Christianity Etc › Re: I Honour My Word Above My Name by lightinchrist4: 11:46am On May 16, 2018 |
"I will worship toward thy holy temple, and praise thy name for thy lovingkindness and for thy truth: for thou hast magnified thy word above all thy name." - Pslam 138:2
Basically if a man's word is nothing , his name is also nothing if not less than nothing.
So basically this verse is to reiterate that God's word stands sure and he can never LIE, what he says hr will do. It is Psalms and not Pslam. |
Romance › Re: 2 Genuine Strategies I Used To Tackle The Spirit Of Masturbation by lightinchrist4: 2:49am On Apr 26, 2018 |
Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. John:14:6. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Where Can I Find 'rapture' In Revelation? by lightinchrist4: 9:32am On Apr 09, 2018 |
The word "rapture" is not in the Bible. What is in the Bible is the day of the coming of Jesus Christ. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Those Who Died Before Jesus Christ Came Into This World, Where Is Their Eternity by lightinchrist4: 9:02am On Apr 09, 2018 |
The dead that obeyed God are asleep and waiting for the day of the coming of Jesus Christ to be risen while the dead sinners are reserved for judgement. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Paying Your Tithe From Football Bet Winnings, Good Or Bad by lightinchrist4: 11:19am On Apr 05, 2018 |
God will never accept the tithe from the earnings of a sinful occupation or job. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Can A Christian Lose Salvation? by lightinchrist4: 11:14am On Apr 05, 2018*. Modified: 11:33am On Apr 05, 2018 |
Yes, when a Christian goes back into sin. |
Christianity Etc › Re: How Do We Know There Is A God? by lightinchrist4: 11:11am On Apr 05, 2018*. Modified: 1:06pm On Apr 05, 2018 |
Give your life to Christ, ask one thing from God in the name of Jesus with a date you want it, with faith and you will get it. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Am Looking For What To Die For.. Hence There's Nothing To Live For by lightinchrist4: 7:59pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. John:14:6 |
Christianity Etc › Re: Repent Today! The Kingdom Of God Is At Hand! Jesus Is Lord! Of All! by lightinchrist4: 7:22pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
Although, I only glanced through your write up. Please continue to preach the gospel. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: A Man Rejects 500K Job After 4 Yrs Of Joblessness by lightinchrist4: 9:52am On Jan 23, 2018*. Modified: 11:36am On Apr 05, 2018 |
He has great reward in Heaven if he is a born again Christian and he keeps rejecting such offers that will take him to Hell fire. |
Christianity Etc › Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by lightinchrist4: 2:52am On Jan 22, 2018 |
All he needs to do is to give his life to Christ, only Jesus Christ can save anyone from the bondage of sin. |
Career › Re: Meet The Lady Who Makes Furniture With Used Tyres Gotten From Dumpsites. Photos by lightinchrist4: 7:04pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
I love this. It's very creative. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Recognizes Jerusalem As The Capital Of Israel by lightinchrist4: 10:54am On Dec 07, 2017 |
kcmichael: Fulfilment of biblical prophecy Exactly. Jesus is coming soon. Repent today. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Difference Between The Rapture And The Second Coming by lightinchrist4: 8:02pm On Dec 03, 2017*. Modified: 1:04pm On Apr 05, 2018 |
Interesting15: Many Christians are yet to have an appropriate knowledge about the Rapture and The Second Coming of Jesus Christ, and there are some Christians who are even thinking they are the same.
First of all, we need to know that The Rapture and The Second Coming are two different events that will happen at different times.
The Rapture (from the Latin verb 'rapere', which means 'to transport from one place to another') is the catching up of all believers for a glorious meeting with Christ in the air.
"Behold I tell you a mystery: We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed - in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, and the dead will be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed. For this corruptible must put on incorruption, and this mortal must put on immortality." (1 Corinthians 15:51-53).
Also see 1 Thessalonians chapter 4: 15-17
So, The Rapture comes first, and is an event whereby the Lord Jesus comes for His Saints (dead and living), and we shall meet Him in the air.
The Saints are those who have accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior of their lives and are living in holiness. The Saints are those that are living a CONSISTENT holy and godly lifestyle, perfecting holiness in the fear of God. They are the ones who will be transformed to meet Jesus in the air, while unbelievers and lukewarm Christians will be left behind.
Now, after the rapture, the Saints will proceed into the sky to participate in the marriage feast of the Lamb, where rewards would be given to everyone present according to his/her deeds on earth.
What Happens To Those Left Behind?
Immediately after the rapture, the Great Tribulation will begin, and the Antichrist will be given power to torment those left behind. The Antichrist will force people to receive the mark of the beast (666) either on their forehead or arm.
Those that won't receive it would be vehemently tormented: They won't be able to buy and sell, they will suffer violent persecutions with no one to help. And according to the graphic illustration given by the Lord Jesus about the Great Tribulation (Matthew 24:15-28), many won't be able to withstand the torments for long (that is, they can't help but to receive the mark of the beast)
BUT: THOSE THAT WILL RECEIVE THE MARK OF THE BEAST WILL BE ETERNALLY DAMNED IN THE LAKE OF FIRE AT THE APPOINTED TIME.
Don't forget that while the tribulation is taking place on earth, the Saints that have been raptured are with Jesus Christ in the sky enjoying the marriage supper as well as their rewards.
THEN: At the end of the marriage supper in the sky and the Tribulation on earth, THE SECOND COMING will take place.
The Second Coming is the public revelation of Jesus Christ, when He comes WITH HIS SAINTS (those who have been previously raptured and have participated in the marriage supper in the sky) to set up the Millennium (see 1 Thessalonians 3:13 and Matthew 24: 29-31)
Here, those who have suffered just because they won't take the mark of the beast during the Great Tribulation, will now have a new hope.
My Advice:
Jesus said the day and hour of these events are not known, but will happen anytime, and it will come like a thief in the night. He gave us some signs we should watch out for, and if you look at the scriptures, you will see the signs keeps coming to pass (Please see Mark 13:
That means, if Jesus Christ can predict those things and TRUELY, they keeps coming to pass, then His promise of the rapture and second coming will also come to pass!
So, if you are yet to receive Jesus as your Lord and Savior, please do so now, as tommorow might be too late.
And for we that are already Christians, let us allow the belief that Jesus will return one day, to guide us within godly conducts.
How sure are you that you can withstand the torment of the Antichrist during the great tribulation? The best thing for you is to live a lifestyle of holiness that will make you rapturable with Jesus Christ, and go on with Him to enjoy the marriage supper.
The Lord asked me to tell you this:
"I stand at the door, I cometh, I cometh" Thus saith the Lord Of Host! There is no other way for us present in this world to go with Jesus Christ than to go with him on the day of his coming. |
Family › Re: Culture Vs Legal Law: Who Owns The Child??? by lightinchrist4: 9:47am On Nov 24, 2017 |
nkwuocha1: Recently had a light chat with my mom.In the course of the discussion, we swerved to talks about culture as regards paternity of kid(s).That's when she revealed a current paternity case currently going on with one of her good friend.
The son of this woman had pregnanted a young girl(23 years??) and denied the pregnancy. In fact, he first advice she aborts the baby,unfortunately her aunt was quick to notice all the preggy symptoms of the niece under her care.
The young man was called to know what's to be done about the pregnancy, which he denied outright.
Fast forward few months later,the aunt who owns a clothe line had an encounter with a customer from the west who asked after the niece(guess he had eyes on her too), only to be told she is carrying unwanted pregnancy.
To cut the stories short,he married her with the pregnancy .All the rites paid and settled.
Now here is the issue,prior to getting married to the girl,the father of the girl explained he now has the right as a father to the unborn child by culture.
Now,my moms friend just find out through her son that he has a love child outside,a son.There's a serious legal battle to claim the child.The family has vowed to take bavk the child by all means possible.The father of the girl alerted his son in law about the development, and he has secretly made preparations to jet his now pregnant Igbo wife and "his" child out of the country to join him permanently in Europe.The son bears his name too.
Who wins this battle?
Culture or legal law? Culture! When you have a rich foundational culture and foundation in God, you will definitely obey the law. |
Politics › Re: The New Law For Ekiti Cultists As Fayose Signs Anti-cultism Bill Into Law (Pics) by lightinchrist4: 9:34am On Nov 21, 2017*. Modified: 1:00pm On Apr 05, 2018 |
dainformant: Ekiti State Governor Mr. Ayodele Fayose has signed into law, the bill prohibiting secret cults, terrorism and prescribing death sentence for any one caught in the acts.
While appending his signature on the bill at the government house in Ado Ekiti, Mr. Fayose said the singing was a confirmation of the unwavering commitment of the state government towards combating terrorism across the tertiary institutions in the state.
"From now, any person who is a member of a secret cult, whether or not the person is in possession or in control of any offensive weapon but commit the offence, is liable to conviction to death.
"Any person who gives financial or material support or assistance to a secret cult or in any manner sponsor the activities of a secret cult, commits an offence under this law and is liable on conviction to imprisonment for life" he said.
The governor further explained that anybody who facilitates secret cult meetings or activities in places such as houses, night clubs, hotels and other residential areas would be committed to life imprisonment.
He added that buildings where any cult related activities is held would be forfeited to the government while the owners of such structures would be sentenced to five years imprisonment without an option of fine.
The Ekiti state helmsman who re-emphasized his administration's zero tolerance for cultism and terrorism in the state said lives and property of the people would continue to be protected.
Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2017/11/governor-fayose-signs-anti-cultism-bill-law-ekiti-state-photos.html Death sentence is too much. Imprisonment is better. |
Education › Re: See How Students Of Kings College Were Being Punished Like Animals (photo) by lightinchrist4: 5:39pm On Nov 19, 2017 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Is It Right For A Christian To Open His Business Office On A Sunday Morning? by lightinchrist4: 3:47pm On Nov 19, 2017*. Modified: 7:29am On May 01, 2018 |
Omuneizzy6: This question was thrown to one of my members, and she said what about offering and tithe will you help me? Lets reason together is it ok as a christian to open his shop or business center on a sunday morning? It is not advisable to sacrifice Church service for any other activities because the more you attend Church service especially in a Bible believing Church the better you grow as a Christian. If you are a Christian, let the Spirit of God lead you. |
Christianity Etc › Re: As A Christian This Is Not The Best Place To Hang Out by lightinchrist4: 1:09am On Nov 14, 2017*. Modified: 12:59pm On Apr 05, 2018 |
Joel3: there is no section for Christian. and there is unfair practices going on here. if you are a Christian still hanging out here hoping to straighten your faith have lost it. and will soon discover it sooner or later. I reckon with you that there is no christian section on nairaland, even these days all the news are majorly about immoralities. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Happy International Day Of The Bible: Share Your Favorite Bible Quote by lightinchrist4: 11:55am On Nov 12, 2017 |
yougos: Today is International Day of the Bible. Let’s celebrate together!
Share your favorite Bible quote
#BibleCelebration Not my favorite but the funniest I know It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle, than for a rich man to enter into the kingdom of God. Mark:10:25 |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Signs Agreement With Russia To Build Nuclear Power Plant by lightinchrist4: 11:21am On Oct 31, 2017 |
scribble: But we havent even got it right with water, coal, solar, wind
Its now nuclear
They are just planning long time extinction of we blacks
Boko haram, nukes, corruption
We are sitting ducks See someone that sees sense in things, this is not a project that will help us but destroy us. But what can we do than lean on Jesus till the end of time. |
Education › Re: 11 Steps To Motivate Yourself..... by lightinchrist4: 10:53pm On Oct 29, 2017 |
Yusuf001: Nobody is born a warrior, in exactly the same way that nobody is born an average man. We make ourselves into one or the other. ~ Carlos Castaneda Motivation isn`t a one-size-fits-all thing. What works for you may not work for others, so the key is to pick what fits you better and use it over and over. The following are 11 techniques you can use when feeling down, or unmotivated. Pick the ones that resonate with you and try them. HOW TO MOTIVATE YOURSELF 1. Cut fear out of energy Starting quickly is the key to getting lots of things done in a very short time. Mel Robbins calls it the 5-Second Rule and Grant Cardone calls it Starving Fear Out of Time. Regardless of the labels, you must train yourself to act fast despite any negative self-talk. To learn this: Pick a habit/skill that you want to build Set a trigger Commit to act as quick as possible once that trigger is on. If you want to go to the gym, for instance, let your alarm clock be the trigger. Once you hear it, get dressed ASAP and leave the house. Once you`re invested, you`re less likely to get back. (Sometimes I search the hamper for the dirtiest t-shirt I can find and wear it for a minute so I`m either going to the gym or taking a cold shower… Don`t to that ). 2. Don`t leave your mind alone Talking loudly to yourself can distract your mind from negative thinking. One study found that basketball players passed the ball faster when they motivated themselves through loud self-talk which was also seen by another study as a huge sign of sanity. You can use affirmation to lift yourself in down times or simply state your goal out loud for several times as some people found that if you can beat procrastination by simply repeat the words: “Do it now” until you take action. 3. Shrink da Ting Chunking down your scary goals into smaller ones will motivate you. If you want to lose 50 pounds, focus on the first ten, lose and celebrate them, and then move to the second ten. If you chunk down anything that scares you then nothing will stop you because there`s always some point, to begin with. 4. Self exposure The key to self exposure is to realize that everything you do —good or bad— serves a reason. Ask any relationship coach and they`ll tell you that some people unconsciously overeat to reject themselves instead of getting rejected by a potential partner, whereas a woman may pick a fight with her boyfriend just to win back his attention. Humans are so complicated, and you must understand your own hidden agendas to reach your peak. How? Through journaling. 5. Parkinson Law Work expands so as to fill the time available for its completion. – Parkinson Law Sometimes you feel unmotivated when you look at how long it`ll take to finish a task. To avoid this, you can set shorter deadlines and challenge yourself to work as fast as you can so you can finish early and enjoy more rest time. 7. The Da Vinci Way This was how Leonardo Da Vinci motivated himself to work. Instead of working on one project, he would jump from one to another so work feels less boring. You can do this by changing your schedule so that, instead of working on a single project for three hours, you work on six projects, 30 minutes each. It won`t always be practical, but this can help survive when work feels like a burden. 7. The Hemingway Way Anytime you feel hesitant, take the first step and leave. There`s a huge chance you`ll come to it later because humans are inclined to finish unfinished businesses. Ernest Hemingway used this technique to write every day. He would leave a line or paragraph unfinished so the next day he feels motivated to work. 8. Go 10X Set a big goal that challenges you and the thrill will motivate you. Aim for 30 sales calls/day instead of three and challenge yourself to write 100,000 words in a month instead of 30,000. The key here is to realize that even if you fail, you will still do better at 10X than at one or 2X. You may not achieve the bigger goal, but your new results will always outperform the original goal. 9. Avoid the sad and the unlucky This may sound harsh, yet it`s true. Many studies have found that the company you keep determines the type of life you will have. If you hang around healthy, funny, creative and financially successful people, there`s a big chance their positive traits will rub off on you without even realizing it. 10. Watch what you eat – Seriously “Once you optimize your personal energy, all you need for success is luck.” Eat as clean as possible. A poor diet will increase fatigue , reduce your energy levels and lower your productivity. Exercising, eating healthy and getting enough sun exposure will make you more motivated more productive, more creative, more positive, more socially desirable, and more able to handle life’s little bumps. 11. Avoid the bushes A tough job will become effortless if you first identify future obstacles and plan to override them. The difference between clarity and obscurity is like the difference between taking the highway and driving your car through clumps of bushes. The first will make you drive at full speed whereas the later will get you stuck. What about you? What is one thing that you normally do to motivate yourself? You can share your comment in the comment section below Sharing is caring! Read your bible pray everyday, pray everyday, pray everyday.. Read your bible pray everyday if you want to GROW. |
Education › Re: What Is The Difference Between "Inquiry" And "Enquiry by lightinchrist4: 10:42pm On Oct 29, 2017 |
Both mean searching for information but you can easily see the difference in the word usage.
Inquiry means the act of searching for information Enquiry means search for information
Word usage:
1. I want to make to make an inquiry about a new phone 2. I just made an enquiry about a new phone |
Christianity Etc › Re: These groups of people worldwide won't make it to heaven by lightinchrist4: 5:13pm On Oct 29, 2017*. Modified: 4:14am On Apr 07, 2018 |
lightblazingnow: 1, Those who in their life time have never acknowledged the supremecy of Christ Jesus the anointed Son of God Almighty who is given authority to control heaven and earth, and that every knees should bow to him both in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, wether they be thrones or dominions or powers, and that every tongues should confess that Jesus Christ is LORD.
Psalms 2:5 Then shall God Almighty speak unto the unbelievers in his wrath, and vex them in his sore displeasure. And he says 2:6 "Yet have I set my King CHRIST JESUS upon my holy hill of Zion.
2:7 Then CHRIST Speaks "I will declare the decree: the LORD God Almighty have said unto me, you are my Son; this day have I begotten thee.
2:8 Ask of me, and I shall give you the heathen for your inheritance, and the uttermost parts of the earth for your possession.
2:9 you shall break them with a rod of iron, authority; you shall dash them in pieces like a potter's vessel. 2:10 Be wise now therefore, O you kings: be instructed, you judges of the earth.
2:11 Serve the LORD God Almighty with fear, and rejoice with trembling.
2:12 Kiss the Son CHRIST JESUS, lest He be angry, and you perish from the way, when His wrath is kindled but a little. Blessed are all they that put their trust in Him.
2. Those who loves the evil ways, there is only one way to get to where you are going, but there is this evil voices which tries to swift you of the rewards of obedience, therefore rubbing you off the Blessing which does not fade away and far from decays. But you know there are folks who just love to disagree, of course they lack understanding and knowledge of the truth, yet they won't admit that they need help. They keep pilling up punishment for not only THEMSELVES but for as many as are in partnership with their evil company. Corrupting good manners, the same way they corrupted your country Nigeria.
2 Peter 2:2 And many shall follow their pernicious ways; by reason of whom the way of truth shall be evil spoken of. 2:4 For if God spared not the angels that sinned, but cast them down to hell, and delivered them into chains of darkness, to be reserved unto judgment; 2:5 And spared not the old world, but saved Noah the eighth person, a preacher of righteousness, bringing in the flood upon the world of the ungodly; 2:6 And turning the cities of Sodom and Gomorrha into ashes condemned them with an overthrow, making them an ensample unto those that after should live ungodly; 2:7 And delivered just Lot, vexed with the filthy conversation of the wicked: 2:8 (For that righteous man dwelling among them, in seeing and hearing, vexed his righteous soul from day to day with their unlawful deeds 2:9 The Lord knoweth how to deliver the godly out of temptations, and to reserve the unjust unto the day of judgment to be punished:
3. Those who love monies and have an insatiable craving for wealth will never see the face of the righteous one who dwells in the light which no mortal men can see nor have seen, all of their scheming is all about making a business out of you, that means to gain from you, instead of building the Saints, they are caught up in reaping from the Saints. They are not going to make it all the way to heaven, never. Because their God Almighty is their stomach, and the glory they seek is their shame
2 Peter 2:3 And through covetousness shall they with feigned words make merchandise of you: whose judgment now of a long time lingered not, and their damnation slumbered not.
Philippians 3:17 Brethren, be followers together of me, and mark them which walk so as you have us for an ensample. 3:18 (For many walk, of whom I have told you often, and now tell you even weeping, that they are the enemies of the cross of Christ: 3:19 Whose end is destruction, whose God is their belly, and whose glory is in their shame, who mind earthly things.) 3:20 For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ: 3:21 Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself. Amen
4 Foolish women who expose their bodies for pleasures and wicked lust won't be able to see the face of the Glorious God Almighty and CHRIST JESUS who abolished death and brought immortality to light, that means, he gave us the Spirit of God Almighty to realise Eternal life.
This is eternal life, that they might know you, the only true God Almighty and Jesus Christ whom you have sent to declare thus to every believers.
2 Timothy 4:2 Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and doctrine. 4:3 For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; 4:4 And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables.
2 Timothy 3:1 This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. 3:2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, 3:3 Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, 3:4 Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; 3:5 Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.
3:6 For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts, 3:7 Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.
5. Those who would not respect the big word "SEX"
They play with it and abuse it, they have no respect for the established authority of the lord God Almighty, they cheat on their partners and law breakers as I rightly pointed out early, the signs and perilous lusts of the pagan.
You can add yours You can't say these set of people wont make it to Heaven, its more like youre discouraging them. They can turn away from their sins anytime back to God who knows even through you. So, why not preach to them letting them know there is a way out of the wrong way of life which is Jesus. |
Romance › Re: Why Everyone MUST get married by lightinchrist4: 7:35am On Oct 29, 2017*. Modified: 9:12pm On Apr 11, 2018 |
saasala: Sequel to the post about Funmi Iyanda wanting to remain single till eternity that graced the frontpage some hours ago (Read it here: https://www.nairaland.com/4141787/must-girl-marry) , I have decided to write something to counter it.
I once nurtured the idea of not wanting to get married and just find some woman to have babies for me, continue to frolick around town with babes and friends till forever after reading several write ups online about disadvantages of being married. A particular Nairalander who goes by the moniker ‘killjoy’ helped fuel this thought even more.
But then again I started thinking deep and realized it will do me more harm than good if I stay single.
Life is full of problems, that’s the way the universe designed it. As human you will always be faced with challenges and problems, some bigger than you, others smaller. If you are married you will have problems from your spouse, kids, in-laws, etc, if you are not married you will still have problems from your baby mamas/fathers, the family of your baby mamas/fathers, your kids, at work, church etc. So I decided to get married and have problems rather than remain single and still have same problems.
Below are some of the many reasons you need to get married
You can’t beat nature Yes, nature has designed we sapiens to be with one partner and form a family with children and you cant beat that. Trying to beat it will result in dysfunctional children. We are social creatures and we can only live a fulfilled life when we have loved ones around us. We are designed to by nature to live with spouse and children. We are not animals, we are humans
Loneliness I will be 31 in few months and have friends within my age range. Most of my friends are between 29 and 33, and many of them are already getting married. I now attend their weddings almost every weekend, and I am always among the groomsmen or the best man. Very soon they will all be married and I will be left alone. They cant go to the club or bar with me like before, we cant hang out like we used to, once its 9pm they want to go home to meet their wife and kids or other times they are not just interested in going out, they want to enjoy the weekend with their family and I will just sit their lonely. No wife, no kids, nothing. If I have a baby mama, she most likely will be in custody of the kids.
As for ladies who want to remain single. 99 percent of Your friends will be married and that is when your eyes will clear. You will be lonely and probably miserable. They talk about how they are going on a vacation with hubby, you open your facebook to see their family pictures, you go to church to see them come in a family car and you are just there alone. You are hanging out with them and their hubby calls them to return home in time to get the kids dinner and get them ready for school, they leave you alone to wonder and wander.
Loneliness will set in one day, you will look back and blame yourself for walking the lonely path. Your chances of living long is even reduced. You will be 50, 60, 70 years one day, how will you cope? You might end up taking your own life.
Family pressure Don’t take away family pressure. It will never leave. Your parents will attend wedding ceremonies of other kids in the family and will always pray to do same for their kids. Their fulfillment in life comes after they spend heavily on you to graduate with a certificate and finally get married and they can now give you their final blessings. They will never stop reminding you about bringing a wife or husband home. Your parents even stand a risk of being mocked by the society for having a child who hasn’t gotten married at age 50. I am even more sorry for you if you are a woman for family meetings will be called on top your head. Aunties, uncles, cousins etc will go to mountain because of you, and at family gatherings/meetings they must bring up your topic. In the end you will remain a menace to the family, you may never be celebrated despite even having lots of money.
You can’t win society That’s society for you. A cliché goes thus “If you cant win them, you join them”. So just join the rest of the society cos you will never win. Everyone expects you to get married once you hit 24 as a female and 30 as a man. You wont get the deserved respect from people, you will be mocked, you will always have to bury your head in shame. Everyone thinks it is abnormal for you to be Miss so and so at age 35 instead of Mrs. You will always have to explain your idiosyncrasies to people, always want them to see things from your viewpoint why you don’t want to get married. No matter how rich you are, everyone will think you are not complete without a man or woman to call a spouse. If you doubt me ask Linda Ikeji and Don Jazzy. Once Linda Ikeji says something not pleasing to people, they will bounce on her with this everly unchanging lines “Madam go and marry” same applies to Don Jazzy.
99.2 percent of the people will not buy your bullcrap idea. So oga, madam, you cant win us, never. Just join us.
Think about your children It is so funny how many of you who don’t believe in marriage want children and that’s all. You are selfish. Think about yuour kids. They will grow up to see their friends returning home to their mum and dad but they have just one parent. It is understandable if you are divorced, widowed or separated, at least that some reasonable excuse and you can get married to another person later who will act as their foster mum/dad. But your kids ask you why is mum or dad not living with you and your answer is that you didn’t like the idea of marriage that’s why you only made their dad donate some sperm into your vagina to give birth to them. Your kids will be mocked at school and home, and the blemish might never leave them forever. Your kids are better raised by the two parents than you alone.
Your sexual life So you don’t want to get married but want to keep enjoying sex. You will contract infections, life threatening infections. As a man, today na tall girl you carry come, tomorrow short one, next tomorrow dem see you with light skinned, the next time na dark babe, for how long would you live that way. You want to continue to live an irresponsible lifestyle till 35, 45, 50, 70 years of age? All your friends are married and enjoying fine sex with their wives but you are chasing everything under the skirt. That’s not a good life bro.
As a lady how would you cope with sexual gratification. So after getting sperm donation into your vagina from men to give birth to children you hit the street to start sleeping with every Tom, D!ck and Harry. Once you reach age 40 your beauty is already greatly diminished and men of your age range wont find you appealing again, you are now left with no choice than to hang out with young boys of 25-30 years of age, paying them for their service as a sugar mummy and that’s if you have the money to maintain such life. So it’s a life of sugar mummy you want to be living abi. Soon your news will spread all over the metropolis and everyone will know how irresponsible you are. By the time you are 50, 55 your body don old finish, you will sit down and think abut your miserable life in pity.
Conclusion The advantages of getting married far outweighs the opposite option, so by all means my brethren, marry. And I read how many of you think it is only the African mentality that states that a person must be married. You are wrong. I expect you to know better. You watch movies, read books, novels, read stories on social media etc, you should know that even whitepeople in advanced countries think like this. White parents wants their kids to get married. The white society largely think it is foolishness to remain single, ladies from 30 years of age are mocked in America and England for being single, their families are worried for them. It is a general thing and not pertinent to Africa. The other day I read on DailyMail Uk how a 33 years old lady commited suiced because no one has asked for her hand in marriage. Even their celebrities who we think don’t give a hoot about marriage end up settling down, they might get divorced a thousand times but they belive so much in marriage they don’t mind doing it 10 times in the course of their lives. Do your research well before drawing any conclusion.
PS: I am single and searching, ladies dont be shy, send me PM and lets roll. Who knows, I might find a wife here. Me I won marry abbeg |
Christianity Etc › Re: Is The World Really Getting Worse? - A Response Thread by lightinchrist4: 11:32am On Oct 28, 2017 |
boringnigerian: We've always had depraved people amongst us, my brother/sister. It's nothing new. The only reason it appears more now is because there are more people to engage in them and better ways to hear about people doing them. Here are just a few screenshots to tell you that some of these things we call immorality have always existed and weren't always even considered immoral. Yes now even far back to the bible, prostitution exist. Like you said its conspicuous in our generation sure because of population explosion and more because of the ease of social media. So, what can we do than to just try maintain dignity and preach dignity not because we are all that holy but because the world is running to an end. So my final message for anybody reading this is accept Jesus as your Lord and personal savior. With him alone is peace, love, good health, comfort and all good things of life and above all a place of paradise eternal "Heaven". You wont regret it if you make that choice. |
Christianity Etc › Re: The Contradictions According To Jesus by lightinchrist4: 11:27am On Oct 28, 2017*. Modified: 9:15pm On Apr 11, 2018 |
akintom: THE CONTRADICTIONS ACCORDING TO JESUS
(1) Luke 14:28 - 31
*For which of you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it?
*Lest haply, after he hath laid the foundation, and is not able to finish it, all that behold it begin to mock him,
* Saying, This man began to build, and was not able to finish.
*Or what king, going to make war against another king, sitteth not down first, and consulteth whether he be able with ten thousand to meet him that cometh against him with twenty thousand?
(2) Matthew 6:25 - 27
*Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment?
*Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are ye not much better than they?
*Which of you by taking thought can add one cubit unto his stature?
I was really not comfortable in my rational self, back in the years that i was taught the Bible and that i preached to sheeples from the Bible. I possibly couldn't be numbed, to the pricking of contradictions, absurdities and denial of reality whenever i ponder on the biblical teachings.
From the very words of Jesus, as quoted above, it will take minds that are perfectly immersed in pool of illusion and delusion, to find pleasure in gathering where this contradictions are taught and the Bible where it's written.
God-idea is a significant source of confusion. No group of people, are as confused and self harming, as those infested and afflicted by Yahweh-Virus.
If you're sceptic of God-idea now, especially the Yahweh variant, it's sign that your deliverance from God-delusion is near. You will find your God-burden lifted and the yoke of illusion broken off your neck, if you accept Reason into your life, as your personal Lord and saviour.
Reason bless you!
#epihanic Sorry, who is "Reason"? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Is The World Really Getting Worse? - A Response Thread by lightinchrist4: 10:50am On Oct 28, 2017 |
boringnigerian: Whether in Lagos or in rural communities around Nigeria, the world is either getting better or hasn't changed. We only think it is getting worse but the truth is that every generation thinks they are worse than the previous one. Look at today's Nigeria when people speak wistfully about times past when there was free education and life was easier and all, forgetting that those that lived in those times had either none of the comforts that are freely available now like mobile phones, computers, electricity etc or it was too expensive for them to afford. The fact on ground is that the world is improving and is getting better at managing disasters than before. Also, look at now, when disasters occur, the world bands together to help the affected community rebuild and get back on its feet. In times past, if you got struck by disaster, you were pretty much on your own. Well you have a point but ill point to you that the world is only getting better technologically, the moral values have degraded drastically and thats my focal point of view. The social media which is supposed to be an effective tool majorly for positive networking and enhancing businesses are now being used the wrong way. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Who Is Michael The Archangel? by lightinchrist4: 10:24am On Oct 28, 2017 |
lovingJehovah: THE spirit creature called Michael is not mentioned often in the Bible. However, when he is referred to, he is in action. In the book of Daniel, Michael is battling wicked angels; in the letter of Jude, he is disputing with Satan; and in Revelation, he is waging war with the Devil and his demons. By defending Jehovah’s rulership and fighting God’s enemies, Michael lives up to the meaning of his name—“Who Is Like God?” But who is Michael?
At times, individuals are known by more than one name. For example, the patriarch Jacob is also known as Israel, and the apostle Peter, as Simon. (Genesis 49:1, 2; Matthew 10:2) Likewise, the Bible indicates that Michael is another name for Jesus Christ, before and after his life on earth. Let us consider Scriptural reasons for drawing that conclusion.
Archangel. God’s Word refers to Michael “the archangel.” (Jude 9) This term means “chief angel.” Notice that Michael is called the archangel. This suggests that there is only one such angel. In fact, the term “archangel” occurs in the Bible only in the singular, never in the plural. Moreover, Jesus is linked with the office of archangel. Regarding the resurrected Lord Jesus Christ, 1 Thessalonians 4:16 states: “The Lord himself will descend from heaven with a commanding call, with an archangel’s voice.” Thus the voice of Jesus is described as being that of an archangel. This scripture, therefore, suggests that Jesus himself is the archangel, Michael.
Army Leader. The Bible states that “Michael and his angels battled with the dragon . . . and its angels.” (Revelation 12:7) Thus, Michael is the Leader of an army of faithful angels. Revelation also describes Jesus as the Leader of an army of faithful angels. (Revelation 19:14-16) And the apostle Paul specifically mentions “the Lord Jesus” and “his powerful angels.” (2 Thessalonians 1:7) So the Bible speaks of both Michael and “his angels” and Jesus and “his angels.” (Matthew 13:41; 16:27; 24:31; 1 Peter 3:22) Since God’s Word nowhere indicates that there are two armies of faithful angels in heaven—one headed by Michael and one headed by Jesus—it is logical to conclude that Michael is none other than Jesus Christ in his heavenly role. * Jesus is not Angel Michael neither is Angel Michael Jesus. Jesus is the Son of the true Living God while Angel Michael is the Archangel the leader of the angels. If the bible says Jesus led the Army of angels its right and when the bible also said Angel Michael led the Army of Angels its also right. What it just means is Jesus led all the Angels including Archangel Mihael likewise Archangel Michael led the Angel because hes the angel with the highest order. So dont confuse yourself or mix things up. Jesus is the Son of God noone else neither does he have another name asides the name that is above every other name "Jesus". |
Christianity Etc › Re: As A Christian This Is Not The Best Place To Hang Out by lightinchrist4: 9:44am On Oct 28, 2017 |
Joel3: there is no section for Christian. and there is unfair practices going on here. if you are a Christian still hanging out here hoping to straighten your faith have lost it. and will soon discover it sooner or later. There are some christian minded threads, just as you opened this you can create a topic of your choice or which bothers you and you get christian minded responses. This is a social platform where different minds meet. So you can decide how you want to impact or be impacted. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Is The World Really Getting Worse? - A Response Thread by lightinchrist4: 9:36am On Oct 28, 2017 |
boringnigerian: Let's face it, the world is getting better if anything. Life expectancy is increased, there is more order in society, it's even easier to monitor the activities of people hence preventing them from engaging in undesirable behavior. Worst case scenario, the world is pretty much the same as it has been. Thats practically more or less in Lagos, take a look at other rural communities and unsettled states like Benue. Likewise take a look at the world in general at a wider viewpoint "everything is in disarray". The simple truth to this thread is humanity is failing and the only way is to lean and submit totally to Jesus. May God bless you all as you do so. |
Politics › Re: Why Is The United States Building A $100 Million Drone Base In Niger Republic? by lightinchrist4: 8:54am On Oct 28, 2017 |
This is alarming |