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A simp is someone that sees himself as average and does not know how women think.

Oyin2212:
I don't believe this either.

Before I came across the RedPill, I had the bluepilled narrative that true love exists and had one girl who I tried my best to take care of and communicate on a daily basis (something I don't do even for friends). I'm more introverted, so I like to dey my dey but threw it all to caution when I met her.

Initially when we started communicating, the interest was mutual. I called and she also called back and chatted me up when I wasn't online but that didn't last for long. She just started loosing interest. When she went to her in laws house and there were plenty guys there, that's when I lost her. she was just using me for non-sexual attention. I wasn't even looking for sex cause I was a virgin bro and I had the fantasy of true love. I got burnt.

Bro please tell me where I used her?

You never loved her. When we were young, we were fascinated with the idea of love. The same way girls were fascinated with charming princes and guys with six packs, pink lips, and crazy hairstyles.

Boys were fascinated with taking care of a girl and giving her everything without asking for sex. According to the media and romatic movies, that was true love. You had watched too many romantic movies and you thought that caring for a girl will keep her, make her like you.

You never loved her. You said, you had the fantasy of true love. Where did you think you got that fantasy of true love from?? Who told you that that's how true love is? What confirmed to you that what you felt was true love?

In my time, I wanted to have six packs and muscles because John Cena had them. All these men fall in love nonsense are just lies. Men don't fall in love. Women don't fall in love. Love is simply a construct of media.

Smartb0y:
Not true

Proof?

Joker09:
That isn't what he's saying. He just told you he loved the girl wholeheartedly and the girl messed up on the long run. Men love, women don't, period. All you've been saying isn't in the redpill. This is a redpill thread, we should share redpill contents alone, let's be guided. I come in peace.

Rubbish, how did he love the girl?

There is no such thing as love

If you don't like my posts. Take a rope and you know what to do with it

Oyin2212:
I don't believe this either.

Before I came across the RedPill, I had the bluepilled narrative that true love exists and had one girl who I tried my best to take care of and communicate on a daily basis (something I don't do even for friends). I'm more introverted, so I like to dey my dey but threw it all to caution when I met her.

Initially when we started communicating, the interest was mutual. I called and she also called back and chatted me up when I wasn't online but that didn't last for long. She just started loosing interest. When she went to her in laws house and there were plenty guys there, that's when I lost her. she was just using me for non-sexual attention. I wasn't even looking for sex cause I was a virgin bro and I had the fantasy of true love. I got burnt.

Bro please tell me where I used her?

So there's this player that got this girl from a rich family hooked to him

She bought him stuff like foods, phone and cooked for him. He bleeped her silly and made her abort twice while cheating on her before dumping her..

The player used the girl the same way that girl use you...

If a girl is using you take note that another man is using her

The reason why men lose the most is because men love sex more than women love money..

Simple

Men will never learn

Marriage is what again?

BLOODYSPERM:
Men look for strength in women, women look for weaknesses in men,men care about women,women care only to use men, that's reality, that's life, the earlier you make peace with these in your redpill journey, the better it will be for you, delusion is unacceptable as a man especially in the mordern age we find ourselves

This is a lie

Men are just the same as women but easier to manipulate... They try to buy women with money and gifts so that they can enter their pussy while women offer men the dream of a night in their arms while collecting their money.

Women have a higher bargaining power because they can work for their money while men can get pussy from anywhere apart from women

Men were easily deceived that loving a woman and giving her all your resources, trying harder and doing everything for women makes you a man.

The reason they believe this is because men have a lower bargaining power, men want women more than women want men.

men care only to use women,women care only to use men, that's reality, that's life

heartofcity12:
King Wasiu Ayinde Marshal marries another wife Emmanuella Aderopo, after the bunch of wives he already had. This is another proof that shows men are the prize. He already had about 39 kids from different women. Females hypergamy will keep making men the prize, all a man has to do is keep working on his goals and have a divine understanding on how life works. Women will marry a man if he’s rich irrespective of his religion, tribe, job, culture, wives, kids he already had. Sometimes I wonder why feminists disturb themselves so much, female nature knows what it wants and it’ll take its course when an opportunity present itself no matter what they tell themselves. #trp

Men are the prize
Women are the prize
Anyone can be the prize

The same way many men are ready to simp for Nengi

So are women simping for King Wasiu Ayinde Marshal

#REDPILL WONT TEACH YOU THIS

I think many redpillers fail to understand why men simp. Men that simp are not fools, they have low self esteem and refuse to evolve.

Men simp because they see themselves as average. Even men that have money see themselves as average when around a woman.

there are men that have a lot of money but can't speak to a woman. Do you know why? Because they shut themselves from the society to make money and now they've made it, they think they can get woman. Like when a woman breaks a man's heart and tells him that he is too broke for her. That man will go and hustle is way till he makes money. The same thing with a first class student that shuts himself from the world to get first class and get a good job.

Simps are not stupid people. They simply have low self esteem when it comes to women. They also have beliefs that are not realistic. For example, love is not real. It is a construct designed by men, women, and media to make life look more beautiful. Real men don't love women, the same way women don't love men. But that life was not really beautiful. Just the same way your dad and mom or grand dad and grand mum were not really in love but did it to fulfill all righteousness.

Another thing is that women are described as angels. And that is not a lie. A woman has a soft voice, soft body, a puszy that feels so good when you dIck is inside. Women bring pleasure to a man and they can be likened as angels. However, women are also human beings just like men. They have choices, they have wants and they have needs.

Simps see women as angels that have to be worshiped and the sweetness of puszy is the prize. Simps don't view women are normal human beings. In fact, there are some men that are shocked that women poop in the toilet.

That's why you see a simp praising a woman's body online, asking to drink her bath water and kiss her feet.

Another reason for simphood is that it is hard to be a real man. The patriarchy didn't just fall because of women. It fell because some men also hated it. Look at the animal kingdom.

When you look at lions, you see that there is only 1 male lion and 7 lionesses and 12 cubs in a pride (exceptions abound). This shows you that nature only favors a few males. The same thing in the human world. Patriarchy or hypergamy favored the best men. A lot of men, nerds, geeks, simps, and all that didn't like this and they sought to bring down patriarchy. That's why you see many men advocating for female rights hoping to get some pussy that will only be left to a few men. The new world order has given every man out there a chance with women, all thanks to simps.

Simping is a state of mind where a man see himself as the provider and a woman as his prize. That's how life was designed to be. A lion fights other lions just to fucck the lioness. A giraffe does the same. There is no reason why it should be different in humans.

However, as humans we have evolved and women no longer have to wait to get fuccked by the real men. Imagine a lioness leading a pride of lions. That's evolution.

The Redpill is not handling the simp problem very well.

If you want to turn men to the redpill, you don't have to tell them that women are bad, because women are not. Simply tell them to evolve.

Men don't fall in love
Women don't fall in love
Men are manipulative
Women are manipulative

The reason why many men are losing is because they still see women as weak, soft angels with succulent breasts, stupid brains, soft ass and a delicious puszy. Women are more than that. Women have choices and there is a way they make their choices. As a man, it is up to you to ask yourself why women make their choices, how they make their choices. and what rules do they follow.

If you're a simp, you must understand that you don't love women. You're just seeing yourself as average in front of a woman. Or you're overcompensating because you've never had a woman that was so good to you before. That's not love. There is no such thing as love.

Typing

Astrid4:
I think many of us are already leaving the redpill to the blue pill world and also noticed the fact...we have finding it hard to manage the heterogeneousity of redpill, but before I give my opinion I will like to go back to basic of redpill.

What is The Red Pill?
A loose and highly debated collection of frameworks that describe sexual
dynamics between men and women. In short, it is purely information. What each
person decides to do with this information is up to them. Remember, sexual
strategy is amoral. You decide what you want to do and how you want to go about ,doing it. You are responsible for your overall happiness, and all consequences of
your actions. We're here to provide and discuss the framework.

All as a redpiller we are all the same cos our basic term of being here is to study the Dynamics of the relationship between man and woman but what separate us is our sexual strategy we have the MGTOW (Martinez gang), plate spinning and girlfriend.

What is a sexual strategy?
Simply put, it is being honest with yourself about what you want from the
opposite sex and putting together a realistic plan to go after it. For our purposes
this is broken down into three main groups: MGTOW, Plate spinning, and
Girlfriend game.

-MGTOW


• Level 1: Situational awareness. This level includes men who are aware of
the realities that face them in society, and yet deem the risks acceptable to
have a go at playing the game...

• Level 2: Rejection of long-term relationships. Man who rejects all form of
long-term personal relationships with women, including but not limited to
marriage, cohabitation of any sort which might be classified as common-law
marriage, picking up for a single mother's children, or any action which
might be used in court to turn him into her legal indentured servant...

• Level 3: Rejection of short-term relationships. Man who rejects all form of
personal relationships with women, including dating, one-night stands,
friendships, etc. Any contact with unfamiliar women is kept strictly
professional and at a minimum...

• Level 4: Economic disengagement. Man who refuses to produce more than
is strictly necessary for his individual survival. He will limit actions that are
punished by taxation without jeopardizing his way of life and acceptable
standard of living...

Obviously Level 1 is great, and something we here at TRP agree with, but everything after that is debatable. Level 2 does not include relationships, which are
a valid sexual strategy, and Level 3 does not include Plates, also a valid sexual
strategy. If you can find happiness within this framework, knock yourself out, but
the meat of TRP will be focusing on Plates/Girlfriend game. Being the pragmatic
bunch we are at TRP I honestly want to thank all of you MGTOW out there. By
opting out of dating and society altogether you help drive down the value of pussy
by no longer validating women, and you're less competition for those of us who
pursue one of the other two strategies. Blaze a trail, gentlemen.

Level 4 is a lie

You're a liar

Avoid marriage you fools

Marriage is a fool's dream in this generation

Redpillers should avoid being fooled

Marriage in this generation is for fools

How can a redpill man hope to get married

adambeatz:
Bro, im yet discover myself, when I've set myself on my life path and im fucking comfortable with the works of my hand, ill make sure i sit down and have an alone time with myself and decide if ill get married or not. If i do decide to get married ill make sure to send you an invitation all expenses paid. But be rest assured ill never give whoever i wish to marry the room to step out of line with me in anyway. I fear see finish for this life pass death.

Thanks for responding

I really wish all redpillers were this plain and simple

adambeatz:
Gentlemen here are some things I've done research on and discovered.

Our ancestors were well versed in the hardships that life dealt men and trained men in the esoteric teachings of the gods. They excluded women for one very important reason, hardship makes a man and breaks a woman and as such women could never be trusted with such teachings.

A man who has been an initiate knows through esoteric teachings that a one has to be redpilled to handle the affairs of life and women especially. Lets look at this for example, ever wonder why in our secondary and universities, the girls love up with the bad boys, the cult boys (been initiates) and so on.

Now im not for or against any fraternity, then it is well known to women that the more dangerous a man is the more he possibility of him been able to protect and climb the social ladder better than the average man.

Nowadays due to the deliberate attack on masculinity 90% of the population has been dumbed down to accept nonsense with the excuses like "no one knows tommorow" or "have faith". Due to this every dick, tom and harry feels they can say nonsense in the affairs of life when they are bluepilled to the core.

Now an initiate doesnt mean you have to go join a fraternity, but to be an initiate is to have a strength of character, and the will power to see your goals till the end. The goals part, people can do that, but the strength of character is something only redpilled men can achieve.

Women are the most manipulative of all of God's creation. It makes me wonder, did the snake really manipulate her or she already had it in mind to eat the fruit and only used to snake as cover up. If so, then snake was innocent after all and got punished.

Been a redpilled man doesnt mean you should do away with women but rather be prepared for whatever comes your way. Because a gun can be used to kill doesn't mean i would not learn how to use it.

Which brings me back to men, men know its better not to force your views on others but rather listen to other people's perspective of things, pick your good and do away with your bad. What are we if not the sum total of our experiences.

But noooooo, those bluepilled imbeciles who should stay in peace with their believes would rather prefer to force you to do things their way, which makes me ask, whats the difference btw you and a nagging manipulative woman?.

Gentlemen do well to remember a creator (you) should never be compared to a consumer (women).

Will you ever get married knowing the redpill. If yes, why?

Stillwater10:
Here is my simple logic.
The truth is bitter
Redpill is the truth
Therefore, redpill is very bitter

Though knowing the truth, not everybody can cope with the bitterness that comes with it.

Will you ever get married knowing the redpill. If yes, why?

Lightheaded:

Awwwn...

Abeg whoever drop light way for thread abeg come carry am o. Man the behavior you are exhibiting is a joke.

No lady is specifically at war with you , she's living her life, life is life. Learn about life, the red pill and guard yourself and if possible the ones you love. You don't elevate, you get dropped.

If you believe I'm blue pilled by all means believe away.

People with the ability of comprehension got my points.

You're just hyperventilating for no reason. Be careful man, it leads to tachycardia, which in the "lung" run isn't good for your heart man (oh I forgot, you had agenesis of the heart, or in this case atrophy).

A fool stop

Lightheaded:
Lol, Boss nobody is fighting with you. Calm down on the attempted shaming. You sound pained, like you've been hurt before. Are you just coming to terms with life or getting out of your rage stage. Or probably just confused.

Nevertheless, I'll lay something on you, you'll get to a stage in life ( or the redpill) where happenings becomes normal to you, your emotions won't cloud your speech. Your haphazard demeanor becomes calm and you've attained peace with life. You sound like someone who hasn't come to terms with the redpill, calm down. You'll still joke about things happening around you, you might joke about how your girl left you.

I don't know about you (you still sound surprised though) , but a lot of things about the female nature doesn't surprise me anymore. I'm sure it doesn't surprise a lot of people here, even the poster. So man, chill a bit with something chilled, preferably non alcoholic and attain peace.

Keep your mouth shut boy

I never had a heart for a woman to break... You're claiming that some things in the redpill are extreme

Woman sympathizer. If you want to get married go ahead

No one's forcing you.

Reminderz:
its not a must you mention me if you have nothing tangible to say.

KiNg0G! cheesy Welcome back, nwannem.

You just like clout

Martinez39s:
KiNg0G! Welcome back, nwannem. You see, I have never demanded of or imposed it on anyone to go mgtow and not to marry. You see, I have never said that being redpilled means that you will shun marriage or die single and childless like I have voluntarily chosen to. That is MY path. People must note, as I do, that not everyone shares your interest and aspirations. What is a holy grail to you (eg. family, building up a next generation) are inessential to others. Being open-minded to be able to understand this is a hallmark of maturity.

The fact that I am giving my personal take based on my understanding of the red pill from my journey in life doesn't mean anyone should follow my path. If I see no reason to get married after weighing the pros and cons while considering myself or I think it that it isn't worth the stress when red pill is applied, why should anyone care? Do these mean I am stopping anyone from getting married or implying that they are lesser redpillers for getting married. Have you seen me vilify or belittle those who want marriage?

Nice one

dhiqson:
Very obvious you're new here
Because if You weren't, you won't post this nonsense
Everything has their pros and cons
And I remember specifically asking him on his view in marriage... And he gave two sides to it. Now it's up to me to decide whether to go on or forbear



Plsssss if you've got beef with anyone here
Just hush it abeg

That guy is blue pill trying to gain fame. His 10mB data will soon finish

Reminderz:
I nor dey argue this one brother.. he nor dey force in decision directly but he dey do am indirectly.. wetin be the meaning of all women are hoes or all women cheats?? relationship are useless marriage are useless?? if you dey hear this one all the time, shey you go still wan marry... if you go through his memes thread, your mind will be filled with so much hatred and toxic mindset you'll never even consider relationship talklesss of marriage if you're not careful..people should learn to use their brain also.. nor just go dey swallow everything wey you dey see or read online... as there are some percent of bad marriages, there are billions of good families and marriages... check deeply those bad marriages... you'll surely find where things went wrong from the beginning.. the redpill go let you know that one... cheerio

All women are hoes. Nobody included your mother, so why are you angry?

Lightheaded:
Lol, Boss, toxicity is over the top.

But then Martinez has his reasons for MGTOW and he hasn't forced anybody to follow that path so far I've noticed, he only declared himself one. Different people have their different reasons for their choices. He only stated his opinions on the pros and cons of being married, the choice is totally individual.

I for one don't know whether I'll marry or not, you can't see some things in the current society and be totally inclined towards marriage hoping yours will turn out different. People have different experiences and different reasons for their decisions. Tonny gave a suitable example, your parents can't have given you the perfect idea of marriage and a stranger who was raised up differently will change your mind. Never, you'll be totally structured to trust the process. Peradventure the marriage starts heading for the rocks, you won't abandon ship, because your mentor sailors never did.

I respect people's decisions and I've seen the good an the ugly, heck the worse in marriages. Even those that are dating, a lot of ladies are disguising or have done the worst in their past knowing marriage is the saving grace (the Knight in shining armor comes for the community bride lol).

If you're ready to get married, vet properly and preferably let her be a virgin (just saying). Have the redpill as a guide. The redpill isn't against marriage, it just highlighted the obvious (or not so obvious).

You're still a child who doesn't know about redpill

How can you say you come here to read things for fun... Do you think women are out there to joke.

Marriage is a fool's dream in this generation.

You can get married if you want.

Reminderz:
na the toxicity of Martinez dey make people talk say marriage na useless sometingss for this thread... the guy with his toxic mentality.. the guy go dey talk say all women are hoes.. all women cheats go mgtwo.. women are useless, relationship are useless ... like godammit.. what did the guy really face in his childhood... this is totally absurd... this thread is making men considering marriage foolish... go baby mama, go surrogacy... like that's the ultimate goal... this is so damaging to the society in the long run... very crAZY stuffs... na here I hear say marriage is very useless omoooo tinz dey happen oo.. so many families are living fine till date... no be when one thing happen, news go carry that one thing and people go start to dey generalize.. what about those where it's working for them mehn which kind mentality and speech you expect from person wey nor even like pikin or wan born pikin sef?? ahh I pray for the guy omoo

how many men nowadays really look at the red flags when choosing women? nor be love blind their eyes and their bluepill mindset into choosing wrong wife's.. how one person choice take relate to everybody.. ahh omoo... mehn.. this is only being exaggerated with the use of social media and the likes..

Marriage is a fool's dream in this generation.

If you're angry. Leave the group

BLOODYSPERM:
Yes according to his Twitter feed

Like in real life?

CaveAdullam:
1. The only validating and more convincing reason for a long term, conservative, traditional, monogamous marriage/ relationship: to raise healthy kids, especially healthy boys that will mature into quality kings! This fact science proves daily. Other reasons like companionship, assistant, 24/7 fvck mate, blah blah are important but secondary.

Children raised in a poor but stable family (2 parent household) do better than the ones that grew in a 1 parent household, or with foster, step or grand parent(s) regardless of their socioeconomic status!

2. Men should keep marriage aside if their primary focus is continuation of a lovey dovey affair with a woman (no more hide and seek), and not to raise quality children---what is of true value to men as far as nature and biology is concerned. He can beat societal cajoling and henpecking by staying aloof from them especially family and loved ones if he doesn't want to be troubled with marriage palaver.

Everything in life has it pros and cons---focusing on one side will make you a victim of the other side. Understand the nature of the game before playing it!

I came to trouble your peace!

PS: Martinez39s, this is my response to your reply to Lightway. Rough sketch though!

Will you ever get married? Yes or no?

luminouz:
If you like, spin tales of yidiyada

If you like, pretend as if you be with us

If you like, attack and act as if you are not of us,

We see through y'all bullshiit and we DONT CARE


Redpill goes on and we fuqin love talking those pills.

As a redpiller, will you ever get married?

Raalsalghul:
You asked a general question to which I gave a general answer.

I remember hinting that's it's my opinion only.

If you have a contrary one, I'm all ears.

I didn't ask a general question.

I asked any redpiller, why will you want to get married even after all you've heard about women.

It seems you want women because you can't control your urges, you're scared of being alone and you are doing it for society

Algebrah:
I believe people should mind their business, do what pays you, if you believe marriage is good for you, then marry, if you don't like it, then stay single.
It's as simple as ABC, why attack another person with different opinion, you people sha like to show your insecurity and validation anytime.
I've decided not to marry even before I come across Redpill, it just doesn't worth it, don't attack my opinion, it's mine and mine alone, and not your f*ck**g business. If you can't just agree to another person's opinion or use constructive argument to engage the person without involving religion and societal sh*t, then STFU!

You have no respect for yourself and your parents.

Everyone is not here to share their opinion. Everyone is here to learn and when you learn you want what's real.

Why get married and date girls is a question for intelligent people.

Go and greet your parents for me

Raalsalghul:
Hormones, biology, oxytocin, dopamine, serotonin; something about man being a social being and all that.

It's quite hard to transcend these things and a lot of folks on this thread have to come to the understanding that women are not the enemy.

Nature is!!!

That's just the way I see it.

Your want to get married and date girls because of Hormones, biology, oxytocin, dopamine, serotonin; something about man being a social being and all that.



What??