₦airaland Forum

Fahdiga:
After eating the man's money she want to clean mouth abi. If reverse was the case these vagina people would have bayed for the man's blood. Why don't you tell him in the beginning that you aren't interested instead of wasting his time and money. Rip to her though

she didn't die.

fergie001:
SOURCE

Nigeria's secret police is telling the media what content it should prioritize to publish or not to publish.

What is important or what isn't. What is vital for readership and what is not.

Nigeria has never been this cursed.

SlyfoxxjReturns:
Okay. Your opinion. I respectfully disagree. I see no reason why a woman with a limited window to find a spouse should tie herself down with a guy who is not serious or ready just because she must be loyal. This is the same school of thought that encourages women to remain in abusive relationships because it’s “for better for worse”. If you’re already at that age you should know or you will find out that you have to be more selfish in relationships if you want the best for yourself instead of doing stupid love up and down like a naive teenager. That’s why I said only matured minds will understand what I am saying.

no she doesn't have to be tied down in any relationship. She just have to quit and move on. That's the honourable thing.

SlyfoxxjReturns:
When we are young and have the luxury of time, most people tend to do the exclusive dating thing. if you are fortunate to find your life partner in this period then that’s your good fortune. But as we get older and the need to find a “serious” partner increases and becomes more urgent, most people, especially women, enter a phase of what I call “rapid dating” where they casually see, date or at least talk to multiple men in a short period. It’s not same thing as a fling, a fling is a short, spontaneous sexual relationship between two people with no intention of a lifelong commitment, but sex may not even be involved in this rapid dating phase I’m talking about. It’s just all about exploring options in a dating pool trying to find a serious partner that you connect with and there’s nothing wrong with that.

I know this because I am currently in that dating pool talking to several women in that age group and we all know what it is. Some suddenly stop talking to me overnight and I know it’s probably because they have met the one they want to get serious with. You only know this if you are in that space yourself.

that space, that pool and that idea is wrong.

They are the baggages that mar and ruin relationships later and heighten the idea of available options elsewhere and kills pleasure rewards in committed relationship.

The need for a woman to date multiple men at a time stems from a wrong foundation; a careless youth phase.....

And regret of missing out on your pool of samples/date is always looming.

SlyfoxxjReturns:
Dating is different from being in a relationship. If you know you know.

I have dated multiple women but I haven’t been in a exclusive relationship with all of them.

The OP is referring to dating which basically entails talking, a few outings, getting to know the person generally not always sex. They are trying to say don’t get exclusive with anyone till you are sure that person is the most serious.

Look at it from the point of view of a girls who is in her early 30’s and doesn’t have the luxury of wasting another 2 years being exclusive with one fvck boy that will dump her and marry someone else at the end of the day, you might understand. There’s nothing wrong with this advice if you’re a matured person.

anyhow the OP puts it , it's still suicide for girls.

Many guys will quickly downgrade the relationship if they know their prospects is seeing or dating other men. Personally, I will downgrade a prospective to fling status of I found out I'm just an option in a variety.

Also it's still unhealthy for a girl after dating different guys you then settle for one. I wonder how they manage that

A woman with multiple partners can never enjoy any relationship even when she finds the right one.

It will always be a life of regret

Dsalvo:
I agree with you and that is why I believe Tinubu gets judged harshly by those who are guilty of tribal politics.

They don't care to look at his history in the private and public sector, his actual achievement and evidence of solution provision plus his impressive administrative/political legacy so far.

Yet, those are precisely what should matter to a sophisticated electorate.

Tinubu has no history other than lying and deceit. He fostered APC and Buhari on Nigerians and has already ruled by proxy.

Anyone who has helped Buhari to power and still continue to support him is already politically doomed no matter what cheap hirelings like you try to post

Dsalvo:
If you're honest to yourself you will admit Tinubu's history, socio-economic outlook, fiscal policies and leadership ethos show he is actually the one, not Atiku etal, who will make everyone face their resources and take their eyes off crude.

Tinubu did this precisely in Lagos illustrated by his obsession with raising IGR, stremlining processes, improving security and basic infrastructure, driving changes to attract FDI and many other innovations so Lagos can grow to be self-sufficient, more financially independent and not a slave to Abuja crude oil disbursement.

This effort, to universal applause, quickly made Lagos the six richest econmy in Africa richer than Ghana, Kenya and others.

Hate Tinubu if you must but kindly stick to facts and verifiable history so you never associate him with the mindless, clueless and beggarly lack of innovation that makes virtually all Nigerian leaders, since I999, unable to achieve what BAT and his successors have.

If not for ethnic bigotry, it is obvious Tinubu's ideas, which have worked spectacularly well for Lagos, can deliver Nigeria.

Tinubu is socio-economically innovative and brilliant. He believes in free market, efficient processes, competitive and innovation-drive societies, creative ways of funding infrastructural development, privatization of specialist and technocrstic sectors to stimulate efficiency and the rise of self-sustainable States.

A template for Nigeria's development and growth.

you no dey shame? Na your children's future you dey sell because of 30k?

killmods:
Husband ke? Someone that's already condemned to public dick riding for life.. by their posts u will know them

I dey tell you. Some post reveals the kijd of mindset someone people have here on NL

Lifejack80:
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someone calls your husband baby via SMS and you won't mind.

Olosho everywhere...

lilvicky68:

As harmless as babe is?

So had it been he said good morning sugar or honey e for reach firing squad na..

so you go address another man wife as babe.

Son of a street hooker.

DubaiLandLord1:
The guy can walk away freely

How is calling a lady babe mean say he is flirting with her

you must have been born with brain lesions and seared conscience.

samonak:
That's the irony of life. It's an irrefutable law of nature that opposite will always attract. You see all these bad chicks and oloshos, at the end of the day a good number of them will end up marrying very good and decent men! They're street savvy and can smell good and naive men from a mile. Like the ace predators they are; they will use their feminine wiles to capture these gullible men as husbands. Whereas the good and well brought up ladies usually end up in the hands of "Bad" guys. I don't know whether it's as a result of wanting to live their fantasies or being intrigued by wanting a taste of the "forbidden fruit" that they sometimes end up with this type of guys. The koko be say nice people usually finish last. You have to give it to marriages of old. Before 2 consenting adults marry, their Parents will carry out extensive background checks on them, find out details about their respective families before giving their approval. That's why marriages lasted long in the past. Nowadays, a bad guy or lady simply, has to change location, meet a "maga" and dem don marry! Before long their past catches up with them and the next thing is divorce. So in summary, Marriage entails a lot of considerations, be it spiritual, emotional, financial etc, but most of all, one has to seek out the will of God before taking the final step.

I'm taking the bolded away.it should be a warning to all oloshos.

LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me

hello nairalanders,

Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.

Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.

Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.

Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.

this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.

you're just an undiagnosed fool.

Sebastine1994:
Miley cyrus. Was photographed topless at Hawaii beach 2015

The world did not end, so let us just leave this tiwa matter,

Why are we not after the man, it takes two to have sex, why are we putting all the blame on the woman.

Tiwa is divorced, she is free to mingle.

Leave her be please, do you want her to commit suicide,

Na your kind reasoning dey give ashawo false hope say future dey bright.

puzzlegate:
Just read what you wrote . Languishing in dss cell is a small thing. Are you better than him ? The whole land of Nigeria as a whole is a cell. Open your brain and let truth enter.Mandela spent 27 long years in SA prison. A freedom fighter can only be in jail, or exile or grave , that's the price. As clueless as your rulers are , they will continue to walk into all sorts of pithole.

I know KANU is the best thing that happened to your life but we consider him a scam and a fraud and you his victim. Languishing in DSS cell is a small thing?

So why are you and his criminal gangs enforcing sit-at-home to get him out by all means? Why are you people proposing a month-long sit-at-home to have him released?

Did Mandela ask Zulus, Bantus and Xhosas to close shop and sit at home because Botha locked him up?

No.

The first requirement to be an IPOB is to be brainless, then foolhardy and then total lack of foresight.

Like boko haram, like IPOB.

DefHQ:
https://dailytrust.com/bandits-impose-levies-on-sokoto-communities-issue-ultimatum-for-payment

that is the long and short term goal of IPOB. It is coming gradually.

First they pleaded for people to sit at home, after it became an imposition and order. Then they began circulating letters to markets asking them to shut down and asking banks to take down the Nigerian flag.

Soon it will be a total financial imposition on communities and companies in the South East.

puzzlegate:
before that Nigeria and it's rulers will have their time with ICC to answer for their international crimes and abuse of human rights. You are on a long thing, it's not a joke !

your self-denial is staggering.

Obasanjo raided Odi and Benue, he's still walking. Abacha killed the Ogoni 7 , he didn't answer to ICC and you think Buhari will?

Mean while your personal lord and saviour is languishing in DSS custody and you're here deceiving yourself.

Just remember to tell your children the truth.

The Buhari regime cannot even pretend to be civilised.

But KANU should answer for his crimes.

udele1:
The war within IPOB gets messier as Nnamdi Kanu blocks Simon Ekpa from DSS custody.





https://www.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=265539995589873&id=102942845182923&m_ entstream_source=timeline

Demonic son of a disgraced prostitute.

Simon Ekpa is a resident of Sweden/Finland in Scandinavia and has been the one threatening violence and death on Igbos while hiding in Europe.

The infighting only shows IPOB is a business program promoted by the naivety of Igbo population.

Easylion3569:
My girlfriend last saw her menstration last month, its been 30 days and 4 day since she last saw it.. So i was wondering why, and i had to visit a chemist who gave me a pregnancy test tools called 'accuracy'..
he told me how to use it, and what the various line display means.
so i called my girl and told her to urinate small on a small cup, followed the instructions and two thick red line showed..
and the chemist said two line is positive..
i'm still schooling i don't kno what to do now.

everything i have worked for, how i have planned my future is now trying to fade away.
i cant even hold my tears

imbe! As a man when you have unprotected sex you're supposed to be ready for STDs and pregnancy. Why you dey cry?

nisai:

bro the thing no vex you? Asking a court to do what it is not empowered to do?

These group is representing a region and people.

Women are not biologically suited to leadership.

EmekaA125:
Igboland is IPOB territory.

they can't even pretend to be literate.

Islie:
https://dailytrust.com/northern-coalition-asks-court-to-exit-s-east-from-nigeria

Aboki no dey waste time to exhibit their illiteracy.

EmekaA125:
So why is Nigeria not granting Igbo request for a separate nation. Igbos can survive 100% without Nigeria.

what exact territory in Nigeria does Igbos call Biafran land?

And are those people agreeing?

Ebonyi is showing leadership to the rest of South East .

stinechykee:
You can call us names but that will not stop Biafra from coming.We are landlocked and need Nigeria more than Nigeria needs us so why not let Igbos go if you are not parasites

abeg where be Biafran map and what are the territories the criminal scam called Nnamdi Kalu mapped out? Where is your boundaries and territories?

stinechykee:
Since you said IPOB is ineffectual and brainless cultists why not let them be and mind your f..king business you pathetic unity beggars that can't stand on their own

watch your tongue son before I send your criminal soul orbiting on the threshold of hell.

Igbos need Nigeria more than Nigeria needs them. Landlocked baboon

stinechykee:
Oga we are still chanting their praises till you parasites Nigerians give IPOB date for referendum.For you people's mind you people think the divide and rule tactics/antics you people are using against IPOB and Igbos will work.We are solidly behind IPOB like the rock or Giberata

there will be no date. Even as daft as Buhari, he knows IPOB is just as ineffectual and brainless as a bunch of cultists.

DamnnNiggarr:
Anambra Adopts Saturday As School Day To Replace Monday Over IPOB’s Sit-at-home Order

However, on August 14, the group announced a suspension of The order



http://saharareporters.com/2021/10/25/anambra-adopts-saturday-school-day-replace-monday-over-ipob%E2%80%99s-sit-home-order

We warned that IPOB is a terrorist organisation worse than military rule.

This is just a taste of what's to come. The ignorant populace were chanting their praise foolishly, giving power to a group of criminal gang you can't regulate or control.

Like boko haram like IPOB.

AutoRedux:
You have lost steam brah.

Mumu man. Ciao.

you be like person when dem dey beat die e still dey hola "e no dey enter". Demented son of a trollop.

You know if your life were a text, your mama for done delete you from existence.

Part-time orphan, Full-time CR-bitch.