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U cant eat your cake and have it
The supposed-marriage was a charade
Free the young man to go

It is not about the age but when the person is mature enough to handle relationships

Banky W - Don't Break My Heart

How sad
May her soul RIP

Its ok.
But my concern is she(9) may grow into a relationship where the guy does not do valentine gifts and this may create some gaps
she should also be able to understand that val gifts do not completely reflect love
Your enemy can send you Val gifts

But i trust your judgements so long as you can manage her

My concern is about your daughter's age and her understanding of valentine.
The gifts are good but she needs to understand the 'why'

Kx:
Well said,my advice may not be the best but whatever u do,u boss must not know u aint on his side.
Get words across to madam for jand,fake anything u can fake with d objective of seeing to it
dat she come down to naija.u may tell her that u are afraid naija girls wan marry scatter her family.
let her assure u dat she wont disclose her informant to oga.i rest my case.

I object to this

Praying for your Boss wont be a bad idea

Nice post

What wont i read on Nairaland?

You have to move on
There is no point staying in a relationship with someone you are not proud of
It will be very hurting but its clear that there is no shared vision
Just manage the exit maturely

You are the only one that can redeem yourself
Just make a conscious effort to make it work
I pray you dont break her heart

Czarskit:
Limuel! U are wisdom in human flesh!

Thanks

You need to set your priorities right
At this stage you may not need love to take the centre stage
You need to love with reservations
You need to always prepare for the worse
You need to understand that she is human and can fail you at anytime
Try to bond more as a friend than as a lover
Try and be sensitive

What is her level of Education?

Relationship within the same premises!!!
In as much as it is not wrong you have to be prepared for more of such visits
Dont also try to be over possessive
Let her feel free so you dont end up choking her
Allow her some space and guard your heart

Like poles attract

She does not deserve you

Wash what?
I hope you are not under a spell?
This tells me that you are in an inferior position in the relationship and so you are trying to make up.
U deserve to be excommunicated from the committee of real Men

I wont bother you with how to get over this break up because you will surely wake up.
The part i dont understand is how you ever allowed it to get this bad
I cant fathom
She had a line that you never knew about and you were still doing romeo
That was enough signal
We need to be sensitive to every single detail in our relationships
You dont need a lovedoctor to tell you that love is going cold
The signs are always there
I dont understand heartbreaks cos i have never experienced it
I always would have moved on before the break up
No woman is worth dying for
You need to learn your lessons and move on
You are the only one that can help yourself
Try not to be alone hang around people
Wishing you the very best

Clearly there is no excuse for rape
It calls to question the quality of the moral content of our youths which is also a reflection of the larger society
The experience leaves an indelible scar that you cannot even imagine and it may take a life time to heal
We are not mature enough to deal with it because of the issue of stigmatization so we have very few reported cases

The sentence is okay
We also have cases were men are being raped though its very very rare.
But its important they get medical attention as soon as they are violated.

arramyjay:
If he trusts you,then tht shudnt be a problem,and hw are u sure ur bf didnt have sex while he was away.

lol

No heart breaks 4 me because the signs are always there so i take a bow before the light goes out

Trust is earned

In Emotional management there is a course called Contingency plan
Next time you fall in love always get this plan in place
Always try to see the end from the beginning

I like your creative suspense

Just take your time and pray if you are considering marriage
I believe in possibilities
Just sweep her off her feet
Show her love unspeakable
spoil her
You have the advantage of distance and hopefully if she is retained then a big plus
But i dont know how family friendly your bank is?

koolsasy:
thanks, @limuel.apart from emotional cheatin,r there ny oda typesit was d whole emotional cheatin stuff from one of ur replies to a post dat gat me thinkin,

the other is the act itself but emotional cheating is wide and can eat very deep
Some faces of it include;e-cheating,telephone cheating, attitudinal change, financial cheating etc
you can go on and on
It is possible to have sex with someone you dont love but when you begin to bond emotionally and the attention is stolen there is fire in sight

You search for them at the wrong places