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Seriously, if you can't spread love or appreciation, keep quiet.
Don't spread your envy and hypocrisy around.
Why do you keep hating on one another in Nigeria. Tufiakwaaa

This is how stars are born!
BBN thought they could unmake it. No one can alter your destiny except God himself.

Mind you, I don't live ij Nigeria, didn't watch BBN, but Tacha's influence is been felt even here. That's a charismatic leader in the making.

The southerners continue to migrate out of Nigeria in droves due to hardship while the northerners continue to enjoy the national cake.
One Nigeria, indeed

Purples25, believe me, this is an inconsequential happenstance. Don't even blame yourself.
Those weak minds enjoy belittling others to feel momentarily strong.

It seems you've self esteem issues just because of your school issues. Believe me, a time will come when you'll look back and laugh off this.

Move on!!! Move on!!!

We all don't have the same divine calendar, and so there's nothing like age when it comes to education.

Pls, don't rush into a Nigerian school just to read anything just for the sake of "getting certificate".
Rather, take your time to get into a course that closely aligns with your talent. Since you're good in the arts, consider honing your skills in an Arts school abroad since it seems your folks can afford that. It'll likely open endless opportunities for you.

purples25:
Fast forward till today, i was given another deal on Monday, i was told to come on Wednesday to do the job.That same Monday, i was told by some teachers there that there wasn't supposed to be any negotiation that i should be doing those things for free,that we are family,im not a real artist. Still, i was expected to come today and do the art stuff.I still came since the deal was still on and the boss hadn't actually said i wasn't recieving payment today.

I went there and guess what, the proprietress was with those two teachers that said those things to me on monday. She asked me why i came to visit, as if there was no deal today. They all just kept quiet and ignored me. I gathered courage and asked " how about the art job and the deal i was supposed to be paid for? " The proprietress just said there was nothing. They could have called me to tell me but no, it was sweeter to have me arrive, look like a beggar, ignore me and then tell me bye in high snobbish voices as i was leaving. Why did they humiliate me?

What the hell are you saying
Can't you see her creative prowess
Most exceptional creative talents ain't good with inter-human relationships. Get that into your thick skull.
Abeg, this is just an inconsequential curve in the growth phase of OP. Let her move on, jare.

Londonboyrep:
Sorry to burst your bubble but if you cannot perform basic admin tasks associated with being a receptionist then what hope is there for you in any sort of white-collar job? Sorry to be blunt but the skills you need as a receptionist is a starting point for ALL other roles.

When anyone asks you to define karma, simply cite Sowore. Sowore is a classical example of karma in action. GEJ is watching and smiling



Gowon, TY Danjuma, Obasanjo, Tinubu, Dino, etc will all drink in the ocean of karma in the hands of the powerful ruling fulanis. Ntooorrr

Leadership summit and you're leading with bare boobs while your "initiator" is responsibly dressed?
Was it a club SMH
You look like a piece of sacrifice or a product of wardrobe malfunction

lalasticlala:
BBNaija star, Cee-C and veteran Nollywood actor, Kanayo O Kanayo met at the 4th Pan Africa Business leadership summit in USA.

Ceec rocked a hot mini dress that showed her cleavage.

Sharing the pictures, she joked about Kanayo O Kanayo who is popularly known with money ritual roles.

She captioned:


https://www.instagram.com/p/B5WKqd8lUd1/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Op, it seems you are not married, that's why you're wasting your resources.
As long as you're single and a willing ATM, your favorite cousin will continue to breed like rat until menopause.
Now, run and get married and conserve your resources for your family.
You're the type that will marry now, and they will start calling your wife a witch for not allowing them to milk you dry.

If you're already married, kindly invest your resources for your future.
And back to your question, there's NO OTHER WAY OF STOPPING THEM OTHER THAN WITHDRAWING THE FISH YOU'VE BEEN FEEDING THEIR LAZY MOUTH.
IF YOU MUST HELP, LET THEIR UNDERGRAD SON OPEN AN ACC, SO YOU HELP HIM DIRECTLY.

God bless you, bro.
I'm sure Joe is weeping profusely in her grave for the division in the once indivisible dynasty

NwaAmaikpe:



They've said I'm a heartless dead soul who feels no empathy and only wishes people bad, but it is time to prove them wrong.

I won't further increase the sorrow of late Mrs Josephine Okoye whose dying wish was for this union not to exist by wishing them a happy anniversary.
In fact, for the love of family, I pray Peter wakes up one morning and walks away from this woman who has not only torn down the Psquare empire but has cracked the unity of a once indivisible dynasty.

This is one couple I don't wish well.
This is not because I think Peter is the weaklink of the Okoye chain or because he has proven to be the prodigal one but only because of my conscience.

A conscience I will never want to lose.

Even till today, you're still obsessed with this grammar thing. Hunger go kee you o. Hustle first, forget grammar

Kenmatt:
Even till today, Tuface is still battling with grammar.

Guys, take some chill pills for once and be happy for happy people. They ain't the source of your misery
Why has harsh economy made Nigerians to be extremely bitter

You should be made a commissioner NOW, to help redress the imbalance in the system and the negavity and exclusionary practices of our current leaders.

freeze001:
The last picture is a complete aberration and should not have been taken, least of all released to the public. If the state government is supposedly trying to take these children off the streets, which is commendable, why were they then required to take pictures with the very items that represent the ills of their conditions and with the Commissioner standing right there? These are children whose identities should be protected yet the same government has released such an uncomplimentary picture, to what end? Someone obviously asked them to carry those bowls and stand with the commissioner, it is not a random picture and that is the worst form of insensitivity!

Governance/leadership in this country leaves a lot to be desired. The better picture should have been to show these children enrolled in schools and dressed in clean uniforms within a learning environment not this! Their families should also be evaluated and provided with sustainable livelihood skills and some capital or equipment to keep the kids off the streets.

What has "bishan ampiclus" (Ampiclox by Beecham), an antibacterial got to do with a human mite infection?
Except there is secondary bacterial skin infection of the open wounds, why would someone hurriedly prescribe antibacterial (and not even Ampiclox) for Scabies
Sometimes, I just wish naira land has an UNSEE button!
And you even went further to claim to know Ivermectin and bla bla about Doxycycline! What manner of confident quack are you?? BE CAREFUL

Rockyrascal:
benzyl and ivermectin can only do well by clearing the surface each time you apply to the surface, but it won't cure it.

Scabies is from within...buy bishan ampiclus (take 1 in the morning and 1 in the evening) for 1week, then wait to see results.

Outshine other African countries? Is that a priority?

Kylekent59:

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As the giant of Africa, other nations should be struggling to come to Nigeria if only good leaders were elected.


Nigeria has what it takes to outshine other African countries.

Let us still see if we are gonna get there.

So when people are "perceived" as being rude, animals in uniform harass and intimidate them. Woow. Nigeria

Efizzi:
Oga from your story you are perceived to be rude and disrespectful. All because you know how to report and post on Twitter. Radarada

I don't care if this is you or your sister. Whoever this is, fleeeeeee from that your so called girlfriend, block all contacts with her, ignore the malicious lies she is spreading against you and all the flying monkeys who believe her. Concentrate on loving your man, scatter his dada with love and respect and enjoy your union.
May God perfect all that concerns you.

This is beautiful to behold. Absolutely brilliant. God bless your union, Kpakpando and Ọlaedo.

Your life is a true definition of miracle, Kechi. Live it to the fullest, child of destiny.

Pearl1996

Pls, go and test for syphilis.
What you described looks like classical treponema pallidium infection but we cannot confirm that without ruling out other differential diagnosis. I repeat, TEST FOR SYPHILIS.
Sis, pls, calm down. There's nothing to worry about. Your solution starts with the right diagnosis.
May the healing hands of God be with you.

Pearl1996:
Nairaland famiy I need help.

Somethings been eating me up. I had sex with my boyfriend some weeks later i started falling so sick I will try to point out all I can remember
*Came down with what I felt was fever was burning hot so hot you just need to come close to feel the heat

*at night I sweat. Not just the usual sweat but one I have to change my clothes two times a nigbt(this happened for like a week)

* I started feeling so cold especially in the morning. Doctor said it was pneumonia + a cough that lasted for three weeks plus.

*and the rashes I ve never have in my whole life spreaded all over my arms and back as well as my breast region.

* I also had serious muscle ache. Serious that my mom had to help me massage it. My neck did hurt too it felt like someone hit me with a blank on my neck

* nodes on my neck, groin, as well as ear.
* I started having blurred vision and sores on my lips like fever blisters

* and then injuries in my mouth, weird ones
* I have oral trush at least thats what I thought them to be. White tongue I have had this before but this onr is different. With slimy white things in my mouth every time

*I also experienced dehydration and dry mouth.
* also had a delayed flow

The symptoms are so much I can't even mention it all. Most of these lasted for about a month +. I still have cold till this day. I shiver most times and its my major fear. And the rashes are still there.

This Is the major problem. The nurse who was handling me said it might be an STD maybe HIV I took plethora of test including HIV after 3 months all came back negative, I was told to wait 6montgs to check for HIv again it was still negativr. During this month I have seen so many doctors, private and government all they do is givr me drugs but I still experience the pneumonia cold( no cough) and occasional mouth sores as well as the rash. My boyfriend now my ex took HIV too it was negative.
Please doctors in the house what can this be. I have read so many threads here on naira land of people who had same experience but some later turned + they might be lying though.

I heard after 6 months and test is still negative then its not it. My question now is. What is wrong with me. I have spent so much on drugs and test. And no doctor is able to say what my problem is. Its making me crazy as I am even scared to shower because of the cold and I can't let people see my body due to rash.

I need help.

Pearl1996

Pls, go and test for syphilis.
What you described looks like classical treponema pallidium infection but we cannot confirm that without ruling out other differential diagnosis. I repeat, TEST FOR SYPHILIS.
Sis, pls, calm down. There's nothing to worry about. Your solution starts with the right diagnosis.

Rednaxelot:
You can drop out of school and open a barbing shop, since you have got gen, TV, GOtv. Ladies won’t come patronizing, but men. With that, there won’t be sexual urge which will disturb you from achieving your goals and no head dizzy.

Anuofia.

� Woooowww! The best adviser on nairaland award goes to this guy. Dude is a genius.

Some stars are born while some are made.
This Tacha is definitely a born star. It's in her destiny to shine no matter what.

How does this concern the innocent kids born of his loins
Preferentially treatment is evil especially on your own flesh and blood and innocent kids.

ORIENTATION101:
what do u expect the 3rd child is from his manager Jada P. They are always together. Besides Jada P comtributed more to wizkid success than just offering vagina for procreation like the other two baby mamas.who sat their lazy ass at home and be expecting salary

Congratulations man, you got yourself a narcissistic wife
You're henpecked forever

Due to her emotional manipulations, you're there saying I love my wife
Love will not kill you there, you empath and enabler of narcissism.

Find some useful info here.

https://www.decision-making-confidence.com/narcissistic-wife.html

https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45

https://couplestherapyinc.com/5-ways-to-spot-a-narcissistic-wife/

Bull crap nonsensical reply

What I fear most right now is getting into any sort of Narcissistic abuse in my life again, be it family, work, friendship or any kind of ship for that matter. We haven't heard from Muyiwa but I tell you, this lady just published tell tale signs of Narcissistic psychopaths.
Victims suffer untold emotional abuse that words can't describe.
Sadly, there's poor public awareness of narcissism in Nigeria. Many people are suffering right from homes.

Only in Nigeria. In most western countries, including the Uk whose legal system we copy, even outstanding legal luminaries can do without those funny wigs.
Nigerians sha like efizi and intimidation.
Even your policeman neighbour will intimidate you where as in western countries, cop job is usually masked.

Too bad. This guy doesn't even hide the fact that this Zion is his favourite, golden child. Very narcissistic father.

I concur!
She's so crazy to be raising her kids that way, like telling them not to greet you and all that. Spank the hell outta them and scold their mum join

jenifer007:
Most relations are like that.They don't tolerate rubbish when it comes to other peoples' children but their own kids are like eggs nobody must touch them.That's total nonsense....Op if the children cross your path which I know they will because they believe they have their mother's support, show them the African method by scolding them wella, if their mum tries to shout at you in return,please endeavour to serve her tea hot too....Give her her own dose too then she will realize you are also a no nonsense person like her too and she will definitely give herself brain.

Trust me anyone that thinks say he or she get craze,that person never jam person wey get craze pass am.

Even peks making front page on nairaland. The mighty has indeed fallen.

Did Yomi type that shit? That sounded so daft. Which top personalities are higher than your wife. He appears like one of those men that keep women in the house as a piece of funiture or just baby factory.

Lingerie