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[quote author=Kobojunkie][/quote]Best of luck to you,

Kobojunkie: Again . . ..

Who can read and who cannot comprehend between us is clear, when a person is having problem with the view of others on all issues, it is either the person is super brilliant or one ignorant person who attribute unnecessary important to his/her view. In what I have seen so far about you on nairaland, you are just one of the people who come over to mark register on all tread even when there is nothing to contribute.

Lesson to learn from others:

1. Learn how to keep your mouth lock when you don't have anything to say. This is one of the traits of a responsible woman.

2. You can express your view without calling other people names.

3. Never assume that you know better than others especially in anonymous platform like this, never be surprise, you boss, your husband, your father or mother may be the person at the other end.

4. Say to others what you will love them to say to you.

5. Pride is a killer, pray against it, it destroy quicker than fire.

NOTE:
I am willing to register in you reading school to add to my reading skill since you are able to detect that reading and comprehension is my problem. I am here too to offer you a free service of tutorial on mannerism; with current global trend you definitely need to be tutor on manner of public speaking and relationship.


Not to stress you much, I already help u copy your next story.

Kobojunkie: [size=14pt]Learn to Read[/size] . .. that is all! Show the respect you expect to get.

Kobojunkie: [size=14pt]Learn to Read[/size] . .. that is all! Show the respect you expect to get.

I never expect anything less, I am even surprise that you are gentle on me this time around. What you don't have you can't give; it is very easy to see from our manner of approach to others what you lack.
What you lack is very clear, home training is a big issue to you. Who is demanding for your respect? If you have any respect to give, I advise you save it for people around you. I can see how sophisticated your level of comprehension, no surprise you easily know who can read or who is struggling to comprehend.
I am waiting for your usual meaningless essay.

[quote author=Kobojunkie][size=13pt]LEARN TO READ[/size]

I didn't insult you. I simply said your suggestion that it is your place to inject into the post is STU_PID, and that your doing that is a sign of disrespect, and a need to project. [/quote

Kobojunkie: [size=13pt]LEARN TO READ[/size]

I didn't insult you. I simply said your suggestion that it is your place to inject into the post is STU_PID, and that your doing that is a sign of disrespect, and a need to project.

Again! Must we fight others before we pass our message? I have no doubt that this good gesture on my part will earn me big blow from nairaland iron lady, lol

gbokukueba: @IfeLuvely

I totally understand how you feel as that is exactly how my wife feels about my father at the moment. Like a lot of people have said it lies with your husband to liberate himself just as am doing at the moment and have told my wife to no longer pick his call or call him after he told her he was going to beat me when i return to the country soon... can you beat that? Some fathers need to know where their place in life is and if they refuse avoidance is the best approach...

If the OP married to a Yoruba man, this your advise may not be the best. The honor for a father is life time, you can avoid him if he is a troube maker, but u cannot rude or insult him except u hv d information that he is not your father, u will definately not want anybody to place a curse on you. God gave parent those spiritual power when you over step your boundary with them. When you have a difficult father, the worst you can do is to manage him and pray for him. God did not give us any power to insult or rude to them in anyway.
The husband here is not the problem, the father inlaw is the problem. The behavious of some fathers are embarashing to their children the sameway it is to the outside, but according to our culture, you don't tell your father to shutup no matter the temptation because you will never pray to get d same reward from your own child.

chipmunkey: [size=15pt]We all know the BH sponsors. It`s an open secret that they all have an agenda to islamize Nigeria.[/size]

Yes! Everybody with an agenda, Muslims want Nig to be islamize, Christians want Nig Christianize, Yoruba want it regionize, Ibo want Biafra, Ijaw want special recognition, everybody with a target, and u can see, you too are here spreading lies to help those who want us divided.

Obama will get 2nd term, though it may not be very easy. I was having the fair before that it may not be possible, but when I compare the Republican convention and wht I saw in the last 2 days of Democrat convention. I am more at ease with my mind that, no shaking, let the Republican buy all the approver rating on CNN when the time come, American will decide.
Emotional speech of the first lady, with Bill Cliton powerful speech of yesterday that detail the journey of the past four years, the road is more clearer than before. Whatchout for Obama nomination acceptance speech where he will tell us the way for the next 4years.
The Democrat convention has finally put Republican where they belong, after this convention, Republican will go on defensive tour, and it will take not less than 2wks of heavy spending to be on the same scale again with Democrat.

The day our union was blessed, that was the day we resolve to forget about our individual life. My money and her money belong to the family. There is joint account that hold the family money and individual account for our individual monthly activities. I don't need to borrow money from her and she don't need to borrow from me, if there is any project to execute, let sit and see how it will benefit our family. This work for us because of the trust we have in each other.
What work for Taye may not work for Kehinde. For my type of method to work:
1. you must marry your type of person,
2. Marry somebody you can trust with your life
3. You must not be a slave to money,everything in life must not be about money.

It is not in our character to put heavy burden on our wife, lol. Not only that, their culture favored such emotional speech, they are trained to do it to win the heart of their ppl. Our women too have their own ways too, days to that type of ceremony, their must be a trip to Dubai to get all the bodily accessories to create special attention as the wife of the man of the day.

LOL

Kobojunkie: Like I said. . .


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If you run out of ideals, I will never tell you what next to say. When up bringing is a problem, it is not difficult to see. The more I tried to point to you what u lack in public argument the more you expose your type of up bringing. I wish you the best, at a point in your life, you will come to realize the benefit of how to argue in a civil way. Welcome this as the last opportunity you will have from me on this issue. BEST OF LUCK

Kobojunkie: I don't think God answers stup_id prayers made by those seeking to cut off the right of others to post their opinions as they choose. God is not an evil God nor does he pander to the desires of those who seek nothing meaningful for others. So, yeah . . . . stop trying to drag him into this thinking he is on your side.

As I said . .

"best of luck to you, may good people of Chicago have the ability to reshape the mind and mouth of a man who suddenly become the masters of ignorant in his small world"

I can see why the above is a stupid prayer to you. I have nothing against you, my advice to you is simple, be cultured and civil in your ways to people and I expect you to have learn that from your new home if you lack that before. Life is a cycle, we never know where we can meet, so when you argue you try to give that chance. Meaning that no matter what the argument be humble in your approach and never argue with your mind and eyes close. I hope this will help you if you are in the category of those who appreciate the truth.

Kobojunkie: Again .. . . .

I repeat the same prayer for you "best of luck to you, may good people of Chicago have the ability to reshape the mind and mouth of a man who suddenly become the masters of ignorant in his small world" Thank God you use the world supposed, if you call me adult, I gladly accept it, if it by age you lost it, if it is by level of maturity, I advice you to toe similar line and not exhibit thuggery attitude on all issues.

Kobojunkie: Like I said . . . .

Best of luck to you, may good people of Chicago have the ability to reshape the mind and mouth of a man who suddenly become the masters of ignorant in his small world.

Kobojunkie: oh! I have always known this is an open forum . . . just never understood why supposed adults think it is sensible to go around telling people who they can or cannot post like you have been doing all this while.

I don't care what ends up happening . . . i like posting my opinion. If YOU want a fight over my right to post my opinion, you make my day cause again, I like to post my opinion a lot.

Well, this is not the 1st time am seeing u behaving like a child here. The holiday on Monday is just given you another time to add to your way. If your new environment is not having impact on you, I wonder what else will do that for you. I have tried as much as possible to be gentle and civil with you. The problem with you is clear, what you don't have, you can't give. Kin la gbe, kin le ju, over what to result to insult and name calling. I hope you will learn how to relate with people even in the light of misunderstanding, this is necessary for your future.

Kobojunkie: I think you should get off this thing you are on.

No one is stopping her from telling her story. NO ONE . . No one is stopping her from printing a book about her life, again, NO ONE.

Also, this is nairaland . . . if you have an issue with others posting their views openly, I would suggest you log out and go spend your time elsewhere, because this is an open forum for everyone to post what they want to.

Thank God you realize that this is an open forum, to tell me to log off is chidish. Must you end up fighting with those who express contrary view with you? Let us be cultured in the way we pass our message. No matter how blind the point of others especially on issue of this nature must we turn ourselves to e-thug, oga fun e.

Kobojunkie: IF you half believed the above statement in red, you would yourself admit that this story only not unique but the only reason you claim it is because she is White, nothing else.

Also, if I decided to write a story of my life on Nairaland, I would hope no eejit would assume my story to be a UNIQUE one given there are about a million or so other users who experience Nairaland too.

I hope you will open you mind to see the point of others, whether her story is unique or not unique either to you or me is not the point here. The point is, if the woman feel that her story is unique to her and she want to tell us, let us leave her alone. This is not politics section where you have member of 40 laptop to fight with. This is family section, this may not be area of your competent. Let us appreciate the life of others, there are lessons to learn from the life of other people no matter how small. You may have heard these type of stories millions of time, this means you are not one of her audience, what of millions of others who for one reason or the other find this story useful to them.

Kobojunkie: Well, I don't think her story is unique in anyway. If you don't like that I can state that easily and openly, then please leave my alone, and let me state my opinion.

Good, it is not unique to you, it make a lot of meaning to me, because this is a free world and we should not bring unnecessary sentiment to what other people consider to be the challenge of their own life. If tomorrow, you decided to write about your life as a member of nairaland, and how you use this opportunity to make your voice heard. I will be foolish enough to say how is that important, it may not important to me, but you know why it is important and the reason why it should form part of you life history.

Kobojunkie: I see we like to deny the obvious . . Alright, so tell us , what makes this woman's story different from the story of many other couples, married and living in the same Jos, with at least one partner estranged from their family?

What is the obvious there to deny? we choose different way to leave our life. If I decided to write my story, good or bad, how should that be another person's problem? Let others who have story to tell come forward to tell us. What become the world history today is the story of individual and group. The major point here is, leave the woman and let her tell her story, her story is important to her and she is happy telling it, where then is the problem?

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Kobojunkie: Again, you would have believe that marrying a human being who happens to be PAINTED A DIFFERENT COLOR THAN YOU ARE is UNIQUE for what you typed up there to make sense.

I can see where there is problem here, if you go back and read what I wrote, and match it with what you wrote you will see where the problem lies. What I feel is unique about me may not make meaning to you, and that is what I said, that if the woman feel that her case is unique and important to her to tell the world, i don't think we should condemn her for that. Let us be open to the argument of others and get the main point clear before we punch our keyboards.

Kobojunkie: Abeg go siddon . . like Nollywood stories are in anyway unique . . abeg make me hear word for that one.

I have an aunt who happens to be american and has been married over almost 30 years. She too had to leave her family to marry my uncle, and she ain't writing no long stories of it either.

The fact that somebody doesn't write book or story about what is unique about him/her should not make us condemn those who choose to do it. This is her story, and she is telling those who care to listen. This may definately not interest you, but what of millions of other people who appreciate small story like this.

Mrs.Chima:
She isnt the first nor will be the last person to marry or date outside her nationality. People been mixing centuries before her. What make her any different??.

Why do some people make splashes as if they were the first person to say, "hey look at me, I did it!!"

If she is happy she shouldn't worry about what other people say and shouldn't waste her time forcing others to accept her views. We all have a free will on how we would live our lives.

Is there anything wrong with sharing your own story? There are millions of people who are making it by telling their story, if she think that her story deserve to be share, I don't think it should generatate any negative response especially from god mother of nairalnad family and romance sections.

sambos994: Buhari has finally got his senses? Wow...

I hope your uncle will regain his lost mind too soon ... very good development. Let us keep d good work

dplordx: Weak and f00lish justification. Why cant that monkey fire this CBN emir

I think we need to learn how and how not to talk in the public. This is a very good example of how not to talk. I don't know how you will feel if you are Jarus's position, you can pass a message without making the poster look stupid for seeking clarification or telling us his discussion with the governon. As a citizen you have similar opportunity but with this ur level of maturity I doubt if anybody will give you such privilledge.