₦airaland Forum

zyphr:
True. It's supposed to be the other way. I mentioned it to her but she said its okay I feel this way. That it's because we've not been intimate. I just don't want to gamble and enter into marriage and start regretting.

Ask her to suck your dick

Enginiaman1:
Kai nah,why you day expose the guy. Though fornication is bad! But your comment funny

fornication is normal

Jman06:
Me I believe that before I marry any girl, we must be sexually in sync. I must be so free with her to the point that she would have known all my sexual psychology while I know hers.

Marrying someone you're not sexually compatible with is a recipe for disaster.

Yes oh i must sample the good before i buy. As i am like this, i cannot marry sb i haven't slept with.

observanc1:
veenom is very ugly and very horrible. Dont ever want to remember that terrible infante ever again.

but why do nigerians abroad faking british accent when its clear its not their dialect

Friends: The Reunion

Fighting back tears after all these years. I'v missed you Jennifer Aniston

DonroxyII:
O wrong now ... all things weren't equal with them niyen or nature is still fvcking with them or village people never conclude their issues ...

But bingo, 35 a man should have half cooked and be ready to marry and procreate while still hustling!

how about they impregnate a girl and marry her later like tuface.

Gaddafih001:
A lotta things..
I chose someone that was prayerful,not knowing she just wanted to get married.
Along the line, I started seeing some negative signals from her family.
The mum wanted to control my home from her home but I refused,she used her daughter to make things miserable for me.
As I am writing this, the so called wife is at my door ranting.
Court proceedings will be starting earnestly..

I'm so sorry. Quite sad.

Gaddafih001:
I got married at 26,3 kids,tons of regrets....
I am on the highway to a divorce and probably planning to marry again.
Never ever regret anything in your life.
Just thank God for everything and live positively..

if you had the chance again, what would you have done right?

BRATISLAVA:
You're a man. What does it concern you?

pardon me. I'm just curious. I want to learn things from own perpective. You seem experienced.

notoriousbabe:
It is too early. 45 is the ideal age for any man to get married

ha!

BRATISLAVA:
Not everyone is fortunate to marry young or begin having children in their early twenties. So if they raise teenagers at 65, at least they have had children, too. Let them have their pleasures like everyone else.

as a woman, what does marriage mean to you

DissTroy:
Transliteration isn't always wrong. "I am a man" is literally "I am a man" in any language.

"Fruit of the womb" is where you have to be careful not to transliterate.


If transliterations, figures of speeches and biblical analogies are that easy to spot by everyone, they should know the following:

1. 7 days of creation is not Monday to Sunday;

2. Eve did not talk to a literal serpent;

3. The Garden of Eden is a not a physical place but man's spiritual state with God;

4. The forbidden fruit is not a literal fruit.

And don't get me started on the 66 books. That's another topic.

The point is, most people take these things literally mostly because their equally innocent "Daddies-in-the-Lord" do not even know better.

They just 'kabash' and hope the 'grace' of God is sufficient to cover ignorance.

So which animal did god cursed?

raumdeuter:
Most events recorded in the bible were not recorded real time. Some were recorded hundred of years after the original incident

For example the earliest Gospel which was the book of Mark was written over 50yrs after Jesus died

Think of all the things that could possibly have been lost or mischaracterized when 5 people are reporting an incident that happened 50yrs ago from memory and sometimes reporting the words of eye witness 50yrs ago

Imagine a man that died in 50yrs ago whose life was not documented when he was alive, now in 2022 they are asking people who knew him to write things about him, There will be many similarities in the major events, but the other ones might have many instances that are not very accurate

For example the story of India vs Nigeria 99-1 Do you know how many people believed it? If not for enlightenment it would have become Gospel truth.

Depending on the side of the country you grow up in, Some believed it was Segun Odegbami, Some believed it was Okwaraji who was one of the actors in that "match"

Obviously that story came from one source and was modified from mouth to mouth till it almost became true

so where does the holy spirit come in? Was the writing of Bible inspired by the spirit of god

raumdeuter:
Yes like in basketball. You can also do it stylishly in football

It's a foul and a cheat. I saw that Barca v baryern game. Alba was going to mark robben when Muller obstructed him on the way.

temitope27:
I wan chop u b4 u born again patapata

After me.

Born2Freak:
Terminator 2.

Classic. Arguably, greatest cyberpunk film of all time.

humilitypays:
If you marry at 35, at 60yrs your first child should be around 24 or 23yrs, second child 20/21yrs and your first child should have rounded up university and the second about to if not done too.


Nigerian youths of today should make it a mandate not to give birth to more than 3 children, 2 is best, 3 maximum.


The best age range for a Nigerian guy to marry is 32 to 38yrs.


Ladies should be 27 to 36yrs.


So 35yrs is a perfect age for a man to marry

well different strokes for diff folks. there's no perfect age

Johel:
I can marry at 50 and have a child anytime...e no concern anybody how I choose to live and make my life go,Na God get final say,we can only plan....Do you let me do me...I don't live for the society.

but the pressure

JohnBullMySon:
There might be odd cases but almost all the marriages with age gap that I have been opportuned to see from the inside, are like that.
Secondly, you don't live with them and know how they act in reality. Social media deceives a lot. You only see what they want you to see.

As a guy, is it advisable to marry your agemate?

Some traders and buyers lament the high cost of foodstuff, ram and other items in Abuja due to Eid-el-Kabir.

A survey by the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) insome markets in Abuja on Monday revealed that most
respondents were bothered by the high price of goods
and services.

Price checks for ram is N80,000 for small ram and big ones cost N150,000, last year small ram goes for N45,000 to N80,000 and big once cost from N80,000 to N150,00.

The price of local rice still remains from N24,000 to N26,000.

Before this festive season onion was sold for N600 per basket but now sold for N1, 300, pepper was N2, 200 now N2, 800 and tomato was N2, 500 now N3,000 per
basket.

Mr Ahmed Umaru, a civil servant said: “ I will not beable to kill ram this year because the price is very high and I have other bills to pay, I will buy cow meat this period.”

Umaru urged the government to look into the matteras it’s a national problem.

“How can the food we produce be this expensive.”

A trader, Malam Ibrahim Tanko, also lamented the high price of goods and services, saying “but it’s not our fault. We sell according to how we buy.”

Tanko said some of the reasons for the high price was due to the high rate of transportation and insecurity among other factors.

Another buyer, Mrs Ella Ibe, said that everything was available in the market but at high prices.

“ I will buy what I will use for some days and return after the festive season.

“ We are appealing to the government to look into theinsecurity on the farms, transportation, good roadsamong others, to make it easy for sellers and buyers,” Ibe said.
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/07/eid-el-kabir-traders-buyers-lament-high-cost-of-foodstuff-ram-in-abuja/

Karleb:
Girls are only physically more mature than boys of their age.

and that's only because they've been exposed to worldly lifestyles.

BlueAir:
I swear. Marriage is a trap that favors women only. If u want to achieve more in this life,avoid marriage. At worst,get a babymama as last resort

what will people say

BlueAir:
I swear. Marriage is a trap that favors women only. If u want to achieve more in this life,avoid marriage. At worst,get a babymama as last resort

people will talk

JohnBullMySon:
Sagging or hairstyle doesn't determine who makes a good husband. An 18-24 year old marrying a 35 year old is a potential disaster. Unless the woman wants to be a housewife and not a companion.

it's not a given

PAWG:
She’s right, some married women are just struggling in marriages that should’ve been avoided. Societal pressure just messes with some ladies.

My brother, the truth is 90percent of people marry out of pressure.

VTJN:
spot on

You are absolutely right

Naturally a girl child is intellectually ahead of a male child

Moreso, a girl child act maturedly much more than her male counterparts

I've seen an18years old upright girl from a good family that can actually build a home with a sensible man

I'm yet to see any 18years old boy that can be upright enough to play the role of a responsible husband/father

Not these boys that sag with dirty boxers and hairstyle on their head

The best bet for a guy to settle down is 35 and above

Provided he's being found worthy by his supposedly fiance and her family

not all. most girls of nowadays don't have sense talk less of intellectual capacity

Vinnie2000:
@the OP!!
No!! It is not Late..

The Idea of a Guy marrying at 27,28, 29 seems Romantically Cool..
But Honestly and Generally speaking, Many are Fully mature at dat level.
Guys Hit full Personal and financial maturity@30+..

From my observation of married Guys, those who marry at 31,32, are Giving dier Wives and Children @least a comfortable life..
Those who Marry at 28, 29 seems to be Struggling Quite Abit..

so much wisdom in this comment

Styluss:
there is nothing bad till your oldest kid is 15 when you 50.

What age do you suggest as a lady

supportnija:
don't mind the idiot, Yakubu Gowon married at 40

its 35 not 40

PAWG:
35 is right bros. My dad is 77 and comfortably paid my younger bro’s fees (Bsc-PhD) and refused all form of assistance from us.


It’s better to marry late than bring kids to this world early to suffer, making money could be a competition but starting a family [b]shouldn’t be[/b].

this is deep

EmmanuelScott1:
Unah dey bash men below 35 yrs, if men below 35 yrs no get sense, I wonder what female below 35 yrs get

nuts