₦airaland Forum

philip0906:
Angry students who had just lost their friends because of the incompetence of law enforcement agents, show visible anger, retarded and untrained policemen, shoot live rounds into their school, because you're desperate to defend your worthless corntree, you're more interested in telling us how students were burning trailers.

The same Nigeria you defend for a pice of ponmo, will eventually consume you. Don't worry, it's going round.

The news report said it was tear gas

Go back and read

Terrier99:
Stop asking questions like an idiot. That place is my area. Those shots were live shots

You're talking to your mirror.

Because it's your area means you were the one that fired the gun

Terrier99:
The only truck burnt was the one that killed the students. Those were live rounds shot by the police, not teargas. The sounds are different.

Did you see the smoke from the shot, mtchewww

OneCorner:
What do you guys derive in fake news
You bloggers needs to be charged for treason for posting fake news cuz you are enemy of the state

Can you please modify this and tell everyone they shot tear gas

Akporo1234:
Is it that you're using free mode so you didn't watch the video or you just choose to be ignorant?

They shot tear gas... The police didn't shoot live bullets. The students were burning trailers

Stop hating your country

viyon02:
Back in those days when discipline and smartness is the key words to success, and not thuggery and immorality we celebrate today.

It was the same days where cultism was the order of the day

kapelo:
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Thank you all.

Hello

YezoBlogger:

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This is poverty mentality. It's the reason why man Nigerians are not intellectual because they want to always start business, always rushing into business with little capital with little ideas in the name of being your own boss

iLegendd:
You're wrong. I act poor when I meet people, especially women. I want to see how I'll be treated first before I let you into my real world.

I hide a lot at the initial stage. After you've fallen in love without knowing much, I can now open up.

Getting women because of crib or money is fake love and inferiority on the guy's part. Most men are the reasons for fake love. They start showing off that they are rich on the first day of meeting a woman.

If a woman already knows I'm rich, I see her love as fake, but I play along (while being stingy).

Making a woman love you is easy when you're poor. Just have a sense of humor, be intelligent, be naughty to an extent, don't have mouth or body odor (use a good fragrance), don't brag about any achievement, be unpredictable and not always available. Learn psychology and how women/human work.

Most importantly, don't invest emotions first. Just be free and easygoing as you keep the conversation fun, humorous, and naughty. Don't forget to keep her wanting more. (It's attractive and it builds emotion which turns to love.)

This means, end the conversation when she's enjoying it the most. Always put her in a position to anticipate your next conversation with her. Keep thing intrigue and unpredictable.

Finally, don't profess love (like Ozo and Saga) even if she does and don't ask her out — just start acting as her boyfriend from the first day without proposing. Tease her and don't be focused on outcome, but the FUN. (You're already her boyfriend from the first encounter, so why ask her out or ask her if she has a boyfriend?)

The problem broke guys have about women is inferiority complex — they think it's all about money. Money and fine boy is a bonus, but confidence and humor is key.

Also, most men/boys don't work on self-improvement — they focus only on making money fast at all cost to avoid being oppressed by Yahoo boys.

Wise men/boys take their time to handle self-improvement and they don't chase money or women — they attract them with wisdom, knowledge, and confidence.

Unfortunately, not all men are wise just the same way not all women are wise.

Only fake girls be loving when you have
When e red.... Japa

CruiseCity:
Thanks boss.... This kind of advise with order dey give me joy. No be advise like send her first to know who she truly is

Take note, you might lose the girl because she probably has other guys that are ready to give her money, but don't fret.

Do not simp for women

CruiseCity:
I'm so happy that y'all are not saying ordinary airtime. It's shows that there are real men here.... I'm happy

Women use the word ordinary to make you do what they want...

Don't send her airtime until you fuzk her first... Then you can think of airtime

Don't be a simp

Mentholated:
God sacrificed his Son for us. That is pure sacrifice because we do not have the capacity to pay him back.

Women love their children more than their husbands because as the kids grow, the relevance of her husband drops significantly.

The kids provide the necessary companionship and when they start hustling, they will provide for her. They also live longer too.

Men are simply not prepared for the future.

What do men feel so strongly about a woman and start spending on her to show his love

Aaron12:
Ignore that shit at your own peril. All the arguments are driving at one point. To promote women above men,
and to say stupid things like men don't love and that men's love are sacrificial which is a satanic lie from the deepest part of hell.

I don't understand this, please elaborate

abeeee:
(Please note :Religious reference is for better understanding of point only)


The fact is that only men can love (mind you I don't mean the shitty Disney thing) I mean love a it is supposed to be like God loving humans

That's why love is sacrificial ......I mean God loves humans and provides for them .....he even gave his son to die(sacrifice) but on the other hand, we cant love god back as some persons may paint ......we can only respect, serve, obey, fear and follow him
Even persons who propagate loving God will tell you same when you ask them how you show love to God .....because normally you can't show God love ......there is no care you can give........he existed and will always exist without man .......so it is him who loves and so therefore love only flows from top to bottom and respect goes the opposite way(bottom to top)
That's why the bible always charged men to love their wives and asked wives to respect and submit to their husbands........so the its God ----> man ----> woman -----> children (in the deist family structure

And if you watch you will find that its why women love their children so much they can sacrifice for them as against their husbands ........
If you even watch in the bible God always talked about perons he loved as person who feared him "he has the fear of God"

This is why I personally shake my head when I hear things like respect is reciprocal ....hehehe........brothers respect can only flow one way and its up
What supposed equals can show to each other at best is just cordiality ......it is only sad that the true meaning and idea behind lots of things these days has been changed by current systems

Anyway I just wanted to say a little on the can't love matter some persons are confused about

Maybe I go begin dey write small small now

How did God sacrifice his son. Jesus a powerful spirit went to earth and went back to heaven again and even became more powerful.

Sacrifices can't be redeemed. That's why they are called sacrifices

emmaodet:
Yes, to you men are selfish yet he places her on monthly income, showers her with gifts, sponsor some to school, take her abroad etc. what else can a human ask for? If that is not Love enough then what else?

The men who do this are blue pillled and they do this because they have low self esteem and they see themselves as providers. They are also ignorant of women nature. Why do you think women withhold sex from simps because they know if they give him too much sex, he will Japa. Even women can see through the so-called love of these men. Why can you as a man see that too


You can hardly date the average woman out there and after a year you do an appraisal and see what she had done.
If it is sex, they both helped each other. If it is prayer, advice, emotions support, the man is also giving her.
You also said in one of your comments that men have self esteem issues reason while they date ladies below them instead of going for there mate - are you really kidding me? With one mouth, we scream women are hypergamous, in other words they won’t date a man they perceive their mate or below them. They will look down on him and not respect him. He won’t be attractive to them. There was a thread last week were ladies were commenting they hate broke struggling guys approaching them. Another thread a claimed she is earning far above her hubby and he has to step up and move his ass if he is to earn the respect and head of the house blah blah blah.

Women are hypergamous because men are seen as providers. Why settle for less when you can have more? When you can go for more... A woman looks up to a man as a provider and protector and she expects more.

Men date down so that they can feel worthy. They can be the protector and provider. Imagine you're a man dating a girl and she is feeding you. Just like that story of a nairaland complaining that he is not okay with the fact that his fiancee earns more than him even though she is ready to marry him. He is not taking his provider position and he is scared
It seems you are a lady and this may be my last comment to you because it seems you are not here to learn anything rather push your points.

No reasonable man will want to settle for less.
If given the opportunity and my rest of mind, peace, respect guaranteed, I will always choose a presidential daughter to the average common street girl.

No man with high self esteem will spend all his money on his girlfriend. That's not love. It is ignorance. How many times do you hear of Leonardo De Caprio spending millions on the girls he dates

emmaodet:
Let us even assume you are right with your “men love opportunistically and are selfish”
But then, in the process of loving a woman, he makes VISIBLE and TANGIBLE impacts in the life of the woman. Can we really say that about the average woman?
Yes, to you men are selfish yet he places her on monthly income, showers her with gifts, sponsor some to school, take her abroad etc. what else can a human ask for? If that is not Love enough then what else?
You can hardly date the average woman out there and after a year you do an appraisal and see what she had done.
If it is sex, they both helped each other. If it is prayer, advice, emotions support, the man is also giving her.
You also said in one of your comments that men have self esteem issues reason while they date ladies below them instead of going for there mate - are you really kidding me? With one mouth, we scream women are hypergamous, in other words they won’t date a man they perceive their mate or below them. They will look down on him and not respect him. He won’t be attractive to them. There was a thread last week were ladies were commenting they hate broke struggling guys approaching them. Another thread a claimed she is earning far above her hubby and he has to step up and move his ass if he is to earn the respect and head of the house blah blah blah.
It seems you are a lady and this may be my last comment to you because it seems you are not here to learn anything rather push your points.
What a mama needs in life is “Rest of Mind/Peace” and not another competition at home with his said wife who is regularly telling him to measure up instead of helping or support. Most women at your level won’t give you the rest you need after the daily pressures of life because they will be rubbing shoulders with you at home.
No reasonable man will want to settle for less.
If given the opportunity and my rest of mind, peace, respect guaranteed, I will always choose a presidential daughter to the average common street girl.

This is your question

Let us even assume you are right with your “men love opportunistically and are selfish”
But then, in the process of loving a woman, he makes VISIBLE and TANGIBLE impacts in the life of the woman. Can we really say that about the average woman?

The answer is yes, there are many average women that have fed and provided for men and young boys while in school and out of school. Though men do it more (because men see themselves as providers)

But remember that the redpill says that women don't love. Even if they make the same sacrifices as men do.

Lordcassy:
I greet you my Brother CaveAdullam...Keep up the good works Bro...
I just had to interject...

The newcomer think the redpill is an ideology but they are very wrong...

THE REDPILL IS A PRAXEOLOGY....

spin it all you want but the truth is always remains.....

Nobody created the Redpill but wise people pointed out the knowledge that somehow our ancestor knew about human dynamics

Human Dynamics change so the ancestors and wise people were wrong.

I mean, men were once above women, today women are considered equal to man

virginboy1:
With great wisdom comes great pain.
When you see the world for what it actually is, those of the world will begin to attack you and look at you differently, because the world is the Matrix, and those who are still Blue Pilled are still plugged into the Matrix, they're not ready to be unplugged.

Word

Even those that claim to be out of the matrix are still attacking others because they say that men don't fall in love. They keep up with their insults.

The redpill might be another matrix

CAPSLOCKED:
I WOULD NEVER MENTION A TRASH-MASTER, BUT YOU'VE SAID THIS MANY TIMES. YOU MISLEAD PEOPLE. THIS IS WRONG.

FROM THE OLDEN DAYS THE IGBOS USED IHUNANYA (IFUNANYA) TO DESCRIBE LOVE.
SO IN LAY TERMS LOVE = IHUNANYA (IN IGBO) SO YOUR ANCESTORS DEFINITELY FELL IN LOVE.

Ifunaya means pleasant to the eyes, it is a world men use to describe a beautiful woman.

That's why only women answer the name

Which state of Igbo are you from?

CAPSLOCKED:
I WOULD NEVER MENTION A TRASH-MASTER, BUT YOU'VE SAID THIS MANY TIMES. YOU MISLEAD PEOPLE. THIS IS WRONG.

FROM THE OLDEN DAYS THE IGBOS USED IHUNANYA (IFUNANYA) TO DESCRIBE LOVE.
SO IN LAY TERMS LOVE = IHUNANYA (IN IGBO) SO YOUR ANCESTORS DEFINITELY FELL IN LOVE.

Ifunaya means pleasant to the eyes, it is a world men use to describe a beautiful woman.

Which state of Igbo are you from?

CAPSLOCKED:
AFTER SKIPPING THIS USER FOR MANY WEEKS I DECIDED TO START READING TODAY, AND O'BOY! THIS CLOWN POSTS A LOT OF ACTUAL UNDILUTED CLOWNERY.

MEN DON'T LOVE WOMEN BORN WITH DICKS?
LOL. HOW ARE MEN LOVING HERMAPHRODITES AND TRANS-WOMEN?
YOU CAN'T EVEN COMPARE THE UNION BETWEEN HOMOSEXUAL MALE COUPLES AND THEIR HOMOSEXUAL FEMALE COUNTERPARTS.

THE WORST FORMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND BETRAYALS, CHEATING, NAGGING, BACKSTABBING AND CHAOS GO ON BETWEEN THE WOMEN. RESEARCH & EVERYDAY ONLINE PUBLICATIONS AND CONFESSIONS FROM WOMEN IN THESE UNIONS ARE EVIDENCES FOR THIS. MAYBE BECAUSE NATURALLY, TWO MEN WORKING TOGETHER WILL ALWAYS BLEND WELL AND ACHIEVE MORE THAN TWO WOMEN WORKING TOGETHER.... AND THIS APPLIES EVERYWHERE; WORKPLACE, SCHOOLS, FRIENDSHIPS, AND RELATIONSHIPS.

I BELIEVE THIS IS BECAUSE MEN, THOUGH TOUGH-MINDED TO AN EXTENT, ACTUALLY HAVE REAL FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS FOR EVERYTHING. THIS IS WHY MEN WORK ALL THROUGH THE YEARS TO INVENT THINGS FOR US, TO BETTER THE PLANET, TO MAKE LIFE EASIER FOR OTHER MEN AND WOMEN EVEN IF IT MEANS SACRIFICING THEIR OWN LIVES.
IT'S THE OPPOSITE WITH WOMEN WHO RARELY CONCERN THEMSELVES WITH BETTERING ANYTHING AND WILL JUST SIT AND WAIT FOR THINGS TO BE HANDED TO THEM.

Y'ALL CAN CONTINUE ARGUING BUT I'VE SEEN MEN TAKE BULLETS AND DIE FOR TOTAL STRANGERS AND EVEN DROWN TRYING TO SAVE STRAY ANIMALS, SO YOU CAN'T TELL ME THAT MEN DO NOT LOVE. IT'S THE WORST NONSENSE.

How is dying for a stranger love... A stranger you've not seen their face before. Is that love or a man trying to help because of compassion, pity? Where have you see a man take a bullet for a stranger and said he did it because of love

Mentholated:
People give up whatever they give up in a relationship because they believe they will gain more. That is not sacrificial.

If I give up my phone to save my life, that is not sacrificial but opportunistic because my life is worth more than my phone.

If I fail to give up my phone and I lose my life, that is sacrificial because my phone is worth less than my life.

They will never accept this

It is simple

Ignorance is about the female nature is what makes men think that they can use money and their so-called sacrifices to make her like them.

Redpill offers so much truth but barely scratches the surface.

Mentholated

Your points are top notch.

Love is a social construct

Men don't fall in love

Don't deceive yourself.

You can never love a woman

ma373733:
They're not ignorant per say they're just following what our instincts tells us .women are not even better as well they just follow Thier instincts


Just like wolves
The alpha male of the pack has to defend the pack against outsiders and also hunt with or without the females to provide for th young and his mates .

Now if another male comes and overpower him
The females instinctually forget about the other guy .start mating with him without giving a fvvck what the other alpha had done for and her offsprings

To females is all about survival by recieving

To males is all about survival by giving

Women are no different

Human being are animals anymore. We have evolved... Animals don't have feminism

Mentholated:
Men have a higher rate of heart breaks because they are generally more ignorant than women in relationship matters.

Women love their children opportunistically.

Another one

ElasmoBranchii:
Men are born with none?
You mean men are not born with sex organ?
Can women impregnate themselves?

Men also need money.

You have arrived.
A man loves a woman because she is a woman. She has feminine characteristics.

Exactly, you see that men love opportunitically as well... Because you're a woman, I love you so if anything happens and I find you're a man, then I don japa.

Simple... But this is more rare.....

Mentholated:
Humans are naturally selfish which is essential for human survival.

No human either male or female is capable of sacrificial love. We all love opportunistically.

Whenever we invest anything into something, we hope to get MORE in return, either cash or kind. That is being opportunistic.

If I spend a million naira annually on my girlfriend, it means I believe the relationship is worth more than a million annually. That is not sacrifice, that is opportunistic.

Earlier I advised men to keep developing themselves so they can always get what they want and also know the real WORTH of what they are getting.

All humans are hypergamous in NATURE. Redpill guys are hypergamous and opportunistic in all their dealings with women without even knowing it.

All human relationships are transactional whether you like it or not and your aim is to reap more than you sow irrespective of the sacrifices you think you are making.

Enjoying the best years of a woman is hypergamy.

As you understand female nature, the first thing you will notice is a gradual change in the type of women you associate with. Your redpill lens will only deal with women that are beneficial to you.

The benefits with time will keep getting better as you realise the REAL VALUE of what the women in your lives are offering.

If you are a young business man, you fall in "love" and marry the daughter of a business tycoon and that association brings you great success. That is your hypergamous nature at work.

Amazing

ElasmoBranchii:
I took my time to educate myself on what emotions are. That is why I like discussion like this. This is what I found out
"Our emotions are controlled by a group of brain structures called the limbic system. The limbic system releases chemicals which spur on our emotional states. The type of emotion we feel depends on which chemicals have been released. For example, the hormone oxytocin allows us to experience feelings of love"



Please read this
https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/news/20131125/how-the-love-hormone-works-its-magic



"When we are intimate with someone, oxytocin, also known as the "love hormone" is released into the body "during intercourse and other forms of intimacy," Dr. Sal Raichbach"

"Oxytocin release causes the sense of trust and makes us miss our partners. People with high levels of testosterone may probably not feel the connection, because this hormone suppresses oxytocin activity."



Love is an emotion how does it teach?
Are you sure your understanding of love isn't based on the western fantasy which you attack.
I never knew you were meant to love one woman your whole life. Men of the past didn't love like that.



Love exist and just as any other emotion is caused by neurophysiological changes.

A man's love is unconditional
A woman's love is conditional

A man loves a woman just because she is a woman
A woman loves a man cause of how he makes her feel and what he provides.

What men want from women..... Women are born with them

What women want from men... Men have to work for them.

There are three things that make the world go round in a natural sense.

Money (resources, food etc)
Pleasure (Sex)
Children

Women are born with the other two... Men are born with one (ability to give children). Men work for money and need pleasure and children from women. To get this, they provide.

Women are born with pussy and a womb. They need money and get it from men.

That is how life works in the patriarchy. That is why men think they love women for who they are.

Women already has all a man wants. She was born with it. Men don't love her for who she is.. no man can love a woman born with a dick. She is not longer a woman.

That's all

ma373733:
Ogbeni which fact?

Bring it on you don too make noise here .
Someone even said redpillers are hypergamous in what sense? I'm not understanding
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Bring your facts why men are not sacrificial lovers
I need stats
Facts and figures

The people on this thread are angry. They don't like these posts.

If your interested, quote me on another thread in a different section.

ma373733:
Men love way way sacrificially
Infact our sex organs tells it all ours is giving while theirs is receiving

Infact men are the ideal lovers

I'll give you some stats

Do you know that globally among all the causes of sucides, relationship related sucides took a whopping 42%
According to stats globally men are are nearly twice more sucidal than women? Infact in the USA and other feminised countries men are 4X more likely to commit sucide than women and nearly half of it is caused by relationship related issues.
Why ?
Simple

sacrifice
Sacrifice is the currency of love

The more you sacrifice the more you love

Men are super sacrificial more than women they're ready to take risks than women

You might say I'm religious

But ever wondered why Jesus wasn't a woman?

To me
1. women are less sacrificial
2.women are hypergamous eve is a good example they just want something better and better
I believe if Jesus was a woman he would have accepted when the devil promised him the kingdoms of the world but know men are sacrificial and sacrifice is what is called love .

Giving has always been a way men express love
John 3:16 God so love the world that he GAVE!

Women only love their children because of the sacrifice made and risk they took for them

Apart from that hey! No woman loves a man
She can only be submissive to his power or
frame she can't love a man

Bible said men should love women should submit
It really shows the creator knows the who can love and who cannot

during wars men because of love fight and sacrifice their lives to keep women safe .

Men are ideal lovers
Simping is when you're sacrificing before submission because of low self esteem or other factors.

Note: sacrifice can be money ,time or other things money can't buy.


For me o there's nothing wrong eating a woman's Money because I know if she sacrifice more she's under my control
I choose power over love

Because women always submit to power..

Why do we come here every day sef .

We come here to learn and update to keep frame

We talk about simps simps simps
They're just men that loves too much even when the person is not submissive .

Don't say men don't love it's just illogical because you don't even have stats to back your claims caveadullam did justice with facts
Martinez39 also gave you some points
I'm not expecting you accept my side of the topic

I've already explained this with facts before.

So you can read my previous posts.

But if you need a direct answer I could answer.. maybe in another thread if you want

People here are too redpilled for this

ElasmoBranchii:
Do you agree with his definition?

Yes, that is how society created love to look like. I told you that no one wants to be alone. No one wants to die alone. Love is a social construct designed to change that.

Interesting, are other emotions social construct too because they don't have physical representation?

I took

love between man and woman is caused by the misfiring of some neuromodulators (oxytocin, dopamine) in our brains which have been set off or stimulated by one of the possible catalysts like wealth, physique, physiological patterns. In reality, what you feel when you see someone is just dopamine, or any of the feel good chemicals; Serotonin or Endorphins. Remember that feeling that comes over you when have sex. Remember how you feel when you touch a woman's naked body and you want to have her. Remember how the lust dies off after you have her. The same thing happens when you see someone and you say you love the person.

Love is just one of these feel good chemicals and after a while they fade. You can reignite them via memory or by doing something new. That's why you see couples going for therapy, going on vacations, going on trips to experience something new and rekindle their love. YOu can search for this on Google and you will see evidence. True love doesn't need to be rekindled, but you see couples doing that, because true love doesn't exist.

Can you say that other emotions such as fear, anger, happiness etc don't exist because "the feeling wears off after a while"?

Love does not exist, but the feel good chemicals oxytocin, dopamine, seretonin, and endrophin exist. What the world tries to do is make these chemicals last longer in the brain by telling people that a man can love one woman forever. These chemicals are being interpreted as love. Think of yourself fuxing a woman, and you love her smell, her figure 8, her breasts, just think of her naked. After some months of fucking non-stop, you will definitely get tired and want something new. Because emotions don't last forever. In fact, leaving the girl might make you want to go back to her, because you start missing those feel good chemicals. When you go back to her and stay again, you will get used to it and your body will begin to yearn for more. I'm just trying to explain how these chemicals work.

There are animals that have one mate for life and there are animals liike lioness that sleep with many lions when mating. Humans are not the kind of animals that have one mate for life. But love teaches us that this is possible. Love does not exist, but these feel good chemicals exist.

They said... What do you say love is? this is a very important question.

What he described is exactly what love is created to be. Love does not exist. Love is the only emotion that human believe should last forever. Even happiness doesn't last forever.

Would you agree with me that they were taught that was how to express the feeling they call love?

Everything we do today is taught. Even how we express our anger. When I was younger, I could get angry at things but I was very good at controlling my emotions. As I got older, I realiazed that this meant that people could take you for granted. I started using my anger to fight people. You can see that I taught myself how to use my anger to make people fear me.

The same way people are taught what love should be. The same way people learn from other people, what love should be. men were taught that love means providing for your girlfriend and sacrificing for. Respecting her and keeping her happy. That's love. The men were taught this by other women and other men that wanted to look good in front of women. That you should never hit a women. That how love is taught today.

Take note that some people fall deep into the social construct. Because love promises a beautiful life that you will never be alone or lonely. That's why you see some couples stick to each other forever. Even when the feel good chemicals fade.

Martinez39s I said, I'm done with this thread and I will only reply to it if someone quotes me.

To other redpillers, You don't have to read this. Remember the light in the name and skip.

To the poster, I will like your input on this.

Martinez39s:
From what I am reading, I can see more mischievous accounts infiltrating. Spot them and ignore them.

Sorry about derailing your thread.


This is my last post here.. unless someone quotes me. Then I'll reply.

It was never my intention to detail. I thought redpillers are more open minded.

Goodbye