Dear OP,

This strength you're using to come and type this crap on NL, why waste energy when you can just use it to advice your family members and everyone from your village.

No offence, it's just my candid opinion.

For the sake of sanity and unnecessary bullshittttt, people should just marry their kind.

What I remember then is,

Nile, Niger, Benue, Congo, Volta, Senegal, Orange, Limpopo, Zambezi.

Fyi0:


Only sensible comment here. Most of all other commenter are plain idiots. How does someone's private actions translate to stupidity?
Yet y'all had to pour your frustrations and bitterness on the guy for throwing his money up in the air. Is it your money?
Bitter fools!

Nigerians, very hypocritical and judgemental people, you can't speak your mind in peace, they will rather abandon the topic and judge you, that's why I prefer to enjoy my silence in peace and just read comments .

Op please grow some balls and confront her for your cash, it's a simple something.

Piercy:


sighted lol chai that film make sense that year , that scene enter news well well , see we children that year con dey act saint obi lol I miss those years jhare

Now all they do is thrash, once you tune to African Magic Epic, If the ladies are not tying wrapper on the chest then the movie is yet to start, while others gather big 9ja celebrities together with clueless storylines. Phewww

Piercy:
the last time someone destroyed a car in an action film in Nigeria was by saint obi and the gist was that na e car lmao who remember that film that year?

Movie Title was "Take me to mama". If I can remember it was a black baby Benz

No matter the millions of advice you get, the decision still lies on you, cos people will air their views based on what they think, but you alone is wearing the shoes and know what and how you feel for this guy and this situation.

Later take your time, forget whatever advises you given, then ask yourself since you are the one in love with this person in question if this love you feel is strong enough to forgive and let go without it being a problem in future, you'll get your answer there, but my dear reason this

" There will always be temptation, no one falls by mistake,
When faced with temptation, a person has a choice of two course of action; one of which requires strength of will against it, the other is to damn all hell and fall, being tempted is not wrong , the decision to do wrong or right is yours", no one cheats by mistake, 90 times out of 100 cheating partners are only sorry and remorseful cos they got caught, tho sometimes some are genuine about being remorseful.

So Babygirl the decision is yours to make at the end of it all

HardMirror:
nope. Not quitting. Instead working towards having my own betting company. Most likely a cryptocurrency based betting platform. I regret losing so much, but all good. Let everyone lick his wounds in peace. I take responsibility for my recklessness and stupidity and i would rather map out a strategy to make money off it

More like my actions, my responsibilities. I hope it works out well for you like you've planned

HardMirror:
lol. You know nothing about gambling. When i lost my first 30k i tot i would never gamble again. Now i have lost over 5million. I have a thread here on nairaland where i talked about gambling. I had lost 2million at that point and yet today i have exceeded 5million. Breaking free from gambling is not by being willed, you have to create structures to keep your finances away from your direct control

Thanks for the enlightenment, easier said than done, my bad, I hope he stays strong, are you in a work in progress to quit now?

hopefulLandlord:


Call me a pessimist but if his story is true I would say there's no say back for him unless he cries for external help and violently extreme measures are put in place to prevent him betting

First step is for him to confess to his people what he's done before the chips start to fall so they can start sorting themselves out because it would be worse if he has to wait for them to figure it out and from the story some have started figuring it out

I doubt with the level things has gotten to the point of thinking suicide, he ought to have learnt by now, who wouldn't??

Ridhw0n:
Alright brothers I've read from page 1 to 3 and I've got something to say too

I'm really happy for those that have passed through this stage and survive and for those of us still in this phase of life i pray God be our guidance.

In a nutshell i would like to share my story too.

Firstly I'm an IT student here in Lagos for the period of six months.

It all started July 2018 exactly the day of Portugal vs Uruguay. My mummy sent me 100k to buy a laptop for my younger bro here in Lagos. It happened that i was so broke then that i can't even afford a plate of food. People around me were busy making money out of football by punting (betting). I quickly made a rash decision i could make some money too since i'm good at prediction and i could even do better by staking high on a relatively low odds. In no time i picked my phone log on to the internet and registered on bet9ja. I credited my bet9ja account with the money Mumc sent me and played some games. As devil would have it, i won all games making me more than 100k richer. I got so excited that i kept on punting throughout the whole week without losing a single game. By this time i had made more than 400k.

I decided to make a withdrawal of 190k so i could keep my bro 100k and have the 90k for myself. Within 24hrs the withdrawal was approved i got the money. By this time i had 250k left in my bet9ja account, so i was thinking of how to make it 500k and cease punting. I didn't know the devil was about to reason my matter. I used same strategy as before but the money continue deprecating as i continue to lose terribly. Within 4days i lost the whole 250k but i didn't give up as i deposited 70k from the withdrawal i made before. I lost the whole 70k within few days also yet i still believe i can make it by depositing the remaining 100k. Now back to square one with a burning desire and confidence to win but as devil wants it i lost it all. By this time i was -100k which means i was owing a debt of 100k.

I started making calls to friends and family to borrow money with different lies yet i was still losing it to this devil. I helped my sister changed her Gtb account transfer password so i know it off-hand. With the spirit that i can still make it, i transferred the sum of 120k from her account yet i lost it all same for Grandma's 50k.

By this time I've already learnt my mistake and realised the devil was using me but i need to get back all this money that ain't mine. This, was the only reason i continued to engaged in punting and when i lose i feel so depressed and suicidal.

Just last week i won about 140k which gave me hope that things are getting back to normal but my debt was 350k so i needed to punt more so i could win more and pay off all debts and say bye bye to devil. But in less than a day i lost it all and back to square one.

By this time i had no means of getting money and friends are calling me already for there money. I've to block most numbers and most times switched off my phone to avoid calls or messages. Now i look so wretched and sick from drepession because till now grandma and my sister are not aware that i had transferred all there savings and by October is my sister's freedom from her place of work. So as days goes by so does the intense of my depression and suicidal thoughts.

Yesterday Mumc sent me 45k, 20k for the balance of the laptop and 25k for Grandma to celebrate sallah. I thought i could use the money to punt and win some amount of money so i could buy the laptop but yet again i lost it all.

Right now suicide is the only option i have left as i think I'm possessed or been cursed.

I've the desire to quit but what about the money i'm owing which is about 400k. I've lost everything and now i realised albeit I'm a first class student in academics I'm nothing but a loser in real life.

In the end if I'm lucky to survive this I'll notify this group, if not know i had taken a bold decision. And i hope somebody learnt one or two things from my post. Please be contented with whatever you've and don't be greedy.

Thanks for reading.

Thanks for sharing. The Lord is your strength. Please quit as it is now and don't ever get tempted back

1StopRudeness:


Really?? U don't think they had sex just because theyvddnt say how nasty the sex was?? Either you are lawyer then I would understand ur reasoning...or u are just someone that will use lame excuse to escape herself from a redhandedly caught scenario....
If u see this in ur husband or boyfriend's fone..will u just bone that's it's nothing....
They only took the pain of going to the hotel for praise and worship abi??.
You remind me of the video I saw on histagram yesterday....dude caught the the babe with a text like this and she still had the guts to give an excuse..

..it's the excuse that was epic: " babe, I'm sorry I didn't sleep with him, I'm not gonna lie, I went to the hotel but u don't have to worry cos his d!ck was to big, I couldn't do it..I swear.....I didn't cheat in u"

This same girl has had similar issues with a few other Celebs, so what could be her reason??, and of cos I that was my man I would be extremely pissed but I won't throw my marriage away for this tho

If this girl released this to the world herself then damn she's mean, extremely mean. This can happen to any man tho. From the chat I doubt they actually had sex, a chat of how good either one is in bed and how they enjoyed one another's company would have been talked about or at least mentioned, I feel she's blackmailing him or trying to use this to pull him down. What do I know sef

Please ooooo front page, for the first time in my life I am fighting for Frontpage that's not mine. Op thanks for making my Sunday

Praktikals:

Why are you interested in how they were caught? Abi u be kidnaper?

I understand my dear, I said that in the 9ja sense where anyone can be linked to crimes they didn't commit without evidence (false accusations

mybusinesss:


I don't think that's poor. You don't expect an intelligence team to go into the nitty gritty of their modus operandi publicly. That would imply making future kidnappers wiser.

I understand my dear, I said that in the 9ja sense where anyone can be linked to crimes they didn't commit without evidence (false accusations).

hopefulLandlord:
After independence, in order to build a great nation, each country went to work. But in Nigeria, after independence, our people went to pray and fast. So, while we were praying, Malaysia came here and took our palm seedlings and built a great factory of it. While we were praying, Singapore went into investment in technology. While we were praying, India went into ICT. While we were praying, China went to massive industrialization. While we were shouting Allah Alakuba! UAE went into massive infrastructural development. While we were binding and casting Lucifer, Japan went into technological development. While we were speaking in tongues, Denmark went into education of her citizens. While we were mounting big speakers in our places of worship, USA was mounting man on the moon.

After our prayers, God, being a wise God decided to reward us according to our labour. Since those that went into industrialization, technology, infrastructural development, ICT, education etc have been rewarded accordingly. It's only wise God rewards us with our efforts in prayers. That's why today, Nigerian pastors are competing in building the biggest churches.

That's why there are more prayer houses and worship places than hospitals and schools. That's why people rush to prayer houses for medical and business solutions instead of hospitals. That's why we don't do business proposals before jumping into business since we are going to back it up with prayers. And when it collapse, we blame devil. That's why it's a sin to say anything negative about pastors and imams. That's why our pastors don't consider the opinion of engineers while building and blame devil when building collapse. That's why faith in God replaces building pillars and when it collapse we blame it on Lucifer. That's why our pastors are making sure they plant church branches instead of schools in every streets in Nigeria. That's why we always wait for gods to do that which ability to accomplish we already have in us. That's why we want our teachers to labour on earth and go to heaven for their rewards. Nigeria is a prayer loving, god fearing nation. Religion has taken the place of technology, infrastructure, education and all. When we are traveling, we ignore all the necessary road requirements, servicing of our vehicles and pray. And, once we pray, we can put a half fit vehicle on the road and blame our step mother or mother in law if anything goes wrong. That's why there are more people dying on our roads. Because, we pray and fast and leave everything to God when we have all we need to survive and build a nation....... I hope it made sense to you

You've made my Sunday with this insightful words, I took the time in the world reading it. Thanks

Poor Journalism, how were they caught??

How much is the phone OP?

Ogaonos:
but she shouldn't have change her name dt name na brand.jux pray she pull thru u cant tell

She's in the best position to say why she did, poor management I guess, trying to come back anew

IamZod:

Isn't Patoranking a raggae Artist?
Check out his latest song "Suh different.

Thanks, my point was they are very few in the Industry and she's the only female act really pulling it off, so let's support ours

Dirkcoyt:
cant you see the joke in my comment? nawa ooo sister lily

Joke with everything else but not with someone's predicament, I hardly find such amusing

Dirkcoyt:


True but she's need to pay her rent and i don't think publicity can solve that.

And don't forget life has its twist, today it's here and tomorrow it is somewhere else, even if it were true don't mock a man with his downfall.

Dirkcoyt:
that is not how to help your artist girl, not by free download. ifbyou want to help hit tidal spotify or iTunes and buy the track .

My dear it's still a way, cos I am still going to share the song with friends, that's a free publicity for her too in itself

BossLaifay:
Orn and orn? Calling my phorne? Is that also talent? Don't understand all thi accent forming. It's ridiculous!

Please how many female reggae raga acts do we have in Nigeria?,

I take that back ,

How many reggae raga acts do we have in 9ja asides Bournaboy and this girl, everyone mustn't sing like Tiwa, Yemi alada and the rest, babe this is her style. let's appreciate our own.

And for peeps singing about what they don't have Americans do worse, Just ask Rick Ross, it's called showbiz.

Cut the girl some slack, she's talented still

People sha, no one commented on how good the song and video is. Forget about house rent, the babe is talented, I still wonder why she hasn't gotten bigger than this. Well only talent can't do it all I guess .

Let me help too by downloading and playing the song on repeat first. Much Love Madrina

Proud Man United fan here

addey44:
Anthony Joshua won by unanimous decision of all the judges.

Thanks, seen the highlights. Compliments

KingsleyCEO:



I'm giving you my space

Lol, isn't this Bbn thing boring?, I rather pick beans all day than watch that shit. I only get the awareness here

Isn't Anthony Joshua's fight suppose to be on front page since he is fighting tonight?. what's up with this whack news?