₦airaland Forum

Chii59:
And men don't manipulate?
Let me tell you something. Just as redpoll focus so much on manipulative women, that is how feminism focuses so much on manipulative men.
What does it solve? Nothing. Only to create a cult of a few hateful folks channeling their anger in the wrong direction.
Like an adage says "man, know thyself"
It behoves each and every one of us to do an introspection from time to time, weed out those bad behaviours, prune the good ones so that we become better today than we were yesterday.
Assembling together to pick and point out all the faults of womanhood changes absolutely nothing if you don't understand that neither gender is perfect. Men and women are both equal halves of an imperfect humanity.

PS: I know some small boys with weed in their hands will mention my comment to abuse their ancestors.
But if you ask respectfully, I'll answer respectfully too.

Regex:
You do not owe her this explanation. Ignore her.

Chii59:
I'm upset because you guys remind me of who I was, before I found peace.
I know what it means to be hurt, to hold on to my pain. To be lied to, to be deceived, TO BE HEARTBROKEN.
It saddens me to see a bunch of young men living in the past.

And I know that society expects men to be tough, but pain is pain. The world expects you to suck it up, and "be a man". That's bullshit.t. You all have emotions, even if you don't show it.
That's why I know that even among you, several have been hurt by women in the past.
You need to get yourself together and move on.
Hating women, assuming we're hoes won't heal your wound!

jaxxy:
Who asked u to do tough love?? Did Jesus do tough love??

Correct in love brethren. Not making the person feel worse off.

Yes discipline bt don’t condemn u have no right to condemn anyone.

EzzyCarter:
Wait, were you expecting a standing ovation from your church?

BAZ001:
MADTttttt oohhh... what are you dedicating?

TheCork:
You should be happy am trying to date u or else u miss your shance u u gratefull chick. Do u realise I drive BMW & I have moiney? Am juss tryna help u. I been to London 4 times & guess wot, am in London innit. Ok I will pay u 600 naira cash to date u for 2 month. I also buy u bag & shirt & shoe. Is that a deal?

Jazzafizzy:
Guy dating site will be better ......I'm on a dating site where I met this precious single Australian mom...... fortunately her only child was fathered by Nigerian guy they met in u.k . The guy was irresponsible but she has this unquenchable love for nija guys. She doesn't wants me to complain she loves me crazy . Covid is what is delaying her coming to see me .
If u can go on the dating site u go see them Wella . But for nairaland you go waste ur data tire , no sugar momma for nija .......funny enough the nija women on that site na money bags &, whitty them they find .

sirzee1660:
Please ignore my grammatical error

I fall in love easily once I start communicating with any female folk ,I will start losing control, singing praises trying all my possible best just to make her feel I am into her before I shoot my shot by that time i am already on friend zone, some might declined my request infact every lady I woo prefer me being just friend with her. Even those ones that show interest in me once we started dating it won't last up to 2months she will loose interest not because of financial care or attention because I will do everything just to make the relationship worked. Am really tired right now am single ,no calls from any female friends,I am just lonely,all I needed is just a true relationship, my last date was hell, after everything I did for her she just ghost me and starting dating someone who later got her pregnant which she came to me for forgiveness and requested for money for abortion which I turned down.right now I have moved to a new location and I am deeply in love with my neighbor,I am still trying to avoid rejections, honestly I hate it right now...I want to stop loving I want to b on my own without having any feeling's with anybody, so that I can have rest of mind....this thing is making me to have low self esteem.... please help out.
This thing called love doesn't mean is not for everyone,I have tried all my possible best just to have one

jaxxy:
Fine guys don't hussle for babes that much they go for the ones arround their orbit. Fine gals wait for guys to hussle them sadly fine boys are preoccupied with other ladies attention to notice them. Average gals don't mind hussling for the fine guy so they are mostly in his orbit and he falls for them for more than just beauty cos he's fine and the average gals showcase more than just beauty which shes average in bt he likes.

In other words he goes for the gals that are not proud and have more than just beauty. Beauty isn't his top priority.

Palema007:
You are welcome.

Palema007:
The problem I have with most of you here is always seeing everything as Men versus Women fight. Which one is u Nairaland gals? Are you serious at all? And who told you someone is dying for her but she chose a monster? Are you blaming her for sticking to one partner even though she had to help him 'a lot' , perhaps you missed that part.

You just had to ruin all with this your women are golddigger mentality even when it's clear the Man fits that description better. Ewwwww!

oluwaseyi0:
When police killed Floyd his country people protested against police brutality but here stupid people make it religious, you never blame the police of request for justice rather you see the death as an opportunity to market your religion you are as terrible as the deranged police officer

Palema007:
Very easy to type this when the Guy isn't the one who will bear the brunt.He isn't the one to face the stigma that comes with single motherhood, he can easily find another lady and get married to her but the lady he impregnated will go extra miles,have to do a lot to prove herself worthy to get hooked. And the child? She will be responsible for him or her, answer questions pertaining to why Daddy left, cry her eyes out when asked where the father is. She will bear the "after one" shame, have an illegitimate child, have to be father and mother to her child alone. And the betrayal? Now tell me, if that isn't a broken crate of egg, what is it? Or if she isn't a damaged fruit, what is she?
Y'all will downplay scenarios like this to vindicate a Man but will be the first to cast aspersions on single mothers. That's very selfish!

And there is something called Responsibility! If a Man is responsible enough to nut in a woman, engage her then he should be ready to marry her. He chose to lay his bed with an unattractive Woman so he should lay on it!

pretydiva:
When he dived in raw, he was attracted abi. All of a sudden the attraction has disappeared into thin air. She's a wife material, but he still feels he will cheat on her when they eventually get married

Now I ask, what do most guys really want, cos I can't seem to fathom it

Tina001:
Just two weeks in marriage and this one has turned himself to a Marriage Counselor. Mtcheew

Pearlla:
I need a new handsome boy-friend.
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add me up on whatsapp
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dm me for my whatsapp number or quote yours down and i promise to add up.

goldensoul55:
She can goggle it and watch the video

goldensoul55:
If u are not a virgin, use menstrual cup

NkemChukwudi:
I am 6”2, my ex-wife 5”8.......yet my daughter took after her grandma, who a short piece of shit!! She is only 5”0.....which breaks my heart for her!!!!!!

NkemChukwudi:
I am 6”2, my ex-wife 5”8.......yet my daughter took after her grandma, who a short piece of shit!! She is only 5”0.....which breaks my heart for her!!!!!!

Chii59:
I don't like you at all Yawns

tchidi066:
Lol, i don't ask that, instead stylishly I'll ask you what's for lunch or dinner, it's just to prolong the convo, nothing special

Fidelismaria:
<sup>na wa for Nigerian men ooo
She forgot to add 'wait'
Na I dey wait for you she wan type

Mr keep your dick in your pants

Hold your dick down nigga</sup>

pocohantas:
Sometime ago I got a PM. First one, I ignored.
Second... third, "okay, maybe he has a job for me" So, I replied.

Before then I did a quick check on his profile. Old acct, no Romance section- thank you Jesus! We can proceed.

I gave my usual professional and dismissive response. We had a little back and forth via mails and I pulled the plug at some point. Wasn't interested in taking it further- OFFLINE. I had already made up my mind not to do Nlders and I was bent on sticking to it.

After a while, he sent another asking why I hung up on him. I can't remember my response, but he was politely persistent. I collected his contact and promised to call. I did call. We talked a lot, we met and it blossomed. Different tribes, different locations- we fixed that.

Sometimes he would tease me "Kwin Poco, the feminist." lmao!!!

At some point I asked the exact comment that caught his attention, because I know I am insane 98.7214% of the time and he showed me. I said "lucky you, you met me on a sober day"

He told me, "I can walk into a room full of people and I will pick out that one special person. I knew you had the brain, I only prayed the cosmos will add the body, looks and character". Naso

Anyway, we would be the doing the needed soon. I want something small and intimate, but he is overwhelming me with plans. Yoruba people like party ehn! Kai!

I am still thinking if I should share pictures.
I'll makeup my mind before then...
No, I won't share. Bye

Phenomenal16:
Am I d only one ..hu haven't experienced true luv...like am I?
Sometimes is as if we luv d wrong ppl...
God I pray am lucky with 2020......

Pegi23:
I'm just playing around