate a woman with a child? Talk about yourself pls! Do you even know the pains of losing a child?

Yawn....Mr Knight in Shining Armour. Looking forward to your pre-wedding pictures with a woman who has 3 kids already.

https://68.media.tumblr.com/2ca0af872dd73554a52376178901e9aa/tumblr_n02ixcJ8sO1rco8yao1_400.gif

Yawn.... Mayflowa & Mama Triplets, 2017

Ladies can fall for your Mr Nice Guy antics, the average guy sees through it
Family › Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by LexngtonSteele: 9:22pm On Jun 02, 2017
majekdom2:
Thank you too!!! The dude is trying to be silly... knowing that something still connects them which is the child. He is just trying to slow this lady. She can always connect with her child later, that won't be a problem.

I love your last statement and it has given me further insight.

@ OP, call the man's bluff and give the child to him. Let me tell you what could happen then-

1. He can dump her with relatives - most likely option

2. He must have a ready made girl who willingly wants to be a foster mum. Which working man can take care of a baby girl?

This man is playing the OP like a guitar. Every man no matter how stupid he looks is an expert manipulator. A fact women hardly ever get.

He craves the fact that the baby is your life, he enjoys watching you struggle to keep her. Use reverse psychology on him.
Romance › Re: Help! Seems Like My Crush Is Insane by LexngtonSteele: 9:16pm On Jun 02, 2017
I think this is a made-up story BUT. ..

You have been friend-zoned because of your small d1ck. Send me her pictures & possibly her number for pvssy realignment for those with adequate bazookas.

NEXT!
Family › Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by LexngtonSteele:
This won't be a popular opinion. ..

I would say give the baby to the man and exit the relationship.

That's the ONLY way you can ever be rid of him.
What are the advantages?

1. He doesn't have any right to see you again.

2. Your chances of settling with another guy improves. Believe me, no matter how diplomatic guys would want to appear, NO MAN WANTS TO TAKE CARE OF ANOTHER MAN's CHILD.

The only disadvantage I can see is that you lose your own child. If you keep the child, no matter what the courts say, you must accommodate the father at some point.

Question is....do you dislike the man enough to pay the price?
Properties › Re: Sandra Duru's Landlord Throws Out Her Properties From Lagos Home (Photos) by LexngtonSteele: 5:07pm On Jun 02, 2017
harmbhrosz:
seriously?? Like for real?? This is the second time you're using this meme incase your brain forgot to count and it still doesn't make sense with the context here...

Just keep quiet and stop disgracing your home.
lipsrsealed

Properties › Re: Sandra Duru's Landlord Throws Out Her Properties From Lagos Home (Photos) by LexngtonSteele: 4:47pm On Jun 02, 2017
harmbhrosz:
gush!!! You've still made no sense...

Say something reasonable like an adult that deserved to own a phone and stop spilling dust like a toddler...

You're boring me na
wink

Properties › Re: Sandra Duru's Landlord Throws Out Her Properties From Lagos Home (Photos) by LexngtonSteele: 4:29pm On Jun 02, 2017
harmbhrosz:
[s] please drop something reasonable na

I want​ to enjoy my weekend that's why i came on nairaland because I was too sure of meeting a dumb fellow and here you are...

So please try and make sense, lemme have fun biko.


Wait is that all you could come up with? For me to pay my school fees? Like really?? This dumbness is a whole new level. Try something better

Next[/s]

I proved your level of "intelligence".

I used a microscope to show your sub-zero IQ grin
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Hope For A Graduate by LexngtonSteele: 4:24pm On Jun 02, 2017
Gwan2:
I never wanted to go deeper buh lemme scratch d surface a little bit....
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I as well spent 7 years without a "good" job.....Literally I was depression personified. I lost my mum just a month to resuming Nysc camp, that was where my sorrowful journey started...Started as a contract staff with a Nigerian bank buh menh...dat was hell on earth.....after 2years plus I resigned and went back to my father's house (one of my worse fear)....3months after my resignation I was home and dry financially. I literally lived in penury, I started drinking, smoking to calm my nerves. At a point I follow some frnds to a club where I got drunk and carried an olosho home ( that was the first time I ever did that)...I woke up in the morning to discover the lady carted away wit my only gadgets...the worst was she got me infected wit an std. The beginning of another battle.....although I got it treated after a serious battle. bros I can go on and on...
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Perhaps I forgot to tell you, I had transverse the length and breath of naija huzzling..which was futile, although contrary to the OP, my retire old Dad was very supportive...My mom would be proud of him for that singular reason wherever she is.
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Disclaimer....for the APROKOS, I went for HIV and Hepatitis test severally after the olosho incident...ofcourse it was negative.
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So please...give some experiences and kind words whenever you see someone on the verge of breakup...As a human, perhaps he has reach his elastic limit.
Sorry about your mum. May she RIP. MOTHERS are the best in the world...

Now, back to the story. Let me try to summarize:

1. Seeking solace to life problems through sex & drugs is a SIGN OF WEAKNESS. In my times of trouble, women were an outlet. Thank God i didn't catch something cheesy. I knew deep down me that drugs would ruin my life, so i never indulged. Only the strongest humans ever rehabilitate successfully, so DON'T even start.

2. I had pals who had the same level of difficulties, some even less that capitulated eventually. I am not saying i am Schwarznegger, but i just found a way. I was too proud to beg / ass-lick and thank God, He eventually came through for me.

3. My analysis of YOU, Gwan2, is this - You are also weak - QUIT your job, found solace in women (like i did).... Carrot approach works for a while, stick is often more effective. grin. The OP seems spoilt by his mum (the carrot)...it is the dad delivering the STICK grin
Properties › Re: Sandra Duru's Landlord Throws Out Her Properties From Lagos Home (Photos) by LexngtonSteele: 4:12pm On Jun 02, 2017
harmbhrosz:
ahh Olofo... I will employ you, but you won't qualify with that dead brain that can't reason

By the way hope you know those guys in those pictures are more better than shocked shocked shocked you.
https://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/wtf.gif

Now, whose brain is dead? grin grin grin

Ambrose, PLEASE, go and pay your school fees, i am saying this as your true friend tongue
Properties › Re: Sandra Duru's Landlord Throws Out Her Properties From Lagos Home (Photos) by LexngtonSteele: 3:58pm On Jun 02, 2017
harmbhrosz:
slowpoke say something reasonable to defend what you said and stop ranting about like an animal, you're disgracing the brains behind the meme you're using.
Go to your "office" grin

Properties › Re: Sandra Duru's Landlord Throws Out Her Properties From Lagos Home (Photos) by LexngtonSteele: 3:54pm On Jun 02, 2017
harmbhrosz:
hahahaha werey....

Why will a slowpoke with a dry brain like you have something to say oloriburuku somebody...

Your dumbness is disgusting
grin Obvious you have sh1t in your diapers. Cry more grin

Politics › Re: "Olodo Governor That Can't Pay Salary" Senator Dino Melaye Lambasts Yahaya Bello by LexngtonSteele:
I don't support Dino at all but....Yahya Bello has already proven useless. I haven't seen a Kogite say anything positive about Bello

if they both contest for Gubernatorial elections, today, June 2, 2017, Dino would massacre Yahya.

That's a plain fact, maybe the results can change on June 3, i can't say.
Properties › Re: Sandra Duru's Landlord Throws Out Her Properties From Lagos Home (Photos) by LexngtonSteele: 3:47pm On Jun 02, 2017
harmbhrosz:
[s]Olofo.... Lemme repaste your reply here for you



You're again dumb if your brain could not fathom the part that says she has relocated since last year.

You'll now be forever dumb if your brain cannot work on it own rather than it being controlled by bloggers...

By the way, before you restrategies your dead verbal unttrances you should know I'm not "Igbo" because I'm sure that's all what that dead thing you call brain will come up with.

.....l'm waiting[/s]
wink..Cry more. Your tears taste sweet grin

Properties › Re: Sandra Duru's Landlord Throws Out Her Properties From Lagos Home (Photos) by LexngtonSteele: 3:42pm On Jun 02, 2017
harmbhrosz:
and you're dumb if your brain cannot differenciate between valuable properties and trash.
grin

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Hope For A Graduate by LexngtonSteele: 3:30pm On Jun 02, 2017
Gwan2:
I have to be ruthlessly frank with you as well....go study more on the human psychology and anatomy.
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Every human, I repeat every human have different threshold of elasticity, perhaps yours never reached its limit before the breakthrough...whenever anyone gives such a signal, never ever regard him as a wimp, be magnanimous in giving some kind words and encouragement rather than comparing his strength of resilience with yours.
[b]I agree with you that the "elastic band of resilience" differs from each individual, but would you describe someone who hangs himself after failing first homework as strong? There must be a minimum standard (very subjective, i know).

BUT you conveniently didn't see where is OWN FATHER assessed him the same way i did. Maybe the father is wrong / right, but i can bet you that the Father knows him FAR BETTER than you and i do.

He should look inwards and that was my point. I was unemployed for 7 good years...at a point i dated a devilish girl for 4 good years (believe me we fought on every single sentence grin). But all these negative experiences made me stronger.

Telling his mother to sell her bike for an avenue that wasn't guaranteed was very self-centred. His dad has probably observed acts like this.

Carrot & stick...this boy needs stick for now cool

PS- i am not the only person who has observed that he doesn't want to start "small" or do an "undignifying job"[/b]
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Hope For A Graduate by LexngtonSteele: 1:41pm On Jun 02, 2017
EgunMogaji:
Please be careful as you make this trips.

Additionally, please review your posts. Do they come out in a manner that shows that a person with high education wrote them?
I also detected some snide tribalism, defeatist complex and a siege mentality (the whole World is against me).

If many people assessed him as LAZY, maybe he should brutally look at himself without self-bias.

A girl i dated, just before getting my first job, told me "you have a sensitive skin" and it would be to my detriment. After the 1st turbulent months, i saw this was true and adjusted accordingly.

As Benekruku said... in the workplace, he would face a lot of pressure and can't keep thinking suicide is the way out of problems.

Good Luck to the OP
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Hope For A Graduate by LexngtonSteele: 1:22pm On Jun 02, 2017
I think it's village people... shocked shocked shocked

On a serious note, i would be brutally frank with you. You don't have mental fortitude

You give up easily & you have an entitlement complex.

Look inwards at yourself. The truth is bitter, but YOUR OWN FATHER if he concludes you are lazy, maybe you should ask why

I spent almost 7 years without a job, depressed like you, but kept trudging on. The job i eventually got paid for all the tears.

A real man keeps standing up as he's getting knocked out. A "girl-man" stays down and hopes to be saved by the referee.

Labour market is hard everywhere WORLDWIDE (except maybe Iraq & Afghanistan). Keep applying. Goodluck
Christianity Etc › Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by LexngtonSteele:
NEVER accept treachery from a woman. NEVER as a husband.

She will eventually bring you a bastard. No room for "understanding" on this matter.

Thank God, she was generous enough to show it to your face.

I know of someone who worked in WHO in Austria/ Switzerland for years, making millions. Made this same mistake, found 3 of his daughters were staunch Christians by the time he returned. Youngest was 22 years old.

Don't be stupid. This is the same advice i would give a Christian man. NEVER accept such from a woman.
Crime › Re: Man Rubs Salt & Pepper Into Housemaid’s Injuries In Aba (Photo) by LexngtonSteele: 10:00am On Jun 02, 2017
Yeebos are champions when it comes to beating kids & women.

Whisper ABOKI and they sh1t their panties. Adekunle made Ojukwu break sprint record dashing to Cote D'Ivoire

Their chest-beating is limited to online rants. They are the ones who bribe Fulani Herdsmen not to rape the women & kill the men.

https://www.reactiongifs.us/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/really_dean_supernatural.gif

They should ask Fayose what he did when they came to Ekiti

May God give this girl justice and i hope the Government takes the case up
Politics › Re: Ekiti Has Lowest Crime Rate In Nigeria- Police by LexngtonSteele: 10:28pm On Jun 01, 2017
GeneralOjukwu:
SE states probably have 95% of the piechart for criminals

In a survey of 123,456 crimes committed in diaspora, Aboki was 3, Oodua 3..... IPOB the rest

Properties › Re: Ernest Azudialu Obiejesi's Nestoil Tower, Lagos (Video And Photo Documentry) by LexngtonSteele: 10:16pm On Jun 01, 2017
20CRATES:
Are u telling me this man couldn't hv built this in Port Harcourt or Enugu?
Another reason you CAN NOT "chest beat" with this building is because the financiers, i.e the people who financially funded the construction of this building are actually Yorubas. (GT Bank). It was even solely (100%) funded by them.

https://c1.staticflickr.com/5/4196/35037141675_eac3939b17_b.jpg

I am guessing you didn't know that.

And as you might know, GT Bank belongs to the Ooduas.
The building is still Yoruba owned. Once you are done and going to Biafra, Fola Adeola, Segun Agbaje and their team will simply "collect" their building back before you can even blink an eyelid. grin
grin grin grin

I pray they get Biafra.... wink

We would see how they will carry this building along

THANKS FOR THE DEVELOPMENT, THANKS FOR THE GIFT, IPOBs
Autos › Re: Rickkychidex111 : A Con Man (business Deal Review) by LexngtonSteele: 10:00pm On Jun 01, 2017
Ipfreely:
Your comment is noted. I'm not going to delve into the specifics of your message, but it's clear to me that what you lack in reading and comprehension, you more than make up for in quick judgement.

Perhaps you should attempt to read my post and comprehend it again, especially the last paragraph where I noted that it was without recourse to the specifics of responsibility of either party for the situation.
Don't mind the coolcatty guy....he scrounges off car-dealers. Ignore his comments, they make little sense

He is a certified Julius Beggar. From his comment, you would see CLEARLY, he wants to be tipped little change by the conman

Autos › Re: Rickkychidex111 : A Con Man (business Deal Review) by LexngtonSteele: 9:48pm On Jun 01, 2017
From the prices the thief quotes, you should have known he is a conman
Family › Re: Help! My Cousin's Fiancee Lied Now He Wants To Call It Off!! by LexngtonSteele: 5:42pm On Jun 01, 2017
Your cousin thought he was buying a Ducati.... He got a Suzuki! grin

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Pump and Dump! NEXT! angry
Health › Re: My Daughter With Cerebral Palsy Was Battered By The Therapist I Trusted by LexngtonSteele: 4:30pm On Jun 01, 2017
Afobear:
same way you bastard afonja come here to display foolishness.....i and you enrich him so dont even bring that up stupid Afonja
Thanks for confirming your stup1dity. I can enrich him because he is my tribesman and i don't hate him.

You hate him, you abuse his tribe yet....he is making money from your h0peless f00lishness grin
Celebrities › Re: Ijaw Beauty: Actress, Ibinabo Fiberesima Shares Lovely Photos by LexngtonSteele: 4:23pm On Jun 01, 2017
dilizezabo:
lovely
I will patronize your services...but you must offer TEST DRIVES.

I dey window-shop well. So i must test-drive all the single ladies on offer tongue
Celebrities › Re: Ijaw Beauty: Actress, Ibinabo Fiberesima Shares Lovely Photos by LexngtonSteele: 4:22pm On Jun 01, 2017
Beautiful killer!

She killed that doctor with her recklessness and got off lightly
angry
Health › Re: My Daughter With Cerebral Palsy Was Battered By The Therapist I Trusted by LexngtonSteele: 4:15pm On Jun 01, 2017
Afobear:
afonja tell me your location and i will spit afonja at your ugly face
Where your bast*rd father can never dream of getting to grin grin grin

Think about it...you hate Afonja so much and you are still d*ft enough to register on a forum created by one.

He is getting richer daily with your stup1d1ty grin
Celebrities › Re: Femi Fani-Kayode And Kate Henshaw Reconcile, Apologize To Each Other by LexngtonSteele:
okay. Kate Henshaw, be careful.Get too close and he would strike being a Casanova!

He is the Black Mamba, Scourge of Ndi Ladies....Fani's mouth has no control

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