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The annoying thing is that if you are from Anambra and you inform your parents that your suitor from Ebonyi will like to pay them a visit, they will reject that and even reject you for nursing that ambition. It will be as if you committed an abomination.

I just wonder who the families of the affected Nigerians are? Where are they? Are they aware
Real sad. Death penalty is wrong in its entirety.
RIP to the dead.

Akiko ikoja.

But why did Seun remove all the threads on the guy

Someone as educated as he is spewing such trash. He will definitely regret his words. I know he didn't speak the mind of all Yorubas.

Involve omonile lawyer when buying a piece of land.

indianeducation:
Hmmmm just hope our people won't fall into scam again

You are the scam.
Min(i)mum ko, maximum ni.

It is a pity. However, I wonder how some parents reason. How can one be in the habit of leaving a child unattended for hours while waiting for a school teacher to pick her up to school? Can you imagine
May God grant them peace and grace of more fruits.

Chronic lesbianism.

The criminal and the baboon be like twins sef. Omo see striking resemblance.

Waterway:
Strict zoning is a welcome idea for this estate. I will suggest a demarcation into : duplex & bungalow / multifamily dwellings/ business & school.. Discourage churches or any place of worship in the estate due to traffic and noise that will dampen the excitement of potential investors..What is the geophysical survey for this area with regard to drilling a borehole for water . Awaiting layout of plots . I plan on buying 4plots for now.

Very very important, oga Spyder, I do not want any form of church in the estate. Let it be a reserved settlement akin to what is obtainable in the US.

Raped and offered postinor 2. Kai... this guy will rot in hell

You are an IT person and you still use the same pin for mere phone lock and something as serious as ATM Guy, u fu3k upp, big time. Thank your stars that that your roomie is a learner, jambite thief. Meanwhile, I guess he didn't want to kill you but may be looking for a way to monitor you to drop off the cards or distract you from thinking he is the culprit. All in all, pity him. This isn't far from his upbringing or poverty.

I'm in for 2plots. However, I would need to see the survey plan and know the proximity to Enugu city. Enugu will make a good retirement home for me.

liberty24:
Bond with his family members before you set boundaries with them

Very wise saying here. Ponder on it. Don't set boundaries initially as it may not augur well with many, rather be endeared to their hearts and tactfully set ur space.

The recent kidnapper house help comes to mind and numerous other scams. Konga is far better.

https://www.nairaland.com/1838365/suggestions-new-marriage
Op sef, barely a year into ur marriage with this ur supposed prince charming, you are making a mountain out of a mole hill. What if he used that before he got married to you? What stops you from ironing it out with him as your dear hubby instead of running to nairalanders? Concentrate on having a child first if you are interested in that and then ask him to change the next of kin to ur child in due time. This one no be issue now, abeg.

Seemyfather:
Hi to all respective Drs., I am a male, 30+ of age. I just want to ask about pre-mature ejaculation . I think i m having this kind of problem years ago, since i couldn't t last longer than expected, neither do I satisfy my partner nor last longer on bed, not even for a minutes so to say.

Now my questions are as follows:

(1) Is Premature Ejaculation curable nowadays?
(2) Does it affect my ability or chances of impregnate my lady/partner to bear a child for me?
(3) Can it leads to a total/partial impotency of mine because of this?
(4) Is there any final or total means or solutions to cure and overcome it? If yes, then please help me find the answers or you can as well refer me to some effective medication or some other effective supplements to curb/sure this embarrassing/shameful problem of mine.

Please note your help/assistance might be of a great help to me and any other person experiencing such thing here as well oooooooo.

Thank you!

It can not affect your chances of impregnation if there are NO other underlying disease factors and if it is NOT so bad that you come outside the target.
Having said that, address all your anxiety disorders as those are the major psychological causes of premature ejaculatn. Then try the pause and squeeze exercise during pre-intimacy as described here. http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/premature-ejaculation/basics/treatment/con-20031160
See ur doctor to ensure there is NO underlying disease. If none, only You can heal yourself.

Mbaka why
Do not contaminate ur priesthood with bloody politics. The flock is falling aside.
God will ask u, "Mbaka why "

Op should see a psychiatrist asap. He may have lost his job due to other psychiatric manifestations and unknowingly attributes it to imaginary (psychotic) odours around him.
Pls, stop attacking babyosisi or in this case, take her advice and ignore the delivery. If It is her dry humor side as she said, pardon her. Sometimes, I wonder if someone hacked her account.

Check my post above for where you can carry out the tests. Good luck!
Share ur babi(es) pix with us soon.

worriedhusband:
The challenge we have here is where to do all those tests. She actually did some and the result came out good but i m sure many of the above tests have not been suggested by any doc. I don't smoke, drink or take coffee and the last seminal fluid analysis I did was ok. Please if you know where we can carryout these tests kindly let me know. Thanks so much.

Hi worriedhusband,

Sorry about ur losses. I am confident that the good God will replenish all abundantly to his glory. From experience, these are possible causes;

*Auto immune disorders, e.g. antiphospholipid antibodies, etc. In this case, a lab evaluation is required.

**Erythroblastis fetalis caused by rhesus incompatibility if ur wife is rhesus negative while you are rhesus positive. So if she is carrying a rhesus positive fetus and she is already sensitised by previous pregnancy or abortion( even from previous relationships, YES!), her allo antibodies will react against the fetal red blood cells and terminate the pregnancy. So in this case,a lab evaluation will check ur rhesus factors.

***Threatened Abortion possibly from STIs... again test! Test!

****Anembryonic gestation from the implantation of a blighted ovum (or poor quality non- viable embryo possibly contributed by your sperm...YES! It isn't all about her). In this case, a hormonal assay is required to ascertain her FSH/LH level which is usually high in blighted ovum patients, then ur sperm analysis: quality, quantity and motility should be ascertained.

*****Chromosomal abnormalities in the resultant embryo. In this case, genetic testing will be conducted to know if there is a chromosomal abnormality which usually do not permit pregnancy progression( a natural way of nature to take care/control of the universe)

******Uterine dysfunction in terms of integrity of the uterine wall, presence of uterine fibroids, production of progesterone and hCG at early pregnancy, etc. In this case, hormones progesterone and HCG levels should be tested in the lab, ultrasound scan should indicate a clear picture of the integrity of the uterine walls, presence or absence of fibroid or abrasion from repeated or 'bad' abortions, etc.

******Unknown aetiology. Yes, in some cases, after detailed investigations, the exact cause remains unknown.

I hope I have been able to summarise the possible differential diagnoses. So now, what you should do is to see a fertility expert who will then recommend the required tests for you.
In the meantime, abstain from unsafe sex to avoid pregnancy now as her body (uterus/womb) needs time to recover from all the repeated D n C.
Now,she should embark on folic acid and vitamin B complex supplementation in the interim and continue way into the next pregnancy(at the right time when u must have seen a fertility specialist )

I hereby recommend the BRIDGE CLINIC, ODUDUWA RD, GRA,IKEJA ,LAGOS. It is a tested and trusted fertility clinic with an avalanche of fertility experts to help. They will recommend the required tests and the good thing is that the have a sound in-house laboratory to handle your tests. If there is a need for further tests not available in Nigeria, they ll fly ur samples to South Africa at NO additional cost. It is better than beating about the bush going to quacks or mere inexperienced who will not tell you that they cannot handle ur case but will be out for your money. Google up for exact contact details.

GOODLUCK!
Baby dusts to u.

You made a lot of sense. And most people think it's money money. More so, personal experiences can make someone settle for old love. If u ask me, there's definitely LOVE in this relationship as love can be grown over time.
*Let them Google Asama Banda of Ghana and his last wife*

emusmith:
You know... No matter how wealthy a woman is, she doesn't feel satisfied until a man is giving her some more. It goes beyond the money- that's her make up.

I also believe she went for Power and Fame.

I'm telling you! You r so right!
Has anyone seen Genevieve Nnaji in such trash
I can't find myself in this kinda so called trendy.

angelTI:
No matured human being will wear this rag some mofos call trendy wear. No wonder it's called distress jeans

Chaotic system in all! What manner of barbarism? So when does refusing to be searched become a reason to lynch someone? Now, they know the reason for her refusal. May her blood haunt them forever.

Pls, job seekers especially in Lagos should endeavour to follow this thread to be wary of job scammers in Nigeria. You will also notice negative remarks against WAVE academy in the thread. To be forewarned is to be forearmed.

https://www.nairaland.com/1841414/how-identify-scam-interview-invitation/21

Anxiety of a scammer!
You can only deceive unsuspecting unemployed nigerians with those fake pix of urs. Na today yash begin dey for back
I advise all job seekers to tread carefully and be mindful of wolves in sheep's clothing like you.
No single success story on nairaland.com, or none of ur successful graduates is on the most popular , ever blazing naija social forum
You know the sad truth and only the truth shall set you free. You can NEVER be successful by extorting jobless youths.
Let's make Nigeria better.
On this note, I leave you to ur conscience.
Let this serve as a note of warning to nairalanders. People should also learn to share their experience and reviews as is obtainable in saner climes so that others can learn from such.
Bye.

WAVEACADEMY:
because our intentions are pure, we ll always have evidence to counter any accusation........lmao, but we like it tho. your accusations help more ppl see the light and it also keep the conversation on here interest.
anxiously waiting for your next accusation

It is a pity to read people being encouraged to come all the way from Abuja and Ibadan to come and face this high ranking, high handed scam.
Hmmmmm! Scammers are really heartless.
Please, fellow Nigerians, join wave at ur own HIGH RISK.
DO NOT BE CONFUSED BY THE FAKE UPLOADED PIX. NO SINGLE SUCCESS STORY FROM NAIRALAND.COM.
May be she/they will stage monikers to do that but that will be too late considering the time of registration of such monikers. Any HR that asks u for a penny is fraudulent.
I sent someone to them and the remark isn't commendable at all. Get ready to sign a one year on for a 20k job, if at all u will be given.
They give no job and are just after ur 10k training fee. If eventually they ever get u a job, they part will 1/3 of ur peanuts and bond u to the peanuts for 1 year.

I categorically confirm your claims with evidence!
I sent someone to them and the story is as exactly as you said it even worse. To cap it all, the high handed scammer sacked a whole batch of jobless individuals whom she has been drilling for weeks over a chewing case. She sacked them because she saw chewing gum sticked somewhere on her wall or so. Can you imagine? I know she has no job for them and sacked them out of frustration but why not tell them the truth. Wave academy is a a time bomb waiting to explode. So disheartening nothing works in Nigeria.
She can come here and call me a jobless rejected fellow too... I will only laugh it off
For her information, check my profile very well. I am gainfully employed and can NEVER go jobless. NEVER!

IBOGIRL1:
Very funny,calling my statement a rant of a rejected applicant,for starters,u guys don't reject anybody cos u need all the money u can get and anybody that is comfortable with your proposal is accepted. U can scroll thru my profile very well if ur jaundiced eye allows it. I am a graduate of economics and am currently waiting to serve,just needed a partime job to keep mysef busy until may. I wonder how we could have been rejected for *hotel jobs* (waitresses) which we have even done so many times during school days. How do u reject sombody and stil demand for 10k for training materials. Oh I get it,u automatically label pple who don't buy ur idea of 10k upfront as rejected applicants. Very funny.once more, u and I know d truth and am not saying all these to discredit u but u guys myt need to change your system a bit and stop asking jobless nigerians for money upfront and signing a year of bondage to work in a hotel. During the interview u categorically stated that your salary scale was within 30-35k,stop with the 70k deceit uv bin spilling here. I got your info from nairaland bfor I came around. If uv hav workd sucessfully with so many nairalanders as u claim, y aint they coming out to testify. Y is your thread always filled with first time comers who are yet to get the grill or pple who discredit u.

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WAVEACADEMY:
to show you are brandishing lies, 80% of our trainee didnt pay training fee and they are currently working.
on the one year contract, which company employs a person who will quit in year time, plus the one year contract is an IT program, that certify you are able to stay on the job for a year. upon completion of that one year IT, your salary increases by 188%
we have more than hotel jobs, we have teaching, PA, customer care, receptionist etc
so the question now is, wont it be better if you got something doing, than sitting at home losing value and rubbishing our genuine attempt to reduce unemployment

U0 to batch 10 and no single success testimony, hmmmmm! It is disheartening how all kinds of unscrupulous individuals organise high rank scam to defraud unsuspecting job seekers in Nigeria.
Why not tell the whole of batch 10 the whole truth that you have no jobs for them instead of sacking them over a chewing gum case?
Smart ass criminals, little wonder someone pointed out that any HR that collects money from job seekers is a scam.
Chewing gum case, lmao!!!