simplepee:
It's not late or abnormal.

Infact I'm not sure I can marry a man under 35. Men are very slow with sense. That 35 sef, some of them still don't have sense.


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Tor. I hit many nerves with my comment. Pele my dears

dingbang:
So by 60, your kids will be entering uni? By that that you will be retired and not capable to support them in university.

StPete:
Do not let anyone deceive you, marrying at 35 is a tard late. Looking at the present state of Nigeria, except you have planned billions down for your unborn children, you will probably have to keep struggling in old age or after retirement to keep them alive and in school.

More so, research shows that the best time to give birth to healthy looking kids should be from 18-28 years.

There's nothing more proud than to see your grown child standing next to you and people assuming he/she is your sibling

BRATISLAVA:


Not everyone is fortunate to marry young or begin having children in their early twenties. So if they raise teenagers at 65, at least they have had children, too. Let them have their pleasures like everyone else.

notoriousbabe:
It is too early. 45 is the ideal age for any man to get married

peacettw:


I can understand your frustration.. It can only come naturally when your sense of self worth is of no use to anyone let alone yourself.

My father sends his regards.

PAWG:



35 is right bros. My dad is 77 and comfortably paid my younger bro’s fees (Bsc-PhD) and refused all form of assistance from us.


It’s better to marry late than bring kids to this world early to suffer, making money could be competition but starting a family shouldn’t be.

englishmart:
I understand age is just a number, but all numbers are not equal still. The society tend to fix a standard for everything. Most guys will want to get married on or before they turn 30, but a couple of uncontrollable factors preclude that from happening.

What's your take concerning marrying at 35 for guys. Do you think it's a bit late?

Gaddafih001:

I got married at 26,3 kids,tons of regrets....
I am on the highway to a divorce and probably planning to marry again.
Never ever regret anything in your life.
Just thank God for everything and live positively..

Gaddafih001:

I got married at 26,3 kids,tons of regrets....
I am on the highway to a divorce and probably planning to marry again.
Never ever regret anything in your life.
Just thank God for everything and live positively..

Marvieduke:
I don't see anything wrong even at 40, it depends on when you find your true love.

idibe24:
how old is ur brother?and how old is ur dad when he got married to ur mom?

limcar:
as a woman, what does marriage mean to you

MidasO1:
don't think you're faceless on this forum.
Dare quote me again and I'll post your pictures here so everyone on this forum can see you and take note of you

simplepee:
It's not late or abnormal.

Infact I'm not sure I can marry a man under 35. Men are very slow with sense. That 35 sef, some of them still don't have sense.


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Tor. I hit many nerves with my comment. Pele my dears

StPete:
Do not let anyone deceive you, marrying at 35 is a tard late. Looking at the present state of Nigeria, except you have planned billions down for your unborn children, you will probably have to keep struggling in old age or after retirement to keep them alive and in school.

More so, research shows that the best time to give birth to healthy looking kids should be from 18-28 years.

There's nothing more proud than to see your grown child standing next to you and people assuming he/she is your sibling

PAWG:



35 is right bros. My dad is 77 and comfortably paid my younger bro’s fees (Bsc-PhD) and refused all form of assistance from us.


It’s better to marry late than bring kids to this world early to suffer, making money could be competition but starting a family shouldn’t be.

BRATISLAVA:


You're a man. What does it concern you?

Gaddafih001:

I got married at 26,3 kids,tons of regrets....
I am on the highway to a divorce and probably planning to marry again.
Never ever regret anything in your life.
Just thank God for everything and live positively..

ibechris:




At retirement u will know if u are right or not.

Wait when pampass would be 10k.
Children Vaccines would be 10k
Milk would be 10k.

U better start reasoning now,the sleepness night men go through to assist their wife's can be frustrating and consuming at the same. Old age isn't good for nurturing children.
Time shall tell.

easzypeaszy:
Meaning at 50 my first child wl be 15
God no go allow am...abeg if I can't at 28 let it be at 30
For ladies d lord is ur guide

DonroxyII:
A 15yo is no more a Child my dear ... add one/two years He or she is in the University........ 35-40 is not bad to raise kids...

Then marry Young full fledged Damsel to complement the Biology !!

DonroxyII:
No be by howfar but how well .... Some 15yo can sell a 40yo ..... the most important is the age you have what it takes to man your family and take them all to the promise land!!

ibechris:



I am not against anyone marrying late,but for a fact,every decision one takes in life has it's consequences.
Good luck to both everyone.

easzypeaszy:
frgt dat hwfr n hw well....doesnt wrk in marriage...am a married man n am telin u...marriage na wound wey u need manage so frgt hw well or hw soon not in marriage.
if na Money Bezoz n Bill Gate fr no split, if na religion d 2 Pastor Chris fr no split, if na Nackin Bolanle pepedem fr no comot in 6mnths.
we r in a fail country n d only joy u cn gt ur sef aside seen ur parents is to hv ur own product as fast as u can.

JohnBullMySon:
Go and live with couples with significant age gaps first, then you'll get me better. No one is talking about career or no career. There is difference between having a close confidant and companion than an ordinary housewife. Some men are too "matured" for their wifes, so she can only bring food and sex to the table. They find it very difficult to synthesize issues together and this causes the man to look down on his lady. On the outside they may look okay, but inside they do not resonate mentally.

The best bet is to marry someone you connect with, with similar characteristics. Someone close to your age. Even if there's immaturity, you'll both grow into each other with time.

A happy marriage is not about who is matured enough to take care of a girl but who fits with a girl.

truthsayer009:


Lmao, you're thinking of it in a backward direction.

Ideally, a serious man's value / career / business worth increases with age, especially when he his not married because he has an advantage of his youth, time and money to save and invest because no kids are involved at this time. He can jump from business to business to see which one benefits him without thinking of children and family.

A serious man at 35 already has his life, finances, education (Msc PhDs) etc figured out before this time, so therefore he makes more money per hour than a younger man which inturn means he doesn't have to work twice as hard. Even as a business man, at 35 your business should have really established that you make more per day.

Again at 35, you don't have to double your hustle really. All you need is just to manage your existing investment or career, that's all.

It takes less time to build a house when you are older than younger because you have more financial resources and connections.

PAWG:


80-18 = 35 abi?

truthsayer009:


A whole lot of men, honestly a lot of men in my circle who are 35 and above have made it financially in my opinion. Even those guys from my secondary school years ago, especially the older ones, they are doing really well.

Some of them are even on Nairaland, they work for foreign coy and are doing well.

I am not 35 yet, but i see myself doing really well at 35 just like them at that age.

Any man who took his life serious at the age of 25 should be doing so well at 35, even those who have spiritual issues with prosperity. They should have been spiritually delivered in space of 10 years.