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RAGGA40:
Guy post the stories.

This one is on front page ooo

Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!


Hehehehehehehehehehe

I've some real life storiea to post ooo

This ones are recent.

Should I go ahead or are we giving up the redpill??

Wa wu

Lollittaa:
As far as I could remember, I've always had very painful menstruation. To a point that it affects my ability to work or be productive.
Painkillers hardly work, so it's about 4-7 days of Pre menstrual cramps +5 day period of agony. Almost two weeks every month. Sometimes I fall sick during or after my period.
I talked to my doctor. I was thinking family planning pills might pause my periods for sometime. But he said no they don't. He advised I be taking painkillers prior to my period and I have ulcer.

I'm tired. NL doctors, what can I do?

pocohantas

Good evening

Can you please help her

Hi

Diligent1:
I am surprised at which the rate of fake job interviews are being sent to me everyday.
As a job seeker, I try to apply for job at least 5 times everyday but all the interview messages I receive, I always check for the location before I would decide to go, immediately it will show among the fake locations of Scam Interviews.

Last week, I received 2 invites to come today which the location is Ikorodu and I was very happy that at least I will start a work this month. I was already planning how I will spend my salary, food stuff first, hoping they might be real. On getting there, I discovered that they are GNLD. I was disappointed again, right now, I don't know what to do.
I have not seen any real company inviting me for an interview.
I don't know how to get a job, the government should come to our aid, It is difficult to survive.

D

Constantine10:
you either clueless or any idiot who post fake news, Jayden is not gay but usually model female cloth, Jayden is not a drug addict as no evidence link to that, he is a slime person who decided to be a vegetarian, no marriage is perfect and rumors has it that Will smith and jade practice an open marriage, there's was rumors that he had a ..... With Margot Robbie and was seeing a TikTok influencer, just because jade had s.x with a immature man who don't know his place and how to keep is mouth shut. Jade is no villain and Will smith is no simp they are both adults who are married and those what is best for their marriage, open marriage is a thing and who gives you the right ot judge them

so why was will Smith thinking of committing suicide because of his marriage

pocohantas:
She done see say na fck boys remain outside, come add am sapa. No more money to buy bleaching cream.

I wish her love and light.

Go and marry

No woman's life will be destroyed because she's not hinged to a man in any way - whether through kids, marriage or a family. undecided

Men are going their own way, yet they are the one shooting up women and stalking and raping them because of sexual rejection and rejection to relationships. For all of the bitterness y'all claim feminists have, how many of us are going out to shoot men because we can't find a date?

So, no. The lack of suitable partners for marriage will not both affect us, or affect us the same way and our responses to such will definitely not be the same.

Even here on Nairaland, call it pretentiousness, but you'll never know if some lady likes a guy, even back when the 'toasting threads' were a thing, you'll find women declaring their feelings for a guy. Let it be a man that likes a girl, he'll troll her to heaven and hell and back, shame the living daylight out of her and do all manners of despicable thing to her because he wants her attention.

The men that ask women out normally are the outliers. The women that shoot up men because of rejection are also outliers. So it is a big fat lie when y'all come up with the 'women don't take rejection well' line. No matter how hurt or pained she is, a rejected lady is hardly thinking of ways to meet a man on the road and rape him in revenge.

Magnoliaa:
Lol. To be sincere. This conversation has happened on Twitter and it was a man who tabled it. They could afford to be shitty because all they needed to do was provide money, as the sole breadwinners. Now women are demanding more from them character-wise and it's sending them in a frenzy.

Your profile pic... Is that Dubai?

Or which city?

pocohantas:
The way una carry women matter for head ehn.

The only thing remaining is to tie double wrapper and start attending August Meeting.

Tufiakwa!

Go and marry

Midas01:
Men don't have biological clock yen yen yen....

Do you know that after 40 the quality of your sperm and also the motility reduces hences making you more susceptible to infertility? Keep yapping what you don't know.

Ned Nwoko

Josephali:
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

Good evening

How often is sex in a typical Nigerian marriage. Before she got pregnant

Likes does it happen everyday or twice a week

wunmi590:
It depend on how your wife delivered the baby, if it normal delievery, some women body can still take after like 5-6 weeks, their virgina might have healed up..

While some who delieved through CS might have to endure some pain till like 2-4month, it actually depends on individual body...

Despite the fact that my wife delivered normal, I still wait more than 4month self, by that time nah more money I dey use my head to calculate

Good evening

How often is sex in a typical Nigerian marriage. Before she got pregnant

Likes does it happen everyday or twice a week

osuolale95:
Hello everyone, as the state of things are presently with hike in price of almost everything, is buying Nigerian Used of this Toyota Corolla Hatchback advisable? And how is the maintenance cause it’s going to be my first car actually. And also please what is the price range for the used ones? Thanks a lot for your response

What's the price difference between this and the foreign used type

Botking:
This your opinion doesn't translate general

This is no general blueprint in the dating game,

For the fact that this work for you, doesn't translate it will work for the other

Is let's for us to individually figure out what works for us and implement it

shut up

ubunja:
What do thugs have that successful respectful men don't have? Why are successful women attracted to these low lives?

Please can you explain this

Please

kayode69:
Dear Nairalanders,

My name is Kayode Sherif, I'm a 300L student of a state university in the country studying a 5 year course.

Last year, (during the lockdown).... I was hell broke(so broke I couldn't even feed)

I had heard of this online business, but I didn't have any guidance on how to go about it, AND I didn't even have money to buy the course available for it.

I decided I was going to find a way to buy the course, so I took a job as a fuel station attendant (I worked there for 6 months) I saved up some money.

I bought the course and started studying and implementing all I had learnt, day and night...

It was as if nothing was working "I was desperate! I wasn't making money."

But I kept on...

Finally this year, I got the breakthrough. I got my first payment.

Fast forward to today, I have been making at least 250k in a month but I can't keep up with my school.

I'm thinking of terminating my school but I don't want to make a decision that will affect me for the rest of my life so I'm seeking for your honest opinion.

Should I quit school and focus more on my online business?

What's the name of your course

kayode69:
It's just hard for me

You can do it like this

Pay someone to do your practicals, test.. and pay someone to sit close to your during exams and tell you the answer...


I'm not longer a student but this should work

PrinxArthur1:
contrary to some opinion of guys here ,women don't chase money they chase the lifestyle money brings

Now think about it, why do runs gals still continue their lifestyle after they have made a lot of money from their simp magas, why will a fully grown woman like Ehiz( I forgot her name , the interior decorator) , maria etc will want to be a side chick rather than find thier own Man

Nobody in real life chase money. They chase the life

Why do yahoo boys keep doing yahoo.. because of the lifestyle.

It's the same for men and men

Herbsworks:
I am not encouraging guys to start sleeping with married women neither am I discouraging guys from getting married even though it may take divine intervention for me to get married due to what I have seen and experienced. Even if we decide to discourage guys on this thread from sleeping with your wife that won’t stop other guys not on this thread from going ahead.

As you’re getting angry that guys are sleeping with married women I hope you as a married man is not sleeping with single ladies cos those ladies are some guys “serious girlfriends”, fiancée and bethroted?

What my posts is all about is to teach some married men how to know if the wife is cheating on them and know how to put them in check from the place of my experience. But just like some men, blue pill men are emotional and illogical when it concerns the love of their life

I believe the redpill speaks from the place of logic while the female gender operate using emotions and an emotional man will always fall prey to the manipulation of women.

My knowledge in life is not just on women manipulation but on life itself cos I’ve been opportune by nature to have experienced life the hard way and that has armed me with life lessons that I’ve been using to defend myself against the attack of enemies.

Love & Light

Continue posting please... I'm learning

Why are Women Entitled?

Most women are smarter than most men. Take it or leave it.

This is common sense. If I'm an indispensable asset to a company, I will always ask for promotions. Just the same way Messi has the biggest salary when he was in Barcelona. He was the best, he was wanted everywhere. The same thing with Ronaldo. He is great and he is paid the biggest.

Women are entitled because of the softness of their body, their breast, yansh, and puszy. Almost all men want these. No woman worked hard to get her breasts and body parts. They were born with it. For men, if you're born handsome, tall, with great hair, build a great body, you can get a lot of young girls, it's that simple. But remember that society now states that you have to chase a girl to get her. Before you have to prove yourself a man and you will be given a woman. Families will beg you to take their women. Fathers and Mothers will offer their daughters on a platter, but you won't have to approach these women or beg for their attention. Today, it's different.

The thing is that women don't always want sex, the same way men don't always want sex. They want money too. Working for money is hard and since men work for money and men want them, put two and two together, why not ask men for money. And there is a bonus, you won't have to give them sex, you can prolong it and make it look as if they will get access to your soft body and they will give you more money.

In fact, you can brainwash them and make them believe that they are nothing if they cannot cater to a woman. A real man will give a woman money, pay her bills and make her feel loved. Make it look as if all their achievements in life are only based on women and what they can do for women. It is called manipulation. The same way men manipulate their friends, brothers, enemies, bosses, and coworkers. Women also manipulate men. They make men believe that they are angels that can do no harm and that's why they hide to do cheat and do harm so that no man can know. They cry and men feel that an angel is crying and they want to stop her from crying, to protect and love her. In doing so, men think they will have access to the softness of her body.

Women are entitled because they are smarter than men. They are wiser when it comes to relationships. They get all the fun, se.x, the enjoyment they want when they are young and as they get older, they become caring and loving and get married. Kudos to all smart women.

Men have been brainwashed into believing that caring for a woman is their ultimate goal. That's only true in the world of old. The world is different. As a man, your value is not tied to your money. It is tied to your ability to lead your family, to keep your family afloat. To organize your family. To be the raging bull, even when you're broke. Testosterone for crying out loud. That's bad boys for you.

Why are Women Entitled?

Most women are smarter than most men. Take it or leave it.

This is common sense. If I'm an indispensable asset to a company, I will always ask for promotions. Just the same way Messi has the biggest salary when he was in Barcelona. He was the best, he was wanted everywhere. The same thing with Ronaldo. He is great and he is paid the biggest.

Women are entitled because of the softness of their body, their breast, yansh, and puszy. Almost all men want these. No woman worked hard to get her breasts and body parts. They were born with it. For men, if you're born handsome, tall, with great hair, build a great body, you can get a lot of young girls, it's that simple. But remember that society now states that you have to chase a girl to get her. Before you have to prove yourself a man and you will be given a woman. Families will beg you to take their women. Fathers and Mothers will offer their daughters on a platter, but you won't have to approach these women or beg for their attention. Today, it's different.

The thing is that women don't always want sex, the same way men don't always want sex. They want money too. Working for money is hard and since men work for money and men want them, put two and two together, why not ask men for money. And there is a bonus, you won't have to give them sex, you can prolong it and make it look as if they will get access to your soft body and they will give you more money.

In fact, you can brainwash them and make them believe that they are nothing if they cannot cater to a woman. A real man will give a woman money, pay her bills and make her feel loved. Make it look as if all their achievements in life are only based on women and what they can do for women. It is called manipulation. The same way men manipulate their friends, brothers, enemies, bosses, and coworkers. Women also manipulate men. They make men believe that they are angels that can do no harm and that's why they hide to do cheat and do harm so that no man can know. They cry and men feel that an angel is crying and they want to stop her from crying, to protect and love her. In doing so, men think they will have access to the softness of her body.

Women are entitled because they are smarter than men. They are wiser when it comes to relationships. They get all the fun, se.x, the enjoyment they want when they are young and as they get older, they become caring and loving and get married. Kudos to all smart women.

Men have been brainwashed into believing that caring for a woman is their ultimate goal. That's only true in the world of old. The world is different. As a man, your value is not tied to your money. It is tied to your ability to lead your family, to keep your family afloat. To organize your family. To be the raging bull, even when you're broke. Testosterone for crying out loud. That's bad boys for you.

ubunja:
HOW DO YOU KNOW YOU'RE AN ALPHA?


when you don't need a relationship to get what you want from women.

My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend

Please sir can you explain why a girl will go back to her abusive boyfriend

Even after the new boyfriend treats her with love care and affection

PrinxArthur1:
When a gal *my coursemate* that was doing shakara then chatted me up this night, I wish you all could feel my cold replies to her

No proof

Just lies

PrinxArthur1:
I heard people here saying you are not supposed to do married women, but married women choose the guy, not the other way round, I have one disturbing me right now, if you like I can post evidence, only that I am trying to control the conversation, this woman is 12 years older than me

Post evidence.

So that men that are redpull and planning to get married will know

azammi:
Oya report Sir , Evil Human being . To sleep with peoples wife that what you lot knows . Rubbish

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KiNg0G:
why won't you enjoy married women fûck, masturbatión talks and any abonormal discussions that doesn't add sense to been a redpilled man.

True definition of a misogynist

Hehehe

No wonder you pay money to sleep with girls

azammi:
I don’t expect but I expect everyone to have morals , we’ve got a lot of girls (free ones) don’t know what you guys see in people’s wives . Pure evil and wickedness

Get out

Do you think women have morals

The redpull doesn't teach morals.

I'll report your account now now

Petyprincess:
The truth is not everyone will get married, I have the utmost respect for women living their best life without depending on a man.
A woman's happiness should not be defined by having a man because of two hairy balls!!

Do you want to get married

pocohantas:
1: Use juju and hook one man.

Don’t waste your time going to Shiloh or all these scam pentecostal churches. They will end up hooking you up with one boring evangelist that suffers premature ejaculatiôn.

It is better you use your hand and hook the one you like. But treat him well.

Nothing wrong in hooking husband. Even the bible says the kingdom of God suffereth violence.

2. If you are open to polygamy, give it a shot.
As you get older in Nigeria, it gets harder to see a never-been-married man with noble intentions. So if you don’t mind polygamy, if you just want to have your kids by one man, find one polygamous man and have all your kids with him.

You're everywhere..

Go and marry ooooooooo
Ooooooooo
Ooooooooo

Hayee:
wait come oooo
Why are you so into her business, is it your evening newspaper abi is it your surrogacy
Leave are let her live her life in peace tooor, no amount of evening newspaper calling can change her mind if she doesn't want it to be changed

I hope you're married

[quote author=pocohantas post=106994030


Nobody is sending you PMs, not to this account, not to your blackmailing main. You simpleteen.[/quote]Just watch... I will definitely get your pregnant and you'll know yourself.

That day, your body go come down..

I go find you, con give you Belle.

Just wait for me