₦airaland Forum

May be you are falling again for her
Just follow your heart

I keep telling people that the signs are always there
Your friend just got carried away
She would have known long before now that he was fake
I feel her pain though
She will get over it
Time they say heals

What were you doing in a relationship for seven years?
You simply became boring for the chick
Please learn and wake up
You were not paying attention to the signs
pick up your pieces and move on

She is thinking of him because she is idle
let her get busy
Let her also get someone else to fill the space

You need to divorce the feelings you have for your ex
Its also healthy to be open.
How come your sister never knew you guys were dating?
Open up to your sister
i dont support sexual relationships along the same blood line

Locate a good gift shop you will be amazed what that 30k can buy-----Wrist watch & Perfume

The rhythm of romance has changed and its better than what our parents had
May be you are not up to date
I could not have wished to live in a better time than now
Romance is about creativity
I always leave an impression and a vacuum no one can fill
Try to be creative and you will understand what i mean

I think you are a boy and marriage is not for boys
Though this whole story is like fiction

I just cant help but laugh out loud

You have not told us what you are doing with your club girlfriend!!!

Beauty they say is in the eyes of the beholder.
There are two sides to beauty the outward and inward
So you must understand the context to appreciate what the person is saying
I will rather have a blend of the two than be carried away by the outward beauty and fight all my life
The lesson is looking beyond what you see

It does count. The two of you will have social differences which will impact negatively if not now surely in the long run.

Please free her to go.
The reason is simple the person you will become when you are made is very faint right now.
You do not know what your choices will be like, taste etc
Besides time is not on her side
I know it can be very hurting
But let her go
You guys can still be friends

Please go ahead so long as you two are in love

She is still skeptical. May be she is trying to deal with some experiences and trying to be mindful of her heart.
I am not sure you have her heart as yet.
If you can be patient good.
If you are on the fast lane then place her as just a number and move on
You have to be careful so you dont become a pest
Some ladies actually dont know how to say no
They believe you should read the signs
If i were you i would find succour in the arms of another

There is more to this than meet the eyes.
You guys need to talk
I feel this last episode just overdrew your friendship account
My sympathy though

Why would you let another man beat you to it when you had all the time in the world.
Please wake up and move on.
Dont make this mistake again

The deed has been done so just follow your heart
We all make our mistakes in life
I pray you learn from this one and move on
Dont let this tear you down

Age has nothing to do with maturity. Marraige is for the mature minds.
Our ladies need to learn to read the signs, hear the unsaid understand body language.
A man that cheats during courtship wont stop when he gets married(except by divine intervention).
Real men dont play around.
Often times our ladies dont define their values and I am not surprised as a lot more married women now play around too
So it has become like unto a game
But for the singles please your destiny is in your hands
There are faithful men out there just open ur eyes

You have to move on and learn from your mistakes.
Everything is possible
You can get him back if you want to

Why the addiction?

For the lines have fallen unto us in pleasant places
And they that know their God shall do exploits
It is well with Nigeria

Have we bothered to ask why women nag?
I am not trying to make a defence for them but most times something/s is/are usually not right and it takes the two to get it fixed.

You need to talk this over with your wife and be prepared to forgive her. Marriage is for life.
It is usually advisable to prepare for the shocks of marraige.
I understand how painful and hurting this can be. But you must resolve to forgive her and carry on as if this never happened.

My dear your concerns are very normal for any young marriage. We often make the mistake of telling everyone about our challenges without telling GOD the author of marraige. Just go on your knees and you will never regret you did.

Compliments of the season
All has not been well with our dear country Nigeria and more worrisome is the fact that the main stay of our economy has embarked on a free fall leaving so much to be desired for 2009.

Our greatest challenge as a nation is largely leadership at all levels. Nigeria as a nation never had any contingency plan no wonder our over-dependence on oil and the manner with which our excess crude funds were spent in dribs and drabs.

Our economy is largely driven by Government funds whose paramount source has already been threatened by the global economic crisis. Our organisations have already placed embargo on employment and some have threatened job cuts in 2009. Yet our government is yet to come to terms with this gloomy outlook.

We may have to prepare for the challenges ahead
We may have to return to our farms
We may have to explore the untapped
2009 no doubt will be trying
But the land is green

Long live our dear nation Nigeria

Yes & No
Yes-when you are searching in the wrong places
No-When you have positioned yourself for the Man of your dreams

I beg to differ on generalising trust. It's largely about the individual than nationality.