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dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. she became an orphan recently, so i decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support. though she also invested all her savings into the business and i supported her also with the little i can. i thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually. But her behaviour has really change seriously towards me, she hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. she will say its nothing that she is just catching fun. i do overlook all this just to make peace rain. something happen yesterday that make feel so bad, i told her im coming to visit in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she help order food, so when i reach her side she told me to bring money that she cant use her money to buy food for me, i felt somehow inside with her response. i had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously. so after im done eating, i was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone then a called enter and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she come back, i was really dumbfounded and shocked, i coundn't utter any word as i dont want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. she left me there, i stood up also and leff the shop. i really felt bad and sad. this a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parent. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that its childish for me. he said i should chill for now. please i need your advise on how to go about this.

NOTE; i rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it to two my gf can use the other half.

Your bro is a loser. He wants your downfall... That girl will soon give you HIV and Gonorrhea and you will die before her

Lalasticlala

heartofcity12:
Yet same wayward girls are strictly on their mission to marry rich guys but guys are not equally holding their end of the bargain to marry virgins, our value as a man dropped a long time ago. We better start vetting them like they vet us. Many girls on IG and other SM platforms will write savage stuffs on their page like “if you’re not rich, don’t send a dm”, “know your level, look at yourself well before you send a dm”, “don’t message if you can’t afford me” but same girls have been fvcked, used and dumped by these rich dudes(or fake rich dudes) they crave for countless times. We men don’t have any standard, we still take those used hoes after struggling alone and making it. We forgive their promiscuity but they don’t forgive our brokenness. I’ve never seen any man write on his page that “if you’re not a virgin, don’t bother chatting with me”, with such energy among men, everyone will know the level they belong and no one will be eating their cakes and still having it.. that’s why the most redpilled dude you know is not half as ruthless as the average hypergamous girl. We should vet them like they vet us, be redpilled like women. This is why there is nothing like an overdose of the redpill because no matter how much pill you take, you can not be as redpilled as the average modern women, you can only come close.

Men don't have standards

Their dicks and their need to prove that they are a provider is what's killing them

No standards... Spit on them

Marriage is financially draining for the man. Imagine the amount of money men lavish on wedding and after which they will continue spending in marriage with little or no contribution from their wife. I even heard the bride price of some women in the East is worth millions of Naira and they will also ask you to buy other things running into several millions of Naira.

In addition, after marriage you will also start shouldering the responsibilities of her immediate family. With little or no contribution from her. Imagine all these expenses and you want to argue with me that women don't benefit more than men in Marriage in this part of the world?

BadRadio:
Just find a lady that's goal orientated, a visionary, an independent woman with good manners and culinary skills... a graduate perhaps and get married. Stop checking for virginity and body counts.... just get married !!!

It is fair to say that you fvcked your countless ex's, but they are now married, If the guys who married them were scouting for virgins like you are doing now then all the ladies in the world will grow old and die without getting married.


Goan marry joor !!!

All these poor boys that keep advising people instead of hustle do

KingAzubuike:
Why are you supporting him ? Be truthful, between both of you, who's the giver and who is the receiver.

Fool,

The ad is in red

KingAzubuike:
Oga stop arguing.

Oga shut up

It is not an ad

Are you blind

Men should not fall for this useless thread

Women on these days are not women of before..

This generation is useless

ahnie:
I m an extrovert it's not a must I must attend any function, personally I don't like crowd,I m agoraphobic.

I have bn indoor because I want to be and I m enjoying being alone except for my kids and dia dad that occasionally pops in.

Why are you lying.

You don't have money na

iamyemiakins:
The holiday season can be a difficult time for introverts. It’s a time of the year that relies heavily on social gatherings that occur in the weeks leading up to Christmas, and even in between Christmas and the New Year. It’s a period which can exhaust us socially and leave us wanting to be left undisturbed in our spaces in peace.

My fellow introverts, how are you coping with all the disturbances during this festive holiday?

In Nigeria, if you're from a poor family and you call yourself an introvert.

It just means you have low self esteem.

Stop fooling yourself

Calibrator:
You are right about that.
I am a very big hypocrite.
Even if I don't think I have ever advise anyone to bash or avoid the female gender.



My own version of redpill don't teach me to hate women or all that they offer.... It only enables me to keep my common sense intact while indulging myself.


Note this moniker you just insulted.
Next time I might not be so civil.

Mumi

Civil kee you dia

Polynek:
don't over take d pill, moderation is the key

.shut up

illumined999333:
I'm not a niggga. You show respect when you quote others. Some of you here that got to know about the redpill about 2 to 3 years ago, actually come online disrespecting OG's that have been on this journey for no less than 12 years.

Will you shut up

There is nothing like OG in the redpill.

Look at this fool counting the number of years he has been in the redpill journey.

What a goat

Redpill is not a journey, it is a way of life that will be with you till the day you die

Dollyak:
Of course they'll be unhappy, considering the inflation rate in Nigeria.

If I catch you and this nonsense talk, I will use pegs to clip your pussy lips and your nipples...try me and see

The problem of this country is not the government but the greedy poor people in the country.

They gave you 20 percent pay rise and you're not happy

Useless fools. You want them to double your salary abi.. where is that done.

These fools don't know that success happens step by step

Guys don't let anybody deceive you.
True and unconditional love no longer exist In this generation.

All relationships are indirectly transactional.
Listen no matter how a Lady claims to be loyal to you, There is that one particular guy out there she is sexually attracted to.

See for example, all these NIGERIA celebs that their wives lives in America. Paul of psquare and olamide for example.

Do you think their wives don't have that person servicing their pussies in usa when their husbands are here in Nigeria?

Shakira refuses to marry pique because she knows she is 10 times richer than him.
So what she does to put pique on the leach is that she keeps pique as just boyfriend or baby daddy so that she too can continue to fork other guys on a low.
Even if pique finds out, he leaves the relationship and her money is intact but had it been she married him, when she cheats, pique leaves with 50% of her wealth.
This is the same style women Like Katy Perry, Celine Dion, Madonna and most rich single female celebs in USA, uses.

They finds a guy to service their pussies even get them pregnant but never marry them because they don't want to lose the wealth because these ladies knows, they too can fork other men at will.
And you tell me True love exist?
Na mumu man or guy they talk about True love and marry in a western world.
This is why i respect Ronaldo, he knows his woman is only there for the money ( he is a wise man)

Datboredberry:
With the way most of you dish out insults...

Yes... She's entitled to choose or size you up... That's normal, intelligent even... Every living thing chooses a mate that has the most to offer...

You are entitled to choose also...

Your entire comment makes no sense...

First of all, you might be a suffer-head... Don't assume others are too... You might feel content being broke, struggling to feed... You seriously want to start a family this way?

See your child(ren) starve, sent home from school...etc.

It's not rude to be wise enough to know that 50k is not enough for even a family of three...(man, woman and one child)...

You should simply say that you can only marry if the woman earns the same amount too... A combined salary... A total of ₦100k... That's manageable...

But you're being unnecessarily defensive...

What an evil woman

All you want to do is eat a man's money and grow fat just because you have pussy in-between your legs

Why not make 100k and wait for a man to marry you then you feed the man and your children

No matter how hard you fight Nigerian women will continue to win.

Have you touched a woman's body, squeezed her breasts, or have her wrap her pussy walls around your dick. Every thing about a woman creates arousal and men are ready to die for that.

As long as men continue to see themselves as providers and are drawn to women's bodies, women will always win. Always and forever.

Men will always use money to try and win women because aside from money, what can really offer? Nothing.

This is why men simp because money is the only real value men can give to women.

The same way pussy is the only real value a woman can give to a man.

Unfortunately, men want a woman's pussy more than women want a man's money... That's why men spend so much to own a single woman and make her happy while the woman gives so little sex and doesn't care.

Simps will be here forever..

But I stand redpilled

Khiaaa:
Hello there as you all know me on this forum.
I'm Khiaa, an African American, reside in Carlifona, United States of America.
I'm in my 30's and I work in the health sector with one of the leading health agencies in the U.S
I'm open to answering questions from nairalanders who are eager to know more about black Americans.
If you're looking towards dating one and you need to know more about us just ask questions and I'll answer you

Are black Americans just as religious, go to church on Sunday and all that

Khiaaa:
Hello there as you all know me on this forum.
I'm Khiaa, an African American, reside in Carlifona, United States of America.
I'm in my 30's and I work in the health sector with one of the leading health agencies in the U.S
I'm open to answering questions from nairalanders who are eager to know more about black Americans.
If you're looking towards dating one and you need to know more about us just ask questions and I'll answer you

Are black Americans really among the poorest in the USA

NewDelhi:
Thought I'm the only one.. he's bigger than that to be candid. I no know weytin attract him.

Thunder for ya gead

Romanoff:
They will just jump into conclusion based on few stories they have heard and run with it.

Wise women know where to settle scores, no be for bedroom.

Women who do that a creating cracks on their marriage.

A married woman with intelligence

Rare

Mercychen:
What kind of xmas gift can you suggest for a guy who wears and uses designer stuff.

He's not a card person. So let's not go there. He already has tons of perfs which was what I wanted to get but I don't want something that he'll abandon in his stash.

Please I'm on a budget here Biko. I already spent so much putting my house in shape.

Thanks.

Happy searching

Truvelisback:
Good day, Fellas. How do u Bachelors cope living alone? I lived alone in Delta State for like 6 years before coming back to Lagos stay with my mum for awhile. To be frank with u guys, living alone isn't fvcking easy. So, to the guys saying they would never get married, have a gf or have anything to do with ladies. Have u lived alone before? How was it like to u? Take the mic and tell us ur experience. The same goes to the Bachelors. in Inyanya's voice: All my ladies, u are not left out too.

What's hard about staying alone

Please explain

PrinceOfLagos:
Twitter is doing fine without Nigeria

most Nigerian businesses depends on Twitter to survive ...

Na only Nigerian government dey talk about Twitter...
Twitter no get time to discuss Nigeria matter

Will you shut up

Which most Nigerian businesses is that?

InTheCloudySky:
He has found out his wife is not cheating. That should be enough to remove all doubts from his mind as per her faithfulness to him, hence no need for him to continue recording her calls. Continuing would be taking it too far and invading her privacy.

What's the use of privacy in marriage

You must be mad

iLegendd:
I have a free thread on how to get started with crypto from beginners' level to pro. Request for it if you want it via this comment section. No DMs allowed — I don't have access to the email associated to this moniker.

Thank you for reading. The end.

Please I'm interested

MummyD2020:
My own na to gossip up and down with my name. Come see wetin ur mate dey do ooooooooo

You're not treating her son well

Magnoliaa:
CinderellaKO, go try another psychological tactic. You portray yourself as seemingly smart, eh? So do it. Do something better.

That comment of yours about opinions hurting or not hurting that I ignored made you unhinged, abi? So you wan see whether I go lose my cool?

After your pseudo-respectful mentions of me, trying to have an interaction and prolly ending up with a warming up ... pfft. Attitudes can't really be hidden for long.

I don't usually do this. So best believe this grain of response and attention you've gotten from me would be one to last for years. Cherish it.

A LovePeddler finally uses a dictionary.

I hope this impact I made in your life will last

Magnoliaa:
loosing my virginity.

Asha.wo

Lalasticlala